What? Men are judged even much fucking harsher. Girls usually look better than guys, some girls are unfortunate in the gene pool but it's not that many. Even so all girls have to do is get make up and not be fucking fat. Guys are so fucking unfortunate. If ur born short or ur face isn't fucking average, that's it. I can workout but that's so much fucking work, like years and some people still look ugly.
It's sexual selection. It's the same reason that men are judged on social status and wealth. It isn't fair, but it is ubiquitous and biologically-based. Besides, women will judge other women for their looks more often than men do.
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I don't judge Women / Girls on appearance , you be surprise some of the ones i find attractive while other guys find them different , people will be people it's shame cause there are lot gorgeous Chicks out there if they only knew how guys like me feel?
Ultimately because evolution's development of the sexes has led to physical attraction from men towards women being a key factor in sexual selection. This leads not only to men judging women by their appearance, but women doing it too as adjustment to men's way of thinking helps women survive socially.
To be clear, there are ways women can be seen as attractive besides physical appearance, and there are some equivalent ways men adjust to women's standards and judge each other accordingly.
It's the only thing people CAN judge you on without spending the time to get to know you.
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Its mostly women that judge other women based on appearance... Take you beauty magazines, or your fashion magazines... All created and made by women... Take slut shaming.. Mostly done by other women...
when it comes to reproduction sure women are judged on looks, just like men are judged on the fatness of their wallet... its all in perspective.
Why its sociaty change girls have to be thick in the right places know how to twerk and and face with makeup skills on point... and guys... pretty much the same... little style somewhat dirty maybe beards and tatoos is the look exspeacialy on thick men... mmmm
Simple. We have become so VAIN it's out of control. To me it's disgusting. Billions spent on trying to make themselves look more beautiful. Well friends... the makeup has to come off evenually and the ugliness you hid will be fully visible. If you have to buy $20 worth of makeup for your face, you have a real problem. Shame on you and your friends. If you lose friends over not wearing cosmetics... they were not good friends anyway.
I hate how anyone can be judged on appearance. I understand not being attracted to them, but just not talking to someone because ur not interested in fucking them is so bullshit and it's so common in school in our society
I don't do that but some women do that to me.. People are hung up on appearance. Problem is if you do that you often end up with narcissists. Now I'm far more interested in personality. I just would like someone non abusive and is genuinely interested in me.
Men get judged too, it's just women care more about it because it's the bulk of their value to society. If women developed themselves in other areas they'd be more rounded individuals and would care less because people would see their other values.
@little_bird1 yeah they would actually. Problem is most women use their attractiveness as their core identity from which their insecurities are built off. The best quality women haven't scared off the best men because they have diversified themselves through superior personality relative to most females so their insecurities don't piss off and annoy said men.
It shows how a woman takes care of herself. If she's sloppy and unkempt, who wants to hire her or date her? First impressions mean everything and you never get a second chance to make a first impression.
A woman is only judged based on her appearance as long as she doesn't have a good skill or talent to bring to the table. Once her work start speaking for her, no one cares how she looks.
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What? Men are judged even much fucking harsher. Girls usually look better than guys, some girls are unfortunate in the gene pool but it's not that many. Even so all girls have to do is get make up and not be fucking fat. Guys are so fucking unfortunate. If ur born short or ur face isn't fucking average, that's it. I can workout but that's so much fucking work, like years and some people still look ugly.
It's sexual selection. It's the same reason that men are judged on social status and wealth. It isn't fair, but it is ubiquitous and biologically-based. Besides, women will judge other women for their looks more often than men do.
I don't judge Women / Girls on appearance , you be surprise some of the
ones i find attractive while other guys find them different , people will be people
it's shame cause there are lot gorgeous Chicks out there if they only knew how
guys like me feel?
Ultimately because evolution's development of the sexes has led to physical attraction from men towards women being a key factor in sexual selection. This leads not only to men judging women by their appearance, but women doing it too as adjustment to men's way of thinking helps women survive socially.
To be clear, there are ways women can be seen as attractive besides physical appearance, and there are some equivalent ways men adjust to women's standards and judge each other accordingly.
Uh. . . The same reason men are?
It's the only thing people CAN judge you on without spending the time to get to know you.
Its mostly women that judge other women based on appearance... Take you beauty magazines, or your fashion magazines... All created and made by women... Take slut shaming.. Mostly done by other women...
when it comes to reproduction sure women are judged on looks, just like men are judged on the fatness of their wallet... its all in perspective.
Why its sociaty change girls have to be thick in the right places know how to twerk and and face with makeup skills on point... and guys... pretty much the same... little style somewhat dirty maybe beards and tatoos is the look exspeacialy on thick men... mmmm
It's so true. I had this page open on my laptop and my chemistry lab partner immediately started judging this poor woman, too. :( It's not right.
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Simple. We have become so VAIN it's out of control. To me it's disgusting. Billions spent on trying to make themselves look more beautiful. Well friends... the makeup has to come off evenually and the ugliness you hid will be fully visible. If you have to buy $20 worth of makeup for your face, you have a real problem. Shame on you and your friends. If you lose friends over not wearing cosmetics... they were not good friends anyway.
Female's usually judge themselves harder than they judge others, especially other female's.
If you care about how you look then you can’t complain when others judge you for how you look.
You’re free to wear head to toe robes & only get attention in life based on hard work, loyalty, courage, honesty & the respect you show others.
Everyone gets judged by appearance.
How else would you judge a person, you have never met before? You can't look inside their mind or soul with the eye.
I hate how anyone can be judged on appearance. I understand not being attracted to them, but just not talking to someone because ur not interested in fucking them is so bullshit and it's so common in school in our society
I don't do that but some women do that to me.. People are hung up on appearance. Problem is if you do that you often end up with narcissists. Now I'm far more interested in personality. I just would like someone non abusive and is genuinely interested in me.
Men get judged too, it's just women care more about it because it's the bulk of their value to society. If women developed themselves in other areas they'd be more rounded individuals and would care less because people would see their other values.
Lol, no they wouldn't.
@little_bird1 yeah they would actually. Problem is most women use their attractiveness as their core identity from which their insecurities are built off. The best quality women haven't scared off the best men because they have diversified themselves through superior personality relative to most females so their insecurities don't piss off and annoy said men.
Every time I see a female, I judge.
Few make it to the conscious level.
Everyone, everyday is subjected to this. On some level it's necessary. On most levels it's overbearing.
Women do this to each other, men and themselves. Men do the same. It's life. It will always be this way so long as society exists.
It shows how a woman takes care of herself. If she's sloppy and unkempt, who wants to hire her or date her? First impressions mean everything and you never get a second chance to make a first impression.
A woman is only judged based on her appearance as long as she doesn't have a good skill or talent to bring to the table.
Once her work start speaking for her, no one cares how she looks.
The same reason men are judged on their status, their confidence, their height, their dicksize, their income, their sexual prowess, etc.
Be thankful you aren't judged for those things. I would GLADLY take being judged by my appearance solely than to be judged on so many other factors.