Men don't control the media at all lol. I would actually say that the media is more female-controlled as a whole. There are much much much more female editors than men.
Only very recently, my girlfriend is an editor too actually haha. Pre-internet when it was newspaper and TV, the editor-in-chiefs were mainly men. You might be a little too young, but there has been a definite shift in attitudes in the media as women have come into the profession. Many TV shows now feature gay couples, something which was virtually unheard of when i was a kid (only 15 years ago).
That's not to do with females at all really, it's due to various movements created by both men and women to show it's okay to be you and just stop all the hate.
Good points and thank you, it's okay.
I wish I had the bravery you do. Regardless of your mom's reaction, at least you told her. From people online to all my friends from school know I'm pansexual, but no one in my family knows (other than my one cousin, who is my age and I consider a friend).
@Sami365 Thank you. I know how you feel. I really only have one good friend. I have a bunch of friends but they aren't really in my social circle if that makes sense, like we only talk on occasion. I told my husband about 4 months ago and he's very supportive. My good friend is one of the ones I told and she reacted very well. I told my cousin who I knew would accept me and she was perfectly fine with it and admired my bravery. Then I told my mom. I thought maybe she'd be more accepting but I was very wrong. Now I don't want to tell the rest of my family, so I understand your fear of telling yours. I think it's easier coming out to friends, because friends can be replaced. Family cannot be, so their opinion will always be more important.
So if your bisexual but married does that mean you and your husband picks up girls?
@cchris989 nope, we aren't into the whole threesome thing.
@cchris989 it's just not for us. Do we think it would be amazing, yes! But it ruins a lot of people's relationships and we don't want to risk that.
So if your in a commited relationship with a guy with no plans of exploring other girls why do you still consider yourself bisexual?
@cchris989 Do you know how bisexuality works?
Yeah but how does she know it wasn't just a phase like many other girls claim it was, when there "figuring out" themselves
@cchris989 Well i assume she;s experimented with girls prior to being with her husband.
@cchris989 I'm sorry, but I really don't need to go into the details of my sexuality or personal relationships with you. I'm bisexual. I don't need to explain any further.@Jeeevan thank you for trying to help 😊
No you do not
@cchris989 Not sleeping with girls only sleeping with your husband doesn't affect her sexuality. As long as she is sexually attracted to girls as well as guys, she is bisexual.
@Sami365 Thank you!!
@Imbisexual19 You're welcome :)
So your saying it's totally possible for a girl to marry a bisexual man and not feel threatened by him liking other men?
@cchris989 Yes. To be honest if he wanted to have a boyfriend, that would be fine with me. I don't want in on the sex or to be part of the romantic relationship, but I will be friends with his boyfriend.
I can't sexually satisfy him in that way. My husband and I don't want threesomes. But he's told me I can have a girlfriend. I don't have one and I am not seeking one. But my point is he's not threatened. He knows he can't satisfy me sexually in that way, so if I ever want a girlfriend, I can have one. No I didn't ask him for this. He actually just out of the blue told me a couple months ago.
So it an open relationship, cause that sound like the definition of an open relationship.
@cchris989 kind of? This is difficult to explain. He's straight, and will not go out and seek girls. He has me so he's not going to go have a side girl, girlfriend, fuck buddy, whatever you wanna call it. And since I have him, I'm not seeing the opposite gender either. He's allowed me to have a girlfriend if I chose because he is not a girl as well.
I agree to this...
That's so true.
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In today's world just do what makes you happy, you don't have to be all open about it and public. Someone is ALWAYS going to not like it, hate it, like it or love it. It's just reality there's always gonna be someone against you, and someone who will be okay with it.
We don't sexualise bi women at all lol. We just like watching lesbian porn sometimes because it's hot.
Yes, men do.
We don't like them in the way your thinking we do, we like it visually only for porn, nothing else.
There are women who find two men hot as well, you are generalizing honey.
@MrDetermined lol. Actually a small number of women find that attractive and they got that fron porn. Simple math says majority makes a whole. So no honey biologically we don't like things that are seen as not healthy or odd.
You would be surprised how many there are.
@MrDetermined out of several billion women a very small small minority
There are quite a few in the west, Japan and probably SK. Again, your experience is different.
@MrDetermined lol. Your refusing to acknowledge its a small minority.
LMAO you really are entertaining, if you think that then that's COOL. I DISAGREE. Have a nice day.
I must admit a lot of girls on Gag have stated they find gay guys hot. Even within this question some girls have said that.
