It's quite a liberal tradition. I like the idea that they are allowed to go out and experience the non-Amish world, experiment and let their hair down, so to speak. At least they won't live their entire lives feeling like they were kept ignorant and held captive. The fact that, once they are considered adult, they get to choose for themselves, is pretty cool, even if there is a lot of pressure to get baptized and remain part of the community. It's a true rite of passage.
I think circumcision should be treated the same way. Men should be allowed to make their own decision at a certain age.
It's good they allow for the younger people to make that decision themselves. They give them the opportunity to experience things on their own so if they stay, its out of genuine belief in the a Amish lifestyle rather than feeling obligated and trapped to do so.
Too bad the kids aren't welcomed back if they decide not to return. Cut off their family completely.
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I mean they’re told not to question as kid for 16 years, and then they’re exposed to the outside world.
I’m just saying, they should be allowed to question. They shouldn’t be forced into it as kids.
It may be awkward, but you gotta let your Dycks out...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/KnKVCcw0SVk
Sex, parties and fast cars. That was my life for decades. NO regrets!
Sounds like Amish teens seek horniness over holiness.
If it's to mean anything at all they should take it to the extreme. Really break bad and if they like it don't go back. But I'm not Amish so I don't really know.
WAIT? That's a real thing?
The majority of them return to the Amish life
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