99% of the time... this is a bad plan. I firmly stand by the fact that you need to stay away and that only distance and time makes these things better. The only thing that makes it worse is interaction.
Now... that being said, if you live in another town and really have no way to see her very often (or her to come see you)... and you're just going to be passing through her town and not there long... I can't totally vote for seeing her... but if you can stick to your guns and not try (or want) to get a relationship possibly going again... it might not be too horrible if you hung out for a couple of hours.
Just don't say I didn't warn ya. ;) Good luck!
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whenever I see my ex of 2 years ago in the eyes I fell for her agian so I wouldn't if I was you, you don't wanna be hurt!
if your not 100% over her then the chances are you'll fall for her again but who knows. just go if you think you can handle the situation in a sophisticated manner. it might be that you meet up with her and realize she wasn't that good for you afterall. personally, I don't think people can become 'just friends' if they were once in love with each other. it might be that she still has some feelings for you considering she's asked to see you a few times. but be warned, yes it will undo all your progress if you still have feelings for her.
Your not fully over her, so I would advise you not too. How can you get over it if you meet up with her? You'll just remember the good times and if she is over you that'll bring nothing but the bad.
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