Is there a good way to get revenge on a player?

[Anonymous]

Question is up here^.

[Anonymous]

Thats easy, pretend that you are into him, go to his place, start kissing making out, say you want to go all the way. However, be dominant, say you want to tie him up. Tie his hands and legs to the bed (preferable 4 poster bed, but improvise), kiss him *all* over, be naked ect, arouse him , but never let him cum. once your sure you've done all you can without letting him cum, leave. Make sure he's tied nice and tight ;p

[Asker]

lol I love this

[Opinion Owner]

lol thanks, I find it creative. I dated a player, and came up with this after, didn't do it though... (sadly) ;p

[Asker]

Of course. Only hindsight is 20/20. By the same principle, I only think of good comebacks for arguments hours after the fact.

[Opinion Owner]

same here...

[MissedConnection10]

Just be the best person you can be, focus on yourself, your dreams, goals, and pursuing your interests.

If you got *played*, I know it hurts, but the best revenge is to channel that energy into bettering yourself.

Don't worry, the player will get his/her revenge.

[ayla79]

Get happy and once you are ftully over him and you next see him again you won't have to do much you'll instantly and naturally get your revenge cause you won't care! He'll sense this. With players its about their ego and feeling wanted. If you don't want them and you are glad they're gone, and can't get you back no matter what, its the worst possible revenge 4 them as it leaves them "helpless" to change the situation!

[Asker]

Smart thinking.

[ayla79]

Just make sure you realize what they're on about! And don't entertain any ideas that you can "show him" the light and he might fall for you so you get to see him groveling on the ground for you.He's been there, done that, pretty much seen any "girly" revenge there is and not interested!Completely "ignoring" his male identity and "importance" is what stings! But you must believe it 100%!After all, you "saw his true colours" and decided he's actually pretty basic!Let him laugh this off if he can!

[Anonymous]

Hmmmmm...i would say just live your best life...revenge takes so much energy I think.

[Ellohymn]

Grow up.. make him realize that you should have never been played in the first place.

Otherwise.. if you're not that big of a girl.. or woman or however you'd claim to classify yourself as... then just be a cold heartless bitch and do whatever it is that people 'genuinely' advise you to do on here.

[Asker]

So, how do you make someone realize that one should not have been played?

[Ellohymn]

By being the bigger person and moving on to much less emotionally distraught options.. Like a guy who doesn't put on any kind of front.. someone real who you never get suspicious vibes from. All of the obvious signs that are right in front of you... You appear to have missed those. Or whoever was played seemed to have missed those signs the first time around...

Anyway the point is to become intellectual enough to be able to tell when you're being played. that's how you get revenge.. long term..

[Ellohymn]

.. When you can smell a player from a mile away. That's when you get revenge. It's called not succumbing.. It was your f*** up.. you were the one who walked into it. That's just him playing his part perfectly.. The person to blame is you for not seeing it in the first place. Your idea of revenge isn't going make you feel any less stupid.

[Asker]

I don't see myself meeting any players in the near future. The signs of the player were too obvious. That's why I missed them. And there were many, including his two friends telling me he was a loser. When you say that moving on to someone decent is getting revenge, I disagree. And saying that taking advantage of someone is not the wrong thing to do, is incorrect.

[Ellohymn]

You're dumb. And clearly take things WAY too literally with absolutely NO thought process when reading anything. The getting revenge part. Was to achieve the feeling of "revenge" (which is a feeling that absolutely no one REALLY feels to achieve in the first place) by being the bigger person and moving on. you won't find justice in being unjust or immoral.. pretend all you f***ing want. You acted like all you care about was to ruin someone's life because they wronged you. Naturally I had to give

[Asker]

Don't ever start a response with "You're dumb" because the person reading it will not have any incentive to read the rest of the crap you're typing.

[Ellohymn]

you a reasonably ass backwards explanation to how you got played.. for an ass backwards individual such as yourself. Players exist. next time.. just don't fall for them..

[Asker]

Takes one to know one, ass backwards man(boy)!

[Ellohymn]

takes one to know one? how old are you?

[destroyer]

Don't bother, revenge only ends up in violence, he might hurt you if you do something, give love, not hate regardless of what others have done onto you

[l-hedoniste]

Yes; you leave him alone.

Otherwise, you pay attention to him, while he pays attention to whatever the hell he wants. This is *exactly* where he wants to be.

[Asker]

Whaddya mean, "he pays attention to whatever the hell he wants"? Like, you're eating out of the palm of his hand, and he could care less?

[alltheabove1212]

yes. they thrive on you giving them tons of attention/want them back

[l-hedoniste]

"Like, you're eating out of the palm of his hand, and he could care less?"

Yes. This.

[Asker]

It's just an ego trip. I don't think it should be too hard to avoid cruel people.

[alltheabove1212]

Ignore him, realize what players are like, stop dating players

[Asker]

Players aren't all ripped, tan meatheads...some of them are harder to spot. However, just wait around and they'll show their true colors. You don't even have to fool around with them to realize what they're made of.

[Ellohymn]

I love how she has this issue that she presents as if she needs help with players and then claims to be able to prevent the issue from happening in the first place by knowing everything that they are like. like she slept with the guy just so she could prove how predictable players are... made up some stupid question with the overlaying topic of players.. and then responds to everyone's advice as if she just wanted to solidify how much she knows about them.

[Asker]

@ZzeHeimerr: Thank you for all of your helpful advice. You have been so generous for sharing your insight into this situation. However, your attitude has proven equally unhelpful, therefore cancelling out any good that your initial responses have done.

[lv4lv]

Simple, hook him up with someone with a few STVs...

[Asker]

I thought they were now called STI's. Huh.

[lv4lv]

STD, STI, and STVs.

...If you wanna make a big deal about it.

[Asker]

It's not a big deal as long as I don't get one!

[Anonymous]

ik I'm kinda answering this way late but handcuf him to the bed and apply supper glue to both sides of his nuts, and stick it to his thighs he will be walking like a penguin untill he has to go get it un bonded...:P

[Anonymous]

by ignoring him. don't give him the attention he craves

[hahahehejstwantinfo]

it wuld but you have to do it so he doesn't realize wht your doing ha ha :)