Being a female?

[Anonymous]

I mean, what do you really have to do? 1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you 2) You can just lay there and take the penis, do no work, and no one is ever going to say you're bad 3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you. 4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds. 5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse. 6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale. 7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything... 8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer... Man it must be nice being a female. I think I am going to ask God to make me one in my next life. Except I'll probably be normal and actually want a real relationship without games or drama.There's a lot of early 30's bachelors out there... wonder why?

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C'mon feminists. I'm itching for a response.

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MaxTucker is my new favorite person

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Finding a good chick, is like trying to find diversity in an Abercrombie catalog.

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As mentioned: Actually none of this stuff is about me. I was at the pub last night and overheard these three women discussing how easily they have it. One said she could take any guy home with her and have no regrets...

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the other said she was excited to watch "All My Children" while her husband was at work, another was clearly a bar slut mooching drinks.

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This was simply an observational question. I didn't buy a single one of them a drink, or take any of them home with me.

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So this is in no way from any personal and/or emotional experience. This was a question based off something I OVERHEARD. I am not insecure, or anything like that. It was a question again I asked from what I listened to.

[Mizbee93]

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Dude.. seriously?

*sigh* Here we go again.

Girls go through just as much sh*t as guys just different sh*t.

Although I do sympathize with guys who have to make the first move to approach women, women have their own social stigmas to deal with; more so because unlike guys, girl's 'girlfriends' for the most part enjoy seeing their friend make a social faux pas. It allows them to feel better about themselves whilst pointing out to their friend and others said friends inadequacies.

No need to work huh? and what about independence? personal gratification? our own familial pressures? You think all women want to be stuck at home making nothing of themselves? Having to justify their every move and purchase to their husband? Not really; Women worked hard for independence and equality. Some of us actually respect and rely on that.

Not all girls freak out when they have their period. Guys just love bitching about that because it makes them feel justified to bitch about their lives and girlfriends. Most girls I know don't even want their boyfriends to know when their on their period. It's an uncomfortable topic. Meanwhile.. feeling like someone's grating the inside of your womb with a cheese grater whilst your trying your trying to manage your upchuck reflex isn't exactly fun or a walk in the park either.

And no, we don't always have guys throwing themselves at us; wish they would really. That'd be nice for a change instead of having to figure out if the guy staring at me is actually gonna pick up the b***s to talk to me.

Girls play mind games yes, but there's a reason they had to learn the game. We all play mind games. It's not even a game really. It's manipulation. That's it. You try to manipulate a situation and outcome as best you can so you don't get hurt. Everyone does it, that's life, you'll kinda have to move on from it.

Since when can women go home with whoever they want? Have you no idea what the female social circle is like? lmao. Try the "I was drunk" excuse and someone will turn it into "She's a drunken whore, omg did you see her shorts.. such a slut..." So no. Not really. No matter how people say they don't judge, more than likely they do and then when she gets a reputation for being easy? Guys never have to worry about that sh*t in the first place so I don't even see why it was relevant.

Uhmm daily problems? How about paying our bills? Constantly trying to avoid stupid friend spats that hit you in the face with seemingly no origin? Getting good enough grades on the five college courses your taking to get a scholarship whilst still maintaining your diet, four time a week gym outings, seemingly infinite extra credit assignments, family obligations, healthy social life and sanity? Last thing on my mind right now is shoes sweetie.

As for "power of p**s*". You give women that power. Stop being so dependent on sex and women won;t have it. Seriously? Are women supposed to jump every time you say sexy time?

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Dude.. seriously?

[lucy_fur]

1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you - not all girls, some guys have girls throwing themselves at them, it's not exclusive to sex. Besides, that guy might have thrown himself at 20 other girls beforehand.

2) You can just lay there and take the penis, do no work, and no one is ever going to say you're bad - I've head guys complain about guys doing this, so it's not true. besides, it's possible for a woman to enjoy sex, therefore not just lying there and taking it.

3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you. - If you want to be utterly dependant and the guy is willing to do that, then there you go. But what if the woman is sick? she's broke a leg, had a nervous breakdown, etc etc...? same goes for a man. If you're in a relationship, you support each other.

4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds. - hahaha guys are prone to mind games too I assure you

5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse. - so if a woman who looks like the elephant man walks into a bar she could pull anyone? the same sentence would apply to a man who looked like, say, johnny depp. It's not sex exclusive, it's good looks exclusive.

6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale. - maybe a few women are like that. but certainly not the majority. Its a sweeping generalisation.

7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything... - you try having one every month. sorry, but that's what hormones' do to you. it's biology, hormones make you emotional. If men had them, you'd be exactly the same. TRUST ME

8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer... Man it must be nice being a female. - Bollocks. Most women I have met have had a guy be rough with them, or rape them. besides which, sex is different for a female, you are basically sticking something into her. It is more intrusive for a female, so to let her "call the shots"... would be fair enough, surely? It can hurt for women.

I think I am going to ask God to make me one in my next life. Except I'll probably be normal and actually want a real relationship without games or drama - You do that. one period and you'll be a psycho bitch. or maybe you'll be a woman in a country where you are stoned to death for infedelity, but the men aren't (middle east). maybe you'll be a woman in a country where gang raping women is the next big thing (south africa, mexico), or where your feet are bound and deformed because it's beautiful to men (china) or where you're neck is stretched by rings, to the point that without them your neck would break, because the men in your culture like it (the east) Or maybe you'll be a woman in America or Britain, where you'll earn on average, 30% less than men doing the same job.

I love being a woman, but don't think its easy!

[sabbasabba]

Good points, especially the last paragraph

it's definitely not easy! some people just don't get it!

[shortie]

Thank you

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Wow, these are some pretty interesting observations, but they seem more steryotypical than truthful.

1.)We don't have guys throwing themselves at us. We have to work to get their attention, competeing with hundreds of other gorgeous women.

2.) I don't know what type of boring girls you slept with but I for one, do not jus "take the penis" Riding the penis is fun, sucking it is fun, getting into all those steamy ass awkward positions is fun; descent non-boring women work just as hard as men in sex.

3.)Okay dude, it's the 20th century. WOMEN WORK. Re read that till it sinks in. And they aren't petty boutique jobs, construction, law, hard labor, etc...some women are stay at homes mom but usually the guy lets them. Some dudes love being the sole providers for the family so your guyses fault lol

4.) I can't argue with this one lol Except, not all women, wait nevermind, we're all guilty.

5.) This one was odd because girls get called sluts for doing stuff like this. Guys can plow any chick they want from a bar, completely sober, and not even need an excuse. So this makes no sense.

6.) There are some too rich for their own good women who do struggle with this, but the rest of us have real sh*t to worry about like bills, kids, work, you.(notice how we don't worry about our selves, self sacrafice.)

7.) lol let me clear this up; Periods aren't that bad. Pop some painkillers, keep your tamps nearby and your good. The issue is, our hormones are fluctuating unpredictably. One moment we could be blissfully happy, the next a raging bitch. But your right, we should never take it out on our guy lovers.

8.) Um but in # 2, you said we just lay there? Anyway, damn right we do. If you guys get to twist and turn us how you please, we get to turn and twist you too. Sex isn't one sided, intamacy should be shared between both partners. Its a task of give and get, get and give.

Finalization: Whatever women you've encountered do not represent much of the general women population. Being a women is just as challenging as being a man. Each has their own expectations and challenges.

