Being a female? (Page 2)

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I mean, what do you really have to do? 1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you 2) You can just lay there and take the penis, do no work, and no one is ever going to say you're bad 3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you. 4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds. 5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse. 6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale. 7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything... 8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer... Man it must be nice being a female. I think I am going to ask God to make me one in my next life. Except I'll probably be normal and actually want a real relationship without games or drama.There's a lot of early 30's bachelors out there... wonder why?

Anonymous · Answer

Everything you said is true. we do have it easier but it is also some things that are hard for us too like yeah we can get sex anytime we want but we can't seem to meet guys who want more than that which is a sucky long ass process. When we want love, it is not easy for us to get it and guys aren't so fixated on love like we are. We aren't treated special at all by most guys so most of us slp around to feel somewhat needed. but I hear what you are saying. We have more freebies than yall do but me personally, its been so hard for me to get into a relationship because almost eery guy I meet seems the same and just wants to fool around. Plus periods are not fun at all and child birth is so painful and we aren't treated as equals to men when it comes to power and sex, we feel way too much, we are worried about getting fat, we usually stay with men who cheat on us and abuse us because we hate starting over again. So what you think you know, you hjave no idea. it may seem like we got it all easy but there are so many things we aren't able to get easliy like love and respect and the pain of looking beautiful.

Anonymous · Answer

This has to be sarcastic. Either that or you are really that immature. Trying to provoke a response falls under both of those categories.

It is highly annoying and ultimately belittling to have guys constantly hitting on us in the street. The guys that do this are usually aggressive jerks; a lot of women don't appreciate that stupid nonsense. One guy kept asking me out and proposed casual sex like he wasn't a snaggle-toothed dirty old man, even though I told him no every time, several times. I have more stories, if you need more examples. How would you feel if a dude acted that way toward your sister or your mom? Do you really think she would appreciate this kind of behavior from men on a consistent basis?

Sure it's nice the first half-dozen or so times, but the Beavis and Butthead style style of hitting on a woman (You're so beautiful/sexy, heh heh heh) starts to sound like the teacher in the Charlie Brown cartoons. It is no longer flattering when I get approached by a random guy in the street. It only makes me suspicious.

Women who are mature, who are secure in themselves, and who know what they want don't play mind games, which completely refutes all of your other claims about us.

Coming here and posting something like this after listening to three women discuss those things (in a BAR, no less) is egregious at best. Note the 212 (now 213) responses. They may have had that conversation solely for the benefit of people who might have been listening; my friends and I have done the exact same thing. If you think women are this shallow, you clearly have not had a strong woman in your life at any point.

Anonymous · Answer

Bullsh*t, bullsh*t bullsh*t.

When your a girl, if your not good in bed, the guy doesn't want you.

Not to mention, the amount of guys your with is a HUGE problem, because then your a whore.

And even if your not, getting told by a guy, oh baby, I love you, your everything to me. I want to be with you forever. & JUST to get in your pants, really f***s with your head.

If you've only been with girls that just lay there, there's your problem.

And do you know what it's like to have a kid? To have a needle the size of a stick going through your back, that can paralize you? & if the guy leaves you because HE got your ass pregnant, and then you got all this to take care of it all on your own.

To have big boobs, that make your back hurt 24 damn 7?(not to mention always getting stared at) No.

And the always, always. always attention is annoying as hell.

Women have big hearts. Men always think with there d*** and that's it.

Yes women do stupid sh*t, and are sometimes heartless but not the majority.

All we want is love and affection, is that to much to ask? When we spend the whole day trying to look good for someone and then not even be told how beautiful you are really hurts your self esteem. The only reason women are like this is because the way there treated by a man.

When a women puts her heart out there and gets nothing in return. Always being cheated on. She becomes what your talking about up there.

Anonymous · Answer

In response to all your comments:

1) Men never through themselves at me, no man has ever thought of me as more than a fiend.

2) I've never had sex, so I have to all the work when it comes to satisfying myself. Usually I just burn with passion, & wish someone would give me a chance. I'd actually really like to give a man pleasure & would never just lay there.

3) I work my but off, no one supports me. I'm on my own when the cost of living requires two incomes. So, I'm poor, and no, I don't get help from the government.

4) I never play games with men. I try to do right by everyone. I can't lie, I feel too guilty, & learned a long time ago, men can't read minds, especially not mine, lol.

5) I don't ever get drunk, so that excuse is invalid for me.

6) I don't give a crap about shoes. My daily problems include what every other working person in America has that has to pay bills.

7) When I have a my period, I'm in lots of pain, but still act as kind as ever to everyone. You would never know I was on period, unless I asked for midol.

8) The only power my p**** has is to go to the bathroom.

If any gender has it easy, it's men. It must be nice to be tall, strong, & wear comfortable clothes.

By the way, everything mentioned above is the complete honest truth, & I am not a feminist (I just have bad luck).

Miranduhh19 · Answer

Those girls are hoes, that's not what real women do. But there are some things you haven't mentioned. Yeah girls do have it easy for some things, but it's sounds pretty even if you think about it. Yeah we bitch during our period, but it hurts like hell and our hormones are raging like crap. think like someone is stabbing you in the stomach..we bitch for a reason. you guys have nothing.when we are virgins, it hurts to lose it, you guys just feel the good part. We women carry a person in us for nine months, kicks, lays on organs, hits spine, we vomit, and than our hormones rage even more;we are more senitive. We lose our bodies.then again you do nothing.we squirt a 8lbs. person, sometimes a 11lbs. person out of a small hole, and even sometimes go through the pain of labor for days.and the guy has an option to leave whenever he wants.We women get raped, and assulted more than guys.we cook, we clean, we get broken hearted more.we are insecure about our bodies, we are more depressed and gain eating disorders than men.and we girls have to doll up, when a guy can just roll out of bed.I think guys have it pretty easy.

lilani · Answer

Neither guys nor girls have it easier than the other. Life is just harder in different areas for the different sexes.

