I get that it's morally incorrect to make a move on a young girl like that because they are so naive and can be taken advantage and that's why it's against the law.. but why are dudes on this site getting called pedophiles for saying a 16-17 year old is attractive. The definition of a pedophile is someone that is attracted to a prepubescent children.
Pic of Taylor Swift at 16 years old.. This chick below is 16 in most of those pics. The rapper Tyga was accused of harassing her and it was a big case apparently. Ariana Grande at 17 years old I feel like I'm the only guy on here with the balls to admit this. Everyone is so afraid to get called a pedo and it's ridiculous when I read those comments.
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Why are guys getting shamed for saying 16-17 year old girls are hot?
I'm 18 and I don't like girls who are 16 years old. A year younger is fine. 16-17 is not the prime of women. It's 25. It depends on what kind of attraction we're talking about. Sexually or aesthically? Some 16-17 girls are pretty and visually appealing. If you're above 21, you're not pedo if you think they are aesthically attractive.
When I was 10, I had a crush on another 10 year old but it would be pedo if I had a crush on a ten year old at this age.. So as I get older and older, it would be pedo to be sexually attracted to girls who are 16-17. Girls at that age aren't mature yet and still haven't fully grown yet. They still have some childish features left. I don't think I'd have anything in common with a 16-17 year old when I'm 20 something years old.
Because people are messed in the head and wanna restrict you based on their own beliefs. Guys are attracted to a particular look that is usually attained when a girl is in her teens. Its a fact of life. Guys aren't always gonna be interested in girls their age despite what many girls wanna condition us into.
Shit, when I was back in school a couple years ago, I was being criticized for possibly being interested in the 18-21 year olds and I was 26! I barely even talked to any of them despite them being interested in me because I had all these people discouraging it. Its just a 5-8 year difference for fucks sake.
People need to stop shaming other people for this shit.
There's nothing wrong with saying they're... fuckit im only 18, WE'RE attractive, because we can and often do have the same sexually developed bodies any 25 year old would. Its biologically natural in my opinion and historically documented as well.
That's irrelevant perhaps because we are "civilized" human beings now, and therefore should have no issue repressing a hundred thousand years of sexually selective instinct at whim.
I'm sorry but I think it's ignorant and unfair to expect such thought control of men.
If you say, 'yeah they are pretty/attractive etc.' AND LEAVE IT AT THAT, then it is okay. If the age of consent is 18+ in your state/country, then you shouldn't act on it. DON'T ACT ON IT. I have to admit, a lot of 16-17 year olds can look like they are in their 20s. Look at Tana Mongeau, people thought she was at least 20 and she is 17. static.spylight.com/.../...ngeau-glasses-scarf.jpg
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If people respectfully say attractive teens are attractive, it's not too bad.
When they say stuff like, "Slamming teen pussy is the only thing in life that matters. I'm going to bang all these young bitches who rejected me in high school" and they're 25+... Well, it's gross.
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The latter, who aren't uncommon around this site, taints the whole discussion.
I think a lot of people (guys too) have been creeped out by much older people who didn't respect your boundaries. Simply because if you're over 20idh and don't get why it's a bad idea to aggressively be all over someone under age, you have poor impulse control and are likely to be s creep in general.
in general, girls get very defensive when they feel threatened by another girl, looks wise. Take a look at the mytake interview done on tara babcock some months ago on here. She said/did nothing offensive, yet you had almost every girl hating on her, calling her a whole bunch of names which under normal circumstances would chastise others (ie. men) for using towards women. So it doesn't really surprise me when i see women getting all hypersensitive over some guy acknowledging the attractiveness of some hot 17 year old... even though he has made no vocal statement of wanting to do anything with/to her
I Totally agree. People throw the word 'paedo' around far to much. It's totally natural to be attracted to girls as young as 13 so long as you don't act on it. Now I'd say if they're in their early teens maybe it's not ok for grown adults to go around saying they're hot, as you don't want to encourage child abuse, but no one should feel guilty about admiring a young girl's beauty in their own mind.
that's scary that and kind of makes her unattractive cos she must be working hard to look older but I mean this is a freak occurrence most 14 year olds don't look like this and are not attractive to any normal person.
@Josht13 Yeah, I know most 13 year olds aren't attractive to adults, but I'm saying theoretically it's normal to be attracted to someone that young. Basically if an adult shouldn't feel bad if they are
100% agree. I don't see anything wrong with an older guy saying a younger girl is attractive. As long as they're not acting on it, I don't see a problem. media1.giphy.com/media/qNFGrq3k8n6AE/giphy.gif
You'd only see it on here these fuking nerds talking about not having sex with minors, I'm 18 and havr banged chicks when I was minor and still would bang any hot "Minor" chick I want lol These nerds prolly didn't eben made it to first base in their 16-18s lmao
I don't think there's anything wrong with them *thinking* girls that age are hot. But it's uncool to say so. Because you're putting an underage girl in a position she shouldn't be in.
