Yeah there's real warmth and friendliness and people that "fake it" with an agenda or ulterior motive... Why fake charm is a turn off for me... Just be real be you, cuz if you falling that, was else you "faking'?
"faking not falling 🙄 typos
Haha, they are faking orgasms; and no one has time for that. I like that word: warmth.. good summary because those liars I feel coldness to. Warmth and Orgasms, that’s a Good Friday night :)
😂😂 but it's Monday 🤔 lolol
Omg did we work with the'same" co worker 🤣🤣
Thanks for the MHO.
To be honest I'm not sure if I selected or GAG did but either way it WAS mho answer 👍👍🙂
Hahaha I pretty much listed traits of a socio😅
Or Narcissist socio
- "those that enjoy cracking jokes or pulling pranks which put others down, and when a person points this out to them, they have the inability to feel remorse for their actions"I just have a different sense of comedy, I love jokes at my expense and others expenses. 😢
Right! I may sometimes come off a little too blunt but at least it's too the person and not behind their back... And I can't stand when people put all the blame on everything or everyone and never themselves. I'll own my fuck ups (of which have many at my age) but not someone else's. And I didn't let my kids get away with that either...
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Sorry to hear that
Yes, you are in the minority, and that’s unfortunate. I’m s not just that they differ in their opinions, but it’s more of ignorance on their part, and to put it bluntly, they’re too stupid to know how stupid they are... which kind of fits with your realization of things that hwve come with your maturity...🤷🏻♂️
Yeah because if they manipulative they generally also narcissistic as well
Not always, that's whete it gets tricky
Maybe not always but more times than not
Especially when they lie or misrepresent themselves out their life, cuz then you don't really know what else they'll lie about
How do you want them to respond?
Yeah that's why if someone can't just be themselves from the get go it makes me think they're hiding their true self and yeah that's a red flag or scars different online than IRL, if you're real your real so the time no matter where you are or who you're talking to
Ha people tell me I'm sweet all the time and I tell them no I'm not 😂
I've only ever talked to you a few times before but you do seem sweet xD
Lol once in a while lololol
Either your modest or you do have a secret darkside lol
Yeah there was a guy trying to talk to me lives here but from Mexico that was 1-racist against African Americans and 2- all Americans... Like uh hello I'm American lol
Nice answer 👍🙂
Yeah hardcore drugs a no.
Yeah that's not a good character trait
Well.. To be honest with you...👍🙂🤣🤣
You always know how to get a...lol :)
Isn't that at least half the people on here? 🤷🏼♀️Lol
All signs of a bad personality Person for sure
Always trust your gut. If something seems off, it's usually because it is... Another reason to ALWAYS protect yourself!!
True. No matter how long we might have talked to someone, they still can surprise us in a bad way..
Anyways IRL but especially on the internet!! PEOPLE beware... Some are just trying to make themselves be something they're not, lie about their job or marriage status.. While others may intend you "Real" harm or have some kind of personal "agenda" either online or IRL!!
Why do you think you set off bells?
Well let me count the ways...1) An elderly guy asked his wife to give me and 3 others a ride to their church I ended in the front passenger so everyone in the back would have room. I noticed she was trembling and so I asked her if she was okay (take it my left arm was across My chest holding on to the thing that is close to the door handle while my body was scooted as close to the door as possible) she insisted everything was okay and she was fine. After I got out and left she told the Other 3 people that had rode with us "I thought he was going to kill me" when asked why she said because he looks like a biker. Two of the people who knew me said "One said who him, nah he's a Teddy Bear" the other said "he's a sweetheart". I mean if she took even 1 second to think she would have realized that her husband would never have put her in danger... Unrelated, despite me insisting I hate animals their two cats that don't like anyone (they don't hang around us much) one jumped on my lap and the other on my shoulder putting it's nose in my face.2) When I'm in public and standing in a line in order to get on a bus everyone stays at least an arms length away (this was BEFORE Covid 19)3) No female ever looks me in my eyes for more then a few seconds (If that) most never make eye contact.
Some people are just stupid
Yeah lying if my#1 cuz if they lie to you they'll usually also lie about you... And I don't wanna waste time with people who you can't know if what they're saying is the truth or yet another lie.
Oh yeah agree there
Yes that's a big red flag
The fling I was having pushed me to the point to where I smacked him, twice, after I warned him several times to stop. As serving staff, there are a few things that will make me get to you last, and it's actions that make me feel like a dog. Don't whistle at me, don't snap at me and don't wave money around. I told him not to snap at the bartender on duty when she hadn't gotten to us, since I felt it was degrading, he turned to me and snapped at me. I smiled and kindly asked him not to do that to me, "then why are you smiling?" was his response, and he did it again. My eyes narrowed and I again, with a smile, politely asked him not to snap at me, or I'm going to slap him in the face, "I've been in a lot of fights & no ones ever hit me in the face. Plus, you know you like it," and he did it again. I gave him another warning, smile & all, and he did it again, so I gave him a little harder than a love tap on his right. He proceeded to do it again, and I backhanded him, harder, with my rings & I lost my smile, he looked at me like I was a new woman, and I said flatly, "Don't snap at me like that again."Before that he mentioned how in high school I had long hair, and he would like it if I grew it out. I told him that my hair was plenty long and needs a cut (it's at my shoulders now), and he said "Well, I'm the boss, ain't I?" I laughed and told him he was the boss of himself, and I was the boss of me. He gave me a look like no woman has ever talked to him like that before.He mentioned to me, before I had to break it off, that I wouldn't have ever said or did things like that back in high school, and my response was "The world has hardened me, being a bartender has hardened me, and I know how I want to be treated, how I deserve to be treated."
