Being a female?

Question

I mean, what do you really have to do? 1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you **HAHA, the ones that throw themselves are the ones that we don't want to.

2) You can just lay there and take the penis,

**believe me, you would notice if we just layed there

3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you.

**same goes for men.

4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds.

**1,not all of us, AND SO. DO. MEN.

5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse.

**other girls judge for that, hence 'shame' also SO CAN MEN

6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale.

**really? do you worry about the pill? about bleeding a week every month? about if you're going to have enough money?

7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything...

**How about "I'm playing a video game you can't talk to me now"

8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer...

**Hey, we have the same sex drive and suffer just as much, we just have to pay attention to how WE CAN GET PREGNANT.

There's a lot of early 30's bachelors out there... wonder why?

** I'd be happy to hang out with some of them. I like men that are grown and experienced.

Mizbee93 · Accepted Answer

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Dude.. seriously?

*sigh* Here we go again.

Girls go through just as much sh*t as guys just different sh*t.

Although I do sympathize with guys who have to make the first move to approach women, women have their own social stigmas to deal with; more so because unlike guys, girl's 'girlfriends' for the most part enjoy seeing their friend make a social faux pas. It allows them to feel better about themselves whilst pointing out to their friend and others said friends inadequacies.

No need to work huh? and what about independence? personal gratification? our own familial pressures? You think all women want to be stuck at home making nothing of themselves? Having to justify their every move and purchase to their husband? Not really; Women worked hard for independence and equality. Some of us actually respect and rely on that.

Not all girls freak out when they have their period. Guys just love bitching about that because it makes them feel justified to bitch about their lives and girlfriends. Most girls I know don't even want their boyfriends to know when their on their period. It's an uncomfortable topic. Meanwhile.. feeling like someone's grating the inside of your womb with a cheese grater whilst your trying your trying to manage your upchuck reflex isn't exactly fun or a walk in the park either.

And no, we don't always have guys throwing themselves at us; wish they would really. That'd be nice for a change instead of having to figure out if the guy staring at me is actually gonna pick up the b***s to talk to me.

Girls play mind games yes, but there's a reason they had to learn the game. We all play mind games. It's not even a game really. It's manipulation. That's it. You try to manipulate a situation and outcome as best you can so you don't get hurt. Everyone does it, that's life, you'll kinda have to move on from it.

Since when can women go home with whoever they want? Have you no idea what the female social circle is like? lmao. Try the "I was drunk" excuse and someone will turn it into "She's a drunken whore, omg did you see her shorts.. such a slut..." So no. Not really. No matter how people say they don't judge, more than likely they do and then when she gets a reputation for being easy? Guys never have to worry about that sh*t in the first place so I don't even see why it was relevant.

Uhmm daily problems? How about paying our bills? Constantly trying to avoid stupid friend spats that hit you in the face with seemingly no origin? Getting good enough grades on the five college courses your taking to get a scholarship whilst still maintaining your diet, four time a week gym outings, seemingly infinite extra credit assignments, family obligations, healthy social life and sanity? Last thing on my mind right now is shoes sweetie.

As for "power of p**s*". You give women that power. Stop being so dependent on sex and women won;t have it. Seriously? Are women supposed to jump every time you say sexy time?

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Dude.. seriously?

lucy_fur · Accepted Answer

1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you - not all girls, some guys have girls throwing themselves at them, it's not exclusive to sex. Besides, that guy might have thrown himself at 20 other girls beforehand.

2) You can just lay there and take the penis, do no work, and no one is ever going to say you're bad - I've head guys complain about guys doing this, so it's not true. besides, it's possible for a woman to enjoy sex, therefore not just lying there and taking it.

3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you. - If you want to be utterly dependant and the guy is willing to do that, then there you go. But what if the woman is sick? she's broke a leg, had a nervous breakdown, etc etc...? same goes for a man. If you're in a relationship, you support each other.

4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds. - hahaha guys are prone to mind games too I assure you

5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse. - so if a woman who looks like the elephant man walks into a bar she could pull anyone? the same sentence would apply to a man who looked like, say, johnny depp. It's not sex exclusive, it's good looks exclusive.

6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale. - maybe a few women are like that. but certainly not the majority. Its a sweeping generalisation.

7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything... - you try having one every month. sorry, but that's what hormones' do to you. it's biology, hormones make you emotional. If men had them, you'd be exactly the same. TRUST ME

8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer... Man it must be nice being a female. - Bollocks. Most women I have met have had a guy be rough with them, or rape them. besides which, sex is different for a female, you are basically sticking something into her. It is more intrusive for a female, so to let her "call the shots"... would be fair enough, surely? It can hurt for women.

I think I am going to ask God to make me one in my next life. Except I'll probably be normal and actually want a real relationship without games or drama - You do that. one period and you'll be a psycho bitch. or maybe you'll be a woman in a country where you are stoned to death for infedelity, but the men aren't (middle east). maybe you'll be a woman in a country where gang raping women is the next big thing (south africa, mexico), or where your feet are bound and deformed because it's beautiful to men (china) or where you're neck is stretched by rings, to the point that without them your neck would break, because the men in your culture like it (the east) Or maybe you'll be a woman in America or Britain, where you'll earn on average, 30% less than men doing the same job.

I love being a woman, but don't think its easy!

oOsweet~o~nessOo · Accepted Answer

Wow, these are some pretty interesting observations, but they seem more steryotypical than truthful.

1.)We don't have guys throwing themselves at us. We have to work to get their attention, competeing with hundreds of other gorgeous women.

2.) I don't know what type of boring girls you slept with but I for one, do not jus "take the penis" Riding the penis is fun, sucking it is fun, getting into all those steamy ass awkward positions is fun; descent non-boring women work just as hard as men in sex.

3.)Okay dude, it's the 20th century. WOMEN WORK. Re read that till it sinks in. And they aren't petty boutique jobs, construction, law, hard labor, etc...some women are stay at homes mom but usually the guy lets them. Some dudes love being the sole providers for the family so your guyses fault lol

4.) I can't argue with this one lol Except, not all women, wait nevermind, we're all guilty.

5.) This one was odd because girls get called sluts for doing stuff like this. Guys can plow any chick they want from a bar, completely sober, and not even need an excuse. So this makes no sense.

6.) There are some too rich for their own good women who do struggle with this, but the rest of us have real sh*t to worry about like bills, kids, work, you.(notice how we don't worry about our selves, self sacrafice.)

7.) lol let me clear this up; Periods aren't that bad. Pop some painkillers, keep your tamps nearby and your good. The issue is, our hormones are fluctuating unpredictably. One moment we could be blissfully happy, the next a raging bitch. But your right, we should never take it out on our guy lovers.

8.) Um but in # 2, you said we just lay there? Anyway, damn right we do. If you guys get to twist and turn us how you please, we get to turn and twist you too. Sex isn't one sided, intamacy should be shared between both partners. Its a task of give and get, get and give.

Finalization: Whatever women you've encountered do not represent much of the general women population. Being a women is just as challenging as being a man. Each has their own expectations and challenges.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm going to rant right here and I don't care what you think of me, I don't care if it sounds annoying, because obviously I don't give a **** what all of you think of me. This is a complaint because the way I see it, the way I view the dating and relationship world, scene, is that girls have it way easier than us guys, and nobody can change my opinion, aside from the fact that us guys have to initiate everything, these are the main reasons why I think girls have it easier. Girls just have to look good, be hot, born cute, be pretty, that's all, nothing else, zero, nada, zip. A girl can have no life, have a negative attitude, have no confidence, have low self-esteem, not value herself, have little or no friends, be a boring person, have no passion for anything, have no goals and no ambition or drive be stupid, retarded, bratty, whine and mope around all the time, etc. Like I said, a girl just has to be hot and cute, pretty, that's all, nothing else literally. Overall, a girl can be negative everything but if she is at least very hot, good-looking, us guys will still accept her, still consider her girlfriend material. Like when us guys see a very hot girl, well mainly me, I am like "who cares about her personality? I like her already" However for us guys, what I hate and despise is that it always comes down to our social skills and conversation skills that determines our success with the ladies. In order for us guys to be "boyfriend material", we have to walk right, sit right, stand right, talk right, think right, breathe right, have the right attitude, the right mentality, the right way of thinking, the right mindset, have a leadership-type attitude, have a passion for something, be interesting, have hobbies and passions for things, we have to say the right things, it always comes down to the words and sentences that come out of our mouth that determine our success with the ladies. We have to have high status, or just high social status, have a life, have an occupation, etc. That's what I really hate about life in general, in order for us guys to be boyfriend or relationship material, we have to have a good attitude, a positive attitude, or just overall comes down to the type of attitude we have, our way of thinking, mentality, our social skills, conversation skills, having our sh*t together, being involved with something or just having a life, be a productive person, see ourselves as an object of power, we have to walk right, stand right, sit right, talk right, think right, breathe a certain way, we have to have dreams and ambition, have a passion for something, we have to be extremely content with ourself and content, have high social status, be a fun or interesting person with a lot of hobbies and the list goes on and on. Because it is way easier to attract people with your looks and body, than it is with your social skills, attitude, mentality, confidence, because Confidence is a Mental thing.

Biggus_Dickus · Accepted Answer

hey don't worry about the women, it's those damn sloths that have it so easy. Look at them, lying around in their trees, only leaving to go to toilet.

selfishstars · Answer

So you're deciding that because you overheard three psycho girls talking, they must represent the entire female population?

1. A lot of girls DON'T have guys throwing themselves at them. If these girls have guys throwing at themselves, then I see that as something wrong with guys. Why would a guy put up with girls that act this way? It just reinforces their "bad" behaviour. Pretty much all the guys I've dated, I pursued---not the other way around.

2. Again, why would someone have sex with someone who just laid there? If I had sex with someone like that, I would either have a conversation with them about how they need to involve themselves more, or I wouldn't have sex with them. Personally, I think "just laying there" would make sex boring. I like to get into it as much as possible.

3. Why would someone tolerate a partner who refused to work? Or tell them, "It's okay if you want to be a sloth and not contribute to our household?" Again, not something I would ever tolerate from a partner and I'm not sure why anyone else would either. I work very hard---I work shift work (12 hour shifts) and contribute equally to our finances. Not just because I believe in equality in relationships, but frankly, I couldn't stand being lazy and dependent.

4. I hate game-playing and drama, and I refuse to be involved in it. I speak my mind. If I'm interested in someone, I tell them. I believe in good communication in a relationship. If I have an issue, I talk to my partner about it and we work it out. If I sense someone else is playing games, I immediately lose interest.

5. Most girls don't feel this way. They avoid casual sex like the plague because, while for guys it's often seen as a relatively positive thing (at least amongst themselves), girls will get labelled a slut by men and women alike. That said, I am pretty open about having sex---I have sex because I want to and I don't really care how other people might judge me. I've never regretted having sex and I've never had sex, or acted like the reason I had sex, was because I was drunk.