Porn is one thing real life is another and GAG isn't a goos representation of real life people at all
That's the same with porn with guys too, we only like lesbians in porn.
I think guys are just more open about it.
That's the thing I've seen irl life everything i said happen.
Open about what?
Yeah but guys don't like lesbians or find them arousing in real life, we just watch lesbian porn sometimes just like girls watch gay porn sometimes.
As in guys admit they like watching lesbian porn sometimes whereas women aren't as open but i have a feeling they like gay porn just as much as some men like lesbian porn.
Girla actually prefer lesbian porn as well😂We are open about what porn we watch with each other and people we trust
I know girls watch lesbian porn already buttt they are watching gay porn increasingly compared to before.
in my opinion you are a homophobe in denial.
@MrDetermined how am i?
@MrDetermined lol dude nobody cares about that word anymore. Its used so wrong like how your using it. Dont get mad at how we are wired to find good dna to procreate with. Your too emotional and taking this too personal
Yea but girls are faster to deny leabian porn vs gay porn
I personally think they are starting to watch more gay porn but thats just my opnion.
Nah according to porn sites gay porn is after lesbian porn. They are though watching cream pie and big dick porn lol
I am talking to HER NOT YOU. @AskerI think the fact you are calling me emotional after just ONE sentence shows that in fact what i said is true. I am NOT saying there is anything wrong with it! There are actually many people who use that word and it is also officially recognized in our society.
@MrDetermined dudr nobody cares what you have to say. Get over it we aren't into bi dudes as a whole. Stop trying to shame us for our likes.
LMAO but that is YOUR opinion. I AM NOT shaming anyone, that is YOUR delusion.
"Guys don't like lesbians in real life; just in porn."Tell that to my friend's fiance who demanded that we kiss in front of him for his birthday. We only did it because he wouldn't leave us alone about it lol, and that was the only time I ever kissed a girl.
Guys haven't done this really, it's the porn industry who keeps pushing all of this stuff out.
Guys have though. You're only 16 so you might not be aware of it happening as much, but I've spoken to guys in real life that have said themselves they find bi girls hot but bi guys gross, because it's all about sex for them. Bi women receive constant messages on dating profiles asking about threesomes, except it HAS to be a FFM thressome. Bi women are constantly sexualized by real-life men. The porn industry may be responsible for pushing it out but there are men who are watching that and buying into it.
I honestly never ever see bi women being sexualised in anyway at all. Some men like to watch lesbian porn so you could say lesbians are sexualised a little. Plus, it's not just men who "sexualise" bi-women, its actually other women too.
Please re-read what I wrote. Just because you personally don't see it, that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. You are only 16 and you're a guy, so of course you wouldn't experience it. But there MANY bi women who can tell you MANY stories about how they've been sexualized by straight men. I'm not saying all straight men do it, but yes there are men out there who do.
If there are men who do it then there is very few lol. I think Bi women aren't sexualized at all though, that's just my opinion. I never here a guy going out of this way to get a bi woman, it just doesn't happen. Yeah you can keep saying i only 16 but what I'm saying is true soo..
i never hear of a*
Asker, can you read? You are not a bi woman, so how can you invalidate their experiences when you're a (I'm assuming straight) male? Geez...
I've also heard guys say "bi women are more likely to cheat" and "I'd totally date a bi girl because threesomes." Lesbians and bi girls are sexualized.
@snowangle Yeah i understand the bi girls will be more likely to cheat because i thought that too once. But yeah i like Lesbians are sexualised, i don't think bi girls are at all as a whole.
But yeah i agree that*
@Jeeevan what you are saying is not true. And it's not a matter of opinions because it actually happens. A fact cannot be an opinion. It is a fact that bi women have been sexualized by men. There are so many bi women that have stories to prove that is true, and it is completely ridiculous for you to invalidate those experiences.If I say, "I've never seen anyone steal things from Target, so Target doesn't have shoplifters." That's completely ridiculous. I can't say "I believe Target doesn't have shoplifters and that's a true opinion." I'm sure many Target workers have stories about shoplifters, therefore proving it's not a matter of opinion, and that my claim is false. Do you understand that analogy?
It doesn't have anything to do with society lol. I used to when we was in a proper patriarchy, now i dont even know what we are in, i guess a modern patriarchy pushing for equaity?