To all those girls who keep going on about the guys getting girls pregnant then p*ssing off, have a think about all those girls out there who get pregnant but don't even tell the guy. Maybe he wants to be in that child's life. And yeah, child birth is painful, but it's not something we have to experience everyday. And it's not a lingering pain either, once you lay eyes on that child, the pain is all but forgotten (cliched but so true).

Most chicks hate getting their periods true, but I actually like getting mine. I see it as a sign that my body is working. I guess I'm one of the lucky few who doesn't get cramps though.

Must suck being a guy though and getting an erection in inappropriate situations. At least we girls don't have to put up with that.

I do have to disagree with point number 2 though. Guys do tell girls when they're bad in bed. I've heard it before. And we don't just lie there, maybe the shy, inexperienced girls do, but if you get a lady whose confident with her body and knows what she wants, she will NOT just lie back and take it.

I just love how EVERYONE is taking such offense to this question/statement, guys and girls alike. Don't you think it's time to walk a mile in someone else's shoes for a change.

gilmoregirl · Answer

hahahahaha. oh myyyy. Being a girl is NOT easy. Guys don't throw themselves at me, and your #2 contradicts #8. I want to work. I'm one of those women who actually have ambitions. So, I'm not planning on sitting on the couch eating bon bons while the guy goes out and works. I don't play head games. I wouldn't want a guy to do that to me, so I don't do that to them. In response to #5, not all girls are that trashy... I hate shoe shopping. Personally, I'd rather go to Barnes and Noble than the shoe department at Macy's. And unless you've actually had a period, don't criticize what you have never experienced. You can't control the mood swings and it hurts like crap.

Now, I have a statement for you... Guys have it easy. They whine whenever they get kicked in the nuts. BIG WHOOP. Girl have periods and pregnancy. There is something that you can NOT top. Pregnancy and giving birth. I mean really. Do you know how many women die during childbirth? And how many guys die when they get hit in the nuts? (zip...zero.) Over 520,000 women die every year due to pregnancy and/or childbirth alone.

I like to debate in case you can't tell. (:

Anonymous · Answer

Girls do not have it easy.

1) It hurts when girls have sex., especially the first time.

2) we get our periods once a month. it is embarassing when it gets on our clothes, and it often smell and we are self concious about it. The cramps hurt like hell, sometimes to the point where it is hard to stand. What if once a month you cramped up and bled from your penis? doesn't sound fun does it?

3) We have babies. And I know someone said "Girls don't HAVE to carry babies." but sometimes they have no choice, most pregnancies are unplanned, and most women would not abort thier child as it is cruel.

4) We are always worrying about looking attractive to guys. We put on uncomfortable heels, spend hours on our hair, and do our makeup so guys will find us attractive. Have you ever worn heels? have you ever spent hours curling or straightening your hair?

5) Girls have to shave our legs to be socially acceptable, guys don't.

6) If a guy sleeps around, he's a stud, if a girl sleeps around, she's a slut.

7) Many women are vicious to each other, so we have to deal with that.

8) Often during childbirth the vagina tears! how'd you like to tear your penis shoving a huge baby out of there?

9) Many women actually have a job, and the guy does not have to support them. Actually more of my friends moms have jobs, and their dads stay at home.

10) We are often expected to do the cooking and cleaning around the house, especially in a marrige sitiuation. Studies show married men have a higher happiness rate then single men, where as married women show a lower happiness rate than single women.

11) We have to worry frequently about being raped.

12) We have to worry about guys using us and lying to us all the time.

13) We are expected by society to be provocative, but if we are to provocative we are sluts, so we also have to be innocent, every tried being innocently provocative?

Still think it's "so easy" to be a girl?

Charlotte1970 · Answer

Hello Anonymous, you sound like you've had your heart broken, and if that's the case, I'm so sorry for that. I can only say to you that it's wonderful to be female, but it's not easy...any more than it's easy being male from what I've been told by my brothers and guy friends. We both have our struggles. As a woman, I can tell you that I (like all others) remain very complex...I didn't sign up for this, but I'm just built that way. I do not like head games either, and I try not to play them, but I do get emotional sometimes. My grandfather, who was married for almost 60 years used to say to the guys, don't try to figure out a woman, just love her and hug her. That's the simplest and best advice I've ever heard as to how to handle us. I know some women are like snakes in the grass, but most of us aren't like that...just as I know most guys are decent and not turds (as some women would have you believe). Anywho (not a typo), I felt compelled to respond to you and wish you the very best. We're really not the enemy, even if a few of us behave that way...take care and God bless...

V/R,

Charlotte

Vespiquen · Answer

Let's put it this way: for women, it's a world of extremes; for men, it's much more equal. Yes, it's true that the pretty, attractive, model-like women will have it much easier than guys in general up until their looks start to fade. They can pretty much get anything they want as you said, although not all of them will exploit their looks.

But for every such woman out there, there's another, less attractive woman that you might not give another look to if you saw her on the streets. Unless they had plastic surgery or something, they cannot exploit their looks and will have to work hard for everything like a guy would. They might even have it harder than guys as they're physically weaker on avverage. They may still have trouble finding a man even if they managed to find a job and otherwise lead an independent lifestyle, as these are not the qualities that men usually look for in women.