6. Ughh, how much I wish this one were true. Unfortunately, women face just as many problems as men do in life.

7. I've never used my period as an excuse to be a bitch. It's a minor annoyance, but it doesn't give me crazy mood swings or anything, nor do I feel like "woe is me", because pretty much every other woman in the world goes through it too. I'm a nice person, and even if I'm feeling sh*tty, I don't believe in taking it out on other people.

8. I have never used sex as reward, nor have I withheld it as a punishment. I see sex as a shared experience, not as something that one person gives and the other person should feel lucky that they're receiving. And yeah, sometimes I don't feel up to it and I guess you could say that in that sense, I'm "controlling" our sex life---but here's the thing, sometimes guys don't feel up to it too. They aren't everready--they feel tired or sick or in a mood that's

Rosula · Answer

You shouldn't label all girls as having it easy because of a single conversation you overheard.

I'm not going to say guys don't have some tough spots or that we are more hard done by than men. That only causes arguments that turn sour and immature. I'll just list a few things girls have to go through:

1) Period. Yes, you said that, but a man seriously can't understand how horrible it actually is. Unless they've had piles - you can look that up. Just the other day at work, my stomach pains were so intolerable. They shot up my back and I couldn't stand up straight. Sucked.

2) We have to worry about getting pregnant. That's not to say that guys don't have to worry about a girl they've slept with getting pregnant or anything, but it really is a difficult nine months that we have to endure. That or a huge hiding from our parents and being gossiped about and called a slut, or if you're sixteen or around that age and pregnant, you're guaranteed to receive some horrible stares from people.

3) Housewives and mums work 24/7 and nowadays, many have full time jobs because guys generally don't bring enough to the table, so females need to work as well as looking after the kids. My sister works full time and my brother-in-law finds it easier working full time out of the home than working full time with the kid. I'm not saying that men are useless for not earning enough; but nowadays living costs are just far more expensive than they used to be.

Life seems so much more complicated nowadays for us all. Guys and girls.

Those are a few things us girls have to go through nowadays. Trust me, there are a lot of things. Some of these things guys also have to endure, but we both have different things we must cope with. I'd say more, but I'm in a rush. The mother is nagging me. Urgh.

PS. Sorry the last few paragraphs are maybe a bit iffy. Lost concentration when my eighteen month old needed to be babysat and my sister and her friend came in and started to annoy me. Lol. No, that's not supposed to be in effect to my answer. XD

hkygirl · Answer

i personally think the feminists responses would be funny to read, I can't stand feminists but whatever that's just me, so I'm going to look for those in a sec. but all I'll say is it was smart to mark this anonymous because you'd probably get a sh*tload of emails from a bunch of p*ssed off girls and have you ever said to someone, "you can't understand someone until you've walked a mile in their shoes" lol not all girls are the same sweetheart.  for the record, home girl that was saying, "i can take any guy home with me" is a come sponge. she says that as though that's something to be proud of? yea, a guy goes home with her then leaves her before dawn to go home to his wife, thanks but I'll sit that sh*t storm out then she can actually sit around and brag about it drunk at a bar? oh how classy of her : | as for her friend, "married with children?"really? I guess it's better than desperate housewives right?:\ it'll suck to be her when her husband gets in a car accident and she has no f***ing clue what to do with herself because he left her out of his will or didn't tell her he owed ___ money. girls nowadays, they just can't think for themselves. HOWEVER, not ALL of us are like. I hear of girls where their boyfriends are criticizing their physical attitributes which in turn makes them insecure, guys cheating making us feel like we're not doing something right, etc. I will admit I looove some shoes but it's BECAUSE I love shoes so much that I stay out of the shoe stores and window shop online occasionally;) if I went to a shoe store and bought all the shoes I wanted to I'd go bankrupt.i almost never shop. if I'm at the mall it's for a reason.yes there are girls that are manipulators but not all girls are. all girls are bitches but not all are manipulators. just to set ya straight;) see, you're doing EXACTLY what guys hate that women do. a lot of women will say "guys are assholes etc" as a generalization but it's not true. most guys are but every one of us is different. it just so happened the girls that were standing next to you, one was a prostitute and the other a doorknob.;) in my opinion any chick who marries a guy to get by or for money ISSS a prostitute..it's the same thing. you're having sex for something in return. if that's the pool of women you get to pick from I'd go to a different waterpark XD

Anonymous · Answer

LMAO your just asking for a flame war.

1. Woman get to choose who to be with while men have to fight each other, Work hard our entire lives to just get a decent job to be able to have a decent woman.

2. We have to pay for dates, gifts and become their slaves. If we don't there is always another eager man ready to get with your woman.

3. the Father use to have to pay for the wedding, but Now WE do. After we spend a few grand on a ring another grand on food and a few more on the wedding we then have to pay for the honeymoon. And after all this we Still have to sign a contract that binds everything we own to her. So when she gets bored she can leave and take everything we own. And if you try to make a fair agreement, she won't marry you unless she gets YOUR stuff.

4. After you have her, She can sit around and do nothing. She gets knocked up to fufil her own selfish reasons and for the next 9 months you have to work and take care of her every need. And after that she spends the whole next year playing mommy while you work to support her and the child for the rest of your life. And if she gets tired of you she leaves, takes half of everything you own And makes you pay for the child.

5. If she cheats on you and you divorce her she gets to go off with her new man while your single. But if you cheat on her she leaves, takes your stuff and hooks up with whomever she's been flirting with all those years.

6. She goes to the bar and gets free drinks. Hooks up with whoever she wants like you said.

7. the biggest choices she makes during the day is what she's going to wear and what to spend your money on.

8. men have to work hard for a decent job. While woman have them offered to her. Even when she knows nothing about the product next to a pro she will still be hired first.

9. She can break your heart and ruin your views of woman for the rest of your life. Cheat on you, Steal and lie and within the next day is in a new relationship and somehow turn it around that your the bad guy.

10. Complain that men are mean and selfish yet she's been taught to only care about herself her entire life while we are taught to always look after her.

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Anonymous · Answer

1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you

kinda of. half the time, its creepy guys.

2) You can just lay there and take the penis, do no work, and no one is ever going to say you're bad

not true. my ex use to tease me and called me a rag doll because I didn't know what to do. we are pressured to be the best to our potential.

3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you.

a lot girls yes. me, no. I'm independant and I can't even stand a boyfriend buying me presents. my ex wouldn't let me work for fear id meet someone else.

4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds

a lof of girls, yes. me, no. id rather play the game called, "get me off"

. 5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse.

again, a lot of girls, yes. me, no. alc is never an excuse, they are just guilty and don't want to admit that they did it to themselves by getting drunk and horny.

6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale.

same as above. I have one pair of high heels and the rest are pretty much flip flops and cleats lol a couple pairs of boots. id rather have my bills paid than another pair of feet killers.

7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything...

not always true. when I feel cranky I stay away from people or I get over myself and think before I say stuff. mind over body. a lot of girls use it as an excuse to be a bitch.

8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer

again, not always true. sex is a give and take activity. id rather watch you orgasim than suffer.

not all girls are like the average stereotype. the good ones are out there, just gotta look!

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Anonymous · Answer

WELL ONE THING THAT WOMEN HAVE TO GO THROUGH THAT MEN DONT IS CHILDBIRTH!  HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO HAVE AN 8 POUND HUMAN BEING RIPPED FROM YOUR LOINS AS THEY PASS THROUGH THE ONE AND ONLY VAGINA YOU HAVE CAUSING YOUR BODY TO GO THROUGH COUNTLESS PHYSICAL CHANGES (WHICH CAN BRING YOU CLOSER TO DEATH THAN YOU EVEN KNOW) AND THEN AFTER ITS BORN YOU TAKE WEEKS TO FULLY RECOVER AND GAIN YOUR SEX DRIVE BACK WHILE DIETING TO LOSE THE BABY FAT YOUVE GAINED AND USING COCOA BUTTER TO RID THE STRETCH MARKS YOU GOT WHILE CARRYING SUCH A HEAVY LOAD FOR SEVERAL MONTHS... THEN THERES THE ACTUAL PARENTING PROCESS... AT ANY GIVEN TIME THE HUSBAND/BOYFRIEND/BABY DADY ETC COULD LEAVE IF HE DAMN WELL PLEASES AND BE CALLED NOTHING BUT THE AVERAGE MAN, BUT IF A WOMAN WERE TO LEAVE HER CHILDREN SHE MUST BE THE WORST MOTHER ON THE FACE OF THE UNIVERSE. WE BLEED FROM OUR VAGINAS EVERY MONTH FOR ABOUT A WEEK (SOME BLEED WHENEVER THEIR VAGINAS DAMN WELL FEEL LIKE IT) WHICH IS HORRIBLE WHEN YOU WANNA WEAR WHITE OR FEEL SEXY FOR A NICE EVENING OUT... LETS NOT EVEN GET ON CRAMPS... WE ALSO HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THE FACT THAT WOMEN ARE NOT EQUAL TO MEN. MOST JOBS THAT OFFER AMAZING PAY AND AUTHORITY ARE GOING TO BE GIVEN TO MEN, NOT WOMEN... THINK ABOUT IT, IF OBAMA AND HILLARY CLINTON WERE JUST AS QUALIFIED AS EACH OTHER AND THE ONLY THING THAT SEPARATED THEM WAS THE FACT THAT OBAMA IS A BLACK MAN AND HILLARY IS A WHITE WOMAN, OBAMA WOULD HAVE STILL WON BECAUSE AMERICA WOULD RATHER LET A BLACK ***MAN*** WIN THAN A WHITE ***WOMAN***... ON ANOTHER NOTE, YOU AND I COULD BE DOING TO SAME JOB AT THE EXACT SAME SKILL LEVEL AND I WOULD LIKELY MAKE LESS THAN YOU. FOR EVERY DOLLAR A MAN MAKES, A WOMAN *COULD* MAKE 75CENTS... THATS ALL I FEEL LIKE WRITING TONIGHT... MY FINGERS ARE CRAMPING... OH ONE MORE THING! IF I WERE TO TYPE "DO YOU HAVE A BIG DICK? IF SO, CAN I RIDE IT?" I WOULD SEEM LIKE A COMPLETE WHORE, BUT IF YOU WERE TO TYPE "HOW WET ARE YOU RIGHT NOW, I WANNA F*** YOU!" YOURE JUST THE AVERAGE GUY... DOUBLE STANDARD LIKE A BITCH!

ALovelyLullaby · Answer

Well, not all women are like that, although a large majority of us are.

