Bright side is that many people adore you. They try to help and try to do cute special favors for you. And there are many many other bright sides.
However, bad part is that there are annoying people who try to be imaginative or be jealous about you. You will even experience stalking and fake bad rumors and bullying and many other malicious things.
So, both of them exist.
Oh and the bright side exists only when one can use their attractiveness well, while the down side exists no matter what you do.
Fyi) common knowledge is that the same sex hates you while the opposite sex likes you. However, this is absolutely not true. As I mentioned, some male jerks try to bother you as well.
And I saw one of the opinion here mentioning beautiful ones don't get attention because they don't want to, not like attractive ones. However, the fact is that getting attention with attractiveness is not something you can control. If you are attractive, you will get otehrs' attention just by standing and breathing, while unattractive beautiful ones can't get other's heart nor attention no matter what they do. However, I guess it's kind of true that unattractive beauties live life more easily, because people will treat them nicely for their beauty without any personal emotion.
I've always been treated nicely most times and other times whenever i was nice back they automatically assumed i was into them making it super awkward. Like sometimes they would brag about me being into them to other people or most times they would make a move and when I would reject them they assumed I was lesbian or they would explode with anger. So it's not always pretty.
I don’t think it matters, I think some people are just nice people and some are just assholes. I wouldn’t consider myself to be amazing looking or anything but I’ve been treated both good and bad. I think some people are just mean in general no matter who or how you look.
I treat people based on how they treat me. But yes, I'm aware (and I've seen) people treat others based on appearance.
The Halo Effect has been pretty well documented and is essentially a beauty bias that humans have. Things that are beautiful we tend to think are inherently good. It’s a sort of naturalistic fallacy I suppose. Suffice it to say that research has shown that even parents will treat their attractive offspring better than their less attractive offspring. This isn’t entirely without evolutionary merit, but it seems to vindicate the claim that beautiful people are treated better in society at large.
www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-halo-effect-2795906
Is a decent start if you’re interested
halo effect? Are you kidding me? Probably for 5 year-olds it works. but once you hit puberty and start looking good without trying to, you get murderous glares from many female specimen. beautiful people do not have an advantage in life, unless they have no dignity or self-respect, sure, they can have it easy. but for any respectable person, they have to go through the same obstacles just like any other human being. me being pretty does not mean i can flash a smile and get into grad school or get a 3.7 GPA. Guys hold doors for me once a month. It's made my life slightly more pleasant, but not easy either. "scientists" are wrong often. halo effect may have been real a few decades ago, but now, nobody gives a crap how beautiful you are. on the contrary, you'll have more people trying to shred you to pieces to test out if you're more than just a "pretty face."
@DianaWest well if you disagree with the science I don’t know how you want me to convince you. All the same I don’t think you want me to convince you, so it would be rather pointless to try. Read the link and check its citations if you’d like.
Physical appearance not decide how you treat someone it's depends at any individual nature or way of talk in society or in family, the people who are not attractive but nature wise good and respectful to everyone treated nicely always.. Moral is character is more valuable then your physical appearance
That is actually not correct. Countless scientific studies have shown that we treat beauty differently, the question here pertains to exactly in what way since that differs in results.
But brother look at past of miss world beautiful contest not always girl with fair colour always win or beautiful face girls or sexy body looks girls win the contest... Normal looking girls many times win miss world contest mean not only beauty decide how someone treat us
No one is "normal looking" to begin with in Miss beautiful contests. They are always top tier!
I'm afraid that is a somewhat naive sentiment. Appearance do affect us. Studies have proven it.
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Attractive women are treated like queens. For us men, it doesn’t matter if we are attractive or not, most of us are still treated like oxen.
You are so wise old man captain sir. Teach me how you think the truth and are not disturbed. I must know the way of wisdom. I am trying to be funny and yet be truthful. We are treated like ox and we need the world to realize men are whoolheaded oxen. We stick by what we believe and we also dont give up when are minds are made.
I think both good and bad - cause very pretty girls complain to me about guys using them as sex objects or about girls getting jealous and trying to ruin their lives - on the other hand - they often get treated better if they are attractive but also very hard working and intelligent and nice to people.
When it comes to treatment I care more about the personality than the look. I am just tired of the posts that claim good looking peoples are jerks and cheaters! Jay z is the ultimate prove that even ugly men can cheat when the opportunity comes up. The only reason good looking peoples may be treated poorly without even having the chance to express their personality may be jealousy or inferiority complex.