For guys, most of us start off at a similar level. Good looking guys may have it slightly easier in terms of attracting women initially; but unlike men, women will not settle down with men who have looks and nothing else so they'll still have to work hard in their lives. As for the not-so-attractive guys - even the most unattractive of men can get a girl by working on their bodies and/or working their way up the social ladder.

So for us, our value is determined by what we do with our lives; for women, much (not all) of their value is determined by their genes (looks). I'd say men have it better, in fairness.

Athena66 · Answer

1-guys don't just throw themselves at us, that's a broad stupid generalization, do you not have any friends that are girls?

2-cowgirl was invented for a reason, 'nuff said

3-not working because you have too much stuff to do at home is a good enough reason I think, most guys truly don't understand how much work it takes to keep a house running

4-most of the time, we don't realize we're 'playing a head game' guys and girls just think differently from each other, that's all

5-okay, maybe some girls do that, but the ones that aren't sluts don't make that a habit

6-thats stereotyping, I'm a girl, and I hate shopping for clothes, or shoes, or whatever, I own sneakers and flats for church, that's it, my daily shopping struggle is how many books can I buy with the amount of money I have

7-guy really don't understand how horrible periods really are, the cramps alone can feel like someone stabbed you, plus all the other symptoms I won't even go into

8-as far as calling the shots in bed goes, you've been watching too many movies, girls aren't like that, or at least, I'm not, but you probably found the wrong girls, or have just never truly interacted with many girls at all

dynelle_alaina · Answer

okayy it is wayyyyyy more difficult being a girl. I'm a small girl. so here is my input.   1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you ((yeah and guys are players and they get props. we have to worry about being sluts when we are just trying to get ours))  2) You can just lay there and take the penis, do no work, and no one is ever going to say you're bad (( coming from a small girl. yeah we lay there and take the d***! feel the pain of it being jammed in us and ripping our vagina open. plus its worse cause I still haven't had a release. you boys get it easy))  3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you.(( you can never depend on anyone but ourselves.))   4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds.(( guys play the same type of games))   5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse.(( guys can do the same))   6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale.(( and we don't deal with bills and kids and damnn laws?))  7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything..(( hell yeah and we have to squeeze babys out of our tiny vaginas)) . 8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer. ((guys could easily do the same thing. our power as females only work if we turn on our man. if he doesn't get hard for us.. we have no power) Sincerely <3 females

LiveYoungLiveFree69 · Answer

that is complete bull.

1) only the hot girls have that, what about everyone else? hot guys get girls throwing themselves at them too, so...

2) not if we're on top.

3) not all of us are gold diggers.

4) have you heard the word "player"? guys play games too.

5) that excuse doesn't work because we'd still be looked at as a slut after that.

6) bull sh*t.

7) why don't you try bleeding out of your d*** for a week and then we can talk? 20 bucks says you'd be a bitch too.

8) its not our fault if we aren't in the mood, and not all of us want to make you "suffer."

so no, it is not that easy being a girl.

Crimson_Petal · Answer

Dude, we have to bleed for a week a month- it's not comfortable, we don't just have a normal time. Not all girls are the same but I have literally debilitating cramps, not to mention having accidents where you don't wake up in time to get to the bathroom. We also have to give birth. You try pushing an 8lb ham out of your ass and then we can talk. Not to mention, menopause- you guys can be fertile forever, eventually we dry up get hot flashes, mood swings etc.

Ok yeah, women may have it easier when it comes to getting someone to sleep with them but honestly, physically you guys have it SO much easier...oh my god wet dream MY LIFE IS OVER! I'd rather an erection over a period any day I'm sure.

Anonymous · Answer

But, think about how for centuries, women have been inferior to men. What do you think it was like for us. A woman walking on the street on her way home for walk at 10 o clock at night, wearing a dress, and she gets raped, the guy says, the was wearing a dress, she wanted me to rape her. And yes, believe me it does happen. becos our own president said that. Think about what it must be like to bleed constantly for 5 days straight, and having to have a tampon shoved up your vagina? You can get pregnant, and daddy runs off becos he doesn't want to look after the kid, leaving you to care for this child for the rest of its life, not having any financial support from him. We have to go through the pain of childborth. If we flirt and sleep around with loads of guys, we get called sluts, and you get slapped on the back and congratulated for being a player. We have to work so much harder becos even though everyone rambles on about gender equality, there's still some poeple who see the men as superior, so the boss hands the job over to the guy instead. In some countries, women are forced to cover up every inch of their bodies even in stinking hot weather becos her husbands an insecure bastard. If a woman becomes a mechanic or an engineer or whatever., then she's called weird fro having a masculine job. Think about how easy it was for my mom to raise 3 kids, earning a teachers salary, because my dad decided to run off with some bimbo and not even bother to contact his kids for 7 years. Just try pushing something the size of a turkey through your ass, and you'll imagine what it must be like to be a woman

loverorbestfriend · Answer

Ignorant question...women bleed, give birth, are physically weaker thus can't go everywhere like a guy (esp. a powerful guy like me can), they have to worry about rape, being stereotyped hoes, unwanted pregnancy, osteoporosis, cramps, having to wear makeup and look good and taken to be objects...look, it's MUCH HARDER being a woman, your ignorant ass just don't see it...trust me bro, it is MUCH better to be a guy, and sooooooo much easier...I would never ever wanna be stuck a female and go through all the sh*t they go through...no f***in' way...I'm blessed being a man...

