Why is it more acceptable for women to be gay/bi but not for men? (Page 2)

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I've just always wondered why it's like this. For example, if a woman says she's bisexual/gay she's much more likely to get a positive reaction but if a man says he's bisexual/gay he's most likely going to get a negative reaction.

fuqthegovt · Answer

Because historically they haven't flaunted it in public as much. Most don't care until there's parades with practically public orgies. Other than that seeing 2 attractive girls kiss is a turn on for most (of both sexes regardless of orientation). Not even close to as true seeing 2 men do it. Men and women are NOT equal in the real world, regardless of how much the PC crowd bitches and bellyaches and calls it social injustice.

HappierThanYou · Answer

Everything in life is more acceptable for women, than men. Men go to a strip club, they're misogynist perverts. Women see male strippers, it's just a bit of fun. Man has sex with a 15 year old, he's an evil pedo. Woman does the same, she's doing him a favour. Men are evil, women are perfect. That's how equality works. Imagine the feminazi uproar if it was men who had abortions. There wouldn't be any of this "right to choose" bollocks, we'd just all be murdering bastards.

Intraluminal · Answer

The social tendency to allow women to be more masculine, but not to allow men to be more feminine has existed for a long time. Another example is men./boys are often bullied for having feminine names e. gg. Stacy, or Carrol, or Leslie, whereas girls are generally not bullied for having male names.

Ripper_E · Answer

I'm assuming that reaction would come from straight men. Men like lesbians, but obviously have no interest in seeing to men together. It's not more acceptable one way or the other. That's just straight men who are homophobic and have no desire to see gay men or bi men.

animus1988 · Answer

because its not normal for a man to submit himself to other men. you can't be an alpha male and be taking it up the ass submitting yourself to another male. that contradicts the very nature of being a man.'

women are submissive by nature so pleasuring another female (a submissive act) is not that weird its expected almost

somebodysaycheese · Answer

Men like bi women women (they sexualize it) dont like bi men. homosexuality is something we biologically see as a weak trait so women dont engage with men who have had same swz relationships because thwy seem "flawed" , its like seeing a obese person your not attracted to the trait. Gay mens sexuality gets way more respect than gay women. First even gay men don't beleive women are actually gay, and people just beleive gay women haven't gotten a goos d#ck down before.

feminismisnarcissism · Answer

feminism + christianity. both to blame
one says women are superior-so they can do whatever they want

the other says men are superior.. so who cares if the animals (lesser gender, women are livestock in bible) get it on... so it only sees gay men as a real crime

iCroissant · Answer

Personally, I think it's because the thought of two men having sex is considered a more gross thought than two women having sex. Perhaps it also has to do with our need to reproduce and by being pledged to another man they are unwilling to reproduce with women.

Pretty awful, but I think that's how homophobes think.

zagor · Answer

Funny you should ask that as when I went to Tanzania one of the tidbits I read about it was that homosexuality is illegal and punishable by prison. For men, the max is 15 years in prison, for women, 7. Apparently it is dirtier when penises are involved...

FemaleAssassin · Answer

Because men like lesbian/bi women, but they don't usually like gay men. It's ALL about men liking this and men liking that lol.

Anonymous · Answer

So I think it's because mostly men have a problem with people being gay. And we're more accepting of gay women because we like eating pussy so we can see why someone would want to do it. But I can't figure out why anyone would want to suck dick so I can't relate to them

ObviouslyOriginalMe · Answer

Because people associate gay with femininity and guys have some sorta beef with being "girly". Girls have always ranged from tomboy to girlie girl so a masculine girl isn't anything that new.

shessoheavy · Answer

I think that it rooted in gender inequality, which negatively affects all genders. A guy being "feminine" is more taboo than a girl being "masculine". Tomboy is really not an insult, is there a no nice word for the opposite.

evelator_253 · Answer

i don't know about you, but in my area it's more common for guys to be gay or bi and less common for girls to be bi or lesbian.
so i'm more okay with guys being gay or bi just because i see it so many times.

ParamountArmada · Answer

its because girls are the physically and sexually attractive gender, and guys are not. so everything a guy does is always considered to be unattractive. especially when its sexual. even by both genders. its just how it is.

Ratiocinative · Answer

Because for a man to become feminine he has to become weaker. For a woman to be masculine she has to become stronger. Strength is a respectable trait, weakness is not.

BubbleQueen · Answer

It's not really more acceptable for women than men, there will always be people who frown upon it

Anonymous · Answer

Usually from guys who are insecure about their own sexuality.  But I've never noticed an "acceptance" difference.  Look at the amount of women who want that gay best male friend.

yellowgirl00d · Answer

Dude if you wanna know the truth it's not good but it's because guys find two chicks making out hot but chicks don't find two guys making out hot.

angelwingscake5 · Answer

Because 90 percent of guys like seeing women together or in a sexual way and also a lot of guys want to have 2 girls at the same time😀😊😎👍👍👍

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