Lmao @ "When I realized it was the woman and not... I don't know... a dog biting me, or a zombie attack... or a gay dude".
That's so funny! You made me laugh so hard! x
Thank you so much for saying this. I'm one of those who are offended by it. Is it so hard to respect people nowadays? And you're definitely right about guys having to play it off like it's nothing, or else we get labeled as gay-ish or whatever.
grinding is a form of dancing and it is very popular these days so that would make sense why they think grinding is fine. I agree though of I can't do it then she shouldn't be able to do it either and like you said not everyone likes it and even the ones that do usually only like it if they are interested/attracted to the girl
Grinding may be a dance style but I don't think the guys that have tried their moves on me were following a dance style, lol. Overall people should get back to some old school respecting of each other. Reading the responses here I see a lot more guys are not going to be pleased that a girl crossed the line with them, and I get that.
You should be given a prize for this, one of the women with real courage!
I love you
yes because two wrongs make a right /sarcasm
I know right...So, why the violence?
actually what I meant was that just because some guys grab or smack your ass, it doesn't give you a free pass to do the same to other guys. hence, two wrongs don't make a right.Personally I do whatever it takes to be respected. If I have to make a scene, so be it. I don't like being harassed... so I can't expect anyone else to like it either.
I know what you meant, I was just being sarcastic. Don't nobody needs to lecture me on anything honey, because I know how to take care of myself and I do what I want. Thanks but no thanks...
I think you do need it... but suit yourself.
Totally agree with you. But mostly, we men don't think of this as violence, just flirting. After all, no permanent harm is done...
@ Marty- I meant the violence from some of the guys' reponses up there. Some said it's offensive and that they would punch the woman.
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THAT IS HILARIOUS! HAHAHA wow omg. "I looked back slowwwww saying that better be an accident!" I can imagine the way you looked back haha!
I would complain
Question asker: No it doesn't challenge my musculinity...it only gives me a good reason to grab her ass too :P
AT LEAST You CAN HAVE SOME FUN SOME OF THIS PEOPLE ARE REAL PARTY POOPERS CANT HAVE ANY FUN
now I'm curios as wich part or parts of my answer people didn't like
You make like no sense and talk about using martial arts on the girl who flirted with you. Duh.
it may be flirting but its also sexual harrasment
now you see how girls feel about it. we should do it more often haha
You're mean, cali :)
I'd feel that my ass was looking nice!
It's more of an eeeek. but I can't think of the word to describe that.
oops that went to the wrong answer...
its just another double standard.
I'd be caught off guard. Not no what to say. Be flattered later. Probably expect another move to come... if I liked him I'd return the pat
Well some girls also react violently to sexual harassment. Some take off one shoe and use it as a weapon, for instance. I think they're right to do so.
don't hit women man.
If you disrespect someone in such a way, you should be prepared for the consequences -- wether you're a man or a woman.I wouldn't f*ck up her face or break her arm; but a punch in the gut sounds about right... no lasting damage, and gets the message across.
Dude don't take it so seriously; chances are, she's either drunk or joking. Don't cause drama where it's not needed! Life's too short.
that sounded like equality I like your style even though I don't necessarily agree with you but your actions are justified
If I harass women while drunk, it only makes it more crass.If I do it jokingly, odds are she won't take it as a joke.So why the double standard?
agreed ^Although a fist to the stomach is a bit much, a girl shouldn't be doing that in the first place.If a guy touches me I can sue for sexual assualt, yet if I touch a guy, they get told to calm down. (or something along the lines)I think if a girl were to do that, an appropriate please don't do that again - would work fine.If not, smack a bitch lol
@andrea93, would you sue the guy or tell him please don't do that again? I'm confused.
If it weren't for the fact that she was one of the not-so-nice looking girls at school I would have let it go though.
Yeah, but I'd have been creeper=d out still.
Voted up for gender equality.
Why do you squeak?
I'm pretty sensitive, I'm sure I mentioned that.
I know it's a double standard when a guy does it to a woman, but as for me I'm not a manly man so it doesn't effect my masculinity.
thats a little much even for me who's martial arts style relies heavily on in injuring people
haha, surely, I was just exaggerating a bit.
lol that would be funny
Whatever Anonymous User!I couldn't think of the right word!:p
Sorry. That sort of thing amuses me way more than it probably should.
It's got nothing to do with masculinity. It's just a personal space thing. Having a stranger--regardless of gender--touch me feels violating. I don't even like handshakes or hugs.
of course I wouldn't :D I am joking . just get her number only :D
One of them was attractive (same age as mine), one was unattractive (same age as mine), one was attractive but 10 years older and all three were married, had at least one child.
They were French, I suppose.
I was thinking the same thing
if a guy did that to me, I'd to the same...so plus uno!
unless you were joking don't have kids