Natural-born women, would you be comfortable with this (post-op) transgender woman sharing a restroom with your boyfriend/husband?

[Anonymous]

HYPOTHETICAL SCENARIO: Your boyfriend/husband heads for the restroom -- and following right behind him is this fully-operated transgender woman. How would this make you feel? If anything, what would you do? Some natural-born women think transgender women (even post-op transgender women) should be using male restrooms, but with an increasing number of transgender women looking like this one, maybe those natural-born women should rethink their position on this issue.

[thegirlfromthething]

I don’t care who happens to be in the restroom with him because I wouldn’t date or marry a guy I didn’t trust to be faithful to me. What I’m concerned about more than his loyalty is her safety- trans people risk being harassed when they go into either restroom.

[Asker]

I completely agree with you; I think it's safer for transgender women (and transgender men) to use the restroom which correlates with their gender identity.

[AzureGirl]

Eh, considering she’s a woman she should be using the women’s room. But it wouldn’t bother me regardless. You go to the bathroom to do your business and leave.

[jakerson181]

A post op transgender woman would always use the women's restroom. Always. So your little scenario is complete bullshit. But I bet you got yourself off good staring at those pics of her before you finally posted this, didn't you? I bet you'd love to meet her.

[Asker]

Wow, you must have an IQ of about 70; you're awesome, dude. A hypothetical scenario is NEVER BS, idiot; I think you need to check out an online dictionary, you know, to learn the definition of the word "hypothetical." There are LITERALLY people who believe that transgender folks should go to restroom of their birth sex. I don't agree with that opinion, but those people DEFINITELY exist.

[jakerson181]

If that was your point, then there were 50 ways you could have asked this question to generate an intelligent discussion on the topic and 49 of them would have been better than the one you chose. Just another gutless anonymous asshole trying to stir up emotions and controversy cause he's looking for clicks. What happened, you couldn't find a picture of her showing her ass to include?

[Asker]

You're the only one stirring up controversy; you must be a lot of fun to be around (IRL). 😒 The reason I chose provocative photos is pretty easy to understand in the context of the question; I'm obviously giving natural-born/cisgender women one more thing to consider. I'm not sure who you're trying to "white knight" for, but I actually talk to the transgender woman in the photos on a semi-regular basis; all you're doing is making yourself look like a complete douchebag. Go find some trolling question to be offended by and cry in their comments, dude; you aren't making yourself look good on this question. As for me being "anonymous," I only made this anonymous because whenever trans-related topics come up on here, the asker is often flooded with trolls or (even more annoying) people like YOU.

[jakerson181]

If you actually know the person, I'm sure she'd be thrilled with you using her pictures as cheap clickbait. You're the troll, asshole. You just don't have the guts to admit it so you're lashing out at someone who called out your bullshit. If that's what you need to do to feel OK, then do what you gotta do. I'll even let you have the last word cause I'm sure it will be something dumb not worth replying to.

[Asker]

Clickbait? This isn't YouTube or an article to produce revenue from advertisements. What are you even talking about? Get a life.

[Soteris]

The only time gender specific bathrooms make ANY kind of sense is if you have urinals in one. Individual bathrooms that is unisex is just better in every way.

[Asker]

While I think trans-people should be able to use the restroom of the gender they identify with, I haven't really formed much of an opinion on unisex restrooms (yet). They're uncommon in my area and (I assume) most of the US. I'm not really for or against them; I don't know much about them.

[Leavesbound]

She should use the ladies restroom. Otherwise she could end up sexually assaulted or even arrested. She could also end up in the hospital. Most guys would not know from her looks that she was trans but the moment she steps into the men's room they would suspect and seeing her standing at a urinal they would know and that is when she is in danger.

[Asker]

Yeah, men would likely respond to her presence in a variety of different ways, but one thing that would be consistent is that (unless he has very unusual taste in women) virtually any (straight) man she'd encounter in a male restroom would be attracted to her and (most likely) "turned on" by her. That probably wouldn't be a good situation for her to be in.

[OddBeMe]

In Europe they share restrooms. Seems to work there.

[OfDeath]

That person would be in the women's anyway.

[Asker]

Yes, I'm sure it's been quite a while since she's been in a male restroom; it's crazy that anyone would think someone like that should use a male restroom. Unfortunately, people of that opinion do exist.

[Joe__Exotic]

God that thing is gross looking.

[OpenNudist]

She's a natural born Pig

[Asker]

What?

[OpenNudist]

I am just giving you a heads Up, the One and Only Thing She's interested in is Your Banking Accounts

[Asker]

Well, I don't think she'd even argue with that. Her career is basically entertaining men for money; I have no problem with that. The women who bother me are the ones who get into relationships to use people for money.

[OpenNudist]

I couldn't agree with you more

[Asker]

👍🙂

[headoncrash]

you go there to take a piss and a dump.