Yeah, I had someone I was having a fling with show up at my house drunker than shit even tho when he asked to come over I had told him to talk fine , cuz there were already reasons why I was just trying to end it, but if he was drunk and coming expecting sex to not bother. . He agreed... But sitting n yard with neighbor, we hear loud noise, turn around and it's the idiot hitting the curb , driving over the curb cuz of course he was fucking drunk🙄 she left.. we went in the house, within 10 min. I asked him to leave.. He kept saying I didn't care if he was too drunk to drive but the shouldn't of driver all the way to my house like that right 🤔 he kept trying to pin me to the wall trying to start sex I finally pushed him on loveseat, let him crash for an hour/hour and a half before waking him up and telling him he had to go... We were standing in the doorway that separates my living room from kitchen when he was trying to put and doing me and hold on to me and not let go when he said'You know I could take it by force if I wanted to... To which I shoved him so hard or because he was so drunk he went flying across the kitchen, hit the stove and then the floor... I don't normally put my hands on someone like that but NOONE is gonna ever get away with threatening to force sex on me like that... And then I told him to get the fuck outta my house
Oh yeah I know and I definitely do!!
Some are tho, just not all
Oh dang lol I can be all of those lol so beware 😂😂
@5points2gspot are you asking me or opinion owner?
@5points2gspot yeah I mean I get off someone exhibits those behaviors all the time but like in my case it's occasional and usually with reason... I talk louder when my mom says she can't hear me out someone wisely yes to talk over me like I wasn't talking, I think anyone can get in"a mood" that's usually when I just want alone time... Sarcasm, I don't know why that would be an issue unless user it for rudeness, me in more sarcastic funny or when someone else getting insulting, I'll use sarcasm verses swearing or outright name calling or insults
*rudely tries to overtalk me
@Brainsbeforebeauty I'm just saying people can get toxic with these red flags ( Moody, Sarcastic, Loud talker ) If I meet a girl / woman whose moody all timeor sarcastic with me , lacks affection I sure wouldn't wanted to date her
I get what you're saying
Thank you for your perspective. :)
I can't tolerate liars who constantly lie, especially things they KNOW you know the truth about... That's just crazy to me
Lol same here. They are so pathetic. I see right through their BS even if they don't
Right!! Like they think they fooling people but they only fooling themselves which makes them look like, well a fool 😂😂
You said it guuurl! 👍
Right! Or their own advice.. like tell you to suck it up, but then they the first one to break when something goes wrong in "their" life...
👍🙂 me it's liars and Narcissistic people.. And yeah sometimes you just get that vibe or inkling when you just know people up to no good!
Always listen to those feelings... They're usually right!
I didn't once.
Yeah I know.. But we all can miss the signals... But makes us even sharper never time around... The one tried getting over on me, he/it taught me... Always have/get REAL proof... And Always have a way/proof to not only prove their guilt but your innocence, so now I do!!!
Oh yeah I hate when people do that... I can take a joke but there is a difference between joking and straight out insulting
Oh yeah the last one big red flag there. I'm not really a big fan of social media... This the only thing I'm on in 48 years and with some of the crap I see on here now I see why lol
Lol you must be thinking that Gen Z is so messed up. It actually is.
If the shit on here is real then yeah... But funny thing, the younger people I know in real life aren't anything like the way it's said to be on here.. I have tons of niece's that are all in relationships, most married my friend's daughters and my own daughters, none are like"women" are portrayed to be on here. Or the men I've known or worked with or man was married to aren't like that either, so 🤷🏼♀️
It's great that you're surrounded by nice people.
I think a lot if people are more than they realize. If you don't give people a chance based off just what you hear about the opposite gender or treat them based off assumptions instead of just getting to know someone then you mood the chance of really meeting knowing the good men and women out there
*miss the chance not mood lol
100% true.Hear hear
Funny smells? 🤔😂
Yeah diffrent kinds of weirdos have diffrent smells to me it's really strange trust
So you go around sniffing weirdos 🤔😂😂😂 just kidding sorry couldn't resist lololol
From a distance yeah it like sniff what's that weird smell sniff oh it's him the weirdo, ok yea it's weird
Is that a personal attack on me?
Oh yeah those are red flags, socially when they'claim" they was busy but active online 🤣 like yeah OKAY LOLOLOL
it not funny. it most stupid thing ever .
Katie, you have to be much quicker to respond. Not only that - if the phones/internet stop working - where do I find you, and when? The waiting protocol.
Oh yeah like the guy that just walked by my house saying some very out there crap 🙄🙄
Yeah always listen to the warning bells
That's good 👍👍
Not just me, everyone should listen to those warning bells
What do you mean by that
@Kit_Kat88 I think he means agreeing just to agree instead of saying what you really feel
😂😂😂OkayI was going to send one with this reply as a joke but I'm too lazy to look one up lolol
There are some that are funny, but man if it's all they ever post on social media then I have to hide them or block them.
You'll see way more as the election approaches
Yeah that shows selfishness, bad listener but then also tries to interrupt or talk over you 🙄🙄
Oh yeah for sure that will set the alarm bells ringing