Girls, does volunteering ever make a guy look bad?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so a friend of my mind asked me if I could be the male model for a women's self defense course down at the community center. I will be "attacking" like I'm a rapist and the demonstrator.. I won't be getting hit hard... just light contact simulating the blows your supposed to make.. however it is going to evolve some shots to the groin... the demonstrator will stop short of kicking me... but ill be wearing a pad down there just in case. But I was thinking... I'm supposed to play the part of a rapist.. and ill have tons of women and girls watching me and viewing me as a bad guy.. that makes me uncomfortable.. so I wanted to ask... do you think negative thoughts about the guy who is playing the part of a rapist in a demonstration like this?

[MzAsh]

No. Its just acting. And you’re doing it for a good cause so women can practice arid defense. It’s actually pretty awesome if you did this for them.

[Asker]

I guess I was just embarrassed that during some of the drills even with a cup on, a solid groin shot took me down

[MzAsh]

I guess then the move works.

[Asker]

but dont women expect guys to be somewhat tough?

[MzAsh]

Not if it means being tough against us.

[Asker]

Yeah that's true. I guess I was flirting a bit with a couple of the girls that were my age before class. One of them was the one who took me down with a crotch kick. I guess i dont want them to think my manhood is vulnerable like that

[scotcheggs]

no, we won’t have negative thoughts about the person demonstrating it. If anything, it’s respect for them to put there self out there as playing such a role that helps the women learn to defend themselves. Also, volunteering makes u look good lol

[Agape93]

That’s the point: to see you, the caricature of a bad guy aiming to hurt them, as a bad guy so they can practice more realistically. They don’t hate you.

[Asker]

I guess I was just embarrassed that during some of the drills even with a cup on, a solid groin shot took me down

[Anonymous]

Not at all! It's the opposite! You help them to acquire the skills to defend themselves from rapists! ❤️

[Asker]

I guess I was just embarrassed that during some of the drills even with a cup on, a solid groin shot took me down

[Opinion Owner]

Ouch... I thought you were wearing protection

[Asker]

I was wearing a cup but the cup only offers so much protection, she had a fierce kick!

[Opinion Owner]

oof
Of course, you need extra padding, dude... They're practicing to save their lives, of course they're gonna kick hard.

[Asker]

do you think the women were suprised a crotch kick took me down?

[Opinion Owner]

Depends on how much you seem to be padded down there

[Asker]

just a standard cup

[Opinion Owner]

Well, I don't really know about these things, I never used a cup.

[Asker]

but why do women aim there?

[Opinion Owner]

Because that's where the testicles are at 😂

[Asker]

but thats our manhood!! dont women care?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course we do, and I treat my boyfriend's with great care, but if we're attacked, we're aiming where it will hurt the most.

[Asker]

I guess i dont want them to think my manhood is vulnerable like that
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[Opinion Owner]

Do you mean manhood in general, or specifically yours?

[Asker]

i meant i dont want the girls in class to think my man parts are weak, i want to impress them!

[Opinion Owner]

Then you shouldn't have sign up to be a practice dummy in a women's self defense class 😂😂😂

[Asker]

but I'm double the size as most of the women!

[Opinion Owner]

but it's not really a fight. You could probably easily beat them if you wanted to, but you have to pretend attack and intentionally leave your face and groin open, so it doesn't matter how big you are

[Asker]

but would u expect an older woman's kick to drop a pretty muscular guy half her age?

[Opinion Owner]

If he left a very vulnerable place open and not sufficiently padded, yeah, it's possible.

[Asker]

what if i went without a cup or any padding?

[Opinion Owner]

As a cheap measure of birth control?

[Asker]

LOL!!! well there was a really old woman (like 60s) that jokes that she'd like a fair shot and taking me down without paddding down there

[Opinion Owner]

Don't do it!

[Asker]

haha she's giving me shit because I'm so much bigger and stronger than her lol

[Opinion Owner]

So? Let her talk, who cares?

[Asker]

I dont want her to think she's tougher than me! do u really think a frail old woman could take down a dude double her size?

[Opinion Owner]

In a fight, of course not. But what she suggests is not a fight, it's a one-sided opportunity to kick you in an area where God meant only to be treated nicely.

[Asker]

so if she makes contact with my balls... will i still win? lol

[Opinion Owner]

I don't have any, so you probably know better than I do...

[Asker]

lol well it depends on how gentle she is with my balls

[Opinion Owner]

How gentle do you think she would be? Given her trash talk, and the fact she doesn't know you well enough to really care

[Asker]

well dont women understand how fragile the jewels can be

[Opinion Owner]

You're the one who's letting her kick you there, so maybe you don't understand how fragile they can be.

[Asker]

haha well i have to do it for school credit!

[Opinion Owner]

Not the part where she kicks you with no protection! And get some heavier padding.

[Asker]

I guess I can't really pretend I have balls of steel anymore!

[Opinion Owner]

When did you ever?

[Asker]

I just thought women generally expected guys to be tough and manly with injuries

[Opinion Owner]

Not in that area

[Asker]

have you seen that happen?

[Opinion Owner]

A few times

[Asker]

were u the reason? lol

[Opinion Owner]

No! I'm very nice 😊

[Asker]

i wish u were in the class

[Opinion Owner]

In self defense class I'd kick hard

[Asker]

even in the balls? y

[Opinion Owner]

Especially there... It's supposed to prepare me for a real attack!

[Asker]

but then you'll make the volunteer go home with sore balls! would it change ur decision if u thought he was cute?

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't know that because I'd assume he's well protected!!! Which of also why it wouldn't matter if he was cute

[Asker]

i was wearing a cup on the outside on my shorts

[Opinion Owner]

How is that relevant?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm actually curious now

[Anonymous]

Not at all! It's noble of you!

[Asker]

I guess I was just embarrassed that during some of the drills even with a cup on, a solid groin shot took me down

[Opinion Owner]

Get a better cup then

[Asker]

do you think it made me look less manly? Im doing the class for extra credit for a college course and a lot of the women in it are my classmates

[Opinion Owner]

No, I think it's very noble of you to take pain for their safety. Get a better cup though, seriously.

[Asker]

so u dont think a woman would be surpised a kick in the balls would drop a guy?

[Opinion Owner]

That's the point of teaching them that move

[Asker]

I guess its awkward since a lot of these girls are in my classes and i dont want them to think my manhood is weak or vulnerable

[Opinion Owner]

They teach them to aim there BECAUSE it's vulnerable for EVERY man.

[Asker]

so women don't think less of guys because we aren't very tough when it comes to that area? i just thought women expected guys to be somewhat tough w injuries

[Opinion Owner]

It's a weak spot. I wouldn't think less of you if you were down after your eyes got pepper sprayed.

[Asker]

I guess its different because its our manliest parts so we want girls to think were big and tough

[Opinion Owner]

I think the penis is the manliest part.

[Asker]

lol that's what they are kicking!!

[Opinion Owner]

But that's not why it hurts

[Asker]

true but have u seen it happen to a guy, i can't imagine we look manly on the ground holding our goods

[Opinion Owner]

No one looks particularly tough when they're in a lot of pain.

[Asker]

Yeah but i can take a smack to the face pretty hard and be unfazed but even a light tap to the balls drops me

[Opinion Owner]

That's why they're teaching them to aim there

[Asker]

yeah true, i guess i just wish i had balls of steel

[Opinion Owner]

Every man does, I think

[Asker]

wouldn't women like that too?

[Opinion Owner]

Why would we want that? 😅

[Asker]

cause girls like tough and manly men!

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't mean you're not manly