-.- dude I dont fuckin know! Here I am just Eating my sandwich and ur asking about the fate of the world and shit. ಠ_ಠ I got my own problems! Like Why does Jimmy Johns give you a hundred packs of mustard but only One fuckin napkin? (ノಠ益ಠ) ノ彡┻━┻ The fuck is this? A Warm-Up?
^ What? 😂
@LadyTerror '-' as u can see me and Jimmy Johns have issues with one another.
Whose Jimmy Johns, Im so confused,
Jimmy Johns is like Subway. They sell sandwiches. It's a very popular franchise in the U. S.
And promiscuity is considered masculine traditionally! Women who are masculine are considered sluts and whores, and no guys (at least not me) wouldn't ever long term date nor marry a filthy whore!
As someone who is apart of the LGBT community, you're absolutely right.
@Imcmullan Thanks! My LGBT friends have told me about this struggle for bi guys. It is really unfortunate.
Cause it is gross
But two girls kissing is hot right?
Question: do most girls like two guy kissing or watch gay porn?
I do, but as my friend ephemera1 said " that's gross"
No actually it's not.
@Ephemera1 no no no you can't change what you said 😂
That was in response to your question. "But two girls kissing is hot right?"
@Ephemera1 oh ok, I misunderstood 😁
@Ephemera1 Bud, you're 17... why the hell you're on here anyways?
@Yoloxt23 Yup, because age has anything to do with it.
@Ephemera1 You didn't properly answered my question but I know you're 17, it's ok. Anyways, age has anything to do with it. You're a minor and minors aren't belong to sites like this so gtfo kid.
@Yoloxt23 That's cute
@Ephemera1 smh, you'll get what I'm saying one day...
@Yoloxt23 That's even cuter
@Yoloxt23 You wouldn't have answered me like that right big boy? 😂
No, I wouldn't. I have a guy friends who's homosexual himself and we bond like two peas in a pod.
Good points, i agree.
I don't get why men feel this way towards other men though, its sad.
Some people just don't (and won't) understand something that isn't the "norm" for them. They just want the world to be their way, if anything corrupts this view they get angry because they don't understand that people can't just conform to what they see as "natural", they're not straight and they never will be, there's nothing they or anyone else can do about it 🏃🏻👬
That's true, some people are just so backwardsss
I think people should just let people do whatever makes them happy.
On average women are usually more accepted that's all. There are exceptions for everything.
Well make more noise about what you like and if your in a restrictive country like Pakistan Lebanon or one of the countries in the UAE then i'm sorry for the way the world is ATM and you can still make anonymous internet noise if you want to or not if its too risky?
@sedrftvgyhujik i don't live in any of those places but yeah i do reside in the middle east.
Best of luck then.
@sedrftvgyhujik to u too dear :)
This is almost word for word what I was going to say. I agree with everything you mentioned. Anal is still a pretty taboo subject, even though a lot of people are curious about it and have tried it themselves, which I find funny. And being bi is more accepted than it was 10 years ago. I think progress is being made, and having gay marriage in the media has helped bring awareness and given people a platform for open discussion. It is very unfair that women are treated less scornfully than men in many situations. I think it's a sad part of society, but at least it's starting to change.
Lol being gay or bi doesn't make you feminine
Not more acceptIBLE, but it is more acceptED in society.If you look at the statistics to gay hate crimes, there is far more done to men than women, both in numbers and in severityNot saying lesbians haven't gotten some grief and maybe some murders, but it happened and still happens more to gay men
I get what you mean but about the lesbians making out, I think some women think we like prefer lesbians instead of straight girls so they try to be more like them. I'm not sure if you get what i mean but yeah.
I have had a conversation with my boyfriend on LGB topic (I intentionally omitted T and the other letters) and paraphrasing him: In the guys community lesbians are pretty high on the list because it's hot when 2 girls make out.
Yeah, i get that but when we say we like them it's not that we like lesbian girls lol. I think women get confused about this. We think it looks hot but we definitely like straight women.
It would be ironic to want to date a lesbian woman as a guy or straight girl because she wouldn't want to have anything to do with you besides friendship. And we girls don't act "gay" to attract guys. We are just more comfortable with each other, hence why we aren't disgusted by giving a peck on a girl's cheeks or something.
You dont understand what i mean still.
"women aren't seen as less womanly" sorry but i disagree completely. there are lesbian women who look look and behave more masculine than some men. the manly lesbians are not womanly at all.