1. Guys are not ALWAYS throwing themselves at every woman on the planet. Take into account the money, time, and effort women put into looking "good," regardless of whether they need to or not to get your attention. Women do a lot of things in order to catch your eye. And, yes, it is unfair because sometimes we do it just to get a rise out of you without holding true to anything implied. But again, that's not ALL women.

2. Women who purposely tell men their bad in bed are wrong to do so. Fact is, a lot of women get better stimulation by themselves and not with a partner. So, all in all, it wouldn't be your "fault" if her pleasure was at a minimum. Secondly, I don't think it's appropriate for a women to be inactive during sex. Since she does not have the same amount of pressure as a man usually does, she should do what she can to increase his libido. Keep in mind that's just my opinion.

3. Not true. Plenty of women have higher-paying jobs in their relationship than men. But mostly the pay is the same and women really don't mind working. Especially since we're still trying to get rid of that "women-should-be-in-the-kitchen" way of thinking.

4. Yes, we play "sick head games," but not just for attention. It's proven that most women have self-esteem issues and that makes us think about all the what-if's, how-come's and why's. What if he only wants me for sex? How come he isn't answering my phone call? Why does he like me, I'm not anything special? But these games come after we're in a relationship with someone. Men are the ones who (sometimes subconsciously) drive girls crazy prior to the beginning of a relationship.

5. That's ridiculous. Men could use the same excuse, but they don't need to. Getting laid is an accomplishment among men, right? If a women were to tell her friends she got "major tail last night," it wouldn't have the same affect. Therefore, we make excuses. Besides, not everyone believes a person when they say that anyways.

6. Now this one is definitely offensive. Women face just as many daily problems as any man does. It's completely sexist to think otherwise.

7. See, this is where you're referring to only a group of women. Not every chick is going to bite your head off for every little detail because she's on her period. And a lot of women really do try not to. Imagine if someone put an elastic tie around your junk for 5 days and see how nice you are.

8. True, we sometimes call the shots. Not true that we like seeing you suffer. I admit, it is fun sometimes to make you guys wait it out, but sadism isn't in the genetic code of every woman. Also, you've got to keep in mind the fact that women don't have the same chemically-induced sex-drive.

I hope your views of women lighten up a little bit. If not, you might end up giving up on women altogether. Hahaha. ;D

hesaysim2sexy · Answer

bwahahahahaahahhahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahaahah

hell yeah it feels good to be a woman... for so many reasons:

1. we can conceive and give birth

2. beautiful curves

3. we are independent still submissive in some ways

4. we can take pain more than men (give birth, monthly period)

5. we do take control in sex too and we don't just lay there duh but that doesn't make me a whore or a slut

6. men can't resist a woman

7. we can throw ourselves at a man but its the man's loss if he doesn't take it.lol

8. we don't get tired doing a marathon in shopping for shoes and clothes all day long

9. we can get away with crime (proven fact: petty or major)

10. we can drive like a woman should lol

11. we can put make up on and smell so good, you get a hard on when we pass by

12. we have the power to just bat our eyelashes and you fall for it

13. we can cry over petty things and make men feel bad.

14. men are charged rape if they force us to open our legs. so yeah you are right WE ARE POWERFUL.

15. without women, MONEY means nothing. :)

etc I can take all day

alexis7 · Answer

actually, I completely disagree. being a woman is very difficult. I find myself struggling for any level of respect from men. I feel like men are always sizing us up, determining whether we are "hott" or not, and if we don't live up to their physical standards, we are dismissed. you don't care if we are good people, all you care about is getting laid as often as possible, then bragging about it to your friends. you don't see us as equals, and you never will. HOW DO YOU THINK THAT MAKES US FEEL?

ive never cheated or lied to a guy in my whole life. I would never had a one night stand. I am a good person and I care a lot about other people, but does that matter at all? no. because I have been used and cheated on by every guy I ever loved and trusted. they move on to the next girl they wanna screw, and I am always left in the dust.

so basically, how would you feel if you knew that the opposite sex looked at you as a walking come dumpster and nothing else? and if you never had your period, then stfu, because it really does mess with your emotions and hormones.

MEN ONLY WANT TO GET LAID, AND THAT IS IT. YOU ARE ALL LIARS AND CHEATERS AND PLAY JUST AS MANY GAMES AS WOMEN. YOU CAN SLEEP WITH WHOEVER YOU WANT, SAY WHATEVER YOU WANT, AND HURT WHOEVER YOU WANT, AND YOU WILL STILL GET RESPECT. SO SCREWWWWWW YOU.

GiselleGazt · Answer

Hey now. Many women say the same thing for men. I don't. I think it's quite difficult on both ends. I'm not going to say "oh it's so easy being a man" because there's no way for me to possibly know that. Not all women do the negative things you say. There are many sweet genuine girls out there just dying to be loved and the only chick that gets noticed is the stupid slut in the corner who's everything you just painted today's woman to be. It's not easy being female at all when you have so many girls like that populating the earth and wasting all the oxygen. AND THEN THE JUDGING. A man isn't judged as much as a woman is. And everything is about competition too. We don't live in a world where everywhere we go the ratio of guy to girl is equal. Not only do we have to compete for the guy, we have to compete when we HAVE the guy. And there's always some stupid bitch judging you. Saying crap about you that isn't remotely true because she's jealous or because she has some stick up her ass that gives her license to hate you for no reason at all. Because you have cute hair or nice legs, or some dude she's interested in looked at you when you don't even know the guy exists.

Another thing. I understand that women hurt men just as much as men hurt women, but really? I'm sixteen years old, and I had my first kiss last month. So that "you have guys throwing themselves at you" is total bullsh*t. Nobody ever notices me and I consider myself to be pretty attractive, talented, flirty, smart, confident, everything that the ideal "teenage dream" is and yet I can never get a guy to notice me? Why is that? I've had my heart shattered so many times by stupid guy after stupid guy and it got me no where except a road to depression and high anxiety. I was so incredibly lonely and I would cry myself to sleep most nights. Eventually I just stopped giving a damn. And then I met this guy and things are much better and easier now and I finally found my type. But honestly, don't dare try and say that life is easy as a woman because you have no f***ing idea how much it hurts. What you're saying is the most preposterous thing I have ever imagined I'd read. Oh and that "love to make us suffer" thing just makes me laugh out loud especially because men do some stupid sh*t and can be extremely heartless and inconsiderate without even caring.

You want to have a girlfriend? Open up your mind, and stop being a know-it-all douche. Every girl is individual. Don't treat everyone like the standard bimbo with huge t*ts and an IQ of 13

anskygirl · Answer

i hate to be that typical hysterical female, but *are you f***ing kidding me?!?!*

let's take this point by point, shall we?

1) really? not all of us do, first of all. also, plenty of guys have chicks throwing ourselves at them too, they just don't often notice. I think what you mean is 'boy, it must be great to be a fantastically hot woman!'

2) mmm, perhaps I'll give you this round, at least as far as intercourse is concerned, though I will say that my guy friends have several times approached me to ask me to tell their girlfriends to try something new-- maybe an unusual occurrence, I don't know, but there it is. however, let's think about oral and manual sex: guys DEFINITELY comment on who's good or bad at those, it's okay, be honest!

3) do you think it's easy for women who DO work to come to terms with being paid less than their male counterparts for the same jobs? reallllly? also, in the current economic climate, there has been a decided increase in double-breadwinner households, and it is also much more difficult for women to raise families as single parents because of the wage-gap.

4) yeah, yeah, women are crazy, cruel bitches, this one's never going to be settled, so let's move along acknowledging that I recognize there are a LOT of valid points to back this up, but asking that you consider that men often seem as inscrutable to many of us as we do to you.

5) oh please, so can anyone of either gender if they're attractive/confident enough, and plenty of guys have certainly used 'i was drunk' to explain away an ugly girl in the morning or a whale-hunting expedition.

6) wowwww, someone really burned you, huh? that must suck, but really, don't claim this post wasn't based on something personal when you make a cheap snipe like this aimed at my ENTIRE gender. Please.

7) true, some women are dumb, selfish bitches about their periods. just be aware that there IS actually a biological reason for women to have mood swings and harsh reactions during our periods; but for each one who feels herself licensed to overreact to everything for a few days just because of her period, know that there are about three others out there who go out of our ways to control ourselves and not inconvenience you. we know we can be bitches-- doesn't mean we all want to be.

...also, menstrual cramps hurt like all hell, so give us a bit of credit for dealing with a ton of pain and discomfort every month, plus the joy of anticipating that pain.

8) eh, I'll give you this one, but I will also add that guys get a lot more pleasure a lot more easily than most of us can, and actually a lot of what feels great to you is incredibly uncomfortable--even painful-- to us. it's not about making you suffer, it's about NOT putting up with a bit of suffering ourselves. you don't like it? too bad, and don't blame me and mine for 'problems' caused by your own sex drive.

i've tried to be as reasonable as possible here, but you really just sound like a bitter little child. get over yourself.

kelseyyy · Answer

Men don't menstruate.

Men don't give birth.

Men typically make more money than a woman for doing the same job.

Men can pee outdoors with ease.

Men aren't scrutinized for having a bit of a belly.

Men are given high-fives for sleeping around.

Men don't have to worry about every little hair on their body.

Men can open pickle jars with little effort.

Men can be president. Even black men.

Men can sit comfortably with their legs apart.

Men can talk to someone without having them oggle their chest.

Men can burp and fart and talk about poop.

Men can rent a $75 tux while their prom date buys a $400 dress.

Men needn't worry about grey hairs.

Men don't have to wait fifteen minutes to use a public restroom.

Men are praised for being kind, while it should be something that is expected of everyone.

Men don't have to worry about planning their wedding.

Men can spend less than $10 on three pairs of underwear.

Men don't have to wear skin tight jeans and worry that everyone can see their cameltoe.

Men don't have to wear heels.

Men can be fat and still land an attractive woman if they have the right personality.

Men don't get screwed over by their mechanics.

Men get bachelor parties with hookers and blow. Women get bridal showers.

Men's fashion rarely changes, so they needn't worry about looking hip.

Hm, so yeah. It's pretty difficult being a guy I guess.

missymoo · Answer

1. they are usually guys with some sort of psychological disorder, I would never accept. 2. Usually if a woman is 'just laying there' it means she wants it to end NOW! 3. Yea maybe in the 1800's. 4. And guys play some sick games too, its called saying you like us, getting sex, leaving, then ignoring us. 5. We're still the sluts, while guys are studs or players. 6. All people have problems, its not gender specific. 7. No, we're going to yell at you for being d*** heads, some one has to tell you what your doing wrong, and clearly your mother never did ;) 8. I have to agree. I personally think its great being a girl :)

But I'll give you some sympathy out of the kindness of my heart.

nawwww, you have it tough. You poor thing. wow, your life is hard.

