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Obviously not every guy is trash. Like not every girl are bitches. (Shrugs)
I’ve been left too many times to think I’m not trash.
I counter “women who judge are trash”
So my only question is what are you doing about it?
I see you are very good at complaining.
I'm working on building a time machine and give a condom to the dad's of the trash men I've seen around me. Sounds great, isn't it?
Could use some work. Why don’t you start teaching young men respect and they won’t have to grow up into the trash you believe they are.
I think since I met a disrespectful lady on here that I’m now going to recognize all women as trash. That’s basically your thought process.
What made you assume that I don't do it? The thing is, I don't have kids yet but when I have my own sons I'd love them to be raised with values that I think the newer generations have kinda forgot. The media is also contributing to a lot of this trashy behavior that I see in men, but I personally love some male characters from classic novels and I'd tell my kids about those too. Many parents leave sex ed for school but I don't wanna make that mistake. I've heard complaint from porn addicted guys that it's because he was never taught about porn by any elder that they learned about it from the wrong people and developed an addiction.
I have a niece though. And I taught her how to avoid child abuse when she was like, 4. So it's definitely not just words when I say that I am also willing to teach little boys what they need to learn as well.
Well women aren't all that better. I think collectively we kinda suck. Humans suck but individuals are awesome
Targeting at the right, but hittig the wrong. Is it worth it?
Yeah, we're kinda trash sometimes.
Men are swine. It's the will of Almighty God.
Complain in church.
Only the backwards conservative men are trash
They make men in general look like sexist pigs.
There is no such thing as a "liberal" man.
@KrakenAttackin Well I am a guy and a liberal
I'll repeat, there is no such thing as a liberal "man". You can be a liberal or a man, you can't be both.
@KrakenAttackin You must be very stupid
At least I know there are only two genders and I am not afraid to be a man.
I'm trash. Sexy manly trash
Haha! I like your style!
True. What are we gonna do about it though?
Better parenting, in my opinion. And less exposure to the media.
Better parenting for sure, these children of this day and age have obviously never been acquainted with mommy’s/daddy’s belt.
I see, you are in favour of violence to solve problems. I'm sure that won't raise men to think violence is the answer to everything.
Discipline isn’t violence or “child abuse”, there’s a reason for the lack of respect these days because of people letting their kids walk all over them with disrespect, I see you’re in favor of this.. and gee, they sure find a way to resort to violence no matter how you look at it.
I think what you're looking at is correlation and not causation.
Hitting a child is definitely child abuse and most countries have laws against it now, for a reason.
Just one example, I know that my father basically got tortured his entire childhood by his father hitting him for hours with a whip and punching him on a whim, that only made him more rebellious and got him into crime.
Who are you to decide what deserves physical violence? Did you study for years upon years, to be judge, jury and executor? Why don't we use violence to deal with criminals? Because it doesn't work. When there's 100s of years of precedent of violence not improving people and on a whim, you still decide to hit your child, you are definitely scum and don't even deserve a child.
@Ninjazzed there are better ways to parent a child, trust me beating isn't one of them. It would make the kid act respectful on the outside but they would never grow those qualities on the inside that way.
someone who is very bitter
It's a hypocritical statement.
One mans trash thats another mans treasure
It is usually said by man haters.
We are trash because we have earned this.
speak for yourself
Men in general have earned this. You and I may be exceptions but that just makes things harder for us. You are either making a woman cry or you are consoling her because of the countless others who have made her cry. All humans need to take a hard look at the reality of life and change the way we treat each other.
What do you mean?
Overall man's poor treatment of women have taken its toll. Violence and rape against women, "players", liars, cheaters, so many broken hearts, broken minds, and even broken bodies. Women have developed a natural defensive attitude towards men. It is now assumed that the man will lie cheat and steal and do whatever else it takes simply for sex. In far too many cases this assumption turns out to be true. Those of us who remember loyalty and respect are still judged by the actions of others.
Are ALL men trash? No, of course not.. but that hasn't stopped us from being added to the pile.
Also I fully understand that the way things are today, the same things could be said about how women treat men and much of it would still hold true. All people regardless of our differences need to change how we treat each other.
Someone gets how we feel finally! It's not that we don't believe good men don't exist it's just that we don't want to believe anyone easily.
I wish more women were not so full of disbelief. I understand it but I wish it were not so. I may someday find the one for me if only someone would take the chance to get to know me
You see, I'd love to do it... But in case I do and get better people will blame me for being naive and choosing the bad guy 😅
Get betrayed**
Let the people think your naive. Dont judge a book based on the last one you read.
That's a very good point 👌
Its understandable at times.
You disappoint me, CubsterShura.
Why?
Because I typically see more maturity than this in what you post.
Dude I'm just being honest, it's not my fault if good men have become a scarcity.
With that childish comment, you just further reinforced what I said initially. Your question and subsequent comments are immature, inaccurate and sexist, and only serve to unnecessarily further the resentment and widen the divide between the sexes, something that sadly has become increasingly common on the internet.
Based on a lot of what you have posted here in the past, I have no doubt you have the intelligence to understand what I saying, yet you chose to post this garbage anyway. I expected better from you. I viewed you as part of the solution rather than part of the problem. I will adjust my expectations accordingly.