Anonymous · Answer

you're resentful because you can't get the women you want. you're an omega male which means you're probably unattractive to 95% of women anyway. it's interesting how the only guys who lash out and are angry and bitter like this are the ones who can't get a woman to save his life.

"Bad Guy (OM) - This guy literally hates women. He still wants sex out of them, so he always carries a date rape pill or two in his pocket, just in case. He is often too busy playing video games, or busting off in front of his PC to go out their and meet women at social gatherings. He often has experienced a girl or two, and this was usually under the influence of alcohol. He doesn't dance, all he does is sit and watch women who he can prey upon. As soon as he has pounced, he will run for safety, trying not to deal with the consequences and reality of the situation. He is probably the most hated amongst men in the eyes of women."

Nice Guy (OM) - This guy is the polar opposite of the Bad Guy OM, he is by no means likely to drug a woman, but more times than not is extremely weak in his approaching a woman. His voice often loses bass when he talks to a woman, and he rarely if ever ends up getting a woman into bed. More times that not he is the virgin in a group. His friends are often the ones pushing him to talk to even average girls, and when he is in the presence of average girls, he avoids eye contact to hide his guilt of sexual desperation.

this sounds like it would describe a few guys on this site

Lilyasks12 · Answer

Well guys have it easier from a lot of girls views :

1) You don't have to carry children

2) You don't bleed through your clothes every month constantly worried if you'll ruin something

3) You can orgasm during sex with almost no effort.

4) You have sex with 6 different girls you're just a player. A girl has sex with 6 different guys, she's a whore and no one wants to be around her.

5) You don't get urinary muscle cramps every month which makes girls testy.

6) A lot of you guys seem to be able to have sex without any feelings attached

7) Some girls have to carry around huge boobs, your chests are supposed to be flat.

8) Even if we call the shots in bed you still try to get what you want even when we say no.

Anonymous · Answer

1 guys don't throw themselves at me, 2 I don't lay there not every girl does, 3, sounds like you are describing golddiggas, every girl I know has a job, 4 not true me and my boyfriend always talk about things,not guess, 5 one night stand in my opinion are disgusting and not all girls do they I never have I am always in the same relationship I'm traditional that way, 6, yes girls like shoes but it doesn't make or break our life! boys seem to like call of duty on xbox but I wouldn't say its a daily problem! 7, sorry to be graphic here but until you know how painful it is to have your womb lining come out of you every month then don't even go there! 8, if we don't want it so what! men say no too at times sometimes you don't feel well etc you don't have to say yes all the time.

I don't mean this rudely but I think you need to grow up, the reason there's old single men out there is probably because they have a chauvinistic attitude to women like you do. I will agree that some women are probably exactly how you just described but not every woman is like that. if you don't want to be single at 30 then you need to ditch this sexist view and remember all humans are different, even twins can be completely different.

good luck to you.

Rubywolf · Answer

Are you serious? One- you don't have blood coming out of you every month. Two- it's easy to pleasure yourself. Three- nobody turns you down for work because you are a woman. Four- if you want to have sex, you won't get regarded as a slut. Five- you won't get pregnant. Six- if we get slightly fat, nobody will like us. Seven- men a physically stronger. Eight- men assume women will do all the housework, even after a hard day of work. Nine- it hurts the first time we have sex. Ten- when we break up with somebody we love, it hurts way more than in hurts a guy.

I would rather be a guy.

curiousfella · Answer

This is all REALLY simple:

Neither gender has it easier or harder than the other, you're just falling into the 'grass is greener on the other side' trap!

One of the biggest complaints about life in general I've heard from beautiful women is that no one takes them seriously. I mean can you imagine having to deal with the insecurity of thinking that opportunities (business, artistic, whatever!) that are given to you by males may very well be just because they want to f*** you! I mean it may be flattering in the short term, but how do you have a satisfying life if you're not positive you deserve what you have?

Lockjawx27 · Answer

Mostly everything you said is true. Women certainly have it easier, especially in a matriarchal society like the U.S.

Women control the dating scene, from beginning, middle, and end.

Women never have to experience lonliness. This is largely a male issue. If your a guy, you could be lonely for years VERY easily in this country. The average woman has about 4-5 guys chasing after her at any given moment. Males, on the other hand, have very few options. Also, they have to work hard for those options; they don't come free like they do for women.

Women have it easier, just based of the ratios alone. In almost every category men outnumber women 2:1. The numbers favor women and give them all the pick, all the power.

mysterygirl3451 · Answer

you did not just say its easy to be a girl! Girls are constantly worrying about their looks and what you guys think. Girls have to worry about our monthly "gift" (btw who ever came up with the gift name is sick). Birth pains so not easyyy. prep in the morning, outfits, looks, its all for you! while guys just throw on a shirt and pants and some cologne and watch the girls throw themselves at you not the other way around and its ecpesially harder for the girls with no boobs or ass we gotta extra show off, being a girl is so. not. easy.

lonelysadguy · Answer

WELL ITS JUST A LOT OF GIRLS ARE ONLY INTO GUYS THAT ARE RICH IDIOT JERKS THAT TREAT GIRLS WITH NO RESPECT AND JUST BUY THE GIRLS LOVE THEN THE GIRL TURNS AROUND TO BLAME ALL THE NICE GUYS THAT ALL MEN ARE BAD.. GUYS CAN LOVE A GIRL FOR THE WAY SHE LOOKS...A GIRL CAN ONLY LIKE A GUY FOR HOW FAT HIS WALLET IS... SO YOUR QUESTION IS RIGHT MOST GIRLS JUST USE GUYS .AND GET AWAY WITH IT...