[Anonymous]

I'm going to rant right here and I don't care what you think of me, I don't care if it sounds annoying, because obviously I don't give a **** what all of you think of me. This is a complaint because the way I see it, the way I view the dating and relationship world, scene, is that girls have it way easier than us guys, and nobody can change my opinion, aside from the fact that us guys have to initiate everything, these are the main reasons why I think girls have it easier. Girls just have to look good, be hot, born cute, be pretty, that's all, nothing else, zero, nada, zip. A girl can have no life, have a negative attitude, have no confidence, have low self-esteem, not value herself, have little or no friends, be a boring person, have no passion for anything, have no goals and no ambition or drive be stupid, retarded, bratty, whine and mope around all the time, etc. Like I said, a girl just has to be hot and cute, pretty, that's all, nothing else literally. Overall, a girl can be negative everything but if she is at least very hot, good-looking, us guys will still accept her, still consider her girlfriend material. Like when us guys see a very hot girl, well mainly me, I am like "who cares about her personality? I like her already" However for us guys, what I hate and despise is that it always comes down to our social skills and conversation skills that determines our success with the ladies. In order for us guys to be "boyfriend material", we have to walk right, sit right, stand right, talk right, think right, breathe right, have the right attitude, the right mentality, the right way of thinking, the right mindset, have a leadership-type attitude, have a passion for something, be interesting, have hobbies and passions for things, we have to say the right things, it always comes down to the words and sentences that come out of our mouth that determine our success with the ladies. We have to have high status, or just high social status, have a life, have an occupation, etc. That's what I really hate about life in general, in order for us guys to be boyfriend or relationship material, we have to have a good attitude, a positive attitude, or just overall comes down to the type of attitude we have, our way of thinking, mentality, our social skills, conversation skills, having our sh*t together, being involved with something or just having a life, be a productive person, see ourselves as an object of power, we have to walk right, stand right, sit right, talk right, think right, breathe a certain way, we have to have dreams and ambition, have a passion for something, we have to be extremely content with ourself and content, have high social status, be a fun or interesting person with a lot of hobbies and the list goes on and on. Because it is way easier to attract people with your looks and body, than it is with your social skills, attitude, mentality, confidence, because Confidence is a Mental thing.

[SectumSemprae]

Hmm ...you've never been engaged or married, have you? I guarantee you ...those girls you describe, the ones who have to look pretty and wait for a guy to make all the moves, are the ones who get dumped and, at worse, become the "other women", also known as "sluts", when the men are later unfaithful to the good women. That's the stereotype, just how men initiating is also a stereotype. Those shallow things girls do ...sure, might get them approached by guys, but can they keep them?

[Opinion Owner]

No it's easier for a girl to keep a guy than it is for a guy to keep a girl, because girls expect guys to lead all the time, make all the decisions, initiate everything, meanwhile the girl does nothing she is just along for the ride

[socalgamehater2006]

he is right you know

[IN5AN1TY]

Dude. You should publish that. Its 100% True.

[shortie]

...butwhat if, like me...and MOST women, you're just average? or cute, but not eveyones type?! You seem to be comparing the average guy to only 10-20 percent of the women out there lucky enough to be born extremely good looking ...what about ugly women who can't do ANTHING about their looks? No amount of confidence or poise will help them

[Biggus_Dickus]

hey don't worry about the women, it's those damn sloths that have it so easy. Look at them, lying around in their trees, only leaving to go to toilet.

[ihatework]

Sloths have rights too

[Biggus_Dickus]

Yeah, they seem to have more rights, they sure get good welfare

[ihatework]

Damn sloths

[BittersweetLover]

Haha sloths!!

[jimi_s]

Hmmmm.....slots.....

[KarKingJack]

LOLLLLL.

[lomaloner]

Haha love it! oh man, that made me laugh. thanks. that just made my day.

[clydebarrow]

Do they really leave to go to the toilet? I'd think they'd just go... there.

[Biggus_Dickus]

Haha yep, the only time they leave is for a poo, and that's the only chance they have of meeting other sloths to mate with. It's amazing they've lasted this long to be honest.

[KarKingJack]

LOL, 2 Sloths one Bodily Requirement would make a killer documentary.

[Biggus_Dickus]

Already has haha

[ShelbieLm]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[DoctorSex]

Sloths are bastards aren't they....a complete drain on the economy..I used to know a sloth once....absolute prick.

[girloncue]

Haha

[bunny420]

Superwin for Buggus Dickus.

[edumedum]

really?

[Biggus_Dickus]

This answers way more popular than it should be

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Hey, don't be hatin on them sloths. They're awesome, man!

[7gnat]

hahaha we should start a foundation to rid this world of these damn sloths!

[Shadoww]

LOL

[emmiroxursox]

lmfao

[selfishstars]

So you're deciding that because you overheard three psycho girls talking, they must represent the entire female population?

1. A lot of girls DON'T have guys throwing themselves at them. If these girls have guys throwing at themselves, then I see that as something wrong with guys. Why would a guy put up with girls that act this way? It just reinforces their "bad" behaviour. Pretty much all the guys I've dated, I pursued---not the other way around.

2. Again, why would someone have sex with someone who just laid there? If I had sex with someone like that, I would either have a conversation with them about how they need to involve themselves more, or I wouldn't have sex with them. Personally, I think "just laying there" would make sex boring. I like to get into it as much as possible.

3. Why would someone tolerate a partner who refused to work? Or tell them, "It's okay if you want to be a sloth and not contribute to our household?" Again, not something I would ever tolerate from a partner and I'm not sure why anyone else would either. I work very hard---I work shift work (12 hour shifts) and contribute equally to our finances. Not just because I believe in equality in relationships, but frankly, I couldn't stand being lazy and dependent.

4. I hate game-playing and drama, and I refuse to be involved in it. I speak my mind. If I'm interested in someone, I tell them. I believe in good communication in a relationship. If I have an issue, I talk to my partner about it and we work it out. If I sense someone else is playing games, I immediately lose interest.

5. Most girls don't feel this way. They avoid casual sex like the plague because, while for guys it's often seen as a relatively positive thing (at least amongst themselves), girls will get labelled a slut by men and women alike. That said, I am pretty open about having sex---I have sex because I want to and I don't really care how other people might judge me. I've never regretted having sex and I've never had sex, or acted like the reason I had sex, was because I was drunk.

6. Ughh, how much I wish this one were true. Unfortunately, women face just as many problems as men do in life.

7. I've never used my period as an excuse to be a bitch. It's a minor annoyance, but it doesn't give me crazy mood swings or anything, nor do I feel like "woe is me", because pretty much every other woman in the world goes through it too. I'm a nice person, and even if I'm feeling sh*tty, I don't believe in taking it out on other people.

8. I have never used sex as reward, nor have I withheld it as a punishment. I see sex as a shared experience, not as something that one person gives and the other person should feel lucky that they're receiving. And yeah, sometimes I don't feel up to it and I guess you could say that in that sense, I'm "controlling" our sex life---but here's the thing, sometimes guys don't feel up to it too. They aren't everready--they feel tired or sick or in a mood that's

[selfishstars]

Otherwise not conducive to having sex. Yes, I've turned my partner down before, but he's turned me down before too. I think it's unfair to other men if you suggest that guys are ALWAYS interested in sex, because it's not true of all guys and this stereotype only serves to make them feel like there's something wrong with them if they're ever "not in the mood". Sometimes one of us wants to have sex and the other doesn't, but we still have a very healthy and regular sex life. And often, even if one

[selfishstars]

Of us isn't in the mood, we're still willing to allow ourselves to get in the mood. I also don't call the shots for WHAT we do in the bedroom. We both have fantasies and different things we want to do and try, and we're both receptive to each others' ideas.

So, maybe there are girls out there who are like the ones you overheard, but not ALL girls are like that, and if you don't like girls that ARE like that, then don't put up with it.

[selfishstars]

If men wouldn't put up with that kind of behaviour, then eventually the women who act that way would realize that what they're doing isn't working and smarten up.

[Miss_All_Time_Low]

You sound like a very smart woman!

Anonymous User, maybe you should base your generalisations on her next time.

[Asker]

Maybe you should make me a grilled cheese and fetch me a fresh beer.

[mahalic007]

I have never used sex as reward, ^_ ^

i love this sentence why the heck do girls think that?

[Miss_All_Time_Low]

You wish.

[Rinaxo]

Hey QA, if you think that women have it easy, why do you seem to think that we "belong in the kitchen".

