Should society have more stay at home dads? (Page 2)

[boggboss]

Or just live your life how you want

[Anonymous]

I don't think so, at least I won't be down to do that

[Anonymous]

No we were never meant for that.

[weirdoweirdo]

Society shouldn't have any "stay at home" people.

[mistixs]

Yeah, instead we should have kids be raised by total strangers /sarcasm

[bamesjond0069]

Cuck alert. So you want your wife to sleep with other men?

[Iamagoodguy]

And her being at home with you not there would change the situation how bamesjond0069

[bamesjond0069]

@Iamagoodguy women who are out working while hubby home are the most likely to cheat

[weirdoweirdo]

There's a thing called KINDERGARTEN. Yeah the mom and the dad has maternity/paternity leave the first 1,5 year but after that the kid can go to kindergarten and women who work dont just sleep around especially if they have just gotten a fucking kid. Well maybe you dont have such a great country as mine where paternity and maternity leave is paid for that 1,5 year I don't know.

[bamesjond0069]

Whats that have to do with anything? If a woman works she's more likely to cheat. And idgaf about p/matertnity leave. My wife will be a stay at home mom and im wealthy. Dont need that shit.

[weirdoweirdo]

You're more reactionary than most nazis in Europe.. So when she has the entire house for herself while you work she's not as likely to cheat opposed to when she has to do a job in say a hospital or office?

[MzAsh]

Actually women are more likely to cheat out of boredom, loneliness or feeling neglected by their partner.

[bamesjond0069]

Well she wouldn't be bored if she has kids to attend to. And yes. Most people who cheat dont cheat in a vacuum. They aren't out looking for it. They tend to form work place relationships and then it feels more ok. If they didn't work close with people they wouldn't have ever thought to cheat. Stay at home wife doesn't typically put the kids upstairs with video games and then call a male escort or random man like hey i met you once come fuck men with my kids upstairs. Not typical. Typical is woman works closely with man at work, eventually takes lunch break with him then starts having afternoon delights. This is what happens 9x out of 10.

[MzAsh]

Women need a social life outside of kids. Even stay at home moms get tired of her only companions being children. That’s why they’ll look for any excuse to find a babysitter for a few hours just to go to the gym, or shopping, or a boozy brunch with the girls, or start up a new hobby. Could be either a good thing or a bad thing depending on the woman and the relationship she’s in. If a woman is feeling unfulfilled, she’ll cheat regardless and keeping her confined to the house with the kids is certainly not going to entertain an unsatisfied wife.

[MzAsh]

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[bamesjond0069]

@MzAsh 20% are housewives... that means 80% are working women! Yeah give me a housewife any day.

[MzAsh]

Don’t you already have one?

[bamesjond0069]

Nope. I'm always dating though. Its hard to find someone worth committing to for the rest of my life, giving up all other women for. That girl has to be excellent!

[MzAsh]

What are your qualifications for being an excellent husband?

[bamesjond0069]

Most womens criteria. Whatever that is. As evidenced by the number of women who ask me to marry them or impregnate them. Id assume attractive, successful, smart, masculine, leader, experienced, disciplined, confident... I don't know those are some of the things i focus on being better at.

[MzAsh]

Interesting you didn’t mention loyal. I think you’re so worried about cheating women because you’ve got a guilty conscience. You just described the exact type of man who cheats.

[bamesjond0069]

Yes and no. I know i wouldn't be satisfied with a woman who wasn't my equal. I would never cheat on someone worth my time. And im smart enough to not be with someone not worth my time. I am loyal and if i give my word i keep it and in the past i have kept my word and im old enough that my past dating history speaks for itself. I've only been in serious long term relationships and single. No short term relationships, no break ups due to cheating or anything like that.

[MzAsh]

But it says you’re 32. You said you’re “always dating” and find it hard to find someone to “give up all other women” for. Is that what being loyal means to you?

[bamesjond0069]

Im not sure what you're asking? Being loyal is being with one person. Sexually emotionally etc. Having a family with them. Being there for them. Forever. Thats what i believe and intend to do with someone. So i kinda only get to pick once. So im not just going pick some girl because she's the first who smiles at me. Oh man that would be disaster and yeah id be unable to be loyal to some rando because i know im special and i want someone special too that i feel lucky to have. And i try hard to be that man that an exceptional woman would feel lucky to have as well.

[MzAsh]

You say that all nicely but come on, I see the other things you talk about. Your expectations don’t exist in many women anymore, except for in fools.

[bamesjond0069]

I dont need many women. I need one. And honestly im overall attractive enough i could just pump and dump hos all day long and have 2 or 3 girlfriends at a time. I personally dont believe in such a thing but whats my incentive to be with a woman seriously? Either she's worth my time or she lets me treat her as valuable as i view her, ie not that valuable. Its a marketplace. So i buy a top of the line car i baby and take care of and its my special car i keep forever and always tinkering with and love. Or is it just another car and i got two or 3 in the driveway and i trade them in when they turn to shit? There are no other options that make sense from my perspective. And as i said i believe in marriage and simply want someone as attractive to me as i am to them.

[MzAsh]

Well good luck. Just don’t forget that you’re to qualify yourself to a woman first and then she reciprocates. Your woman will most definitely have twice the options and you must prove yourself worthy of her commitment.

[bamesjond0069]

Women have twice the options but not many as good as me. Fat broke dudes who play video games all day stand no chance so really they dont have twice the options at all. And if a girl consider those decent guys to date i guarantee she's not attractive to me in the first place.

[MzAsh]

That’s true but you have to know what other things high value women want in a man as far as how he sees her, treats her, and respects her authority over her own life and to choose her role in society.

[Blitzkrieg_88]

Gay men maybe but women don't want that.

[_SOARER_]

No! thats the last thing we need

[Princeofaljaz]

that's not our job, that's womens job

[Jonathan_T]

Why not? Works just fine here in Sweden

[Spagootsy]

Not sure it would matter either way.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Just more stay around dads!

[Nadim171]

Yes! Not as far as 50% toug.

[grega239]

Society doesn't get to decide that

[hahahmm]

Unfortunately when laws were passed to make it easy for women to get alimony/child support/welfare for single moms it was ‘society’/lawmakers pushing a change in family structure. There’s a reason why women think nothing of jumping ship on a guy who met all of his obligations/promises to her in my opinion

[grega239]

I know. Maybe men should decide to not go into relationships and thereby force society back to it previous state

[TallAnon]

Who cares? Just do what fits your lifestyle

[jef23]

No. Men should be hard workers. Duty = happiness.

[jimmy2]

Yes children needs mom and dad

[loveslongnails]

I don't think so.

[alance99]

Naah

[BeHappy1985]

No...

[wiseLeaf]

Yessss

[stuartlsl]

Most definitely!!

[yourfavperson]

Yes.