No, I in no way feel powerful for judging, it's a useless tactic used by lazy people to further there own narcissist desires, people who judge are just assholes at heart because their mentality is, ("forbid I'm wrong, I'm perfect"), and any one who makes a judgment without a second thought falls into that category.
AKA narcissistic assholes.
I refuse to work this this mentality, it's all about , at east to the narcissist, "give m what I want, cause my opinion is the only thing that matters". Screw these useless people.
The moment any ones judgment, impacts a family they don't live with/support, is the moment that judgey people are EXTREMELY OUT OF LINE.
Judgmental people are useless, narcissistic shit stains that would be better off never socializing again, they ARE useless.
They prove it when all they can do is sit around and complain when the same amount of time complaining can be used to rectify the situation and not starting the drama they "oh so love to start", AKA "useless".
Walk away from a judgmental person at first sight, there all about causing problems cause there drama vampires.
Judgment is bullying. Judgment just shows how insecure you are and how sad your life is because you're trying to bring others down as an attempt to feel better about yourself. Spoiler alert, it does not work and it just makes you feel worse because you just bring more negativity into this world.
Well, you know how I feel on this subject from the mytakes I posted on these issues. I'm glad to see someone else addressing, bringing awareness to these issues. So thank you!!! Maybe if more people do, it still get better. Just because it's the internet is not a good enough excuse to treat people in a way noone deserves to be treated. I get people are unhappy in life, angered or bitter by past hurt. But instead of hating on strangers because of it, just share your story, the strangers you hating on might of gone through the same thing and maybe could share how they got through it. But you burn those bridges with the flame of hatred.
You have to cast judgement before you start "bullying" someone. Everyone likes to feel like what they are doing is right. Very very few are people who want to do truly bad things, as in they know it's wrong, but steel themselves and do it anyway. Junkies rip off their family, and justify it by needing the drug, and I'll make it right someday.
I've done some not so nice things, and always had a good reason for it. Or at least what seemed like a really good reason at the time. Hell, look at slavery, and all the justifications from the bible, phrenology, they're less than human, everything slave owners, and everyone involved in the industry had to tell themselves to stay involved in what objectively is a terrible practice. But you can judge people as less than people and treat them anyway you want when it's subjective.
So, I'd put it on a different level, but judgement, or at least a justification is needed before beating an individual, or group down.
keep yer effin judgements to yourselves people! instead of judging why don't you try understanding and compassion and empathy? those skills are innate in us - planted like seeds and God or whatever you believe in planted those seeds inside of you and then he blew the breathe of life in us. yes i get accused of making up my own faery tale world of religion almost daily. but you know what? i know my worth and i know my value. and i only know that because Jesus already saved me! so you say - would Jesus really save a blathering idiot? ya - yes he did. and if he'll save me - he'll save you too. so i leave the judegement up to whoever was given that job and i never got no memo that it was me. so try to be kind and decent and friendly and help. and i get judged all the time. water off a ducks back. no it isn't. it hurts. so i can't ever imagine me doing that back? to another human being? that God created? keep yer effin judgements to yourselves and try to demonstrate some grace!
Here's the issue with judgement. We make judgements everyday, nearly every second. It comes from taking in the environment around us and the subjects in it. Then we make a judgement call, which is something based around a mixture of three things: experience, instincts and feelings. These judgements we make can be correct or incorrect, helpful or unhelpful.
To judge is to be human, to make decisions, decisions which potentially have an effect on your survival. Its instinctual. We judge things based on how we perceive them. And that perception comes from the 3 things I mentioned above.
What is necessary to confront is illogical prejudice that may arrive from the judgement calls of these people. And how we respond is partially a judgement call as well, though a lot of it has to do with subconscious response to external stimuli rather than a more conscious decision, aka judgement.
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No, in fact if i'm judging someone it's typically because i feel they judged me first. E. g. The same rype of women that would reject me will come on G@G after sleeping with a couple dozen guys. Getting dumped or cheated on by all couple dozen guys. And then ask if they're a whore lol. I know some women will think i'm telling them yes out of spite but i'm not. In my book they are a whore. Now most the time i would refrain from telling a whore rhe harsh reality. But why? Did they give a damn about my feelings? No. F*** them. They made their bed ( and slept with a couple dozen guys in it) now they can lie in it.
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Yes judgement gives one more power. I know this one person from this other site always had to judge people , they jumped people on the slightest things , now she / he is mad at me cause i told them to drop dead with the rest of her friends from that website. Yes it was a mistake and prayed but this person told me to put my big boy pants on so i went off on them :(
I'm the person that's always been judged so I'm not I used to let people with judgement have the power there's only one person left that has that power and that's my father-in-law but no I don't like judgment Only God can judge who the f*** do you think you are your s*** stinks just like all of us you just hide it better than anybody else and that goes for everybody everybody has a little black f******. In their ass
Yes just because i call it like i see it doesn't mean that im bullying. Bullies do repetitive shit to make themselves feel better. But if i judging you, it only takes one time for you to get the memo
I try not to be judgmental, because judgmental people often embellish truth and deliberately try to humiliate people. They also condemn themselves because they often espouse unrealistic standards that even they have no hope of meeting.
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