Question about dancing provocatively at clubs...

[Olya363]

So I guess I dance pretty provocatively with my friends that are girls. Mostly it would be with my one friend

When we dance kinda slutty together the attention on the dancefloor is mostly on us and I am wondering whether people would say its a good thing or Not? -> Guys obviously find it attractive but the fact that people are looking at us. is it because we act like sluts and people like to watch ?

Guys: When you see girls dancing somewhat slutty do you right away see them as sluts or do you just think they are having fun, knowing how to move, being silly ?

[ThenThereWas1]

Oh please, the word 'slut' has lost its meaning. Everyone throws around the word slut and whore so much that it's unclear what the genuine definition of the word is. So I say dress how you want, dance how you want, and sleep with whomever you want(so long as you're safe). To me, "that girl is a slut" is just another way of saying "That girl is having more fun than I am". Besides, plenty of virgins dress scantily clad and participate in some dirty dancing--it in no means should be interpreted that a person sleeps around. Anyway, my point is, don't worry about what everyone thinks about you, it takes way to much energy than its worth. As long as you're having fun who cares who's watching?

[JLFLIPSIDE]

Pretty sure she asked the men the site is called girls ask guys. Stay in your lane feminist she wants honest opinions from men not women or she qould be on reddit.

[goflipaburger]

Does it matter? You'll probably never see them again

[SunSeeker]

No offense but if I see someone dressed like a slut, and dancing like a slut, I'm going to think she's a slut. Also yes, this is why guys look at you because most are thinking there's a good chance you're a slut and in most cases sluts = easy lays.

"is it because we act like sluts and people like to watch ?" -- Yes, at the moment men are witnessing some slutty action, they're definitely not valuing your intellectual prowess, but probably envisioning what it's like to sleep with you.

I know I'm going to get some down arrows for giving an honest opinion but that's okay, if I lied to you there wouldn't be any purpose in me answering your question.

[SunSeeker]

Btw I'm not saying you are a slut, I'm just saying this is most likely people's perception of that behavior. Just saying...

[1stblackx]

No offense, but you clearly have never spent time at a decent nightclub.

[SunSeeker]

Lol yeah okay, if you say so.

[1stblackx]

No matter what there are going to be some girls that are going to hate because that's just what some girls do.

Grinding is pretty much the preferred method of dancing at clubs in LA and its no different from any other big city I've been to (Chicago,NYC,Miami,Vegas etc.)

There is absolutely nothing wrong with it and its basically just a normal thing for a girl to dance with her friends like that at the club.

[Yeahhbro]

i would say ssssssssssssluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuutttttt. I find it attractive in a sort of I just want to bang you and don't ever see you again.

[Anonymous]

attention whores! jking, it's bad attention cause you'll probably not attracting quality people

[Anonymous]

it is what it is. I would just think of you as that girl dancing slutty for attention. I'd probably try dancing with you and try getting with you

[Anonymous]

If it's just with the girls it doesn't really mean to much to me since I'm a guy. It'd be more fun if you were grinding your ass on my c0ck on the dance floor. That would get my attention. . .

[JLFLIPSIDE]

Yes, I personally see women who dance like this either slutty or acting slutty for attention.

[Anonymous]

i would just think "attention whore" and walk away