[Rosula]

You shouldn't label all girls as having it easy because of a single conversation you overheard.

I'm not going to say guys don't have some tough spots or that we are more hard done by than men. That only causes arguments that turn sour and immature. I'll just list a few things girls have to go through:

1) Period. Yes, you said that, but a man seriously can't understand how horrible it actually is. Unless they've had piles - you can look that up. Just the other day at work, my stomach pains were so intolerable. They shot up my back and I couldn't stand up straight. Sucked.

2) We have to worry about getting pregnant. That's not to say that guys don't have to worry about a girl they've slept with getting pregnant or anything, but it really is a difficult nine months that we have to endure. That or a huge hiding from our parents and being gossiped about and called a slut, or if you're sixteen or around that age and pregnant, you're guaranteed to receive some horrible stares from people.

3) Housewives and mums work 24/7 and nowadays, many have full time jobs because guys generally don't bring enough to the table, so females need to work as well as looking after the kids. My sister works full time and my brother-in-law finds it easier working full time out of the home than working full time with the kid. I'm not saying that men are useless for not earning enough; but nowadays living costs are just far more expensive than they used to be.

Life seems so much more complicated nowadays for us all. Guys and girls.

Those are a few things us girls have to go through nowadays. Trust me, there are a lot of things. Some of these things guys also have to endure, but we both have different things we must cope with. I'd say more, but I'm in a rush. The mother is nagging me. Urgh.

PS. Sorry the last few paragraphs are maybe a bit iffy. Lost concentration when my eighteen month old needed to be babysat and my sister and her friend came in and started to annoy me. Lol. No, that's not supposed to be in effect to my answer. XD

[Aristotle2010]

You're the first person that I have read that looks at it from both points of view. I have to agree with you 100% on your statements above! *thumbs up*

[Rosula]

Haha. Thank you! :)

[hkygirl]

i personally think the feminists responses would be funny to read, I can't stand feminists but whatever that's just me, so I'm going to look for those in a sec. but all I'll say is it was smart to mark this anonymous because you'd probably get a sh*tload of emails from a bunch of p*ssed off girls and have you ever said to someone, "you can't understand someone until you've walked a mile in their shoes" lol not all girls are the same sweetheart. for the record, home girl that was saying, "i can take any guy home with me" is a come sponge. she says that as though that's something to be proud of? yea, a guy goes home with her then leaves her before dawn to go home to his wife, thanks but I'll sit that sh*t storm out then she can actually sit around and brag about it drunk at a bar? oh how classy of her : | as for her friend, "married with children?"really? I guess it's better than desperate housewives right?:\ it'll suck to be her when her husband gets in a car accident and she has no f***ing clue what to do with herself because he left her out of his will or didn't tell her he owed ___ money. girls nowadays, they just can't think for themselves. HOWEVER, not ALL of us are like. I hear of girls where their boyfriends are criticizing their physical attitributes which in turn makes them insecure, guys cheating making us feel like we're not doing something right, etc. I will admit I looove some shoes but it's BECAUSE I love shoes so much that I stay out of the shoe stores and window shop online occasionally;) if I went to a shoe store and bought all the shoes I wanted to I'd go bankrupt.i almost never shop. if I'm at the mall it's for a reason.yes there are girls that are manipulators but not all girls are. all girls are bitches but not all are manipulators. just to set ya straight;) see, you're doing EXACTLY what guys hate that women do. a lot of women will say "guys are assholes etc" as a generalization but it's not true. most guys are but every one of us is different. it just so happened the girls that were standing next to you, one was a prostitute and the other a doorknob.;) in my opinion any chick who marries a guy to get by or for money ISSS a prostitute..it's the same thing. you're having sex for something in return. if that's the pool of women you get to pick from I'd go to a different waterpark XD

[Anonymous]

LMAO your just asking for a flame war.

1. Woman get to choose who to be with while men have to fight each other, Work hard our entire lives to just get a decent job to be able to have a decent woman.

2. We have to pay for dates, gifts and become their slaves. If we don't there is always another eager man ready to get with your woman.

3. the Father use to have to pay for the wedding, but Now WE do. After we spend a few grand on a ring another grand on food and a few more on the wedding we then have to pay for the honeymoon. And after all this we Still have to sign a contract that binds everything we own to her. So when she gets bored she can leave and take everything we own. And if you try to make a fair agreement, she won't marry you unless she gets YOUR stuff.

4. After you have her, She can sit around and do nothing. She gets knocked up to fufil her own selfish reasons and for the next 9 months you have to work and take care of her every need. And after that she spends the whole next year playing mommy while you work to support her and the child for the rest of your life. And if she gets tired of you she leaves, takes half of everything you own And makes you pay for the child.

5. If she cheats on you and you divorce her she gets to go off with her new man while your single. But if you cheat on her she leaves, takes your stuff and hooks up with whomever she's been flirting with all those years.

6. She goes to the bar and gets free drinks. Hooks up with whoever she wants like you said.

7. the biggest choices she makes during the day is what she's going to wear and what to spend your money on.

8. men have to work hard for a decent job. While woman have them offered to her. Even when she knows nothing about the product next to a pro she will still be hired first.

9. She can break your heart and ruin your views of woman for the rest of your life. Cheat on you, Steal and lie and within the next day is in a new relationship and somehow turn it around that your the bad guy.

10. Complain that men are mean and selfish yet she's been taught to only care about herself her entire life while we are taught to always look after her.

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[Anonymous]

1) You have guys always throwing themselves at you - Not everyone does, and um excuse me, if they do, isn't that their choice?

2) You can just lay there and take the penis, do no work, and no one is ever going to say you're bad - You must have been in a really bad relationship. I am a career woman. College just like you and I work my ass off. If you don't like that your woman does nothing than dump her and find someone who does. Don't every woman just sits around.

3) You probably don't have to work if you have a guy to support you. -We may not, and I'm not goint o deny it. However, when women don't work it's usually to take care of the kids you and her have produced together. I like to work. I don't like to feel helpless. If a girl just sits there and expects you to support her while she does nothing. She is lazy, dump her. But don't act like taking care of kids all day is easy beacuse it has its cahllenges too.

4) You play some sick head games for attention and expect guys to read your minds. -Mkay so again, not all woman try to play head games. No I will say it does suck for guys because we sometimes expec them to know more than we do. This is because other women are able to decipher this stuff about us, and we got used to it. So we're sorry, but some of us try to be straight with you.

5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse. - I have NEVER done this. again, if you're dating this girl, dump her.

6) Your only daily problem is making sure you can buy both those pairs of shoes that are on sale. -False. We like shoes. Well you like cars and tvs. Both of you should be able to not waste money. I don't buy shoes like candy. Some women do, not me.

7) I have my period, so I have am going to yell at you for everything...

Some women do. But I try to control it and I usually succed. If I'm having trouble that day keepin git together, I'll just isolate myself for a day and talk tomorrow. I'm sorry if people ahve yelled at you because of this. However, how can you even comment on somthing you have never felt? It's not like we try to. When we get out period our hormones go all out of wack and crazy plus we usually don't feel good. Nevertheless, if you're getting yelled at that's not okay either. Just tell her to go cool off.

8) Power of the pussy. You call the shots in bed, and if you don't want it, you love to make us suffer

Not always true. It takes two for sex. We probably do call the shots more often, but you always want sex, and we don't all the time. PLus sex is between two partners, not just you.

[costumerchx]

Maybe this guy shouldn't base his opinion of women solely on three drunks in a bar. My last partner called the shots in bed, not me. Having your period is like being kicked in the nuts, for some women, but for days. I have a lot of serious life challenges and none of them involve shoes. Most women don't have one night stands, me included. I shoot straight from the hip and don't play games and neither do my friends. If someone is laying there like a star fish, how is that good sex?

[Opinion Owner]

I totally agree costumechx.

