I think more men use online than women, so I would say women have a few more options than guys.. Or at least it would seem that way when guys let themselves be known far more than many women do..
The options are plenty for both men and women, but the quality worsens by the day. People are more self-interested than ever. Thats a recipe for disaster for any relationship.
yeah I know... and guess what? I'm single and probably will be for a long time... curious why?
Try it out from the other side, if you don't wanna play the dumb games, no matter your gender, it is fucking horseshit out here. Everyone is living in a fake ass reality and hurting themselves and others and I get shat on for not playing ball. 'Oh, go slay a few dragons', 'oh, you should really get a girlfriend' blah blah blah I could fuck and chuck all day long if I had a heart of stone, my cock sure wouldn't mind
Why worry about other options that your interest has? Loving yourself is more important than getting laid. Although I will agree women have the dating advantage, although I suspect a lot of creeps are in that pool of potential options
I mean, considering the theory of sexual selection when it comes to human reproductive behaviour it would suggest that women are the ones who usually choose the mate. Intersexual selection - the person chooses their partner. Intrasexual selection- the prospective mates compete with each other for the chance to mate... at least, that's if I've remembered the terms right... the intersexual selection is supposedly done by females while males tend to deal with intrasexual selection in humans apparently. And uh, yeah, Darwin came up with that theory... so it's been around for a while if it has also been applied to humans.
That and allowing females to make decisions when it comes relationships is the main reason for the surge in STDs, fatherlessness and male social withdrawal
@blutwolfe I've never actually been on a date, and I don't think I could just get a guy to go out with me. I don't know where guys get this idea that girls have tons of guys going after them, that's only the that's only pretty girls. All my friends have either gone out with at least 5 guys, or none. There's a few that had one or two relationships, but they had to ask the guys out. It's not justgiuys who have trouble finding love.
ya I was trying to explain it, and originally it made it sound like you went on dates but we're choosy, I do know girls who are like that, they go on dates every week but then are single, and some who don't get any
and why don't you feel like you could get a guy to date you? Message me if you're not comfortable
@DoubleBunBurger Actually I'm 17, not that it makes much difference lol. But that's part of my point, this post is making it sound like all women have guys constantly throwing themselves at them. Which is not the case. Obviously my age is a big part of why I haven't gone on dates, but I doubt that even when I am older that I'll get guys flirting with me left, right, and center.
The 2 main problems are that today women talk WAY TOO MUCH SHIT 1) without actually backing it up with action and 2) playing victims when someone says some shit back.
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Nah Iol no one wanted to date me, so I went online and asked my husband out on a date
I think more men use online than women, so I would say women have a few more options than guys.. Or at least it would seem that way when guys let themselves be known far more than many women do..
I don't know, but I sure AF wouldn't want to be a guy in the dating world today.
Interesting and why is that
The options are plenty for both men and women, but the quality worsens by the day.
People are more self-interested than ever. Thats a recipe for disaster for any relationship.
If they do... it’s because men will do anything for sex.
not me
@Shamalien but most men will
yeah I know... and guess what? I'm single and probably will be for a long time... curious why?
Try it out from the other side, if you don't wanna play the dumb games, no matter your gender, it is fucking horseshit out here. Everyone is living in a fake ass reality and hurting themselves and others and I get shat on for not playing ball. 'Oh, go slay a few dragons', 'oh, you should really get a girlfriend' blah blah blah I could fuck and chuck all day long if I had a heart of stone, my cock sure wouldn't mind
@Shamalien maybe you should date men... since you hate women
I don't wanna date men, and I don't hate the traditional western woman, just the modern brainwashed one
@Shamalien it sounds like to me you hate all women
sooo you think the modern brainwashed women = all women
I've been around enough to meet a few who are not like that, it just takes half a lifetime for them to get there... oh the joys of youth
@Shamalien do you think men are any better? No they aren’t
They have equal amount of choices because there is approximately a 1:1 ratio between men and women. However, women have all the power of choice.
Why worry about other options that your interest has? Loving yourself is more important than getting laid. Although I will agree women have the dating advantage, although I suspect a lot of creeps are in that pool of potential options
I mean, considering the theory of sexual selection when it comes to human reproductive behaviour it would suggest that women are the ones who usually choose the mate.
Intersexual selection - the person chooses their partner.
Intrasexual selection- the prospective mates compete with each other for the chance to mate...
at least, that's if I've remembered the terms right... the intersexual selection is supposedly done by females while males tend to deal with intrasexual selection in humans apparently.
And uh, yeah, Darwin came up with that theory... so it's been around for a while if it has also been applied to humans.
I agree to an extent, my ass isn't worried about competing for someone's attention. Although that mindset required a lot of growing on my end
I’m curious about women having more options.. By @Women “do you mean 16-24 year olds?
Female hypergamy is well documented.
That and allowing females to make decisions when it comes relationships is the main reason for the surge in STDs, fatherlessness and male social withdrawal
Nah I think it’s always been that way because guys are generally hornier due to testosterone.
Are you allowed to say that? I don’t think this is a thing. Sounds sexist.
What do you mean by too many options? I thought the men to women population ratio was pretty eqaul
women naturally choose who they mate with. It is what it is.
Isn't that level of narcissism and selfishness always present, not just them, but everyone?
I can definitely see how a modern woman can have “always looking for more” syndrome
Well I'm single, where's my line up of men? I'm not currently looking, but when I was I couldn't find a decent date to save my life!
what OP is getting at is you could find dates, even though none of them were decent. A lot of guys on here don't even go on dates lol
Like an example, I choose to be in your line up of men, but you don't pick me, that's the dating power he's getting at.
I'm one of those guys who also has "dating power" though so it can go both ways, but for some it's one sided
@blutwolfe
I've never actually been on a date, and I don't think I could just get a guy to go out with me. I don't know where guys get this idea that girls have tons of guys going after them, that's only the that's only pretty girls. All my friends have either gone out with at least 5 guys, or none. There's a few that had one or two relationships, but they had to ask the guys out. It's not justgiuys who have trouble finding love.
ya I was trying to explain it, and originally it made it sound like you went on dates but we're choosy, I do know girls who are like that, they go on dates every week but then are single, and some who don't get any
and why don't you feel like you could get a guy to date you? Message me if you're not comfortable
@Carbon-12 you're only 16 lol. A lot of girls your age are barely allowed to date
@DoubleBunBurger
Actually I'm 17, not that it makes much difference lol. But that's part of my point, this post is making it sound like all women have guys constantly throwing themselves at them. Which is not the case. Obviously my age is a big part of why I haven't gone on dates, but I doubt that even when I am older that I'll get guys flirting with me left, right, and center.
oh cmon you can't be that bad
You mean like Bad Dragon dildos? Sybian orgasm machines? 12" vibrators? And being openly heralded for being queer? Maybe?
The 2 main problems are that today women talk WAY TOO MUCH SHIT 1) without actually backing it up with action and 2) playing victims when someone says some shit back.
It’s important to have options so you can get the best thing for yourself in the end
We can say the same thing about men. I'm tall, but about as dead even of a 5 as exists and I can get a date at least five times per week if I want.