Ok listen. It's not my fault that my cousin sexually abused me when I was a child, my uncle betrayed his own high school sweetheart wife of seven years, I have several male cousins and uncles who have been terrible husbands, I've seen men being super nice as boyfriend and fiancé who turned out to become violent after marriage, I've been in relationships where I got cheated on and one of those used to get mad if a guy friend even tagged me on some social media post. I have seen the bad side of women as well, quite a lot actually, but I have seen way worse in men.
I already said that I don't believe all men are trash'. But unfortunately, I do believe that most are. And I also believe good men have become rare. And I wish that wasn't true but that is!! If it's immature for me to draw to a conclusion like that then lemme tell you this. It's not sexist to deny that there is a problem going on, and it needs to be fixed. An entire generation of men have been raised and educated very poorly.
I could easily give just as many examples of bad female behavior in my life as you have given of bad male behavior, and if I was as immature and sexist as you, I would use them to draw the conclusion that most women are trash and good women have become rare. But I'm not, so I won't.
You'll probably grow out of it, but in the meantime, as I said, you are not at all who I thought you were. You're just another user throwing shit at the opposite sex on GAG.
You can think whatever you like. But I believe this is a major issue when every single girl friend that I talked to has revealed they have been sexually abused or molested by a male member as a child, on the other hand when I saw a social media post about women sexually abusing little boys, most boys there commented that they can't relate. I care more about what's the truth than how it makes people feel. Only because I hold such a harsh opinion doesn't mean that I am suddenly anti-men or a feminazi or misandrists or whatever.
Actually yes, it does mean you're a misandrist (and a feminazi) in exactly the same sense anyone else is. But just like every other misandrist (and misogynist), you have convinced yourself in your your mind that you are justified in being one, so somehow that means you're not really one. But you are, and you're no different than any other misandrist.
Do you really think every Incel and MGTOW who preaches their misogyny on GAG is any different from you in that regard? Do you honestly think they believe their justification for spreading sexism against women is any less valid or compelling than yours?
this exchange made me laugh. it's crazy how any misogynists/misandrists there are on GAG and not a single one of the realizes they are a misogynist/misandrist.
CubsterShura - pick up a mirror and take an honest look in it. if you don't see a misandrist, go back to the part where I said 'honest' and then try again. keep trying until you see what everyone else sees when they look at you, which is a misandrist.
@DudeDiligence a misandrists believes that women are superior to men. I believe neither gender is superior to the other. So yes, I am being honest when I say that I am not a misandrist.
Maybe look at your own judgment towards me. You came to a conclusion that I think we need to eliminate men from society and women are flawless angel victims who can't do anything wrong. Maybe someone else needs to check themselves in the mirror.
You don't understand what misandry is. The definition is "dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against men".
Now, pick up that mirror again and take another look.
@DudeDiligence prejudice of what? Did I ever say that I believe all men are trash?
I said most men are. If that is prejudice. I guess it is also prejudice to say that water is wet because we clearly know it's not true, there is a thing called ice out there.
Listen, I don't care what you or anyone thinks of me for believing in what I believe. I have no reason to come to such an unhappy belief myself. Not when I am a straight woman who desires marriage, kids and all that good stuff. But then... Men themselves don't fail to disappoint me with their behavior. What can I do about it?
Like instead of calling me names tell me what I can actually do about it. Let's come to a solution. If men didn't act like trash I would have never have to say that they are!
Actually, you know what, leave it. When your own younger sister or daughter will start dating you will be the one not liking it.
@CubsterShura You arrived at your misandry in the same way most sexist people become that way, which is by judging other members of one sex based on some personal experiences with and observations of a few members of that sex. If everyone did the same, most people would be sexist just like you are.
For example, in my family there has been a lot of infidelity over the past 10 years or so. I'm talking about 8 cases here, and literally every one of the cheaters has been a woman. I am also aware of plenty of cases of other women cheating and doing some other really shitty things. If I was dumb and immature enough, I could easily draw the conclusion that most women are garbage. But fortunately, like most people, I am smarter and more mature than that, and you're not.
If I have daughters I will worry about them being hurt or taken advantage of by men. If I have sons I will worry about them being hurt or taken advantage of by women. I will worry about those things because there are some people in this world who do shitty things, but I a not so dumb as to believe most men or women are garbage, nor am I naive enough to believe there are more bad women than men, even though my personal experiences indicate that is the case.
Are you really that dumb? Or are you just pissed off right now because of some bad experiences?
I just know that good men are rare, simple. I'm sorry if that disappointed you, because people's disappointment on this will do nothing to change my mind. Only action of men in real life would. I guess there is no point in carrying this discussion further. Have a nice day.
Good men are not rare, obviously. But it's also pretty common to find people your age who lack maturity and common sense, so at the end of the day I'm not that surprised. But like I said, you always struck me in the past as someone who was above that childishness. Clearly I was wrong about that.
@CubsterShura girls like you are sexist trash and are just as common and male trash. too bad you're not smart enough to see yourself for what you are.
My thoughts? I always consider the source.
Reminds me of the early 90's..
Isn't "men are dogs" even more common?
the most common would be "men are all the same" thats like the top of the board lol
Men are not trash. Men are pigs. LOL! :)
Well, they are...
It’s a red flag
If she says this a few times
Amen sister. ☺
Love ur profile pic
Lol thanks!
No prob
My dad's not trash..
That's nice to know.
not all of us
Fuck that
Men are piggg
Women are pussies
And women ar shit