-.-

Maybe just one thought, you get to use the internet, you get to eat everyday, you probably have a job, or are studying. Your luckier than half the f***ing world, so stop whinging about shallow sh*t like "aww women get laid whenever they want, why I might actually have to use my hands or pay someone to do it', who cares? Nobody! That's how the world works. Complaining about it isn't going to change anything, so carry on with your little pity party while I go off and find a man to yell at, pay my bills for me, and have sex with ONLY when I say I want too. Goodday! :)

Louise123 · Answer

Why, Dude.. Sounds like you got some issues!  We don't ALL lay there and let YOU do all the work. Believe it or not.. SOME women like sex...  As for a guy taking care of us..  Some of us DO have integrity and self respect. We make our OWN way?    I don't take guys to bars and use them for drinks..  Honey, if all this stuff is being done to YOU, it's because YOU are allowing it! You are choosing the WRONG women!  You want a real relationship? Well.. I suggest YOU change your attitude.. If you are a victim - ti's because YOU are setting yourself up.  Nobody is trying to make you suffer!  What a horrible opinion you have of women! Try this..  Pick a girl you like..  BECOME FRIENDS WITH HER and do not think of her as a potential DATE/RELATIONSHIP right off the bat.  Once you have established some trust/honesty/kindness/respect between you.. the rest follows. Stop buying randoms drinks.  Don't climb into bed with someone you hardly know.  If you are being used - it's because YOU are asking for it..  Find out why you are showing so much disrespect to YOURSELF that is then being tossed onto the girl you are interested in. MAN, you don't even give her a chance with that miserable perspective!  STOP NOW or you are doomed to fail with every single girl you meet.  They will not like you or your miserable attitude..  You think you can hide it? You can't.  WORK ON YOU..  If you don't love you - THEY won't love you either!  You can have a relationship without drama and games..  But you better pick that girl a little more wisely next time and do NOT assume that ALL WOMEN ARE OUT TO GET YOU! They aren't..  Believe it or not..  there are NICE girls out there who want a NICE GUY.  Act like one.  Hugz.

GoodManDave · Answer

"5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse."

Yeah, but I would think in a lot of circles, you'd be labeled a "slut." which I figured out is one of the worst things you can apparently be labeled. - Sadly, that's changing in this society; and it's like "player" - it's becoming considered a positive.

There's pregnancy scares if you're not careful.

As a woman, 3-4 days a month, you get crampy and bloated, and you bleed. You have to REALLY be careful about WHEN you have sex if you don't want to get pregnant.

For us guys, there's hardly ever a line for the bathroom.

There's a LOT of stuff women wear. Now, partially, that's society and women make part of that choice... (more to buy!) but really? all the underwear stuff? Really? I wouldn't want to have to wear all those layers and snaps and pulls (etc) to have to go.

You have to shave the legs, underarms, shave the face (if you need it), bleach the lip hair, tweeze the brows, curl the eyelashes; wear fake eyebrows, constantly make sure the nails are good, etc.

With the guys, for the most part, we can choose to grow facial hair, or not, shave the unibrow (dear god, please do it if you don't), keep our fingernails OK (or if we're going barefoot, keep our toenails trim); and try to watch the zits. The only guys who have to shave all over are swimmers.

There are great aspects of being a man. And great aspects of being a woman. And there are great things about even the "bad" aspects of both.

kirstentaylorc · Answer

HAHA that was the biggest load of sh*t I have ever read.

1 - guys don't always throw themselves at you and they like to play sick mind games as well, or hey have a few girls on the side that none of them know about.

2 - If a girl just lays there, trust me, a guy knows and will say if she's sh*tty in bed (i've heard guys tell me about certain girls and how they suck and just lay there)

3 - Why would a girl not want to work? I've been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years, I've had a job for the past 4 years and he's the one off and on with jobs. We both have our moments of paying for each other. Plus if a girl is just dating a guy to be supported, that's called mooching, better yet gold digger.

4 - Don't act like guys don't play the same head games - guys are known to be players and yes, some girls as well.

5 - It's not like a guy doesn't go home from a bar with whomever he wants.

6 - Not true.

7 - Not every girl yells and even if it is their period it's not a very good excuse to be a super bitch, although it does happen occasionally.

8 - LOL when my boyfriend wants it, it's not always up to me. Plus, guys like to bitch and moan when they don't get what they want, or they just go and get it from somewhere else.

If you're so anti-girl, go gay and stop complaining :)

Anonymous · Answer

ok seriously? no sex is better than the other, its just narrow thinking and culture that has fine tuned our minds into believing so, the only differences between men and women is how they portray themselves, and the only physical differences between men and women, is that men are stronger, and view things in a focused manner, while carrying better resilience, I.E. resistance to pain from injury, and adverse whether conditions. While women hold a better focus, view things more on a wide view scale, rather than focused, and are more flexible. so dude, men and women are only as different as you make them out to be, people cause mind games, and people are the ones who use others, not a specific sex, and men women can do sh*t men do as well... like cheating... so we are all in the same boat. P.S. Feminists are OK, it depends on how radical there views are, there are feminists... and there are crazy ass feminazi's who try to get back at men or get more rights than the average person. to all of you who fit into the nazi category... move to the center of the earth! you are actually making some of the narrow minded men more narrow minded by forcing them into a corner!

eldamien · Answer

Hey, I'm going to let you in on a little secret.

Ready?

Most women don't base their entire lives around "how easy it is" to "get penis".

Most women can even go an entire day without thinking about sex. I know, shocking for an unevolved guy like you to conceptualize, but it's the God's honest truth. I can't tell if you're being serious because of the line "the only daily problem is to make sure you can buy both pairs of shoes that are on sale".

There's six billion people on the planet. Billion. With a B. And yet, somehow, because you met a few girls that fit your stereotypical worldview, you can talk about how ALL girls are ALL THE TIME.

Get a grip. The reason you're going to be a bachelor well into your 30s is because no stable, self-respecting woman would want to be with a guy who has such "unique" insights on how women operate.

Now, I'm not a feminist or whatever. I love being a guy. Love it, love it, love it. But I do realize women have problems to deal with just like men do. They have unrealistic expectations placed on them just like we do.

Basically this isn't even a question, it's just a rant on how women have mistreated you. Woops, did I let your cat out of the bag?

Virago · Answer

to be honest with you, being a girl is as easy as being a guy... conclusion it's not easy for both!

1- boys are always throwing themselves at that cute slutty blond girl, so what do "normal" girls do in their lives? stay single forever?

2- you know how many guys, during sex, care only for their pleasure, they don't take in consideration that a girl has feeling, likes to be pleasured, I mean we get an orgasm too... and oh how many times a girl fakes her orgasm just to fulfill your egoistic pleasures!

3- first of all, nothing is more irritating than having your husband tell you "I don't want you to work, I want to you to stay home"... I feel that a woman should have the liberty to choose that. also, you try to do the housework by yourself all the time, cook, take care of the kids.. etc

4- just like guys don't understand girls, girls don't fully understand guys also... few things are way too complicated to be understood unless you are actually living it.

5- and then, get pregnant, don't know who's the father, suffer for 9 months alone...

6- To be honest with you, I like shoes, but don't care to buy 2 pairs every and each day... sorry dude, but those kind of girls are very shallow and materialist.. we're not all like that..

but we do suffer from harassment on the streets, in the office.. we worry about people not seeing but our boobs and ass (especially by employers)... and so many more...

7- yeah, having a period is so much fun, you worry about what you're gonna wear, where you sit, and let us not forget the pain... oh how we love the pain!

8- I donno about you, but sex isn't everything for us... we have brains, you know that thing inside your head.. maybe you recognize it?! we usually use that more

Miss_All_Time_Low · Answer

So ... you heard three women discussing how "easy" they have it.

Mate, I heard dozens of guys discussing how girls are worthless, shallow and how they are just looking for one to take to bed for the night by saying nice things, then ditch her in the morning.

Men and women aren't that different. We're still all humans, you realise. There are self-absorbed, shallow jerks and genuine people looking for a serious relationships in both groups.

Girls have it easier in some ways, then a lot tougher than guys in others.

Look at both sides of the story before you go agreeing with all stereotypes. Even if we had it easier, is this something you should keep ranting about on sites like this? Does it help you personally? Because I must say, I see this question every second day and I'm getting a bit fed up. Especially because it isn't true.

I can get started on how we can never truly be ourselves, have to make ourselves look wonderful, beautiful and agreeable every day (because personality rarely comes first), can't be too determined or have our own sense of self-worth or most boys will deem us "manly", are more emotional and usually completely break when somebody we truly loved left us, always have to wonder if a guy is with us because he likes us for us, or just wants to sleep with us, then disappear, etc. Plus, relationships mean everything to most girls. For guys, it is just a part of life and if it fails ... oh well. Next.

Personally, I'd like to be a guy in the next life. =P

I'd love to see how it is to have the final say about everything. You pick the girl you like, you ask HER out and if at any point she does something wrong, I can just leave and find some other gullible girl.

Here's a generalisation - boys are so one-sided. They only see one side of the coin and they're prepared to die for it. Silly, as each is made of TWO sides.

jujujings · Answer

Your post is funny I always thought I was more male than female and this proves it.

1.)Guys throw themselves at me because I am funny, attractive and nice please don't criticize guys for taking a chance on someone.

2.)I've never met anyone in a bar becaue I'm not a bar hang out type of person.I've never just layed there and maybe for the safety of some I should have.

3.) I worked full time since the age of 18 and I have retirement accounts to support myself when I am old.

4.) I am too articulate and really should cut back on the amount of words I use everyday .

5.)I've never had a one night stand because I like good sex and have to have feelings for a person.

6.) Truthfully I own 10 pairs of shoes and three of them I have had since my college days. I'm not into possessions because you can't take it with you.

7.) when I get my period I don't yell but get horny. Therefore, yelling is not going to get my man in the mood.

8.) I will admit that my p**** has a lot of power and does call the shots. :) However, I've never ever had one experience I didn't enjoy and no suffering was involved.

You need to meet women in some new places. Perhaps, try your local community volunteer organizations. There really are women of depth and substance and I hope you find her. Good luck.

bebeinthelol · Answer

Where are you from?! I gotta move there if the girls have it that easy! Cause where I'm from its only the creepy guys who throw themselves at girls, any girl who just laid there during sex would be blacklisted as a boring bang, I have always supported my boyfriends except my current one who splits things equally (first time yaay!), guys play the same games (once had a guy who was supposed to be a f-buddy tell me he loves me run out of the house and tell me the next day he has a new girlfriend < < whaaat!?), girls here can't use "I'm drunk" as an excuse they get labeled slut fo life, I have a million priorities over shoes,my boyfriend has more than me, when I get my period the cramps are so bad, all I can do is curl up on the couch, I don't have the strength to yell at anyone. Please tell me where this heaven for women is where we can shop for shoes all day on the dime of a man who will sit and take it while we bitch about our bloody chachas.