[Jager66]

how do you know what it feels like to get kicked in the nuts?

[Alynaresque]

WELL, I want sex all the time, and my boyfriend calls most shots in bed. And more often than not, it's me on top, workin' it out, if you know what I mean. ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Hahaha Alynaresque. :D

[Anonymous]

WELL ONE THING THAT WOMEN HAVE TO GO THROUGH THAT MEN DONT IS CHILDBIRTH! HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO HAVE AN 8 POUND HUMAN BEING RIPPED FROM YOUR LOINS AS THEY PASS THROUGH THE ONE AND ONLY VAGINA YOU HAVE CAUSING YOUR BODY TO GO THROUGH COUNTLESS PHYSICAL CHANGES (WHICH CAN BRING YOU CLOSER TO DEATH THAN YOU EVEN KNOW) AND THEN AFTER ITS BORN YOU TAKE WEEKS TO FULLY RECOVER AND GAIN YOUR SEX DRIVE BACK WHILE DIETING TO LOSE THE BABY FAT YOUVE GAINED AND USING COCOA BUTTER TO RID THE STRETCH MARKS YOU GOT WHILE CARRYING SUCH A HEAVY LOAD FOR SEVERAL MONTHS... THEN THERES THE ACTUAL PARENTING PROCESS... AT ANY GIVEN TIME THE HUSBAND/BOYFRIEND/BABY DADY ETC COULD LEAVE IF HE DAMN WELL PLEASES AND BE CALLED NOTHING BUT THE AVERAGE MAN, BUT IF A WOMAN WERE TO LEAVE HER CHILDREN SHE MUST BE THE WORST MOTHER ON THE FACE OF THE UNIVERSE. WE BLEED FROM OUR VAGINAS EVERY MONTH FOR ABOUT A WEEK (SOME BLEED WHENEVER THEIR VAGINAS DAMN WELL FEEL LIKE IT) WHICH IS HORRIBLE WHEN YOU WANNA WEAR WHITE OR FEEL SEXY FOR A NICE EVENING OUT... LETS NOT EVEN GET ON CRAMPS... WE ALSO HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THE FACT THAT WOMEN ARE NOT EQUAL TO MEN. MOST JOBS THAT OFFER AMAZING PAY AND AUTHORITY ARE GOING TO BE GIVEN TO MEN, NOT WOMEN... THINK ABOUT IT, IF OBAMA AND HILLARY CLINTON WERE JUST AS QUALIFIED AS EACH OTHER AND THE ONLY THING THAT SEPARATED THEM WAS THE FACT THAT OBAMA IS A BLACK MAN AND HILLARY IS A WHITE WOMAN, OBAMA WOULD HAVE STILL WON BECAUSE AMERICA WOULD RATHER LET A BLACK ***MAN*** WIN THAN A WHITE ***WOMAN***... ON ANOTHER NOTE, YOU AND I COULD BE DOING TO SAME JOB AT THE EXACT SAME SKILL LEVEL AND I WOULD LIKELY MAKE LESS THAN YOU. FOR EVERY DOLLAR A MAN MAKES, A WOMAN *COULD* MAKE 75CENTS... THATS ALL I FEEL LIKE WRITING TONIGHT... MY FINGERS ARE CRAMPING... OH ONE MORE THING! IF I WERE TO TYPE "DO YOU HAVE A BIG DICK? IF SO, CAN I RIDE IT?" I WOULD SEEM LIKE A COMPLETE WHORE, BUT IF YOU WERE TO TYPE "HOW WET ARE YOU RIGHT NOW, I WANNA F*** YOU!" YOURE JUST THE AVERAGE GUY... DOUBLE STANDARD LIKE A BITCH!

[lonelysadguy]

If you don't want to give birth there's a thing called "birth control" ..lol

[Opinion Owner]

@lonelysadguy Birth Control fails. lol @TDuncanxx did you mean not all "girls" are like that or not all "guys" are like that? if you meant "guys" then I just wanna say that never said they were all like that but IF they chose to leave people wouldn't shoot them down as much as they would a woman for leaving her child... And I'm not mixed up with the wrong people. That's actually never happened to me before but I just know what's real and what I wrote above is just that. THE TRUTH.

[SectumSemprae]

Don't forget about the part where the guy cheats on you after you give birth because your vagina is too stretched out for him to enjoy himself properly OR because you - silly you - need 6 weeks to recover from the process (DOCTOR'S ORDERS, by the way) and the guy can't "get any", so he bangs some other chick to deal with sexual frustration. And people excuse that WHY?!!!

[Opinion Owner]

@sectumsemprae THANK YOU!

[ALovelyLullaby]

Well, not all women are like that, although a large majority of us are.

1. Guys are not ALWAYS throwing themselves at every woman on the planet. Take into account the money, time, and effort women put into looking "good," regardless of whether they need to or not to get your attention. Women do a lot of things in order to catch your eye. And, yes, it is unfair because sometimes we do it just to get a rise out of you without holding true to anything implied. But again, that's not ALL women.

2. Women who purposely tell men their bad in bed are wrong to do so. Fact is, a lot of women get better stimulation by themselves and not with a partner. So, all in all, it wouldn't be your "fault" if her pleasure was at a minimum. Secondly, I don't think it's appropriate for a women to be inactive during sex. Since she does not have the same amount of pressure as a man usually does, she should do what she can to increase his libido. Keep in mind that's just my opinion.

3. Not true. Plenty of women have higher-paying jobs in their relationship than men. But mostly the pay is the same and women really don't mind working. Especially since we're still trying to get rid of that "women-should-be-in-the-kitchen" way of thinking.

4. Yes, we play "sick head games," but not just for attention. It's proven that most women have self-esteem issues and that makes us think about all the what-if's, how-come's and why's. What if he only wants me for sex? How come he isn't answering my phone call? Why does he like me, I'm not anything special? But these games come after we're in a relationship with someone. Men are the ones who (sometimes subconsciously) drive girls crazy prior to the beginning of a relationship.

5. That's ridiculous. Men could use the same excuse, but they don't need to. Getting laid is an accomplishment among men, right? If a women were to tell her friends she got "major tail last night," it wouldn't have the same affect. Therefore, we make excuses. Besides, not everyone believes a person when they say that anyways.

6. Now this one is definitely offensive. Women face just as many daily problems as any man does. It's completely sexist to think otherwise.

7. See, this is where you're referring to only a group of women. Not every chick is going to bite your head off for every little detail because she's on her period. And a lot of women really do try not to. Imagine if someone put an elastic tie around your junk for 5 days and see how nice you are.

8. True, we sometimes call the shots. Not true that we like seeing you suffer. I admit, it is fun sometimes to make you guys wait it out, but sadism isn't in the genetic code of every woman. Also, you've got to keep in mind the fact that women don't have the same chemically-induced sex-drive.

I hope your views of women lighten up a little bit. If not, you might end up giving up on women altogether. Hahaha. ;D

[hesaysim2sexy]

bwahahahahaahahhahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahaahah

hell yeah it feels good to be a woman... for so many reasons:

1. we can conceive and give birth

2. beautiful curves

3. we are independent still submissive in some ways

4. we can take pain more than men (give birth, monthly period)

5. we do take control in sex too and we don't just lay there duh but that doesn't make me a whore or a slut

6. men can't resist a woman

7. we can throw ourselves at a man but its the man's loss if he doesn't take it.lol

8. we don't get tired doing a marathon in shopping for shoes and clothes all day long

9. we can get away with crime (proven fact: petty or major)

10. we can drive like a woman should lol

11. we can put make up on and smell so good, you get a hard on when we pass by

12. we have the power to just bat our eyelashes and you fall for it

13. we can cry over petty things and make men feel bad.

14. men are charged rape if they force us to open our legs. so yeah you are right WE ARE POWERFUL.

