My ex broke up with me at the beginning of this year. We were both freshmen going to colleges in different states and things were just not working out. I got a bit jealous of all her guy friends, and just not seeing each other often really sucked, so when she broke up with me, it wasn't a bad split.
I knew we were no longer growing as a relationship, but that didn't mean I still loved her and wanted to be with her.
Anyway we did the usual post break-up meet ups when she was back in town. Always ended up with us getting physical and then me getting disappointed she had to go back to school.
Except the last time. Over summer break we saw each other and went on a few dates, and ended up getting extremely physical again. But I had done a good job of moving on (ish - I still have those feelings but I know distance just kills things) , and so when she went back to college, I wasn't too upset.
I haven't spoken to her since the end of August, neither one of us trying to make any contact with each other. About four days ago I finally made the commitment to stop smoking tobacco (after 3 years), and feeling super accomplished with going 3 days in a row, I posted to Facebook my progress so I could get some positive feedback from my buddies.
A couple of people 'liked' it, but more noticeably my ex was the first one to do so, and that was about a couple seconds after posting. Normally I wouldn't think twice about something so lame like a
Facebook 'like'). But since Thanksgiving break is coming up (and we always see each other over break), I'm thinking maybe this is her way of saying hello or something.
I looked at her profile after that, first time in a month or so. Absolutely zero evidence of any male interaction. So I guess really I'm just wondering if I should contact her to meet up this break
All advice is appreciated, thanks!
I knew we were no longer growing as a relationship, but that didn't mean I still loved her and wanted to be with her.
Anyway we did the usual post break-up meet ups when she was back in town. Always ended up with us getting physical and then me getting disappointed she had to go back to school.
Except the last time. Over summer break we saw each other and went on a few dates, and ended up getting extremely physical again. But I had done a good job of moving on (ish - I still have those feelings but I know distance just kills things) , and so when she went back to college, I wasn't too upset.
I haven't spoken to her since the end of August, neither one of us trying to make any contact with each other. About four days ago I finally made the commitment to stop smoking tobacco (after 3 years), and feeling super accomplished with going 3 days in a row, I posted to Facebook my progress so I could get some positive feedback from my buddies.
A couple of people 'liked' it, but more noticeably my ex was the first one to do so, and that was about a couple seconds after posting. Normally I wouldn't think twice about something so lame like a
Facebook 'like'). But since Thanksgiving break is coming up (and we always see each other over break), I'm thinking maybe this is her way of saying hello or something.
I looked at her profile after that, first time in a month or so. Absolutely zero evidence of any male interaction. So I guess really I'm just wondering if I should contact her to meet up this break
All advice is appreciated, thanks!
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