JUST TO ADD ALL GIRLS LOVE BEING SINGLE, THEY DONT CARE FOR GUYS, PROVEN FACT> THEY DONT ASK GUYS OUT OR KNOW HOW TO TREAT A GUY...YOU SHOULD SEE A LOT OF THE QUESTIONS ON HERE A LOT OF GIRLS ASK "I WANT TO ASK THIS GUY OUT BUT I DONT KNOW HOW" THEY DONT KNOW HOW CAUSE GIRLS DONT HAVE DESIRES INSIDE FOR THE OPPOSITE SEX THAT HELP THEM FIGURE IT OUT ... BUT WHEN A GUY ASKES A GIRL OUT WE GET TURNED DOWN AND GUYS HAVE TO JUMP TROUGH STUPID HOOPS GIRLS MAKE JUST TO MAKE A GUY GIVE UP TO LEAVE THE GIRL ALONE .. I KNOW IT SUCKS

krosantje · Answer

Did your girlfriend giv you hell?:P no its not wasy being a woman as its not easy being a person and as well as guys have hard times so have girls...

going with the wrong person makes yu a slut,., even if your not...

having sex with more than one dude in your lifetime can give you hell

getting a guy that's actually monogamous is a challange because like you said a lot og girls get to take home whoever they put their mind on..

you actually tend to feel like complete sh*t when you have your peroid, it hurts as hell and makes you feel $#%^&*&^%$

guys are good at headgames too or at least theyt hink they are.. some are

how about we sh*t out kids, keep your home tidy, raise your ass, cook for you, often work get groceries, raise kids, AND give you attention and support and love and SEX... hmm

being a human is challenign , wether male or female...

Anonymous · Answer

Good point.. BUT

1) You can just wake up in the morning, put a bit of gel on your hair and leave

2) You don't get period pains OR a bleeding vagina for 2-8 days. IT IS THE LINING FROM THE WOMB, MY FRIEND, IT IS NOT NICE.

3) You don't have to worry about make up

4) A girl sleeps with a guy (one night stand), she is a slut/whore/skank/slag. A Guy has casual sex with a girl and all he gets is PRAISE

5) You will never have to go through a traumatising experience called BIRTH. Your vagina has to stretch 10 whole centimetres, mate. NOT FUN.

6) We have to be well groomed down there. Or we get called for having a 'bush'. And we have to shave our legs and armpits.

7) You don't have to suffer with the "get back in the kitchen and make me a sandwich" jokes. Yeah, I will laugh along at first, but then it gets f***ing annoying.

8) You don't have to worry about actually getting pregnant.

Basically, the only hard thing men have to do is stand up whilst peeing.

digmelovebug · Answer

1). My life could be perfect IF periods didn't exist, do you know how painful they can be?!

2). Guys won't throw themselves at us unless we look dank and being dank takes time and energy.

3). Guys do tell you your bad if you do nothing in bed.

4). You guys watch so much p*rn when your young you expect us girls to be just as good as the girls are in the videos.

5). Girls can't even begin to rely on a guy to pay for the rest of their lives because guys are unpredictable, my boyfriend took me out for dinner the other night saying it was his treat and he'd pay. half way through the main course he tells me " Oh babe I'm so skint you couldn't pay this time could you?" Unpredictable.

Guys don't wear make up and don't have to dress up all you have to do is take a shower flick your hair put on some clothes and go it takes a girl about an hour and a half if she wants to look really good. So mate, you have it easy :p

urstruely · Answer

hmm...We give birth, we have to carry the thing for 9 months, we have to put up with winny men like you. Those girs who use their period as an excuse aren't in shape. Guys don't pick up on the simplist hints (those aren't mind games). Society judges our actions more harsly than males. If one of your compliants was that women want everything, clothes, shoes, money, jewerly, so on...then date one that doesn't! Seriously, if you don't want to date a women who complians, then don't! I don't let any man boss me around and tell me what to do, I workout a lot so I can be as strong as anyone I would date or at least stronger than most girls, I don't make excuses because that's weak, and I go for praticality rather than looks and things, and most importanly, I'd rather have him than worthless worldly items. Do NOT EVER classify ALL women into one catorgery.

AliceDawn · Answer

Both sides, have things that are difficult, but you are just being plain biased!

-Girls are constantly insecure, their whole life, they always feel inadequate in their looks, and how they meet up to standards

- We have to support a living being for almost a whole fricking year, and then giving birth is like hell.

-Cramps from our period can makes us so sick we can't get out of bed!

- its the 21st century, most girls work their butts off!

-Women throughout history have been exploited, and seen merely as a means of children, and heirs, and sex!

Dudes have their own issues... but a girls life is no piece of cake... reality check!

RoyaFlower · Answer

oh you think we really have it easy, huh? I'm not even gonna bother saying the obvious stuff like childbirth etc...

Guy sleeps with 5 girls--->praise

Girl kisses 2 guys----> labeled as slut

not to mention guys have a faster metabolism than girls. its just the way they're made. so while guys are stuffing their faces, we have to watch what we eat. plus girls are more prone to sexual predators than guys.

but I gotta say guys don't have it easy either. a woman can comfort a crying child and buy her icecream, but when a man does it then he's a total pervert. -_-

im_ready · Answer

hahahaha lol those are called bitches...who are you dating mann...personally a female should be doing the work and the guy directing during sex mabey a little hair pulling,slapping,bitting and anything els ...and females with there cramps during periods come on now I don't have pains I don't say sh*t when I'm on my period I'm very calm...and females who have sex when there drunk know what there doing...i sure in tha hell no what I'm doing I get major horny but I take control of the guy..but I never blame it on the drinks..and drama ahhh god I hate it why can't people just relax every once in a while...i swear females try and start arguments because they think its funn... well bullsh*t...and a female who doesn't have a job just shows that she's lazy and has no independence...damn there making other females look bad

MrzSushiiBunnii · Answer

This is question is BS:

1) Where the hell do guys through themselves at women [please let me know]. Because the last time a dude through himself at me was when he was drunk and wanted some booty!