15. without women, MONEY means nothing. :)

etc I can take all day

[cacapisu]

Best answer lol

[Asker]

"A life support for your vagina" HAHAHAHAHA best line ever.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yea we are a life support to our vaginas. no arguement to that and YOU are the lifeline to your penis too. but unlike men, women think with our brains not like SOME men (but boys really) who think with their heads down there. lol :P

[KRyan17]

Hmm I don't know bout # 6 and #12 only apply to some. That's for the weak meat headed guys that only think with their little heads. Hmm not all

[hesaysim2sexy]

That's why I said SOME right not ALL. :) by the way, tell me how can you resist a beautiful woman? really? or when a woman cries, how can you resist helping her or comforting her? when we bat our eyelashes, believe it or not, it does convince men to do what she wants one way or another. its like pulling off a puppy face and yes it's irresistable.

[KRyan17]

Well yeah I can. I've done it b4 beleive me. Girls have tried this b4 and I just don't respond sometimes. One girl tried to bat her eyelashes and puppy dog sh*t such and she was attractive but no go with me. I can't explain it but it doesn't work on everyone apparnetly. I must be the exception.

[KRyan17]

I guess its this thing where if I recognize it I shut them out kinda. I don't know and another thing is I don't feel like I need to be a muel for others, man nor woman. Fetch this after a girl flashes me a look mm no. Its quite simple to me when I put it like this. I will sometimes if I feel its honest but the batting the eyes and all that's not persuasive at all.

[hesaysim2sexy]

16. NO WOMAN NO CRY.

[Yeahhbro]

Lol you make a good points except 6, 11 and 12 I can prove those three points wrong ha

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yea okay it applies to some men and women but in general, I still feel good I'm a woman. :)

[matchesandtin]

I agree with all except 6, 7, 9, 12, 13, 14 (that's terrible, I have male and female friends that have been raped), and 15 but mostly because money isn't all that important anyways.

I'd much rather pursue women than money, but that doesn't mean women are the focus of my life ;D Gotta have that drive!

[hesaysim2sexy]

It's your choice in the end. but this is a reality it may not apply to all but it happened and is happening and will keep on happening.

[diegoD]

I hate you !. Its sad even the physical advantages men have are rendered useless in this frigging feminist society ( U.S) that favors women's rights, more than mens, at least in my opinion.

[alexis7]

actually, I completely disagree. being a woman is very difficult. I find myself struggling for any level of respect from men. I feel like men are always sizing us up, determining whether we are "hott" or not, and if we don't live up to their physical standards, we are dismissed. you don't care if we are good people, all you care about is getting laid as often as possible, then bragging about it to your friends. you don't see us as equals, and you never will. HOW DO YOU THINK THAT MAKES US FEEL?

ive never cheated or lied to a guy in my whole life. I would never had a one night stand. I am a good person and I care a lot about other people, but does that matter at all? no. because I have been used and cheated on by every guy I ever loved and trusted. they move on to the next girl they wanna screw, and I am always left in the dust.

so basically, how would you feel if you knew that the opposite sex looked at you as a walking come dumpster and nothing else? and if you never had your period, then stfu, because it really does mess with your emotions and hormones.

MEN ONLY WANT TO GET LAID, AND THAT IS IT. YOU ARE ALL LIARS AND CHEATERS AND PLAY JUST AS MANY GAMES AS WOMEN. YOU CAN SLEEP WITH WHOEVER YOU WANT, SAY WHATEVER YOU WANT, AND HURT WHOEVER YOU WANT, AND YOU WILL STILL GET RESPECT. SO SCREWWWWWW YOU.

[bunny420]

' MEN ONLY WANT TO GET LAID, AND THAT IS IT. YOU ARE ALL LIARS AND CHEATERS AND PLAY JUST AS MANY GAMES AS WOMEN. YOU CAN SLEEP WITH WHOEVER YOU WANT, SAY WHATEVER YOU WANT, AND HURT WHOEVER YOU WANT, AND YOU WILL STILL GET RESPECT. SO SCREWWWWWW YOU. ' - Sums everything up perfectly.

[frustratedchump06]

In my opinion, it's easier for a girl to get a boyfriend than it is for a guy to get a girlfriend, because we guys always have to initiate

[Asker]

You're quite hot, I don't think you have anything to worry about

[Winteredrose5162]

I can't believe you said that! She had obviously been hurt and yet she has nothing to worry about? wtf!

[alexis7]

No, I never had a serious relationship because I get screwed over every time. it KILLS me to know that I can give my all to someone, and they can so easily throw it away because some other, easier girl comes along. if that is supposed to be easy, then I don't know anything anymore.

[GoodManDave]

Actually, first time dating, I was cheated on, by my so called girlfriend.

A "good girl" was comparing how guys from different races were "equipped."

Seems like I've had a share of girls who have done things to damage not only their own reputations, but the gender as well. But I realize that it's a individual issue; not a gender one, and as much hurt as some girls have caused me, and enjoyed doing it, I don't blame all women for this.

[alexis7]

We all know that women are still seen as objects in society and we all know I am right. I don't care how hard you guys think you have it. at least you're seen as people. not a prize.

[eidahl]

'Seen as objects' is worse than being seen as walking d*cks... how? =P

[alexis7]

You can sleep with whoever you want and get a high five and we are just sluts. you can be a jerk to a girl and seen as a player, and we are just bitches who play "mind games" even if you do the same thing. you can go to a club and not have people trying to buy you into their bed with drinks. you can be ugly and dress however you want and society does care. we are EXPECTED to look good. we don't get any respect. I always feel like I am being looked down on. its way worse to be an object.

[DalekSecsInTheCity]

"You can sleep with whoever you want and get a high five and we are just sluts." - Valid.

"you can be a jerk to a girl and seen as a player, and we are just bitches who play "mind games" even if you do the same thing." - Invalid. Both genders hate mind game bitches/players equally.

"you can go to a club and not have people trying to buy you into their bed with drinks." - But we wouldn't mind if someone did.

"you can be ugly and dress however you want and society does care" - I gotta say, this is

[DalekSecsInTheCity]

A pretty sweet deal. that said, I find it much easier to disregard society's expectation of me to look good. however, if we go around not looking good, we can't get a girl.

"I always feel like I am being looked down on. its way worse to be an object." I have never met a man who looked at women as objects. this is entirely due to your own terrible experiences with men. it really seems like you may get attracted to the wrong kind of guy.

[moviedude714]

Dating is a choice for girls, for us guys it is a chore

[alexis7]

Dating is a choice for girls? I never CHOSE to be lead on and used by countless amounts of men. I've been with guys of all ages, races, social backgrounds, religions, etc, and EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. f***ed me over. do not tell me that I chose that. they go after ME, pursue ME, and then once they have me, decide to move on to some other slutbag who would give it up easier. how am I supposed to feel knowing that my time, my feelings, and my YOUTH were all robbed from me.

[Yeahhbro]

You sound like the typical women who hates men,you know what your problem is? You look in the wrong crowds and that is why you get screwed every time. You know what your problem is?: You are so blind by Disney and fairy tales that you want to date a Jerk that treats you well and if he doesn't treat you well, you will do everything in your hands to change, just because you know he will fall for you eventually. Pffhhhh BS.

[alexis7]

I just said I dated ALL kinds of guys from all different backgrounds, and they are all the same. how is every crowd the wrong crowd? I wasn't born a man hater. the fact that every man in my life (family, friends, and boyfriends) abandoned me is what made me a man hater. I don't know how I am supposed to know any different. I hope I can change my mind someday. I don't want to live like this. But it is all I've ever known. I will never change for a guy, I would rather be alone.

[Mesonfielde]

Do you know what is REALLY sad? That a guy cannot get a "girlfriend" if they treat girls with respect and more than some object. Girls WANT to be seen as an object. I always maintained my distance so I would not invade their space, and what did I get? "You are a very good friend". If I had never cared and just touched every girl all the frickin time, I would have gotten laid several dozen times. Girls just say they want equality, but if you treat them equally, they reject you and go for jerks.