Attractive people get treated better
Get better jobs
Make more money over their life
More successful
Get more sex
Can influence others better
Life is certainly easier for an attractive person. Yes that isn’t over blown. It’s reality
My hot friends all Have rich husbands and they do nothing all day but take care of a baby. My ugly friends have no boyfriend. No husband. Live in a shitty home. And ya lol
They get treated 50 million times better than ugly people, but as soon as one tiny thing doesn't go their way, or somebody makes one snarky comment about them, they jump up and go, "SEE? SEE? THINGS ARE TOUGH ALL OVER!!! PRETTY PEOPLE HAVE IT ROUGH TOO!!! SEE?"
Like Hillary Clinton bragging that she knows about the struggles of poor people because she declared Bankruptcy in the 2000's or whatever. Same concept.
I'd say both.
If people can figure out that you are a little bit insecure about your looks and if they hate you too, you get treated like shit. Jealousy is what comes from people of the same gender mostly. And there are assumptions and generalizations too. You may get a good treatment from the opposite gender 😉 but you have to endure the jealousy of others at the same time.
Nicely the reason why is because beauty is associated with good positive things in the world and ugliness is a representation for the bad evil and negative. This is a flaw in our perception though because what makes a person considered beautiful is their symmetrical features not who they are inside.
Everybody treat me like shit, but i treat them like shit to. Counter attack hehe
Fight fire with fire!
People treat me like I don’t exist. I might be unapproachable because i am shy. But yeah no body likes me im that girl that some people find ugly and others find pretty i think i am pretty sometimes but people are mean to me and say im ugly or stuff like that sometimes even family members sometimes it hurts but i know i’m not, i am pretty
I think that men who tell me I'm attractive or try to ask me out treat me very well, i. e. offering favours, speaking to me even if I haven't been in touch for a long time, etc. As for a man who thinks I'm not attractive - well, I don't know because those men haven't approached me, so it's hard to say!
Nicer. I worked in recruitment for years and it’s well known that attractive people are more likely to obtain certain jobs etc too
Both. There will be jealous haters, and people who give you special treatment. I’ve worked at a restaurant where they gave only me some weird special treatment because I’m attractive. Like asking me if I wanted any meals or drinks, not telling me the food name when giving me the food to bring to the tables and looking away with a face when I asked what the heck it was. Etc. I quit that job.
Nicely. There's even a term for it, the Halo effect. This also extends to the treatment by society at large as well. For example it is well documented that in court more attractive people, especially women, likely to be sentenced for less time or even found non guilty.
Mostly nicely, but there will be some haters who go out of their way to treat them badly out of jealousy.
nicely, i think but if they have a shit personality. they are hated. the girl people who like them still after that are whipped.
Simple
Like shit, people are only nice she they want something from you.
How i treat other people is not determined by their attractiveness. I'm socially graceful to everyone i come in to contact with in my daily life.
Do you hang out in real life with someone who is mostly good on the inside rather than beautiful on the outside. Cause then I will believe you if you hang with someone as friends that dont have the beauty of someone who has always had it. I didn't. I was always ignored and put off like a little brother. I looked very young in highschool so I do know looking young can affect the way someone treats you. If your 21 for example and you are going to your first bar. The first thing guaranteed they commented on with me is you look like your 16 get the fuck out of my bar. I know your ID is fake. I looked at him and said should i get the police in here and he shut up. Just like elderly get out off for work cause they are getting on in years and the young think they should retire when some can't. W;hat is it that makes someone beautiful. To me a woman who can light the whole room up making everyone smile. Someone even though he doesn't smile does the right thing and treats everyone as equals. someone who never takes things for granted and puts there all in life despite what they have been through
attractive guys get treated well. attractive girls get the brunt of attention, both good AND bad. still better to be an attractive girl than an unattractive one though.
The opposite sex usually treats you nicely. The same sex can get jealous or can be admiring in a nonsexual way.
Everybody treats you nice when they have interest in you.
It uses treat people nicely most of the time but being an attractive person. It takes even longer to find the right person.
People are people. Sometimes people will get treated nicely, sometimes they will be treated poorly.
I treat everyone well as long as they do the same for me.
But I have to admit its easier to do if its a good looking girl.
I think attractive people are treated nicely by the other sex but treated horribly by the same sex
Nicely by the other gender and poorly by their own.
I've been told that I'm attractive (humbly speaking). I get a lot of death glares and have been treated like shit so many times, but i'm not sure if there is a correlation (in my case) between looks and the way people treat me.
it might be the people who live around you. think about it. in colorado in most areas thats what i recieved. In Utah or texas so far I have not been glared at rather smiled at. I always believed I was ugly until I think 2 and a half years ago lots of people called me handsome in washington and I would have woman eye me up and down. More or less woman cause I am a man. I was not comfortable with being liked for looks anyway so I walked away when looked that way several times. I think its best to treat others how you want to be treated. sometimes I think its the perspective of someone. or how someone views the world based on how they are raised
@Ghost285 Why you checking me out dude. lol wtf you from. you must be from a place that has people treat white people like gods. Only white people call me handsome. Asians call me ugly like pig. blacks call me a blue eyed devil and I just say why you checking me out if you dont like me.