I'm not saying I never thinking 16 and 17 year old guys are hot. That's not much different from 18, physically. But I keep it to myself and so should you.
But other than that as long as they're not explicitly saying they're going to fuck a 16-17 yo and just stating they find them attractive then whatever ¯\_(γ)_/¯
I kind of agree with you, like stating that a girl is hot when she is, is just being honest, it's not like they instantly become attractive when she suddenly hits 18. Besides, a lot of girls who are under 18 look a lot older anyway, I am constantly mistaken for being 18 or older by people that don't know me. At a family event I went up to the bar to try and order a drink and didn't even get carded lol, and this was when I was 16. But back to my point, if you don't act on it, it's totally fine.
People judge it because they understand that it could very well mean that those people would actually have a sexual relationship with those kids... And THAT is what they're against.
Its normal to find them attractive it's just morally wrong to act upon it.
The idea that you shouldn't find them attractive just because they are under 18 is a socially constructed rule. That doesn't mean its not a good rule, but ut doesn't override instincts.
Actual pedophilia is being attracted to -prepubecent- girls.
I mean hot carries a sexual connotation and most people don't see teens as hot unless they are teen them self or sexual predators. When I see a teen girl my mind automatically suggest me how pretty she looks but I don't going thinking about it, it just comes and go fast. When I see a woman, that's another story.
Society maybe... yet I still feel awkward when a 16 year old tells me I'm 'hot' or ask me if they look hot... I keep looking around to see if there's a police officer near by... won't get over that sorry. :v
Just feels weird answering those questions.
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We have been conditioned by the people who pull the strings (above our governments) to be sexually attracted to minors, mostly through the fashion and music industries. Children are being sexualized in a way that is frankly disgusting.
Look at all the Disney child stars who grew up to be wild, crazy, and promiscuous. Coincidence? I doubt it. Look up Project MK Ultra.
You are a child until the age of 18... therefore an adult attracted to anyone under the age of 18 is wrong period. Ephebophiles are attracted to ages 15-19.
You've got to think of the practicalities of this. The idea of 18 being the age of adulthood is an artificial thing society has created. Do you think there's supposed to be magic radar in adult's heads to tell them if a person is older or younger than 18? And once they turn 18 do you think it's just 'pooph!', adults find them attractive now? That's not how it works, the law isn't necessarily going to change who you're attracted to. Teenagers have usually already entered puberty therefore it's only natural for adults to be attracted to them.
But you just said any adult (18 or older) attracted to anyone under 18 is wrong period. Soooo an 18 year old attracted to a 17 year old is apparently wrong.
i dont think they should be called a pedophile. i think it has more to do with the change in generations... for the worse. people are growing u way to young these days.
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Fat ugly feminists don't like the competition with us. They hate anything young and attractive, so they use shaming. Same reason "Good" guys shame sluts, because they can't get any girl to like them. It's all just jealousy.
because the ones who judge are stupid women who dont understand attraction, especially if its in an innocent way. or they (women) are jealous. plus women are taught by society to hate men, so they use it as an excuse to express their hatred.
@MsElizabeth96 I'm sure there are. And I guess as long as they don't act on it. Then whatever. But there are far too many people ready to pounce on any opportunity.
Considering the fact that people don't suddenly get hot on their 18th birthday and are usually hot before that, it's stupid to call men pigs for finding certain 17 year olds hot. But knowingly pursuing underage girls (example tyga) is not cool.
in my opinion its normal. the longevity of people was not always 85 years. at some point in time it was 40. this means that you need to start with kids early. or you will be a senior citizen when your kids are of age.
im still saying this anon because i fear persecution.
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Yeah totally agree, basically everyone seems to take the law as their moral code so since it's illegal for them to be with someone underage they think it's immoral to even find them attractive. Same with other things, I've noticed lots of people think taking drugs is immoral just because it's illegal
It's not against the law in the UK legal age is 16 and there are definitely hot 16 year olds and I don't know why my mind would change as I get older but who knows.
although just cos they look good doesn't mean that it's right to go out with and have sex with them if your like 25+ cos the maturity gap is so different, it's cool if I do it though cos I'm an immature 17 year old.
This true in a way. We have to be careful with our wording how we say that they're beautiful, pretty, attractive. As some people take it the wrong way that we are saying we would date etc the girls. Part of this is the media.
Oh, there are tons of 16 year olds out there I would happily bang.
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because its a young female why are you up in her face to say she looks good. and a 16-17 yr old is a child anyways people like have your opinion and people like me have mine and there's some who dont care.
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