[Mesonfielde]

People could abuse you because that's what girls react to, unfortunately. People who shamelessly objectify women and see them as inferior, as something they can just use for whatever they want, and just do whatever they feel like doing to them. If you don't see girls this way, you will never be successful with them.

...or the key is actually just that you mustn't have any fear in you when you talk to them? Good question. But objectifying helps with that as well. Just dehumanize, and they cling!

[alexis7]

Look everyone, I am done with this. none of you will ever change my mind until I actually meet one of these spectacular guys that you think exist. and honestly, I really hope I do. I am not responding to this anymore. if you have anything to say to me, message me. I'm over it.

[moviedude714]

When I mean it is a choice for girls, I mean it is a choice whether a girl wants to get a boyfriend or not, chooses to be single or not, for us guys, we don't have as many options since we have to do all the initiating, all the work in order to get a girlfriend, do the pursuing, that's why I call it a chore

[matchesandtin]

Alexis, I do size up women but that's with everyone you meet. I do care if a person is good or bad, but try not to judge either for myself, I'd rather they prove themselves. I like being sexually satisfied but that doesn't mean I tried to get laid as often as possible, and certainly not with just anybody.

I care very much for how women feel, and actually yes I've had a few one night stands, and some I didn't want them to end as such.

Men and women are different, but not universally so.

[SectumSemprae]

I like what GoodManDave had to say. In spite of my somewhat impertinent comments on this question, I agree with that: it is an INDIVIDUAL issue with each person, and it tends to give genders a bad name. I add: even more so when it's perpetuated and popularized in the mass media.

[GiselleGazt]

Hey now. Many women say the same thing for men. I don't. I think it's quite difficult on both ends. I'm not going to say "oh it's so easy being a man" because there's no way for me to possibly know that. Not all women do the negative things you say. There are many sweet genuine girls out there just dying to be loved and the only chick that gets noticed is the stupid slut in the corner who's everything you just painted today's woman to be. It's not easy being female at all when you have so many girls like that populating the earth and wasting all the oxygen. AND THEN THE JUDGING. A man isn't judged as much as a woman is. And everything is about competition too. We don't live in a world where everywhere we go the ratio of guy to girl is equal. Not only do we have to compete for the guy, we have to compete when we HAVE the guy. And there's always some stupid bitch judging you. Saying crap about you that isn't remotely true because she's jealous or because she has some stick up her ass that gives her license to hate you for no reason at all. Because you have cute hair or nice legs, or some dude she's interested in looked at you when you don't even know the guy exists.

Another thing. I understand that women hurt men just as much as men hurt women, but really? I'm sixteen years old, and I had my first kiss last month. So that "you have guys throwing themselves at you" is total bullsh*t. Nobody ever notices me and I consider myself to be pretty attractive, talented, flirty, smart, confident, everything that the ideal "teenage dream" is and yet I can never get a guy to notice me? Why is that? I've had my heart shattered so many times by stupid guy after stupid guy and it got me no where except a road to depression and high anxiety. I was so incredibly lonely and I would cry myself to sleep most nights. Eventually I just stopped giving a damn. And then I met this guy and things are much better and easier now and I finally found my type. But honestly, don't dare try and say that life is easy as a woman because you have no f***ing idea how much it hurts. What you're saying is the most preposterous thing I have ever imagined I'd read. Oh and that "love to make us suffer" thing just makes me laugh out loud especially because men do some stupid sh*t and can be extremely heartless and inconsiderate without even caring.

You want to have a girlfriend? Open up your mind, and stop being a know-it-all douche. Every girl is individual. Don't treat everyone like the standard bimbo with huge t*ts and an IQ of 13

[anskygirl]

i hate to be that typical hysterical female, but *are you f***ing kidding me?!?!*

let's take this point by point, shall we?

1) really? not all of us do, first of all. also, plenty of guys have chicks throwing ourselves at them too, they just don't often notice. I think what you mean is 'boy, it must be great to be a fantastically hot woman!'

2) mmm, perhaps I'll give you this round, at least as far as intercourse is concerned, though I will say that my guy friends have several times approached me to ask me to tell their girlfriends to try something new-- maybe an unusual occurrence, I don't know, but there it is. however, let's think about oral and manual sex: guys DEFINITELY comment on who's good or bad at those, it's okay, be honest!

3) do you think it's easy for women who DO work to come to terms with being paid less than their male counterparts for the same jobs? reallllly? also, in the current economic climate, there has been a decided increase in double-breadwinner households, and it is also much more difficult for women to raise families as single parents because of the wage-gap.

4) yeah, yeah, women are crazy, cruel bitches, this one's never going to be settled, so let's move along acknowledging that I recognize there are a LOT of valid points to back this up, but asking that you consider that men often seem as inscrutable to many of us as we do to you.

5) oh please, so can anyone of either gender if they're attractive/confident enough, and plenty of guys have certainly used 'i was drunk' to explain away an ugly girl in the morning or a whale-hunting expedition.

6) wowwww, someone really burned you, huh? that must suck, but really, don't claim this post wasn't based on something personal when you make a cheap snipe like this aimed at my ENTIRE gender. Please.

7) true, some women are dumb, selfish bitches about their periods. just be aware that there IS actually a biological reason for women to have mood swings and harsh reactions during our periods; but for each one who feels herself licensed to overreact to everything for a few days just because of her period, know that there are about three others out there who go out of our ways to control ourselves and not inconvenience you. we know we can be bitches-- doesn't mean we all want to be.

...also, menstrual cramps hurt like all hell, so give us a bit of credit for dealing with a ton of pain and discomfort every month, plus the joy of anticipating that pain.

8) eh, I'll give you this one, but I will also add that guys get a lot more pleasure a lot more easily than most of us can, and actually a lot of what feels great to you is incredibly uncomfortable--even painful-- to us. it's not about making you suffer, it's about NOT putting up with a bit of suffering ourselves. you don't like it? too bad, and don't blame me and mine for 'problems' caused by your own sex drive.

i've tried to be as reasonable as possible here, but you really just sound like a bitter little child. get over yourself.

[kelseyyy]

Men don't menstruate.

Men don't give birth.

Men typically make more money than a woman for doing the same job.

Men can pee outdoors with ease.

Men aren't scrutinized for having a bit of a belly.

Men are given high-fives for sleeping around.

Men don't have to worry about every little hair on their body.

Men can open pickle jars with little effort.

Men can be president. Even black men.

Men can sit comfortably with their legs apart.

Men can talk to someone without having them oggle their chest.

Men can burp and fart and talk about poop.

Men can rent a $75 tux while their prom date buys a $400 dress.

Men needn't worry about grey hairs.

Men don't have to wait fifteen minutes to use a public restroom.

Men are praised for being kind, while it should be something that is expected of everyone.

Men don't have to worry about planning their wedding.

Men can spend less than $10 on three pairs of underwear.

Men don't have to wear skin tight jeans and worry that everyone can see their cameltoe.

Men don't have to wear heels.

Men can be fat and still land an attractive woman if they have the right personality.

Men don't get screwed over by their mechanics.

Men get bachelor parties with hookers and blow. Women get bridal showers.

Men's fashion rarely changes, so they needn't worry about looking hip.

Hm, so yeah. It's pretty difficult being a guy I guess.

[alexis7]

Yeah, apparently having everything handed to them is SOOO HARD. I mean, the hardest thing they have to do is find the sluttiest girl at the club to hit on. such a hard life.

[LiveYoungLiveFree69]

I'm liking this list. Only thing I disagree with is that I'm kind of always sitting around comfortably with my legs wide apart hahaha. maybe not the best idea..but oh well :)

[BadAnna]

That was worth reading and funny too.

[ShawnHeide0001]

Sorry, but you must hang around a lot of f***in retarded ass guys who are complete pigs and disrespectful to girls and everyone around them. Because I know me and my friends and 100% of the guys that I personally know, don't act ANYTHING like this.

