If you had to choose between patriarchy and matriarchy, which would you choose?

[Wobbleshope]

Which political system do you think would be better in the sense that it provides fairness to everyone? and why?

Patriarchy

Matriarchy

[MrKinktastic]

Matriarchy generally is associated with higher levels of happiness in the group and usually has more recourses for disputes. While I’d rather have a balance than one or the other, if I had to pick I’d go with Matriarchy. Just look at bonobos vs chimps for reasons why.

[wankiam]

neither and thats the whole point of feminism... equality rather than one gender taking control

[Wobbleshope]

I don't think that's the intent of feminism.
For a long time now a lot of them have been wanting more rights than men and degrading men for their own benefit, that's how I look at it now. They ruined it.

[wankiam]

i think you are confusing a few people that get it wrong with a whole movement... personally i challenge them based on what you accused them of rather than allow them to ''ruin it'' which is why im as likely to have a debate on feminism with a radical feminist as i am with an incel

[Wobbleshope]

Well why is it then that most feminist posts on social media are anti male? If anything the majority of feminists are against males now.
Also personally it hasn't helped me at all as a man, and it hasn't helped men in general. It's main focus was always women. so it's a pointless movement.

[wankiam]

social media is really the preserve of the young millenial generation that gets reality so wrong maybe but also i do think that attacks on the patriachy are often taken by men as attacks on them when they aren't meant that way... you ofcourse are welcome to think what you like

[Anonymous]

Matriarchy. Women tend to care more about other people, and we know what it’s like to be oppressed by the opposite gender. That’s not something we would do to you.

[Wobbleshope]

True but a matriarchy would be beneficial to women only, so it would opress men?

[Opinion Owner]

No, that’s just who’s in charge. Also there’s a difference between a matriarchy, rule by older women, and a gynarchy, rule by women in general.

Just because one is in charge doesn’t predicate oppression.

[Wobbleshope]

I agree. Thanks for answering

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome

[Anonymous]

Neither. Probably not the answer you were looking for, but I think men and women should be treated equally

[alwaysintosomething]

The so called patriarchy is working against men not for them, so that's no good. matriarchy is just ridiculous because I can't imagine how a society would survive under a matriarchy. So I don't want either one.

[Anonymous]

Neither is ideal, but a matriarchy would be an absolute cluster fuck.

[NarutoUzumaki007]

none

[NarutoUzumaki007]

humanity

[andreasderjuengere]

Anarchy.