Everyone has sh*tty deals, its not a woman vs man thing, or a rich vs poor thing, or a thin vs fat thing.There's 7 billion people on earth, everyones different, some guys are d***s, some girls are bitches, tis life, tis rhubarb!

Paramore_fan · Answer

oh dude you are WAAAAAAAY off. I give a comment for every number and tell you if your right or wrong:

1) of course we don't have guys throwing themselves at us. guys like to see skin or at least some tight jeans, but if a girls has some dignity she wouldn't show all that much skin and wouldn't wear tight jeans all the time. besides with all those sluts out there nowadays, not many guys would want to look at normal girls with - again I say- DIGNITY

2) actually they are gonna say we're bad because if we just lay there and do nothing they are gonna thing we aren't interested and leave.

3) that is true, but only to a certain extent. some girls actually have dreams and they want to achieve them. not all of us are lazyasses that want to just eat, drink, sleep, have sex, go shopping etc...

4) we don't expect guys to read our minds we give you signals and you don't catch them, not our problem. learn to read you woman better

5) nobody should be able to use that as an excuse, and if it is used and the guy accepted it, the girl is a botch and the guy is an idiot. a real girl won't use that if she intentionally cheated, but then again if the girl intentionally then she is whore

6) that one is ONLY true is 3 is also true. but if she has goals she will be worrying about studying or work or kids or things like that. some of us also have emotional trouble from YOU GUYS.

7) ITS CALLED PMS! and with the period well.. id like to stand you in the stomach let you bleed there and make you walk around like nothing is wrong. and when you can't control your hormones

and jump a girl or something, dont. be cause us shouting at you then is the same except the hormones are different

8) we want sex just as much as you do but yeah, at least for me, its true. I like to see a guy suffer sometimes, but you have to keep in mind that I have a very complicated and twisted personality sometimes so yeah...

snaves04 · Answer

1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you

kinda of. half the time, its creepy guys.

2) You can just lay there and take the penis, do no work, and no one is ever going to say you're bad

not true. my ex use to tease me and called me a rag doll because I didn't know what to do. we are pressured to be the best to our potential.

3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you.

a lot girls yes. me, no. I'm independant and I can't even stand a boyfriend buying me presents. my ex wouldn't let me work for fear id meet someone else.

4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds

a lof of girls, yes. me, no. id rather play the game called, "get me off"

. 5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse.

again, a lot of girls, yes. me, no. alc is never an excuse, they are just guilty and don't want to admit that they did it to themselves by getting drunk and horny.

6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale.

same as above. I have one pair of high heels and the rest are pretty much flip flops and cleats lol a couple pairs of boots. id rather have my bills paid than another pair of feet killers.

7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything...

not always true. when I feel cranky I stay away from people or I get over myself and think before I say stuff. mind over body. a lot of girls use it as an excuse to be a bitch.

8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer

again, not always true. sex is a give and take activity. id rather watch you orgasim than suffer.

not all girls are like the average stereotype. the good ones are out there, just gotta look!

SectumSemprae · Answer

You're hilarious.

1) Women throw themselves at me too. B*tch.

2) Hah - the only way a guy can get inside me is if I lube him up first. Oh yeah, and acquire a few stray pubic hairs for my voodoo dolls. Isn't he happy my tongue cleans so well? XD Better than Windex.

3) Why wouldn't my guy want me working? I thought smacking the waitress's butt was supposed to be a guy's dream?

4) I don't expect a guy to read my mind - he'd need a friggen' dictionary to understand what I'm thinking. ...Plus I'm too busy implanting images of "Got Milk" jockstraps in *his* head. :D

5) Why the f*ck would you wanna get drunk? If it was good sex, I'd wanna remember that sh*t. And I don't walk; I saunter. Yes, even "in shame". :)

6) Damnit, it's not the shoes or the sale, it's actually trying to walk and look pretty at the same time! Heels friggen' hurt, man!

7) I have my period ...yeah, you're right, I *am* gonna yell at you for everything. Unless you get me that chocolate moose tracks ice cream. NOW.

8) If I called the shots in bed, he'd never leave it.

Face it: men are lazy, butt-smacking, sneaker-wearing (god, I'm envious already!), drunk as hell, hot-and-cold, "independent" cologne wearers. God gave me one of those men to settle down with and spend the rest of my life popping out his babies, cooking his dinner, washing his socks, opening his beer, seducing him in bed, and making him smile. :) And God help me, I love him. With all my heart.

Anonymous · Answer

hmmmm

YOU don't have to have a baby

YOU don't have to worry about periods

YOU don't have to worry about makeup every day

YOU don't have to worry about doing your hair every fxcking day

YOU don't have to worry about being judged 24/7

YOU don't have to worry about sh**- guys are so much more picky and judgmental than girls are. girls will go out with an ugly guy if he's nice but guys don't do the same thing.

YOU don't have to worry about your body so much, guys generally can eat whatever and not get fat

YOU don't have to worry about being treated like crap because you are a female, people act like we're inferior to men.

YOU don't have to deal with guys using you raping you beating you and don't say that doesn't happen because it sure as hell does a lot more than you admit

YOU don't have to worry about the fact that 90% of guys are sick, fxcked up douchebags who care about nothing except getting joy out of treating you like junk, using you for sex, and being controlling.

basically

what do GUYS have to worry about?

oh yeah that's right- "getting a boner unexpectedly" that's your life problem.

it's no competition, I'm sure many many girls will say the same thing.

zeitgeist057 · Answer

I think maybe you're thinking of hot chicks. I might be a little picky but when I go to a bar, I usually don't see a girl I want to take home. Most of them are kind of gross, smoke cigarettes, or just not very attractive. If they ARE hot, they are usually doing unattractive things like using their physical attractiveness to mooch drinks, acting stupid/stuck up to impress their friends or the most annoying thing ever: flirting with some guy they brought to the bar with them! :P So I'm disagreeing with #1 and #5 offhand.

#6, #3 - seriously? You don't think women have work, school, social interactions, fights with parents, friends, lovers, appointments...everything men have basically. You must be thinking of hot, kept women. Yeah, I agree, those are the worst.

#2 - Okay, but how many times has a woman told you that YOU were bad? I think people are pretty gentle with each others' egos when it comes to bedroom performance.

#4, #7, #8 - these are poor behaviors and there is one cure, my friend. Let those ones go and wait for your perfect princess to come along. Hopefully you are developing yourself into an amazing man, because there is going to be some heavy competition for her!

Seriously, I don't think it is that easy being a girl. I wouldn't want to be one. They also have to deal with crazy hormones, less opportunities, more dangers (like being raped) and weaker bodies with which to handle dangers or just get by in life. I don't think of women as inferior, I think they have a lot of strengths and good qualities too, I just know that there are a lot of benefits, especially in my society, on my planet, to being a man.

ladylex930 · Answer

you have to be kidding me right? men have it easy. all you are expect to do in life is have a job get married and have kids. women on the other hand have to work, run a household, bare children, raise those children, take care of their man, plan family and child friendly functions, f*** their man on the regular, deal with monthly periods that come with cramps. and to the best of their abilities maintain a sexy body so her man won't leave her. so please don't tell me that its easy being a woman. yes t*ts get us a lot of things only cause you men will do damn near anything to have a big cheated pretty girl f*** you. why do men buy women drinks at the club? not cause they are being nice  because they hope they will get laid. why do men spend lots of money on women? not cause they have excess money but cause they hope to get laid. its easy being a man...all you care about is yourself being a woman means caring about eveyone else and when all that is done trying to care for yourself which half the time goes undone.

KarlaTimes · Answer

Hahaha first of all, I'm not feminist at all. I feel like these women that you are talking about are stuck-up bitches to tell you the truth. Haha

(1)Guys throwing themselves at us? Not always. And if they do all they want is sex. They don't want anything to do with you beyond sex. So whose being played? The girl is. The guy seems to have more say in if they actually want a relationship or not. Who calls the shots most of the time? A guy does, him making that first text me to see if he is interested or not, or maybe just finding out your a booty call.

(3)i can't speak for all girls but seeing that I am studying to be an engineer I know I will be working and supporting myself and not always relying on him.

(4)Expecting guys to read our minds? how about us trying to read a guys mind? It goes both ways.

(5) Okay well I can agree that some of us girls do use the excuse of "but I was drunk" but so do guys.

(6) Haha that's if your high maintenance. Not all girls are this way. Yeah okay more so then guys will ever be but then again those are the ones that rely on "daddy" to do everything for them. Also known as a spoiled brat.

(7) PMS is an excuse and bullsh*t. Ha blunt but true. For the majority of us girls bitchiness is just cause we've had cramps all day and its been hurting. now using that bitchiness and taking your anger out on someone else and blaming your period on it is an excuse and has more to do with your personality.

(8) Calling shots in bed, sure. Making you guys suffer, sorry we don't put out easily and we having feelings unlike so guys. To most guys its just getting ass.

dalila · Answer

As If anything for girls were easy You are tripping...

To be a guy is so much easier And I Tell You why

1) You Don't have to look good to be wanted by the opposite sex as girls do care more about Thr guys personality

2) You don't have to wax, as If we Don't well it just Don't look good

3)You can and should make a move on the opposite sex, that gives You control, doesn't matter If girls can do that to but guys are most likely take You for granted

4)nobody will know If You are a virgin

5) You will never get to worry about celullite, fat or whatever

6)You Don't have a period and Hey Its painfull

7)You won't spend your money on bras and tampons

8)If You are single nobody cares as a girl we have to hear: single how come? Hey hurry no one will want a girl over 30

9)If there is An. Important ocasion like a wedding You just get a different tie,we have to have different outfits...

10)we have develop feelings for other people easily and that make us get hurt much more

11) If a girl just want sex, She will be treated like a whore as guys well most people will say Its normal he is a guy That's genetics

So there is a lot more on your side, Its easy to be a guy Its so easy that I wouldn't want to be one because Its way to boring and simple

Anonymous · Answer

1) "guys always throwing themselves at you". O RLY? This is news to me.

4) Yay, broad generalization! And like guys don't play mind games...

5) Surely you're kidding...? Women are judged way more harshly than men for having sex. If they do, they're called a "slut" (particularly if they're taking home some random guy from a bar), but guys basically get only praise for having sex. The fact that it is called the "walk of shame" and that they even feel they need an "excuse" for having had sex says a lot. Besides, both genders use the "I was drunk" line.

6) Don't even want to dignify that with an argument. Honestly?

7) Another generalization. I don't do that, and neither do most girls that I know, at least. Yeah, PMS and hormones exist, but a lot of times they are wayyy exaggerated (mostly by guys...or girls using it as an excuse to be cranky, haha). I think a lot of women are discouraged from expressing their real feelings for fear of being labelled a "bitch" or overly emotional, when a guy would get little judgement for the same thing.