[kelseyyy]

Shawn, baby, relax.

[moviedude714]

Well it's easier for a girl to get a boyfriend than it is for a guy to get a girlfriend

[Jonny_]

Hmm, I'd give you the first three others aren't that valid...Lets see, I'm shaven, hillary clinton almost became president... My clothes cost more than any girl I know (underwear too) If I wore tight clothes I'd have a penis shape showing, I'd want to plan my wedding, I've queued at the toilets, I get criticised for doing nice things, Women have hen nights... Mens fashion does change and we are supposed to have 6 packs, ever read a health magazine for guys? And I shave most body hair.

[kelseyyy]

Jonny, you are an obvious metrosexual.

[Yeahhbro]

What? Men do masturbate, you can pee outdoors as well, just make sure the cops catch you doing that. I don't know where you hangout but the mechanics that I know don't screwed girls like that. Anywhoo just buy a 75 dollar dress, no body is forcing you to buy a 400, and wear baggie clothes too

[Mesonfielde]

I hope you know that anyone can pick what they do, regardless of "social expectations". you don't HAVE to wear heels if you don't want to.

[zombie_girl_xxx]

Ha ha! that's so true! heels kill dude.

[kelseyyy]

Ladies are expected to wear heels at one time or another, whereas men are never expected to. Why are you so picky? Are you mad that your life is so much easier?

[BlackSuperman]

Nothing wrong with what you listed... prom dresses are THAT much? Never went to the prom, but dag

[matchesandtin]

Um..wow..a lot of this is actually not true, for most men, and I'd say for all of it to be true for any one man, not statisically possible but..Maybe I'm wrong.

Key takeaway is intelligent men and women know things are difficult for both sexes, in different ways, and even ways we don't understand. Example, even though I liked renting my tux, I didn't think about how women buy prom dresses. Financially that sucks but if I knew that back in hs I'd be even more moved by the extra effort.

[SectumSemprae]

LOL you forgot one: men don't bleed the first time they have sex.

[Yeahhbro]

This is a joke a lot of these things are not difficult at all lol

[missymoo]

1. they are usually guys with some sort of psychological disorder, I would never accept. 2. Usually if a woman is 'just laying there' it means she wants it to end NOW! 3. Yea maybe in the 1800's. 4. And guys play some sick games too, its called saying you like us, getting sex, leaving, then ignoring us. 5. We're still the sluts, while guys are studs or players. 6. All people have problems, its not gender specific. 7. No, we're going to yell at you for being d*** heads, some one has to tell you what your doing wrong, and clearly your mother never did ;) 8. I have to agree. I personally think its great being a girl :)

But I'll give you some sympathy out of the kindness of my heart.

nawwww, you have it tough. You poor thing. wow, your life is hard.

-.-

Maybe just one thought, you get to use the internet, you get to eat everyday, you probably have a job, or are studying. Your luckier than half the f***ing world, so stop whinging about shallow sh*t like "aww women get laid whenever they want, why I might actually have to use my hands or pay someone to do it', who cares? Nobody! That's how the world works. Complaining about it isn't going to change anything, so carry on with your little pity party while I go off and find a man to yell at, pay my bills for me, and have sex with ONLY when I say I want too. Goodday! :)

[diegoD]

3 if they play the sick game and ignore you, its easy, you too move on, and try to get someone onhold your pussy, and if he leaves, that means that's all he was after. as to " we are the sluts" just ignore them. What happen to sex liberation?

[Louise123]

Why, Dude.. Sounds like you got some issues! We don't ALL lay there and let YOU do all the work. Believe it or not.. SOME women like sex... As for a guy taking care of us.. Some of us DO have integrity and self respect. We make our OWN way? I don't take guys to bars and use them for drinks.. Honey, if all this stuff is being done to YOU, it's because YOU are allowing it! You are choosing the WRONG women! You want a real relationship? Well.. I suggest YOU change your attitude.. If you are a victim - ti's because YOU are setting yourself up. Nobody is trying to make you suffer! What a horrible opinion you have of women! Try this.. Pick a girl you like.. BECOME FRIENDS WITH HER and do not think of her as a potential DATE/RELATIONSHIP right off the bat. Once you have established some trust/honesty/kindness/respect between you.. the rest follows. Stop buying randoms drinks. Don't climb into bed with someone you hardly know. If you are being used - it's because YOU are asking for it.. Find out why you are showing so much disrespect to YOURSELF that is then being tossed onto the girl you are interested in. MAN, you don't even give her a chance with that miserable perspective! STOP NOW or you are doomed to fail with every single girl you meet. They will not like you or your miserable attitude.. You think you can hide it? You can't. WORK ON YOU.. If you don't love you - THEY won't love you either! You can have a relationship without drama and games.. But you better pick that girl a little more wisely next time and do NOT assume that ALL WOMEN ARE OUT TO GET YOU! They aren't.. Believe it or not.. there are NICE girls out there who want a NICE GUY. Act like one. Hugz.

[ihatework]

Somebody is getting none

[Asker]

Actually none of this stuff is about me. I was at the pub last night and overheard these three women discussing how easily they have it. One said she could take any guy home with her and have no regrets, the other said she was excited to watch "All My Children" while her husband was at work, another was clearly a bar slut mooching drinks. This was simply an observational question. I didn't buy a single one of them a drink, or take any of them home with me.

[Asker]

Do you stay home while your boyfriend supports you ihatework?

[ihatework]

No your mom supports me anonymous douche

[Louise123]

You really should have stated that this was not about YOU but something you'd overheard. Rather misleading ~ and 3 women does not represent the entire female population. There are those who really need help on this site. Could have spent this time answering a legitimate question.

[Asker]

It's okay ihatework. Soon enough you can just be really lazy if you live in America and the tax payers will support you.

[ihatework]

That would be funny if it had the slightest bit of truth to it, but the reality is I work every day and pay taxes like you, I assume you pay taxes, but you might be one of those tea party crybabies. it's funny how you seem to hate women but claim to be married, does it count when it's a rush limbaugh blowup doll.

[GoodManDave]

"5) You can go home with whoever you want from the bar, take the walk of shame and then use "but I was drunk" as an excuse."

Yeah, but I would think in a lot of circles, you'd be labeled a "slut." which I figured out is one of the worst things you can apparently be labeled. - Sadly, that's changing in this society; and it's like "player" - it's becoming considered a positive.

There's pregnancy scares if you're not careful.

As a woman, 3-4 days a month, you get crampy and bloated, and you bleed. You have to REALLY be careful about WHEN you have sex if you don't want to get pregnant.

For us guys, there's hardly ever a line for the bathroom.

There's a LOT of stuff women wear. Now, partially, that's society and women make part of that choice... (more to buy!) but really? all the underwear stuff? Really? I wouldn't want to have to wear all those layers and snaps and pulls (etc) to have to go.

You have to shave the legs, underarms, shave the face (if you need it), bleach the lip hair, tweeze the brows, curl the eyelashes; wear fake eyebrows, constantly make sure the nails are good, etc.

With the guys, for the most part, we can choose to grow facial hair, or not, shave the unibrow (dear god, please do it if you don't), keep our fingernails OK (or if we're going barefoot, keep our toenails trim); and try to watch the zits. The only guys who have to shave all over are swimmers.

There are great aspects of being a man. And great aspects of being a woman. And there are great things about even the "bad" aspects of both.

[rosanna85]

Yay! Another balanced male perspective! It's sad, but there's only a few of you on this post. Thanks to you for posting such a thoughtful and intelligent answer. It's nice to see men speak up with some sense. I wish you all the best, the world needs more people who can put themselves in the other person's shoes.

[kirstentaylorc]

HAHA that was the biggest load of sh*t I have ever read.

1 - guys don't always throw themselves at you and they like to play sick mind games as well, or hey have a few girls on the side that none of them know about.