2) There are other positions then having the male on top. [U should try them...There fun=) ].

3) This is not the Olden Days. Research has shown that women in relationships tend to make MORE than men!

4) Everyone plays games. A guy would give a girl all the attention in the world, and drop her like a hot potato after they have sex or if she's not giving it up fast enough.

5)Girls may use the excuse 'I was drunk"...but guys don't have to use an excuse AT ALL! This goes along with the double standard "He's a player, but she's a hoe!"

...the last three questions are not worth answering... =/

miki94 · Answer

1) No they aren't. Recently most guys are becoming quite cowardly and we do most of the work.

2) You never heard a girl being compared to a dead fish? Trust me... We have to move to be called good in bed.

3) And a guy doesn't have to work if I support him. =/ Your point?

4) Not all of us are bitches you know. And I met many guys who did that to me.

5) So can the guy. But guys don't do that because of the double standard, now do they? You're saying girls "get away with it"? They should be punished? Mocked?

6) I hate buying shoes. I hate shopping altogether. I take care of my looks but I don't enjoy superficial and brainless entertainment like buying 300 pairs of shoes. Generalization.

7) I don't do that either. Same goes for most of my friends. Stereotypes and generalization again.

8) And you always cum, we don't. Poor guys. xD (life's just not fair)

Anonymous · Answer

This is why its so hard being female by the way this is only part of it

Boys are stronger than girls?

PUH-LEASE

Can you bleed for a week and survive?

Can you squeeze 14 inch baby from a 9 centimeter hole?

Can you carry a 7 pound baby in your stomach for 9 months?

Can you take care of a child, cook, clean, and talk on the phone atonce?

Can you carry 10 8 pound shopping bags?

Can you go a week only eating salad?

Can you face heartbreak?

Can you watch the love of your life be with someone else?

Can you burn your forehead with a straightener and not complain

whitewolf · Answer

wow really, you can't seriously believe what your saying, are you that narrow minded or are you asking this stupid question just  for laughs or something, if you are being serious stop bitching about it, wether your a guy or a girl you'll have your share of the ups and the downs that come with it.

rosanna85 · Answer

One more point, to the question asker: If this is truly how you feel about all women, then you must feel this way about your mother, your sister(s) (if you have any), aunts, cousins, friends, co-workers, teachers, etc. Just keep this in mind, if your argument is that ALL women are like this, your including your own mother. If you're as passionate in these beliefs as you appear to be, then you shouldn't have a hard time sharing them with the women in your life. I'd be interested to hear what your mom thinks.

Alynaresque · Answer

Well... We have the same problems as you, but I can vouch for the period thing.. It hurts like a b*tch, but why must you yell at everyone for no reason? Also.. I know more guys with the described reputation than women. And if you can't find a good chick, maybe you should stop looking at the bar. ;) This is my short and sweet thing because if I get into it with the  sex and with he shoes (I HATE SHOES) I could rant on this for  couple hours. But yeah, I've met women like the above described and MY GOD I wanted to slap them with a shovel.

lucyskala · Answer

you say "So this is in no way from any personal and/or emotional experience. This was a question based off something I OVERHEARD. I am not insecure, or anything like that. It was a question again I asked from what I listened to." but if you were in any way secure and comfortable about and with women, you wouldn't need to ask this question. It's like you're trying to say to us "I don't want one anyway, they have cooties" but with more words. the little boys that were rejected said that sh*t, don't kid yourself you know what happened.

nobleziba · Answer

since when is it about harder? more miserable? who gives a damn about that nonsense. men and women are different. women are made to handle the "hardships" that women face. we are made to handle "male hardships." it's not a competition. you want to think about people who have it bad? don't look at men vs. women. look at the soldiers who come home daily and are maimed. look at the millions of starving children in America (not to mention around the world). look at innocent civilians shunted around by power-hungry factions in civil war-ravaged nations.

i am perfectly aware that you just wanted to generate a reaction (sadly you weren't man enough to put your name to it "mr. anonymous user).

Vesaria · Answer

I'd have to say in an A-political tense that women stress themselves to death to be beautiful and appear appropriate in a social setting - You are a man and don't have to deal with having to "look good" exactly - men have the neat social ideal of being somewhat gruff in appearance.

If as you say, women just lay there and take it, which "some" do. Then we must also agree that "some" men take advantage of that fact.

Remember that a woman is more sectretive about her pleasure points and that it is both of your faults for not having the trust to explore and understand this points so that both of you go to sleep feeling great.

littlered · Answer

hm... I don't think one sex has it easier than the other. both have their problems. for example... I never feel like I can make the first move... it's torturous! I have to wait around waiting, and waiting, and WAITING on you boys to make up your mind. that, and most of your statements are untrue. I have never had a guy that wanted me to just lay there while he sexed me up. guys can use the drunk excuse too. I have WAY bigger problems than deciding which shoes to buy... you've got us all wrong.

ridiculousness.