@anonman32 I mean they aren't seen "less womanly" by society like guys are seen as feminine/unmanly if they dare to hug a guy or something.I know a lesbian and she has kinda man-ish face features but doesn't act like a guy. I don't say that all lesbians are like her, but I don't think most lesbians are butch and most gays are flamboyants.
you hear it often you know in guy talk that guys jokingly talk about how masculine some lesbians are, especially if we see one.
@anonman32 I never hear that, ever, i think its just the short hair that they tend to have that makes them seem masculine or manly.
maybe its just a thing from my country?
"Women aren't seen as "less womanly" if she has homosexual tendencies, unlike guys."In the powerful classes (in American society at least), any woman who has a serious romantic relationship with another woman has pretty much shut herself out of the marriage market forever.In those classes, it's EXACTLY the same for male and female homo- or bisexuality.Neither is "accepted" in the least bit; both pretty much mean getting blacklisted from the upper echelons of power and influence; AT BEST both are quietly tolerated, never discussed in polite company, and ultimately kept at an increasing distance until they're shoved completely out the door.
Like i said, as a whole, women are more likely to get a positive reaction whereas men are less likely to get a good reaction.
I never NEVER got a good reaction so I don't think that is right
Like i said lol, as a whole.
Girls like sucking dick so why isn't it the same then lol?
I don't know why, I just kinda thought about it that way
It could be that but i think men and women are both beautiful in different ways and I'm straight.
That's what matters. I have found other men to be attractive by actions and look without being of a sexual nature. As a straight man myself I see that it's becoming more and more acceptable for gay/bi/trans men to come out. In the 90's a dude would get his ass beat, seen it high school.. I've never cared either way, I don't judge people on their sexual orientation unless they get in my face about it trying to preach to me.
But why don't they?
Because it's not hot at all it's actually a turn off (I'm just giving my honest opinion here I have nothing against LGBT people I'm gay too)
No it's fine, keep being honest haha. I'm not gay or bi (maybe bi-curious?) but i just always wanted to know why it was like this
Ya well u have ur answer. You probably find it attractive if I would start fucking my girl but I don't find it attractive if you start fucking ur dude. That's the reason right there.
Yeah, that's true, i have a feeling the media has something to do with it too though
No not really no I don't think so the media is very supportive of gays usually
Actually, that's a good point. I wonder why girls think like that then, maybe its just a natural reaction?
Think like what?
Think that two guys having sex is not hot whilst most guys think two girls having sex is hot
Dude you can't control what you find hot. You should know that bruh. There's nothing wrong with finding something hot and not finding something hot.
Nooo i know that i was just wondering if its a natural reaction for most girls to not find it hot
I don't know what it is haha but it's just how it is
Yeah i guess, anyway thank you :)
Actually, a lot of girls do find it hot. You can see it on this site too. Not as much as guys though
Um sorry but you are wrong. I find guys making out hot and I know a lot of girls that do as well. There is a huge number of girls that do, but most of them are called Fujoshi's or yaoi fangirls.
I'm a girl and i find two guys making out hot till when it gets to the part where the car gets into the garage if u know what i mean ;) lol
@Sami365 @FemaleAssassin you guys are the minority for sure
Actually if you go to any site to read gay erotica, majority of it is written by women. I've actually written some myself
@LadyTerror You've written some? That's cool :) What kinds have you written?
@Sami365 it was fanfiction lol. And I never put it anywhere online because it sounded too cheesy. I don't know if I still have it now 😝
@LadyTerror I read fan fiction all the time ^^ what fandom was it for?
@Sami365 crossover. Death Note and Batman XD
@LadyTerror Omg I love Death Note!!! Are you an L fangirl or a Kira supporter?
@Sami365 L! Anyday. I love him <3
@LadyTerror Figured lol I love L but I am a proud Kira supporter. I may not agree with Light's method, but I agree with his vision <3
Women sexualized and objectified themselves.If they didn't gold diggers wouldn't be such a prevalent issue in society.
Wow and how do you know gay porn is not sexy for women? You have a vagina or something?
@Jeniferh21 I think its because lots of women deny it
i agree with this.
Ummm, not really. Men who like watching lesbo porn are actually much lower in number than those who watch regular hetero porn. Sorry, but lesbo porn has and always will fail to turn me on. Men need to stop pretending that they like lesbianism lol.
I mean most people here have agreed with me so maybe it's just where your from?
@anon, actually you're fucking wrong! Women repel to this type of thing. Which is why we don't want to marry sluts/whores!-A MGHOW
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