2 - If a girl just lays there, trust me, a guy knows and will say if she's sh*tty in bed (i've heard guys tell me about certain girls and how they suck and just lay there)

3 - Why would a girl not want to work? I've been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years, I've had a job for the past 4 years and he's the one off and on with jobs. We both have our moments of paying for each other. Plus if a girl is just dating a guy to be supported, that's called mooching, better yet gold digger.

4 - Don't act like guys don't play the same head games - guys are known to be players and yes, some girls as well.

5 - It's not like a guy doesn't go home from a bar with whomever he wants.

6 - Not true.

7 - Not every girl yells and even if it is their period it's not a very good excuse to be a super bitch, although it does happen occasionally.

8 - LOL when my boyfriend wants it, it's not always up to me. Plus, guys like to bitch and moan when they don't get what they want, or they just go and get it from somewhere else.

If you're so anti-girl, go gay and stop complaining :)

[kirstentaylorc]

Just read the bottom, that's merely just three women mooching and they don't represent all females.

[kirstentaylorc]

LOL that sounds more like a personal problem then doesn't it?

[moviedude714]

It's easier for a girl to enter a relationship than it is for a guy

[kirstentaylorc]

Really and why's that? That doesn't make sense at all.

[frustratedchump06]

It's easier for girls because us guys always have to initiate

[kirstentaylorc]

You can't say always because that's not always true. In most cases yes, in some cases no because some females have to actually show that they are interested because some men don't like initiating or are too shy etc.

[frustratedchump06]

Are you saying that some girls do initiate and ask guys out?

[kirstentaylorc]

Absolutely.

[TheVirgin]

Guys would throw themselvs at girls more if every girl looked like you :D

[Anonymous]

ok seriously? no sex is better than the other, its just narrow thinking and culture that has fine tuned our minds into believing so, the only differences between men and women is how they portray themselves, and the only physical differences between men and women, is that men are stronger, and view things in a focused manner, while carrying better resilience, I.E. resistance to pain from injury, and adverse whether conditions. While women hold a better focus, view things more on a wide view scale, rather than focused, and are more flexible. so dude, men and women are only as different as you make them out to be, people cause mind games, and people are the ones who use others, not a specific sex, and men women can do sh*t men do as well... like cheating... so we are all in the same boat. P.S. Feminists are OK, it depends on how radical there views are, there are feminists... and there are crazy ass feminazi's who try to get back at men or get more rights than the average person. to all of you who fit into the nazi category... move to the center of the earth! you are actually making some of the narrow minded men more narrow minded by forcing them into a corner!

[eldamien]

Hey, I'm going to let you in on a little secret.

Ready?

Most women don't base their entire lives around "how easy it is" to "get penis".

Most women can even go an entire day without thinking about sex. I know, shocking for an unevolved guy like you to conceptualize, but it's the God's honest truth. I can't tell if you're being serious because of the line "the only daily problem is to make sure you can buy both pairs of shoes that are on sale".

There's six billion people on the planet. Billion. With a B. And yet, somehow, because you met a few girls that fit your stereotypical worldview, you can talk about how ALL girls are ALL THE TIME.

Get a grip. The reason you're going to be a bachelor well into your 30s is because no stable, self-respecting woman would want to be with a guy who has such "unique" insights on how women operate.

Now, I'm not a feminist or whatever. I love being a guy. Love it, love it, love it. But I do realize women have problems to deal with just like men do. They have unrealistic expectations placed on them just like we do.

Basically this isn't even a question, it's just a rant on how women have mistreated you. Woops, did I let your cat out of the bag?

[socalgamehater2006]

and you think it's easier to be a guy?

[Cailleach]

Dude, best answer.

[frustratedchump06]

disagree, sounds like you are saying men have life easier

[eldamien]

Coming from a guy with the name "frustratedchump", I think my point is pretty well proven.

Its totally easy to be a guy. That's why I love being a guy. We have it good. Then again, if you read my articles you'd know I have confidence, love, and a positive attitude...things girls actually respond to more than looks. What am I saying, positive attitude? Sorry, I had to pick myself up off the floor I was laughing so hard...you probably don't know what a positive attitude even looks like.

[defytraditiongirl]

to me it is debateable, what is easy for girls is hard for guys, what is hard for girls is easy for guys

[Virago]

to be honest with you, being a girl is as easy as being a guy... conclusion it's not easy for both!

1- boys are always throwing themselves at that cute slutty blond girl, so what do "normal" girls do in their lives? stay single forever?

2- you know how many guys, during sex, care only for their pleasure, they don't take in consideration that a girl has feeling, likes to be pleasured, I mean we get an orgasm too... and oh how many times a girl fakes her orgasm just to fulfill your egoistic pleasures!

3- first of all, nothing is more irritating than having your husband tell you "I don't want you to work, I want to you to stay home"... I feel that a woman should have the liberty to choose that. also, you try to do the housework by yourself all the time, cook, take care of the kids.. etc

4- just like guys don't understand girls, girls don't fully understand guys also... few things are way too complicated to be understood unless you are actually living it.

5- and then, get pregnant, don't know who's the father, suffer for 9 months alone...

6- To be honest with you, I like shoes, but don't care to buy 2 pairs every and each day... sorry dude, but those kind of girls are very shallow and materialist.. we're not all like that..

but we do suffer from harassment on the streets, in the office.. we worry about people not seeing but our boobs and ass (especially by employers)... and so many more...

7- yeah, having a period is so much fun, you worry about what you're gonna wear, where you sit, and let us not forget the pain... oh how we love the pain!

8- I donno about you, but sex isn't everything for us... we have brains, you know that thing inside your head.. maybe you recognize it?! we usually use that more

[Miss_All_Time_Low]

So ... you heard three women discussing how "easy" they have it.

Mate, I heard dozens of guys discussing how girls are worthless, shallow and how they are just looking for one to take to bed for the night by saying nice things, then ditch her in the morning.

Men and women aren't that different. We're still all humans, you realise. There are self-absorbed, shallow jerks and genuine people looking for a serious relationships in both groups.

Girls have it easier in some ways, then a lot tougher than guys in others.

Look at both sides of the story before you go agreeing with all stereotypes. Even if we had it easier, is this something you should keep ranting about on sites like this? Does it help you personally? Because I must say, I see this question every second day and I'm getting a bit fed up. Especially because it isn't true.

I can get started on how we can never truly be ourselves, have to make ourselves look wonderful, beautiful and agreeable every day (because personality rarely comes first), can't be too determined or have our own sense of self-worth or most boys will deem us "manly", are more emotional and usually completely break when somebody we truly loved left us, always have to wonder if a guy is with us because he likes us for us, or just wants to sleep with us, then disappear, etc. Plus, relationships mean everything to most girls. For guys, it is just a part of life and if it fails ... oh well. Next.

Personally, I'd like to be a guy in the next life. =P

I'd love to see how it is to have the final say about everything. You pick the girl you like, you ask HER out and if at any point she does something wrong, I can just leave and find some other gullible girl.

Here's a generalisation - boys are so one-sided. They only see one side of the coin and they're prepared to die for it. Silly, as each is made of TWO sides.

[Asker]

Wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[Miss_All_Time_Low]

Yeahhhhhh. :)

[Mesonfielde]

Yeah, pick the girl you like, and hear how she tells you "you know, there is nothing wrong with you, and I'm sure you will make some girl happy, and I like you, but I'm not in love with you" (this is a humane rejection, though), or "I don't want to ruin our friendship by breaking up if we dated, so I'll have to reject you" and then she would never want to ever talk to you again because she's a lying deceitful drunken whoreslut, or "I only look at you as a friend, but not as a guy" and all that.

[Miss_All_Time_Low]

Wow. So many people have a really low opinion about girls.

Then why even BOTHER with us ?

I still think you have it better in a lot of ways. And yes, we do turn boys we don't like down very humanely ... which is not what I'd say of some guys that just string you along or stick with you to be able to sleep with somebody. How romantic.

Bitterness about the opposite sex is a certified way to fail, though. =P