No need to judge an entire gender based on 3 probably vapid random women you "overheard".

I don't think either gender has it "easier" than the other.

DonMichelle · Answer

Your seeing the good points from your view!

1) They don't always necassarily want lads throwing themselves at them, they've gone out to enjoy themselves/get some attention (nothing wrong with that) not have drunken lads pestering them

2) A girl who's just happy to lie there and take it, enjoy the man's labour won't mind when he cums prematurely?!?!?! (Am I correct girls? ;) ? let the truth be spoken! hahaha)

3) You've been watching too much of the Simpson's/Walton's... The more common scenario is a woman gets pregnant, man was either never interested in a relationship, gets bored of the relatioship, isn't suitable to be a father or just isn't keen on the idea of 'family life'. The woman is then FORCED into being housewife, bread winner, full time carer... Be thankfull you have the d***, not the womb

4) It's very annoying and I understand fully what you mean BUT think from thier prospective... Your dealing with people that think with thier d***s and are driven by sex, if you can tame them with mind games then do it. Could be seen as protecting yourself OR just getting one over on a sex hungry lad :) hahaha

5) That girl who use's the 'i was drunk excuse' isn't excused, she's branded a whore and becomes a target every time she's drunk!

6) Massively exaggerated, they love shoes (why?) but I'm sure bigger concerns/issues play on thier mind

7) Not got a clue what period pains are like but I've seen so many girls cry through the pain... they're obviously wanting sympathy?!?! Think yourself lucky you don't bleed every month

8) Again it's annoying but a woman isn't fueled by testosterone, her sex drive isn't as strong as yours. On the occasions she denies you, pleasure yourself by the side of her and then come on her pillow :) hahahaha

malakai · Answer

i think were even. guys have their share of disadvantages, and so do girls.

guys have to worry about fitting in, and having big enough muscles, and big enoug d***s, and the most badass cars, and the prettiest girlfriends, and the best grades, and listening to us girls yell at them whenever we do, they have heartbreaks and love loss, and when were preggo they have to listen to our hormonal rntings lol, and they have to work hard to support us and their kid, and being socially accepted.

us girls have to worry about fitting in also, having the best hair, the most expensive purse, the prettiest clothes, the hottest boyfriends, the best body, the most attention, the most money, pain of the first sex/virginloss experience, getting preggo, having a big baby coming out of a tiny hole, satisfying our guys, keeping our guys from cheating,taking care of a baby, and bleeding and cramps for a week every month.

so basically girls and guys have an equal amount of disadvantages, so its irrational to say that one gender has it easier.

Arianti · Answer

1) we also have guys we want to through ourselves to but can't because they don't give a damn or the may think that the lose their 'role' if we do the move etc.

2) my boyfriend wants me to move! a lot. so I don't just lay there. and 50% of men surely want their women to move too sometimes. it's a turn on for men! my boyfriend told me not to just lay there. and I don't like just laying there

3) of course we have to work! if we leave that guy or that guy suddenly leave us what will we do? and we want to be independent inall ways. very few women just lay on their man's money. it's embarrasing!

4) women with low self confidence do that because they can't express their feelings in other ways. that's a problem, not sth cool

5) no one would believe us and smart women know that and that's why not all women do or say that. they just say 'i'm single so that doesn't make me a slut and I'm not ashamed of it'

6) I insist. not all women's problem. we have other things to think to. things about our job, studies, man, family, friends etc. this problem you said is a problem for shopping maniacs, that is a 20-30% of women

7) I have my period, so I can't have sex and I'm a little more sensitive. don't yell at me for being mentally sensitive so I won't yell back. it's the hormones, not me. doctors and phycologists say that, not us

8) power of the pussy: MEN LOVE IT and that's why we call the shots in bed and if we don't want it you yourselves make you suffer(because you love it)

infernoFLWR · Answer

1. yeah they do but only the old creepy ones

2. "wtf, she just lies there and I have to do all the "work"" - heard that first hand from the guy - that qualifies as bitching

3. if you got across some gold-digging types, don't take it out on the rest of the population, besides I was told numerous times that "woman's place is in the kitchen " :P something about your gender to feel more masculine

4. yeah you are right , some do do that , but there are guys who are even better at ninja-ing brain

5. isn't that universal excuse ?... but then again I'll give you that one :)

6. wow really ?! so I can stop worrying about how to get that money for my mom's operation and my brother's school ? AWESOME!

7. cramps and bleeding for a week isn't fun - wanna get laid the other days of the month ? deal

8. ah, yet again they want us to call the shots in bed ... where are all the manly man went ? the ones you can relax with and they'll at least take care of the bedroom ? sigh... anyone ? ... anyone ?... alright def not here ...

it's been fun :)

btw finding a good guy is even less likely, that's breaking news just for you

llcoolj · Answer

If its so damn easy to be a woman go get a sex change.

But then you wouldn't have to deal with periods once a month, with cramps, bloating, breakouts, etc the whole 9 yards.

Oh and have fun figuring out make-up and shaving you legs, arms, pits

dont forget to wax... p**** eyebrows etc.

oh and don't forget, keep your figure but don't get too skinny you will be aneorexic and make sure you tan but don't turn orange, oh and make sure you wear the goggles in the tanning bed or you will have huge dark circles around you eyes

dont forget to keep you hair color up.

and don't forget you need to get your nails done once a week thatll be 10-15 each time and that's only for a mani ... a pedi will be more like 25... oh and maybe you want long nails so you get acrillics once a month thatll be 40 each time

dont forget going to the gyno... don't worry its only the worst thing in the world only you have to go if you want birth control... don't worry the only make you put your in sturrips(basically feet rests in straddle position) and then use a unique instrument-- the speculum. The speculum consists of two hinged blades of concave metal or plastic which are used to retract the tissues of the vagina and permit examination of the cervix, the lower part of the uterus located within the upper portion of the vagina

Oh and we have so many double standards... if boys get too drunk its funny hahaha 'boys will be boys' but if girls do its f***ing sloppy as f***... oh and if a girl f***s too many guys she's a skank but if a guy does then he's the man... etc.

ILoveCefalu · Answer

1. Only pretty/ sexy/ beautiful girls have guys throwing themselves at them. The average looking women do not have this option normally. And even then even the beautiful people aren't always beautiful, and guys could be too shy to approach them. So no, women are not always having guys through themselves at them.

2. Girls can be bad at sex. Missionary is not the only sexual position. And sex is a give and take physical aspect of a relationship. If a woman just lay there, it'd be like necrophilia.

3. In this economy, very few people can stay at home all day and not work. Besides that, most people want to work because they find fulfillment in their productivity. It's understandable that one parent, usually the female, will have to give up a portion of her career to stay at home for a certain amount of time to look after a couple's young children, but after that, it's expected that the partner goes back to work.

4. Only immature girls play games. The rest don't find them fun and find that the attention isn't worth it.

5. So can guys. Besides, the people who would do that are, like in point 5, immature.

6. Our daily problems very from circumstance to circumstance, but I'm pretty sure that most to do lists of women include working, budgeting household affairs, looking after children, taking care of the homestead, not what sale is on a pair of shoes. Your comment is sexist.

7. PMS and PMSD are real medical symptoms. However, very few women actually have the disorders. Most women do not get bitchy around their period. And if they do, there's always Midol.

8. Men of Power of the Penis. And the only reason why some women take advantage of the power of the p**** is because some men put the p**** on a pedestal.

rosanna85 · Answer

You sad sad little man. I'm SO grateful my boyfriend isn't jaded like you. I, honestly, feel sorry for you. What a terrible impression to have of 1/2 of the population. You must be very lonely. But I'm not writing for you...I'm writing to all the women out there who haven't found a good man yet. To them, I say: Not all men are like this jerk. There ARE good ones out there who will love you for YOU. It just takes some searching. :)  There are men who will love the very things that make you a woman. The very things that this immature little boy is trying to demean and distort. So, take pride in being a woman, not because of "the power of the pussy" (which I think is a foul expression), but because there's a lot of beauty in it (i.e. being caring, compassionate, gentle, kind, concerned, soft, sweet etc.). I embrace the differences in the sexes. I love my boyfriend very much, we're very happy, and we tend to stay in our gender roles, but his ideas of the female gender role are not even close to the moron who posted this question. I'm just trying to say that there are some good ones out there, that respect and love women as they are.  Also, the biggest lesson I've learned with men is to respect yourself, and carry yourself in a way that commands respect, and no man will dare say the things to you that this person wrote in his question. And to the person who posted the question: I've been abused by a man in the past, unfortunately, but I would never generalize, like you did, and blame all men. That's pure ignorance on your part.

dsmarie · Answer

This is the BEST question I have read on girlsaskguys.com ! Hilarious !

I for one LOVE being a woman, even though it does have its inconveniences.

1) Even at 47 I do have the occasional man (usually young ones) throw themselves at me. Not a bad thing !

2) I do like "taking the penis" lmao however if a woman just lies there it is likely that she will just get to take that penis only one time...if you know what I mean. A little enthusiasm is pretty much expected. Have you seen all the questions about "blow jobs" on here? lol

3) You probably don't have to work... ROTFLMAO! wtf ! I just peed my pants! sure..right..

...anyway

4) head games? attention? read minds? ...but, of course. what else would we do for fun? boys are such fun toys !

5) I don't drink... or should I say... I don't drink anymore. hmmmm.

6) The #1 Reason I LOVE being a woman is MY SHOES ! I love my shoes.

7) No comment.

8) The power of the pussy. well... I'm a submissive., so in my bed...

Eiffelgirl21 · Answer

I just saw this..but, I am not like that at ALL.  you just have had bad luck I think...it is so hard being a woman...stay in shape, can't eat whatever I want..stay pretty...thats hard because I need to make sure I do not get any ugly pimples on my face..be tan in the summer, shave my legs and etc...ehh annoying! go shopping..hello...we need to look fresh with a new look every now and then (not that much)...find a great guy..for a great family to have one day lol...seriously its a priority of mine (I think I have one)..and I don't sleep around..women and men like that are just YUCK. no offense...i am 21 and have slept with 2 men in my whole life.  I take it serious..not something to have fun and just feel good that night...ewww..anyway yeah I could go on and on...but you get it...look at society these days..we are expected to look like swim suit models and victoria's secret models...its hard.  seriously!  Men...well men can look however they want..they do not get cellulite easily so they do not have to work their ass off in the gym!  Its hard! most men are naturally thin/slim/slender..or whatever...just my opinion..i mean no offense.

girloncue · Answer

I mean, what do you really have to do? 1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you **HAHA, the ones that throw themselves are the ones that we don't want to.

2) You can just lay there and take the penis,

**believe me, you would notice if we just layed there

3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you.

