What is the best revenge on a player?

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Grimfangs · Accepted Answer

There is none. A player, or a pick-up artist is a Hyaena looking to exploit unsuspecting victims. These victims realise where they are going, but they don't realise that the player is just going to take part of the deal and leave without giving you the rest of it in return.
You cannot do anything to them which would hurt them. They don't care about you. You could try murder, and rape but make sure that you don't caught. I suppose success would be the best revenge in this case. Something that would make them want you back, but then you'd have the power to deny them that and keep doing so.
As for Pick-up, that's one sad road it has turned down upon. It started off with a magazine article teaching guys how to simply hold a conversation with women, given the fact that the difference between the roles of men and women were drastically different in those days. It talked about sensitivity and courtesy, and showed ways to diplomatically covey points without hurting her feelings. Then, it transformed into something which taught men how to build and sustain relationships with a woman.
From there started the downfall where pickup now teaches men how to get more sex. The sole reason being the masses of men, afraid and tired of rejection, restoring to sexual escapes instead of being bold and confident. That's the only part of pickup culture which survived because of only one reason: it sells. Truly sad.

ThisDudeHere · Accepted Answer

By reacting to what they have done in such a manner you give them the satisfaction of victory for they are in control over your emotions and reactions when it is you who should be in control. Revenge against someone over something petty automatically means that they screw your over twice, not once.

Alwaysthere85 · Accepted Answer

When I was 24 (I'm 31 now so this is an younger version of me lol) I got played by a player. I got on MySpace and contacted a pregnant girl. I had her pee on two pregnancy tests and gave her $20 at the Burger King she worked at. I called this player up who not only played me but stole my best friend's laptop. Anyway, I told him I was pregnant and he freaked out begging me to abort. After 15 minutes, I told him it was a joke.

At the moment it felt good to make him feel bad for a good 15 mins. Now, I wouldn't resort to those tactics as I think karma will get you one way or another. Plus, what I did was not ethical I think. The best revenge is success.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I believe in karma so I know when people do me wrong that they're gonna pay for what they did, maybe not today but someday. I also believe that we all have our way of coping with shit so if you can't wait on karma to hurt him then do, but beware the karma you can't play god that only means that you feel a greater person than him and by getting revenge you'll jut probably laugh for a bit but that won't change what he already did, fuck around. So just move on if it makes you feel better act like you were the one using him, show him he wasn't worth your time and that you're doing better now.

nevermoregirl7 · Accepted Answer

It only felt good for like a day. But, keep in mind, this really wasn't a relationship. It was a weird friends with benefits situation. Only he got to fool around and I couldn't. So when I found out he slept with my best friend... again, I just went and fucked a guy he really hated. I wish I saw the look on his face when I told him.

lizziepooh03 · Accepted Answer

Ummmm, if you got played by a player than I think you should be looking at yourself and not at the player.

Player implies you got played.

My advice, work on not getting played. Much more helpful advice than on how to get revenge on the player, I think. lol!

Astoriana · Accepted Answer

The best revenge is living well. He's not going to change, and certainly not because you want him to do so. Be happy with someone else.

skykid1992 · Answer

People will tell you your wrong and to grow up but guest what? They can go fuck themselfs sometimes reavage is need and its the best thing ever. But tbh all you can do right now. Is move on my current girlfriend ex after 1 year is now blowing up her phone everyday saying how much he misss her but she treats him like crap and a creep. He crys to my girlfriend beat friend everyday which is funny he fucked up my girlfriend tried for 5 months to make it work while he would not call or text her fot weeks then male excuses. Now feels. He deserve another. Chance nooo lol

AshrafWest · Answer

Look if a guy used you or whatsoever, don't shed a year of thought on him, he doesn't deserve you thinking about his selfish soul.

But, you can smack with a golf club to the nuts, or baseball bat to the nose , or twist his nipple with a hair clipper, but if he reports you can get into legal complications. Soooooo, hey no pain no gain

Purrfectionice · Answer

No revenge is the best revenge. Live your life to the fullest and don't be affected by them. Show them you don't care if they played you or not, then they'll be triggered. Because players like to be cared, only then they get to play. If their target don't care about them, how could they possibly play?

AthleticMom · Answer

Leading a full happy life with someone else, always ignoring them and publicly embarrassing them by shooting down ANY passes they continue to make.
Nothing further, no back talk, rumors, nothing to fuel that fire - allow it to die - or smolder "the one that got away"

RiceCrust · Answer

Definitely not much you can do apart from violence or something illegal. If he already screwed you then he already won. If you screw his friends he won't care. If you try to embarrass him publicly he probably won't care and would likely embarrass you too. Move on and accept your life decisions.

