When dancing at a club, what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

When dancing at a club(grinding) what does it mean if a guy holds your hand, like hands interlaced? Lol just wondering.

[Anonymous]

It could mean anything since it's just a random guy you met at a club.

Most likely, I would think it means the guy is kind of starved for intimacy and hasn't had a relationship in a long time.

Look, grinding isn't exactly the most classy kind of dancing (no offense) so it's not like he was holding your hands to be formal or polite or anything. But holding hands like that also kind of gives the sense that you have a stronger connection with the person, if you know what I mean.

Or he could be trying to trick other guys in the club into believing you're already taken and not just dancing with some random guy. If I saw a couple like that at the club, I would assume they are boyfriend and girlfriend already, or at least very close friends.

So shrewd move if he's trying to lower the competition.

[Distant]

I think you're asking from experience. I wouldn't know what to think of that because a stranger shouldn't hold your hand, especially whilst dancing.

~Distant

[Asker]

That's why I was kinda confused. He was holding my hand like we were a couple or something.

[Distant]

I would consider that very strange. I don't think anyone would disagree, haha.

~Distant

[Anonymous]

wait... You were dancing while he held onto your hand right? Well in my experiencce I think it's just apart of Dancing. This has happened to me before. I think of it as another way of him holding you closer like when he grabs your hips and what not.

[Asker]

But it wasn't just holding my hand, I've had guys hold my hand and move before while dancing, it just seemed more intimate way of holding my hand.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh... That's just creepy. Maybe he just thought he could get laid?