Well, who the fuck is gonna stop me? The butch-lesbian bouncer? LOL I'd go in, get a drink, and deliberately flirt with everyone JUST to annoy them. Call the cops on me for all I care - what are you gonna do? "This evil straight men is in our strictly lesbian bar!" I bet the cops would buy me a beer afterwards!
But on a serious note, I know that currently sexuality is not a protected class in the US, however, gender is. So if they don't allow me in because I am not a lesbian - that's legal. But considering the prerequisit for being a lesbian is being a woman, I'd say if they didn't allow men in, they'd be in for a serious law suit. I don't know about other countries, I think where I live, they are obligated to serve you regardless of your sexuality or gender.
i think a policy of inclusion serves to create better understanding, relations and tolerance. policies of discrimination seem to only further or at least maintain the divide
If men had a problem then there would be strictly gay men’s bars. But... they simply don’t. Or at least, not enough of you are voicing your concerns. It’s not “fair” you don’t put in the initiative to make it fair. I don’t see the problem either way. If guys can come into lesbo clubs then great. If not, okay. I don't know, maybe there were some dudes who violated their right to be there like trying to be sleezy and gross. I know I went to an all girls bar/club once and guys were allowed. However a few got kicked out for egging on girl-on-girl kisses. It was kind of weird and it was making the girls uncomfortable so the dudes got the boot 👢
Are the numbers as strong or stronger than the lesbian ladies’? If not, then more men need to stick together. If so, well then that sucks. But more men are in powerful positions than women. So I think the main reason why men’s voices aren’t taken seriously is because they have an agenda against each other. You would think since it’s mostly a bunch of old guys making decisions, the law would favor men more. But no. And that’s not women’s fault.
er no sorry i dont they should, it would attract a WHOLE lot of creeps who love lesbians, it won't just be to mingle as girls do in gay clubs, or at least as far I know about what they do. let the lesbos have a space for themselves where they aren't crazy fetishized.
Well I don't know of any "lesbian only" bars. All of the gay bars that I know of and have been too have allowed for straight men to enter with no problems. I would know because I've entered with them...
If they want to, they should be allowed to. I can understand why the ban would be in place (due to many straight men thinking that they can "convert" a lesbian or possibly find a bisexual woman in there, thus making the atmosphere uncomfortable) but there shouldn't be one.
The answer to your question is, 'of course' they should. Not that you'd want to, but no should be barred from anywhere if our society is striving for equality and equal opportunity. Isn't that what the FI keeps pushing?
OTOH, if you don't fit in a place, any place, you should avoid it. I surely wouldn't want to hang out in any of these places!
Of course us men have to endure shit like this. Also we have to endure women calling us creeps, pointing their fingers at us and saying "you aren't trying hard enough to get your right to enter" and shit like that.
If it wasn't for sjws then us, the stronger sex, wouldn't stand for this.
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