There's no doubt in my mind. I've been on both sides of the attraction divide. Up until my late 20's I couldn't get a date, no matter what I did or said. Now... they chase me with little effort on my part. Too bad I'm no longer interested. Call me tired and jaded but knowing what I know now... most women aren't worth the effort.
Why? Because when we like what we see our body releases oxytocin. Oxytocin is also known for making people more moral. Put that together and it just makes sense.
I have started wearing makeup as soon as I entered high school. Before then, boys in my class wouldn't notice me but after I started to wear the makeup, I became more noticed. Yes. Society treats attractive people better.
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Well many guys have been attracted to me and i notice that as i progressed in my career it was mainly because i looks the part. Especially the guys will always root for me in my company although i get bitch stares for the other girls. I know that my looks contributed to my success greatly.
We as humans are selfish its pretty obvious why most of us are nicer to attractive people we just want them for sex. So we think that if we are nice to them we will get sex with them. This is true for males and females.
That is often - but certainly not always the case. Humans like things that are esthetically pleasing whether it is people, cars, buildings or kitchen appliances. It is not always about sex.
Attractive people also make more money as well, generally. You can conduct your own social experiment. A good looking person who smiles at you is considered nice. An ugly person who smiles at you is creepy.
A goodlooking guy who behaves like a douchbag, sexually direct or like an asshole is seen by women as assertive and confident. A average/ugly guy who acts confident or assertive is seen as the douchbag, creep or asshole.
the category of guys who can be total assholes and sexual (even though iam nice most of the time) and still get away with it, i can insult a girl in her face and flat out ignoer and a girl and they will still want to talk to me and help me.
@Mrwoo99 I doubt that. If you are average good looking then it could be true. But if you are good looking enough to make people stunned, people tend to be more sensitive on your actions. If you do nice behaviour, people will think you are flirting. But a slight negative attitude make them feel like you basically hate them. There's no way they can get you, so they will move on.
"but remember that we're only human, we're predisposed to see beauty=health." So the reason we treat attractive people better is because we subconsciously see them as healthier so... we're less likely to catch an illness from them? Yeah, I don't get that health=getting treated better part.
Easy on the big Tits cuz that can be counter productive remember our best feature is Smiling big and radiate love from your being the person that does this will always finish in the top 10 percent so smile smiles Kill it in a good way!!!
Yes they are. I think as humans we involuntarily (and even voluntarily for that matter) treat attractive people better because we're subconsciously trying to impress them, and well, you don't really impress someone by putting in no effort. Which is what we most likely do with lesser attractive people.
Yes 100% like I've seen it firsthand how people who used to be rude to my face now act like they've always liked me and are all sweet.
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It depends. If you're a really good looking guy many other men will treat you like you're the enemy, but straight girls will do anything for you. Including things that they'd never do for an average looking guy.
This doesn't just hold true for relationships. If the person in charge of hiring is a woman or a gay man, you will much more likely get the job even if there are other, more qualified people.
well yah. especially in high school. I noticed the "popular kids" were the favorite while the unpopular kids such as myself got the lower end of the stick plus being picked on
Of course it's unfair. I ignore social norms and just be myself. Not everyone is going to like me but that's fine. Its like a filter that keeps bad people out and the good ones stay.
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There's no doubt in my mind. I've been on both sides of the attraction divide. Up until my late 20's I couldn't get a date, no matter what I did or said. Now... they chase me with little effort on my part. Too bad I'm no longer interested. Call me tired and jaded but knowing what I know now... most women aren't worth the effort.
initially, yes but gradually if they aren't a good person then people stop giving them the special treatment
Why? Because when we like what we see our body releases oxytocin. Oxytocin is also known for making people more moral. Put that together and it just makes sense.
I try to keep the playing field even where I can.
Of course, always been like that and will always be
I have started wearing makeup as soon as I entered high school. Before then, boys in my class wouldn't notice me but after I started to wear the makeup, I became more noticed. Yes. Society treats attractive people better.
Well many guys have been attracted to me and i notice that as i progressed in my career it was mainly because i looks the part. Especially the guys will always root for me in my company although i get bitch stares for the other girls. I know that my looks contributed to my success greatly.
We as humans are selfish its pretty obvious why most of us are nicer to attractive people we just want them for sex. So we think that if we are nice to them we will get sex with them. This is true for males and females.
Yup man you said what was in my mind 👏👏
That is often - but certainly not always the case. Humans like things that are esthetically pleasing whether it is people, cars, buildings or kitchen appliances. It is not always about sex.
Not really. I can find someone hot and not want sex from them.
Are you kidding? They're treated better all the time.
Yes i do. Also people say that personality matters but if a person is unattractive to a person they get no chance to show their personality
of course they are, ugly guys are 'creepy', ugly girls are 'annoying'. Bad looks turn all your personality traits into negative ones
Attractive people also make more money as well, generally. You can conduct your own social experiment. A good looking person who smiles at you is considered nice. An ugly person who smiles at you is creepy.
A goodlooking guy who behaves like a douchbag, sexually direct or like an asshole is seen by women as assertive and confident. A average/ugly guy who acts confident or assertive is seen as the douchbag, creep or asshole.
Harsh reality.
i can confirm that
@IceCubedude Why which category are you in? lol
the category of guys who can be total assholes and sexual (even though iam nice most of the time) and still get away with it, i can insult a girl in her face and flat out ignoer and a girl and they will still want to talk to me and help me.
Don't throw a pity party, attractive women can get away with more shit than ugly women
@Mrwoo99 I doubt that. If you are average good looking then it could be true. But if you are good looking enough to make people stunned, people tend to be more sensitive on your actions.
If you do nice behaviour, people will think you are flirting. But a slight negative attitude make them feel like you basically hate them. There's no way they can get you, so they will move on.
"but remember that we're only human, we're predisposed to see beauty=health."
So the reason we treat attractive people better is because we subconsciously see them as healthier so... we're less likely to catch an illness from them? Yeah, I don't get that health=getting treated better part.
No. Health means we will produce healthy offspring with them should the opportunity present itself
Easy on the big Tits cuz that can be counter productive remember our best feature is Smiling big and radiate love from your being the person that does this will always finish in the top 10 percent so smile smiles Kill it in a good way!!!
Yes they are. I think as humans we involuntarily (and even voluntarily for that matter) treat attractive people better because we're subconsciously trying to impress them, and well, you don't really impress someone by putting in no effort. Which is what we most likely do with lesser attractive people.
This question doesn't even need to be asked. It's just like asking what color is grass. You can go outside and see for yourself.
Yes 100% like I've seen it firsthand how people who used to be rude to my face now act like they've always liked me and are all sweet.
It depends. If you're a really good looking guy many other men will treat you like you're the enemy, but straight girls will do anything for you. Including things that they'd never do for an average looking guy.
This doesn't just hold true for relationships. If the person in charge of hiring is a woman or a gay man, you will much more likely get the job even if there are other, more qualified people.
well yah. especially in high school. I noticed the "popular kids" were the favorite while the unpopular kids such as myself got the lower end of the stick plus being picked on
Things turn after hs. Hottest (and usualy party) girls sink and those who were in the middle become hot!
Of course it's unfair. I ignore social norms and just be myself. Not everyone is going to like me but that's fine. Its like a filter that keeps bad people out and the good ones stay.