Kasady · Answer

Wow.This isn't even a question, just an idiotic and p*ssed off response from a bad experience. It is not easy by any means being a girl. You have to look a certain way, and when you dont, your ridiculed and pushed aside. Your period really is bad. You get cramps and bleed profusely from your vagina. Id like to see you handle that. Plus you have no control over your emotions. Its like being diabetic, unlike just being an ass because you didn't get it in bed. You don't fit into any of your clothes because your bloated, so you feel ugly, unatractive and just crappy about yourselt. Your constantly getting pressured to give it up, whether or not you are in the mood. No guy really wants to know what you think, just if he can get it from you. Those are just a few things that come to mind. Don't think that that is all. I'm not saying it would be easier to be a guy, but the grass is always greener.

Kiste91 · Answer

1) not every girl gets that treatment, I for one only had two, one was a drunk friend and the other was my fiancé

2) I'm a big girl, and sometimes I do lay back and take it, but most of the time, and for most of us women, we can be on top

3) I work because I'm independent and I really don't like it when my fiancé buys me something

4) sometimes you guys play mind games too, remember those days in elementary when you all played with our hearts by picking on us and never had a clue we liked you but you liked us and showed it by making our lives hell

5)i only go home with my friends, if guys, most of them are gay-so I'm fine

6)i hate shoes...i go barefoot most of the time, and my biggest problem is "how am I going to pay for the next semester of college"

7)it's a hormonal roller coaster...and it's worse if they're pregnant

and hey, women are magical creatures:

we get wet with out water

we make boneless meat hard

and we can bleed for seven days for every month without dying!

mcb2010 · Answer

That's a loud of bullish*t! you actually think that all a girl has to do is look good to get a guys attention...guys only want 1 thing from a girl and that is sex...it doesn't matter if they look good or bad...and as soon as they get what they want it's on to the next one...and try squeezing a BABY out of that penis of yours...does that sound "easy" to you...all men do is eat, sleep, work, and football...while they expect women to cater to their every need...

katiej · Answer

women squeeze you damn men outta our vags! next time you pop a watermelon through your whole lemme know. lmfao. also we had to wait to vote. we had to wait to go to schoo. and we are still waiting to have an equal workplace. you men are giving the upper hand. women work for it. I think we deserve a little slack. so if some of us wanna sleep around and get bank from our rich ass husbands then all the power to us.  because its you dumbass men who don't c wuts going on rit on your own d*** ;D

razhadalax · Answer

It's not a secret that women can get laid MUCH easier than men. This is due to several factors, but the biggest two are that guys tend to have lower standards, and that society punishes women who let their sexuality free to a much greater degree than it does to men (if it does it at all so long as it's consensual).

The issue of consent is an interesting inversion whereby male rapists are treated much more harshly than female rapists, with many people even believing that there can be no such thing as a woman raping a man.

So sure it's easy being a female in the area of finding sex. It's an important area of life, but there's other things out there for both men and women to occupy themselves with.

girllovesquestions · Answer

This is stereotyping.
No matter ur gender, u are able to do what u like etc.
Not all are the same, everyone is different,
And, if I should be stereotyping like u are, I'd say all men are inconsiderate hooligans,
But that's not men are the same, you do get extremely nice gentlemen, and the same goes for women.
I don't believe you should be a certain way just because most of ur gender acts that way, I do what I want, be myself and if others (no matter ur gender) doesn't like who I am, tough luck, because an original is better than a copy.
Just remember not all women are drama queens, or selfish.

Hexxus · Answer

I see nothing but whining in your post. You are blaming women for your sexual frustration. Both sexes have their pros and cons. Women do in fact have men throwing themselves at them on a regular basis, but a small percent of these men are both high quality people and compatible with them. They choose incorrectly they can end up heartbroken, with STDs or as a single parent or worse.

Most women will never get to know the thrill of the chase. The adrenalin rush of seeing an adorable girl and approaching her to start a conversation. They don't get to choose who approaches them. We get to choose who we approach.

Womens attractiveness is primarily based on her looks which she does not have a lot of control over and even if she is good looking, her looks will fade in time. Guys on the other hand are primarily based on personality traits which even if he does not have, he can learn and develop over time.

Coffinspire · Answer

Uhm, not doing anything while having sex, is f***ing boring. Our head games usually have a purpose, like, if we feel like sh*t, you're gonna be there right along with us if you don't know how to handle it. If we go home with anyone we want, we're sluts, but guys can do it and get a pat on the back. Our periods make us so irritable that we finally have the nerve to yell at everyone, because we have cramps which makes us feel like our organs are being pulled on.

Pussy has power? You better believe it, until you're in a relationship for years and you have to beg for sex from your guy. Yeah, it happens like that.

RedheadGoddess · Answer

lmao the girls that just lye in bed and let the guy do all the work must have boring sex lives, a lot of girls like to spice it up in bed just as much as guys do. We get a period monthly that also comes with mind numbing cramps and make us feel like sh*t. When a guy gets the girl pregnant we're the ones who have to carrying around a baby in our stomach for 9 months, get fat and then push it out of our vagina's. And girls aren't the only ones who play mind games, guys are hard to read as well as girls.

Living-the-ADvenTURe · Answer

I'm not at all like that. But my ex boyfriend was lots of those things, he was really mean to me, manipulative, mind games, bitchy, crazy jealous (funny cause I don't party or drink or sleep around I'm not that type of girl, yet he's that type of guy and HE was the one jealous of ME? He would read all my text messages and hack into my Facebook and read my messages and delete all my guy friend, while he had LOTS of girls on his phone and Facebook etc), he was crazy and I am not. Most guys that I truly like and think "wow, he is so amazing he shines" are the ones who never notice me...they only notice the mean girls who manipulate and don't care about anyone but themselves. The good people should try dating each other for once, somehow this is much easier said than done. And I love to make my guy happy so your wrong, not all girls are so lucky as you say, it really depends on the person.

madiocre · Answer

1) You don't get to choose which guys "throw " themselves at you.