**same goes for men.

4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds.

**1,not all of us, AND SO. DO. MEN.

5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse.

**other girls judge for that, hence 'shame' also SO CAN MEN

6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale.

**really? do you worry about the pill? about bleeding a week every month? about if you're going to have enough money?

7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything...

**How about "I'm playing a video game you can't talk to me now"

8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer...

**Hey, we have the same sex drive and suffer just as much, we just have to pay attention to how WE CAN GET PREGNANT.

There's a lot of early 30's bachelors out there... wonder why?

** I'd be happy to hang out with some of them. I like men that are grown and experienced.

themastaplan · Answer

lamo at 5...its always "i was blacked out" more like cracked out bitch did you just see the video I made of you last night!? SLIZZZZIEEEEE lolol

women do have it made, if you let them control your life...my advice? be independant, use p*rn, find a girl who isn't like any of that...ESP on her period, I don't give a frick who has their period on what day...my girls don't call shots in bed, I put my "shots" on her face aka spiderman that hoe...oh and she better listen to me when I'm plowing away, she's gonna love it no matter what...if my wife doesn't work, ooooo that chick better be a dime and she better suck me and phuck me whenever I want...i actually find it attractive when women have good jobs...and TRUST me on number 3, I've called women bad in bed...DEAD FISH, HOT DOG DOWN A HALLWAY...man I was a d*** in college...but hey sh*t happens, people mature and you find that women who is right for you...

just let this slizz go...she doesn't deserve you and remember to always "TAKE HER DEEP"

lol

mnb108 · Answer

haha. WTF?

I don't lay there and take penis-if I'm having sex it's because I'm in a strong relationship with someone I really care about & I want to please him just as badly as I want to be pleased...girls aren't just p**** & you're talking about one group of girls...the ones that use their p**** to get what they want...which is sick, I agree...but don't generalize like that. lol.

I think a lot of guys have your perception about that tho-& it's sh*tty that one group of girls can ruin it for the rest of us.

BTW-I'm currently in a relationship with a guy & once I graduate college, I will be making almost 3x his salary...He NEVER has to support me, just our children (when we're married). Things should be mutual...mutual as in a team effort to hold together the relationship/support the family, etc. He should work and help take care of the kids just as I do-regardless of his income, just as long as he has one.

Do you see what I'm saying?

So, maybe for SOME girls, it is EASY-but for the rest of us...it can bre REALLY tough...try being a single mother. lol

FiresDesire529 · Answer

Girls problems:

•Every month we get to go through a week of being stabbed inside 24/7.

•If you have guy friends your instantly known as a slut/whore.

•Girls have to shave or else its considered really gross even though guys don't have to shave and they get away with it.

•Girls are absolutely viscious to each other with the jealousy, rumors, etc.

•Girls are the ones that get sexually harrassed by guys cause they think its okay and fun to take advantage of our bodies.

•Girls have crushes on a guy 24/7 and guys don't even care or notice how much they mean to us.

•Guys are usually the ones to ask the girls out so they have to wait.

•Guys don't have to worry about hair or makeup.

•If our boobs aren't big enough its a reason not to go out with us.

•WE DONT WANT TO MAKE YOU A DAMN SANDWHICH

•Girls cry all night of guys and go to school the next morning and fake a smile for days.

•Girls gotta suffer conciquences if you forget a condom.

•Can you carry 7 pound baby in your stomach for 9 months.

•Oh and I don't think you can squeeze a 14 inch baby through a 9 centimeter whole

answerthisplz · Answer

what do us girls have to initate. we have to initiate when we like a  guy we do our hair dress up and do everythign we have to throw ourselves at yu without being too weird and pushy and guys are so insecure that they can't just share thier feelings with a  girl so we have no clue when you like us so we have to give hints and do all this bullsh*t just to get your attention and don't say that guys have to ask girls out and do all the first moves because  a lot of guys most giuuys actually now  a days don't make thew first move its us girls that are waiting here that have to ask you out after waiting for you rdumbasses to try making up yourmind. yeah itas tough being a  girl for numerous reasons and I would explain it but other girls on this website all ready did thier job defending us. all you guys hav eto worry about is probabley like defending your man hood and trying to not to get beat up or somehting. buit us girls have to deal with other bitches and bastards in this world while you guy s can go and jack your selfs off and watch cat fights.

alonely · Answer

I'm sorry, sir, but unfortunately, you are mistaken. Both girls and guys have issues with being girls or guys.

1) No. We don't always have guys throwing themselves at us. I have never been on a date. Never been seriously asked out. Never been kissed. And when guys are throwing themselves at us, it's never the right guy. I have been the one to let my crush know that I liked him. They never even THOUGHT of me as anything other than a friend.

3) Yes, we still have to work. Even if we didn't, we wouldn't just be sitting at home all day watching TV.

4) Again, you are mistaken. That's what guys think. In all honesty, when we want somebody to notice us, we try to get their attention. And if we don't know what to say or do, we get just as nervous as you do.

6) Oh no you didn't. We have just as many daily problems as you do.

7) We have our periods. We're in a foul mood for a REASON. You've never gone a week bleeding before, have you? We get dehydrated, we lose iron and vitamins, we feel absolutely SICK TO OUR STOMACHS. And then cramps that are so crippling that you feel like you need to take the entire bottle of Motrin. And Tylenol. And Asprin. All at the same time. We don't want to do anything. We can't really swim, we can't do the stuff we do normally, so yes, we're in a foul mood. We get cravings and most of the time, it's stuff we're either allergic to or something that goes straight to our hips, or something we don't even like, so eating it makes us feel sicker. Take that into consideration next time you're hanging with your girlfriend and its a full moon.

And worse, it doesn't stop.

Also, guys aren't calling the shots so much any more. If we want a guys attention, we need to actually go up and TELL HIM. Which, I'm sure you know can be very nervewracking.

Sorry for the essay.

Anonymous · Answer

trust me mate you don't want to be a female, I mean yeah there are some benefits but do you really want the have womb ache and bleed for 7 days within the month, go through the pain of childbirth, have a colposcopy every bother month where they take abit from inside of your private bit to check for cancer, worry about your first time having sex and it hurts for a female first time as it brakes the hymen, even when it comes to sex not always getting the pleasure you want out of it as half the time its hard to please a woman in bed, each day worrying about your appearance so your brainwashed to put on make-up because commersalisation makes you think your ugly when your not and every so often feeling sad or crying for no reason only because your very emotional.

i mean trust me every now and then I think it can be easier being a girl because of all the other reasons but then I think of these and I'm thinking I'm much luckier in some cases being a guy, we may have a hard time getting a date or wanting to have sex but compare to woman's problems we have it easier.

eithyy · Answer

You can't make huge generalizations about an entire gender based off of three random women you overheard in a bar. Do you really think that's going to be accurate? Anyway, I expect you were just looking to start arguments and p*ss people off, which you managed to succeed at magnificently. You can't get too much crap either, since you're hiding behind that lovely anonymous mask of yours. And now, simply because I can't resist, I must try and convince you that being a woman isn't quite the simple and ridiculously easy thing you seem to think it is.

1. Really? I'm shocked. You absolutely MUST tell me where this is happening because I've never had a single guy throw himself at me in my entire life. In fact, I have quite a difficult time finding guys.

2. What's the fun if I just lay there like a dead fish? It'll be a much better time if we're BOTH into it.

3. Nope. It's a mutual effort. I wouldn't let him pay for everything. It wouldn't be fair.

4. Admittedly, some dumb ass females play head games cause they think it'll get them the guy when really all it does is get them confused and p*ssed off. I've never approved of doing that, though.

5. The fact that we have to have an excuse for having sex doesn't tell you something already? We need a really f***ing good reason for doing it otherwise we're some kind of slut or whore. If you bang a sh*tload of girls you're a stud. How is that fair?

6. And how the hell to find the time to do the massive amount of work I've got for the weekend, make it to that doctor's appointment I made, pay the rent when a paycheck doesn't come for another week...

7. I don't yell on my period. I do, however, have to take massive amounts of Ibuprofen every day for a week because if I don't I get awful headaches and cramps and I get a fever of about 102 degrees. Yeah. Periods are wonderful things. You should try it sometime.

8. Since when do we call all the shots? Guys decide what to do just as often, if not more often, in my experience.

jbomb27 · Answer

Some of us perceive it that way others don't the way this relates to me

1) Guys don't throw themselves at me unless they are wasted

2)well I don't know anything about this

3)Many women are breadwinners too, I wouldn't want to sit on my ass all day, I value independance

4) I try to avoid head games, if it seems I'm trying to play one I don't mean to.

5)You will still be a slut in my term if you do that unless you were genuinly too drunk and it was not a regular behavior, so basically if that's what really happened and you din't want to do it.

6)Shoes really, my problems are getting through university, and actually trying to find guys who like me for me.

7)Its not just an excuse, both guys and girls can have trouble controlling their behavior, it is easier to set us off at certain points in out menstual cycles, my dad pointed this out cause accroding to him I get crappy once a month.

8) I don't know how this one works, however I think that if you really don't want to do something guy or girl you have the right to say no.

LittleMissGriff · Answer

Ouch, someone's girlfriend kneed them in the balls today.

Yes, it is easy being a cheap, easy, useless woman who has no self-respect and no higher expectations in life than to pick up a guy who assumes everyone with a vagina lives to freeload.

If men don't appreciate that sort of thing, I suggest they put a bit more effort into life than being the manipulated, simple sex-driven (Because, honestly? If she just lays there and you're happy? What low standards. Obviously, he's never had a decent night of sex in his life.), sloven chauvinist and meet the standards of a real woman.

I don't accept those sorts of women as my friends, I certainly wouldn't let their sloppy seconds into my bed. If whomever was involved in this conversation you overheard didn't have the good sense to look for something better, it's his own damn fault.

It's sure easy to be miserable and blame everyone on someone else.

Maybe in my next life, I'll ask God to give me a penis, but I'd probably turn out perfectly normal and not date the cheap drunk who f***ed me in the alley.

CBearsgirl · Answer

We, under any circumstances, do not have it easy. I'll agree we have some easy things, but not all girls are superfical like the reason/options you said.

1. I hate shopping, for anything but sneakers, video games, and sport stuff.

2. I'd never play mind games. I'm straight up honest know and that ain't gonna change.

3. Some girls (like me) are independent, and would rather not depend on a guy. Thank you very much.

4. Have you ever had a period? Buy sh*t every month. Walking around feeling self consious? Cramps? I try not to yell on it, so don't cramp every girl into one group.

5. I don't wear make up, or spend hours on my hair. And personally girls drive me crazy when they talk about that sh*t. And when they were low shirts, and then complain. I f***ing hate that.

6. Who the HELL! Do you think you are? I'm not saying guys have it easy, but seriously? You're saying GIRLS have it easy?

