Dancing at clubs/frat parties

[helloyes]

first, how should guys approach girls to dance with them?

second, what can we do to make it fun and enjoyable for girls?

third, how do we initiate making out?

and fourth how do we make you put your hands up or go low?

[Anonymous]

Now, first off, I'm not like most other girls who go to clubs and frat parties to get male attention and leave with someone to screw so my list may not help you out with every girl. But this is how I would answer those questions :)

1.) How should guys approach girls to dance with them?

Be very respectful and ooze a confident, masculine, yet very kind vibe. ASK her to dance; don't just come up from behind her and start rubbing your penis on her! It can be as simple as "Do you wanna dance?" with a charming smile. Or something even cuter like you grabbing her hand to the dance floor :)

2.) What can guys do to make dancing fun and enjoyable for girls?

Well personally, I love it when guys actually show some personality when dancing instead of trying so hard to be Mr. Sauve. Don't be afraid to crack some jokes and be really silly or even just dance along with her so that it looks almost artistic instead of just looking like one girl dancing on a guy who's just rubbing his penis on her because he has no true dance moves. I absolutely adore it when a guy communicates with me and isn't just there to rub his penis on me lol I love it when he'll interact and comment on something or bust out and be really silly with me :D it makes the dance fun and memorable and it makes me want to dance with him more and maybe even get those digits!

3.) How to initiate making out?

Personally, I'd NEVER make out with a guy I just met! Today's society is so slutty that you don't know where the hell his mouth has been and wtf kind of disease he may have growing in there! So I can't help you out on that one because if a guy tried to make out with me within 24 hours of knowing me, I'd have to deny him lol

4.) "Put your hands up or go low"? what the hell? what do you mean? lol

[justwannahvefun]

1) Ask to dance with her like everyone else has been saying 2) To make it fun and enjoyable you should talk a bit while you dance so it isn't all about rubbing up on her ass. You can also switch up your moves a bit so its entertaining and the dance doesn't get boring and tiring for her. 3) As for making out, see if she's into you by touching her appropriately a little bit and move your face closer to her neck and shoulders. If she's into it and wants to make out she will most likely turn her head a bit and smile or lean her head to the opposite side so you can kiss her neck. If you can't make out when she's not facing you, you can turn her while your dancing. 4) As for "putting your hands up or going low". I'd assume this is still pertaining to dancing. You should start with your hands on her waist if she's grinding into you and you can tell she's into it you can move your hands to her stomach and go up right below her boobs or down to her thighs. Keep it tasteful though! If you start

[lorenza]

-Make eye contact, smile, and dance close to them. If she seems receptive, ask her if she would like to dance with you.

- To makeout, dance close enough so that your heads are touching. Again, see how she responds. if she quickly jerks away, then don't make your move. If she stares into your eyes and smile, then go for it!

[helloyes]

what if I'm coming from behind her? also, I'm always leaning in so I m breathing on their neck so I can't get my head any closer.

[lorenza]

If you're coming from behind, it's better to tap her on the shoulder and ask her politely if she'd like to dance. I hate it when guys grab me and forcefully dry hump me it's disgusting.

well if she's into you, I'm sure she wouldn't mind your breath on your neck and would probably move her face closer to yours

[juaN073]

I may not know a whole lot about this but what really is true is what these 2 persons said which is you should really ASK a girl if she wants to dance/grind (they are two separate terms and the latter does not pertain to the first one in any sense lol). It shows you got respect and that you are not a total pervert just wanting to rub your d!ck agaisnt a girls ass. Trust me even if they say no its better than looking like a pervert when a girl stares at you and walks away after you tried to bump against her lol. I say it by experience haha. To make it enjoyable I would say just simply move to the same rhythm as her body and actually move to the beat, don't just stand there and hold her by the hips. If you move to the beat and do more (hold her hands, pull her close to you etc) she will more likely dance with you for longer and will not look to end it to look for another guy. I can't help you with #3 I'm still perfecting that ha ha and fourth just try it out start high and go lower if she grabs your hands and holds them there that means no you can't go lower lol and if she doesn't say do anything then you got it! lol

[Frunkiss]

I always ask if I can dance with them or next to them. Sometimes I ask if I can dance in their circle which is about as non-threatening as you can go. I strongly suggest you don't just start grinding on them. That only works if they are pretty drunk and you are really hot.

Making out just kind of happens. They usually will hover their face right in front of yours without saying anything and you just kind of know to go in for a peck. I suggest not dropping your hands below the waist until you have been dancing for a couple songs. Then just let one slide to a thigh and see if she lets it happen.

I'm terrible at dancing. I just have my 2 step and my bump and grind so for the last question it just kind of happens.

[PricelessPearl]

Ya, I don't party so I don't know.