2) sure if you only plan on doing it once most men won't take a lazy bed partner.

3) You probably will work and be given more child responsibilities, or just be a full time mother which is work anyway.

4)Most of that stuff is not on purpose. the emotions and expectations... its all stuff most of us would trade if given the choice.

5)Guys who do that don;t even have to give an excuse except... "I'm a guy"

6)...most women actually work/ study

7)It's really annoying that evertime you have a bad day people think it's pms. Also I wpuld prefer to be happy rathe are then yelling at people.

8)lol maybe not always. I admit I like the idea of being able to do that but honestly I'm usually hornier then my b/f...

Nijababe99 · Answer

GRRRRRR...you really know how to get under a girls skin ;P well let me shed a few facts on the "real" life of a girl ...cough cough first off we have periods and I'm sure you know what that ,means ..next we have 2 worry about you boys asking us out lol and ondering if you really like us or are just waitintg for another chick/girl 2 come along...and then we have 2 worry about our appearance because mosttimes a girl has one part of insecurity in her ..so think about it does it sound like a girls life is allt hat perefct ...

Arwens-Fire · Answer

This is more of a Rant,than an actual question I think. It's full of anger,which means you're full of anger and negativity towards women.Im assuming you have been burned multiple times,hurt badly and now you are alone. It's important that you heal yourself,or you will continue to attract the same negativity. You are speaking as though you don't care about women,and you are speaking as though women are the lesser being,but that's just your defense mechanism coming into play. If you hate women so much,maybe you should consider your own gender.Seriously. Or maybe you should try and get some therapy.Seriously. God only knows how you feel about your mother. I hope you take the time to better yourself because life is too much of a gift to be so BITTER.

cutie_18 · Answer

wow do you ever have that wrong! it's not easy lookin that damn good, not easy to get a man to pay your way it doesn't feel the greatest knowing your makin sh*t so you try to be great in bed! and so you know PUTTING up with a mans sh*t shouldn't be a full time job but guess what? most of the time it is. also I wanna see any man push an 8 pound baby outta his penis that's only dialated 10 little cm... when you can do all of those things then you can bitch and even join the wonderful woman hood and by rights have every damn door opened for you,PERIOD!

bkgodsmack · Answer

i have to say, I've always thought women have a lot things easier, over men, when it comes to relationships. They can get sex so much easier, they don't have to get it up, they don't have to do any work if they don't want. Guys are easily impressed which girls need to realize, the girl does not have to be 100% perfect believe it or not, I don't care if you have one stretch mark on your stomach.. get over it. Haha. When it comes to other things in life, I will side with the women that for the most part girls have it harder...

azurite · Answer

1) guys don't throw themselves at me...dont know which planet you come from! only time that's ever happened is at a club where theyre so p*ssed they can't see who's male/female

2) in reference to missionary position: you ever tried moving with a penis inside of you? and then there's also cowgirl + other positions where girl is on top...

3) sexist d***

4) you need to stop "throwing yourself" at the idiot girls and go to one who's human

5) if we do that, were called sluts, while you are the studs. how is this fair?

6) same as #4...not all females are like that...seriously...what world are you in?

7) ever tried bleeding constantly for 7 days? it fkn hurts!

8) again like #4...just stop being a douche and find a girl you like, you have just as many rights as we do so suck it up, be a man, and tell her to get on top!

acubed25 · Answer

This probably p*ssed off a lot of girls but sadly this is true for a good percentage of women. Broad generalizations and all you targeted a specific kind of woman and those kind of women p*ss me the f*** off. Yea some women act like that and have it like that but they make real women sick. Real women can appreciate a good man, don't take advantage of their looks everyday all day, put work into sex becuase they want to actually get off, care about more than when the next great sale is, can hold a decent conversation without hurting themselves, knows about more than reality shows and soap operas such as politics, religion, world happenings, etc. Real women don't use their period as an excuse to be evil bitches from hell or use their vag to be a tyrant in bed.

Chicks like those three make it hard for good women to be taken seriously.

Anonymous · Answer

...Do you have any idea of what our "monthly friends" are like? It feels like someone punched their fist inside our pelvis, grabbed our intestines and started twisting them around - and you wonder why we're moody?! Not to mention our hormones are out of whack...I'll cry uncontrollably for no reason. Girls get a LOT of s*** if we sleep with guys...A...LOT...Meanwhile the guy gets praised. As for the sex comments - I have the same libido as my man, we've dated around a year, I think I've declined him ONCE. As for the shoes - Most of mine are Converse...I rarely buy new shoes and if I do, it's usually because I need them for something. Like one time I bought some nice flats because I was graduating and didn't have anything but Converse...I'm not saying being a woman doesn't have its advantages, but men have many advantages, too.

Anonymous · Answer

Dude are you freaking serious. Women do have some things easy (such as in dating) but you've taken it too far. I mean women don't have to work at all in sex, that's a joke, and would also make sex terrible (I don't know about you, but I wouldn't want my woman to just lie there, I'd want her to be active). Also not all women get approached. Some women are shy and nervous just like guys, and confident guys won't like that.  Also, the reason you are a bachelor is because you are a douche who thinks women should bow to your every need. It's two way street pal. Women don't want wimps and winers like you, but they also don't want dominating d***s. Honestly women and men have  different issues. It is not easier for one or the other. Also, have you forgotten that women earn less money than men or that they don't get as good of jobs? probably not since your head is so far up yer butt.

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