TripleAce · Answer

Stringing him along lol. Not giving in Nothing pisses a player off more than said player not getting what he wants

Blake0048 · Answer

I don't understand how anyone gets "played". you either wanted to have sex or not. You can't say a man played you because a relationship didn't ensue. having sex is not a binding contract especially in todays hookup culture. If you are the romantic type I suggest just being upfront once a guy vrings up sex (probably 4 messages into your first conversation) and tell him you are not having sex outside of a relationship and if he can't wait or doesn't wanna be with you then you just can't have sex... If he's a decent guy and sees you as a potential girlfriend he will be just fine waiting for you.

lovelyhoneybones · Answer

Moving on with your life and not letting what he did stunt you. Life isn't about getting revenge. Things happen, we move on. Being petty about it or doing something that'll make him hurt as badly as you won't make you any better than him.

You can't control what other people do, but you can control what YOU do.

HitGirl_4680 · Answer

Because he's a player and played you he obviously doesn't care about you so most likely nothing you do will affect him.

Although depending what he did, how he hurt you etc, I may understand why you'd feel the need, want to get revenge, you've just not told us anything!

Blonde401 · Answer

Revenge means you care. The best revenge is to not care and float away in the breeze far away.

lacelover20 · Answer

Dont talk to them if they try to talk to you. Act like you never cared and go on like nothing happens. It kills them. I know from experience lol

philipph · Answer

will hurting another person be a strategy to make you happier?
however i would understand such an approach although i hope from my heart that i would not choose revenge. I wish you peace and acceptance as well as a partner that will respond to your openness with tender and compassionate friendship

Mega_illuminati · Answer

Stop giving any kind of attention to him.

But generally, a player os after you just to get you as his "conquest". And once you have dated him, there is nothing much you can do to make him mad or anything.

masterotaku · Answer

the best revenge is no revenge. just move on and learn the lesson.

revenge means you still care too much... and on a negative level. in the end you'll get no satisfaction so just let them run their own life.

Nik1hil · Answer

forget him  player's pride over their score! if you act like it wasn't good and you hardly remember that it ever happened, its gonna hurt him like snake bite

Anonymous · Answer

My ex thought of himself as a player and kept cheating on me. When I decided to leave him, I knew that he was kind of racist, so I slept with a black friend of mine. We took a close up pic of his dick inside me and I texted it to him. He got the picture and hasn't talked to me since. Lol

artie1983 · Answer

Ignore them and move on. Be happy. Smile and enjoy life without them. It isn't about getting back at the player, it's about loving yourself enough to put it behind you and move on

LittleSally · Answer

I say just leave it... it's healthier for you.
He WILL find a woman who will destroy his life and his heart soon enough... You let her do that - if you tried anything it would just be too suspicious anyways. Haha

This_is_my_username · Answer

Learn the lesson that was given to you and move on obviously, life isn't a game where we keep tabs on whomever's wronged us. THAT'S just too time consuming and a total waste of precious life if you ask me.

dannymexico90 · Answer

You ignore them. When you take your attention away, they start to question how great they really are.

TomBowl · Answer

How has this even gotten attention? You and anyone willing to reply to this just seems psychopathic. Maybe just grow up and move on.

You'll be hard pressed in your life not to find a plethora of people looking to use you or be used by you. This is the nature of the game and, trust me on this one, not playing it isn't an option.

Lucyk231 · Answer

Letting him be and simply just move on. Let him live the life as a "player" and he'll eventually learn his lesson.

davidchris1985 · Answer

first forget... second just wait for any opportunity that time gives you... once the opportunity is given then think to hit back or just go let it off since u gained patience enough and can do many more best things for yourselves... I believe that the best revenge is to improve yourself

TheEnvy · Answer

Do whatever will give you relief. He's not the first a-hole in your life and unfortunately not the last either. And he will never learn a lesson. So just focus on yourself.

sparkling-winters · Answer

Suddenly block him on EVERYTHING! If it's purely online, it'll really mess up his brain, if you're bound to see him in real life then still do the first step but if he confronts you, don't say anything, look him up and down and just straight out laugh at him then walk away.

