Most Helpful Girl
You two were just not meant to be. Of course you are going to think about her, it's only been two months since she dumped you, and now there's been this drama about meeting up, her flying off the handle saying you make her feel like s***, have a nice life, blah blah blah. She needs to get over herself. Honestly, who does she think she is? If she wants to meet up with you in an honest attempt to salvage at least a friendship, then the responsibility is on her to be patient until YOU"RE ready, whether because of your schedule, or your emotions at this point. She broke up with you, and the fact that she is behaving the way she is just seems to me she doesn't care a thing about you, even in a friendly way. Can you imagine being busy and unable to meet up with a friend and they just lash back out at you like that? Not much of a friendship, right? If she continues to treat people like this, her life won't be so nice, I promise you that. My advice to you would be to concentrate on the friends you have that DON'T treat you like that and move forward with your life. You have to decide how you want to be treated, and what you would actually stand to gain from having a friendship with her. Take care, best wishes!0
Most Helpful Guy
Becoming friends after a breakup is not as easy as she seems to think it is. Being on good terms with each other is a very good idea, I do agree with her on that. However, I don´t think a friendship is the best way to get there; especially so soon after the breakup.
Here is what I think. She broke up with you, but as she said herself, she doesn't want to lose you (as a friend). it is normal that she feels this, most people do after a breakup. The fact that she is so focused on meeting up with you tells me that she misses you, at least a little. This is why I think becoming friends with her now is a bad idea. It is a way for her to avoid the pain of missing you. It would mostly cause very complicated situations between you two. You can't just ignore the history you two share.
So, what should you do now? That is up to you. Do you want to meet up with her, even if it just one last time? What do you feel towards her now? Does meeting up seem like a good plan to you?
Answer these questions honestly and you'll give yourself the answer.0