We have to deal with guys sh*t, everyday. Guys think its awesome to sleep around while girls get called sluts. Don;t clump every girl into one group. Because you meet some bitches at a bar. Okay? You calling us superficial? You are!

emzy-89 · Answer

1. um...no we don't, girls have to work just as hard in relationship or getting into a relationship as guys.

2. yes we COULD but the guy could easily just lie there and let the girl do all the work, most guys like the dominance that comes with doing the work.

3. again, this could be reversed, I wonly know one woman who is just supported by her guys income, all the others make their own living and if they do stay at home they look after the house and the children which trust me is bloody hard work.

4. only immature girls do this.

5. that's such bullsh*t, even if the girl is drunk, she's still labeled as a slut.

6. I'm not even going to bother responding to that, I have no idea what makes you think guys have so many more decisions to make than women.

7. I think you've been watching too much tv, real women don't use their period as an excuse for being annoyed with someone.

and in response to your 'i wonder why there are so many over 30 single men' maybe it's because they're sh*theads like you. seriously get your head out of your ass and grow the f*** up.

zombie_girl_xxx · Answer

LOLOLOLOLOLOL. IGNORANCE IS HILARIOUS.

We have it easy? Really?

Reasons why we have it hard:

1) We bleed. Oh boy do we bleed. Once a month. For seven days. Out of our vaginae. If the flow is heavy enough, you'll bleed through. And hopefully not in public. Blood stains, you know.

2. The cramps we get! Do you know what it's like to have menstrual cramps, you litte f*cking b*tch? It feels like a little troll is gnawing on your ovaries. Constantly. Some cramps aren't that bad. But some women can't even f*cking walk because they're so bad. I've gotten cramps like that. One time, I even thought something was wrong with my insides.

3. Pregnancy is a bitch. Have you ever been around a pregnant woman? They've got the mood swings, the cravings, the constant need to pee. We carry the little babies inside of us. They're little leeches that live inside of us for 8 months.

4. BIRTH. Do you know what happens? We shove a living, breathing, BABY out of our cooches. LOL THE AREA FROM OUR VAGINA TO OUR BUTT HOLE RIPS. Or the doctors take scissors and cut it open, so we can have more room for the baby. Then they sew it up later. Plus the f*cking pains during labor are probably horrible. And have you ever seen the needle for the drugs? Do you know where the huge SOB goes? In our spine.

5. WE'RE THE ONES WHO CAN GET PREGNANT. Guys can f*ck and get the hell out, no consequences.

6. Even if we wanted to, we couldn't go out and f*ck a billion guys like guys can f*ck a billion chicks. We'd get a rep so fast our head would spin.

7. The mood swings we get on our period, yeah it changes it. I only flip on someone if they're being an annoyance. Some girls are completely different on their period. I'm one of them. I'm someone who loves human contact, but on my period if someone touches me I want to kill them. It irks me. And you have no idea.

Seriously, guys have blue balls, morning wood, random boners, and not much else to worry about.

Suck it up.

Anonymous · Answer

Woooowww. First of all, not all girls get worshiped by guys, because a lot of the time girls aren't up to guys "standards" of beauty. (skipping two because I'm a virgin and could care less) Third, I have been working since I was twelve years old. Four, only shallow girls play head games, so maybe you shouldn't meet girls at a freaking bar, and expect them to be all nice and sweet. Five, not all girls are the same. Some will go and have sex with random strangers. But so will guys! There is such a thing as a man whore. Six, if you think shoes are a problem for girls, you have to be the most ignorant jerk I have ever seen! Not all girls obsess over shoes, go shoe shopping, or even care. Most girls worry about how they are going to pay their living expanses in the up and coming months. Seven, you have no freaking idea how many times I have not been able to even walk straight due to menstrual cramps every month for a week. Most girls on their period are suffering from head aches, numb legs, lower back pain, horrid cramps, and excessive bleeding... for a FREAKING WEEK! So I wish you were a girl for a day. You could wear under wire bra's, uncomfortable underwear, jeans with insanely small pockets, stupidly thin sweaters, and you can be judged by insensitive men who have no idea what stress a woman goes through in her everyday life.

2010atitagain · Answer

Are you that lazy in thinking that you would base this "opinion" on a single instance of overhearing 3 individual women? Does your realm of thought/analysis go no further than scenes from a bar?  Are you upset because they didn't pay attention to you or look your way? We are complex. Sure, maybe the totality of who the women you "overheard" is such but you don't know the complete story. Why do we have this website? Because nothing is always so cut and dry as you have proven through your updates to give us a *better* picture of where you're coming from.  How do you know that the soap opera woman doesn't spend the rest of the day keeping up the household? And, hey, she gets a night out @ the bar. How do you know whether or not her husband is *fine* with their arrangement? Maybe he is and that's how *their* marriage is. Did you ever stop to think that maybe you should have compassion because their marriage may not even be great (why she's drinking and excited a/b watching a soap opera). If you're going to continue this sad state of existence/anger and spread it around, try not to be as dense when you wonder why no female wants to be with you.

Anonymous · Answer

True true haha. That is the way most girls are portrayed on TV. I personally could care less about shoes. I got my flip flops and I'm good for the year minus a few rainy days (live in Cali). But ya we do have it easy from your point of view. power of the p**** hhaha. yeah true. but I personally want to be able to make my own money and be financially independent. I would hate to depend on a guy for money. then they have all the control over you and id have to clean the house all day. that'd suck. and we can be bad in bed if we don't enjoy it. and guys always tell us we have to be shaved which is stupid in my opinion. and we have a ton of social mores though. we have to be feminine but not too feminine, we have to be good girls and not sleep around with a lot of guys or we are labeled a slut and guys think we're easy...but we can't be too goodie goodie because guys don't like that. we have to be skinny but not too skinny, we have to have a nice butt, not too small, not too big, firm but big...we have to have big boobs but not fake, we have to have curves but not too many. we have tons of thigns that society expects of us that's just not possble for most of us. I'm 17 year old girl and let me tell u, it really does take a toll on your confidence seeing people like kim kardashian and all those victoria secret commercials everyday..even though we know most are fake/photoshopped and unrealistic..it still is hard because guys really do expect a lot of us as women. I don't mean to sound overdramatic but we really do have a lot of hardships that we try to hide...i agree we have it easy sexually sometimes. but I know it is not easy being a female or a male. a lot is expected of both of us.  sorry I wrote so much and all the typos. hope this helps a little.

Anonymous · Answer

I think the disclaimer that you have to add is  "it must be easy being an EXTREMELY attractive female" Then...your argument would be more sound and girls would not be pissed off at you right now. My ex is and was EXTREMELY SUPER ATTRACTIVE! My ex girlfriend LOVED MIAMI.  She said it was the cheapest and most fun city she had ever been to. She did not know that to get into the club, she was cutting the line and got in for free since the owner pulled her inside.  She did not know that guys paid like 10-20 dollars for each drink they bought her.  She did not know that jet skiing was expensive to rent and that the rides on the yachts with alcohol costs guys LOTS OF MONEY.   She never realized how expensive the city was, because she never paid anything.  Guys always paid.  She has gotten out of about 15 speeding tickets.  And almost every time the cop tore up the ticket as well as asked her out.  She did not try to learn how to cook because she didn't think she needed to.  Before me, of her last 3 boyfriends two had private chefs and the third ate out at fancy restaurants for every meal. your argument is DEAD ON for extremely attractive girls.  Girls that are 10+ For every other girl...they have real difficulties in life just like men!   Just think about how many issues they have just having to deal with us guys? ;-)

Anonymous · Answer

1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you

kinda of. half the time, its creepy guys.

2) You can just lay there and take the penis, do no work, and no one is ever going to say you're bad

not true. my ex use to tease me and called me a rag doll because I didn't know what to do. we are pressured to be the best to our potential.

3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you.

a lot girls yes. me, no. I'm independant and I can't even stand a boyfriend buying me presents. my ex wouldn't let me work for fear id meet someone else.

4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds

a lof of girls, yes. me, no. id rather play the game called, "get me off"

. 5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse.

again, a lot of girls, yes. me, no. alc is never an excuse, they are just guilty and don't want to admit that they did it to themselves by getting drunk and horny.

6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale.

same as above. I have one pair of high heels and the rest are pretty much flip flops and cleats lol a couple pairs of boots. id rather have my bills paid than another pair of feet killers.

7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything...

not always true. when I feel cranky I stay away from people or I get over myself and think before I say stuff. mind over body. a lot of girls use it as an excuse to be a bitch.

8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer

again, not always true. sex is a give and take activity. id rather watch you orgasim than suffer.

not all girls are like the average stereotype. the good ones are out there, just gotta look!

getaclue · Answer

1] you guys always want to get in some girls pants so ya throw yourself on the one that has either big boobs or butt or both. 2] if we are on top we do the work. and for females that do oral sex do all the work and you guys just lay there no one can say you're bad at it when we are the one at work 3] now a days females like their independence. we like having our own money. 4] we don't play mind games, we make it obvious when we want something but you guys are so pig headed that you make it more difficult then it needs to be 5] "but I was drunk" is an excuse both females and males use so don't try to blame only on females. 6] as much as we all love a great sale that is not our only daily problems. most of the time our daily problems are YOU GUYS! 7] first off its pms PRE-menstrual cycle. we will yell only before we get on the cycle and if you do something to p*ss us off 8] YES PUSSY IS POWER BECAUSE YOU MALES MAKE IT SO! GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE PUTTING THE BLAME ON US FEMALES WHICH HAVE IT HARDER BECAUSE YOU GUYS ALWAYS THINK WITH THE WRONG HEAD!

Anonymous · Answer

naaaaah not as easy as it seems. 1) usually guys throwing themselves at us, we find unattractive even if theyre cute. 2) that's boring! why would anyone want to just lay there! come on... I like excitement! kama sutra! helloooo! 3) even if a guy could support, I wouldn't not want to work. I enjoy making my own money. I don't need him to give me an allowance. 4) well I don't have any comment towards 4 because its so true! :) ha ha 5) that's gross. even if I were to go home with a guy, id probably say how the night went... and yeah I may have been drunk but I very well knew what the hell I was doing :) 6) that's a funny daily problem. because last time I checked we have real problems. 7) yeah, we PMS... but you would too if you were bleeding like the niagara falls for a f***ing week! its not pretty and you feel fat sometimes and groggy nd just disgusting and irritable. this, MEN WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND! 8) damn straight... but I'm not that type really.. I usually give in because I enjoy sex way too much. ha ha but that's just me. now, maybe some women will agree with me on some of the things I say. maybe not. but this is just from my point of view. and just so you know, its not in an "upset" tone of voice any where. I'm not a feminist or anything blah blah blah. just putting in my two cents. :)

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