Machiavelli · Answer

To not let what he did affect you, stop thinking about him and continue to live your life.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Not falling for them and moving on I would imagine. Its not like your going to hurt their feelings or get them to suddenly regret sleeping around.

meatballs21 · Answer

Getting on with your life and chalking it up to experience - a player already doesn't care, and your ill-conceived attempts to put him in his place will only end up distressing you further.

LostGirl08 · Answer

The best revenge: Smile, move on and have the time of your life without them. 😊

nealatmasfu · Answer

i think becoming successful is the best revenge ever!!
So I would suggest to become super successful in your career and making a name for yourself.
This would burn anyone from the inside no matter the age or gender!.

steveguitar · Answer

Players don't give a shit, the only way you will get any satisfaction is to urn them down before you get involved with them

LaFemmeFatale · Answer

Not to be plaything. I've been attracted to the players all my life but I've never dated them, I'm an unconquered in their list hehe  Seriously so, living your life and not giving a fuck about him.

cth96190 · Answer

The best revenge is to live well and let karma deal with them.

Elarra · Answer

Why waste energy on revenge? If you got played, learn from it, and move on.

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't matter what twisted game you play to get him back. Outside of going full on psycho and planting evidence on him to go to jail or straight murder him.

in short. Once the panties drop and he's done cumming on your face. HE'S WON.

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Danny_dan92 · Answer

Fuck his best friend. And record it, send the footage to him. Or worse fuck his brother & do the same. I'm no player but that would fuck with my head if a girl ever did that to me

Midget_Hug · Answer

Become extremely attractive and simply target his marks. The more you take from him the more upset he'll get even if you do nothing with the marks themselves. People hate competition, especially when it's strong competition ruining their nights.

10dsw · Answer

No revenge. Players always have an abundance of women messaging them. "Revenge" will have little effect on a player because they have an abundance mentality (which is smart).

So be an adult and grow up!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Tell them bluntly that karma will get them. Let them know how you feel sometimes the truth hurts but in the long run it's better than getting revenge a way which could be considered illegal or could cause
something bad to happen.

Nice_Guy_Last · Answer

Get pregnant with his kid. XD No but please don't do that. Just put an embarassing note on his social media, make something public that he wanted under wraps.

Tay_tay101 · Answer

To show them that they are worth crap to you and move on with your life like you never even got involved

Rachkoki · Answer

Do nothing except move on... make him feel you are not affected... you know without your reaction, people and situations have no meaning 🙂

kayano · Answer

The best revenge is no revenge. Don't stoop on that level. Not worth the time. Be nice regardless but keep your distance.

Dudeman1234 · Answer

Revenge is petty. That said I'm a petty person. I say fuck his best friend.

Sluthater · Answer

Cutting them out of your life and in the future not dating a man who throws his dick around.

deadlyrose · Answer

don't hate the player, hate the game. I bet you knew from the start that me will hurt you eventually so it's not really his fault

muzamil197 · Answer

No revenge coz a player is basically an insecure, senseless n shameless person. A real man will be honest n loyal to his girl,

Charlotte0204 · Answer

Be the better person and don't seek revenge. Stay away and annoy them by finding someone who will cherish you always.

Anonymous · Answer

Made him think I was really interested and flirted heavily. Than took that shot right under from him. And moved on to his friend who is more my type. But the player is petty and has been trying to sabotage me lmao

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

Success

BlueLights · Answer

Every woman has to come across a player or a few, and the best thing is to let it go and learn from it.

WhereAmI · Answer

Pretending your pregnant and that you plan to keep the kid, then confirming his last name for your attorney.

Spongebob1235 · Answer

no revenge. if you fell for it, just move on and learn from it.  revenge is stupid in my opinion

Gabewilson · Answer

Continue on being the person you always were let them know they can't make you stoop to their level.

Loveherbut · Answer

Leave them suddenly it destroys their self esteem lol been there done that it worked they came back over and over again for many years and still years to come🙋‍♂️

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

The best I can say is, don't try to beat him at his own game.  Thing is we both know you're gonna "try" that anyway, simply due to the fact that you don't actually want revenge.

akadatank44 · Answer

You're 25 to 29. Grow up and realize you were played. Dont let it happen next time and be the adult and move on

11dog22 · Answer

Have his dick cut off. Now he have a pussy so he can be fuck

RedQueen444 · Answer

The best revenge would be to just move on and forget about him.

Anonymous · Answer

Moving on with your life and being a better person.  *Truth is, players don't give a fuck what you do.

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