I think people give you what they receive... so if you treat people nicely they will automatically do the same...😊
Generally nice, but not all attractive people are treated as such... I was heavily bullied in school, for one
I don’t treat people a certain way based on their attractiveness.
I'm quite attractive and look young for my age.. in past years, people have said rude things about my appearance before.
For good looking guys, people treat you nicely. For good looking girls we get treated poorly, by both genders.
People treat good looking people in a shitty way. I've been told that I'm good looking and they treat me like shit.
The girls are especially mean to me.
As someone who is an attractive person we are treated both by certain people.
I would guess they're treated well, and can easily attract whomever they want or are attracted to.
Maybe. I have most of the time been treated like crap by people who look worse than me. I mean yeah I get it some people hate people by skin color or by how much they earn. Its the basic way of attraction or non attraction. Like forrest gump said life is like a box of chocolates. you never know what you gonna get.
Attractive people are generally treated well in normal daily operations
Attractive people have it easier than us ugly people.
Attractive girls treated nicely.
Attractive guys treated poorly
Lol guys stop this verbal fight , simply the problem that most good looking men face is that a lot of women think they are fuckboys without even knowing him
yes muhammad. He doesn't understand stuff like that. I always get the fuckboy treatment. No matter how I tell them that my loyalty is as deep as the ocean and do my best to prove it. He is a guy who was checking me out calling me ugly just cause I am white. I had every reason to comment on him and his crap. Its how he felt himself to be so I just egged it on rather than fight lol.
Bitches treat them poorly.
Suckups treat them nice.
Sometimes they are ignored. Other times they make a career like a rocket.
Of course good looking people get treated better.
But guess what, welcome to the real world.
Attractive guys and girls are both treated nicely because people want to do us.
Yea ugly.
Not always. Everyone popping deals with jealous people anyway. Doesn't matter if they are attractive.
First explain what do you mean by "Attractive people"
A conventionally beautiful woman or handsome man in the eyes of society.
Eh? Ok! But traditional connotations of attractiveness are still that of visual appeal, and I'm pretty sure you understood that, so I don't know why you're making these pointless arguments.
I'm a historian. There's no need for any further study in that department. And I do call your arguments pointless, because you made an irrelevant question to the topic presented and then acted as if it was invalid to ask because, "attractiveness doesn't mean that", give me a break.
Depends on how people react to the attractiveness. The opposite sex might take more kindly but the same sex can get insecure and see the person as a threat.
@swolecook gets bullied because he’s more attractive then most here
@Twat_Twig I dont know what you mean. i see cookies on his profile picture. sure he's a hunk. a hunk of cookies.
Life is really easy for attractive people, which is why I despise them and want them to suffer in life
I've been treated nicely but sometimes badly just for my looks
Nicely. It's ugly guys who get treated like shit. Even good looking black men are treated worse than ugly white men by attractive women
I hurt you so bad you had to make a new pic. LMFAO insecure little white man
You look ugly in that picture too 😂
Should I agree with you just to make you happy and act like I am angry. cause I am not. I am not sad cause I dont get attention when I do. Woman and man alike like me and thats the end of the story. You look older than 35 and you dread the fact you dont get what you want out of life cause you chose to stick to the areas that make you look like garbage deciding to stay in the southeast of the usa can hurt a man like you. If you dont have the balls to face someone in real life you are not going to make any real impact. so go save your plague for someone who will actually care dudette
Do you hold onto the past like a mad man who can't look towards the future and get drunk and sit around all day doing nothing. I work for a living. I pay rent. I travel. what have i got to get from you that i get a lot from people who talk shit and say they are going to kick my ass when they dont get the reaction they want. hmm cause I enjoy these conversations. Im just trying to understand how you feel talking like garbage
Why did you write so much stuff?
You are so ugly. I bet you can get a girl easily
Treated nicely by men but hated by other insecure girls
Sometimes very well, other times very horribly.
Mostly they are treated nicely.
They are definitely treated more nicely on average
thats something you never ask a person
Pretty people will always be treated better.
No, there is no difference except the dating world
theyre treated like gods
I think in that case attitude determines altitude
I say pretty good especially at bars.
Kindness is reciprocal.
Certain women won't even look or talk to me.
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