This is a global shift for BLACK WOMEN?

[ct1243]

I’ve come across a lot of post from ironically BM crapping on BW. No one cares that you date out and you’re obsessed over non BW. What I’m coming to terms with is that BM are psychotic and obsessed behind BW and non BW. A lot of us date out and we have dating standards. In shorter terms, we have preferences 😊. I never seen so much haterd until I got on social media from BM professing their disdain, colorism, featurism, self haterd, and misogyny onto BW. We get it and we got the majority of you BM hate BW. A lot of us don’t respect you and your better off moving on as we’re doing it already. This social cyberbullying is exposing what BW have been dealing with decades from the black community and BM ( ABUSE ) now the rest of the world can see BW’s story. It’s sad it’s come to this , but it’s no shocker to us BW. We’ve been waiting on this day of exposure and this shift is happening globally in America , Africa , The Islands, Italy , Paris , and France for BW. It’s almost complete. We have a few documentaries in the making for BW. It’s time to move on BM. I’m an activist and advocate for BW and other causes for the world. You can’t abuse someone you love and expect them to love you back.

https://youtu.be/oKNx_t6YJ7s

https://youtu.be/BRn5QPP2kYQ

https://youtu.be/AWztzrrLKhM

https://youtu.be/D0-N5uR1Rcw

https://youtu.be/BLXlA9r6KWk

https://youtu.be/8GPg1VGTmfY

This video shows a BM knocking a BW out with a skateboard ( She later died after going into a coma and being unresponsive)

https://youtu.be/Bff0LDNcavE

A DC BW thrown in a dumpster by BM ; this story was mocked on social media by BM.

https://youtu.be/8weKUGlsqno

How can we forget Oluwatoyin Salau a 19 year old activist who was gang rapped and murdered by a monster while supporting BLM. She was homeless and needed shelter.

https://youtu.be/gSGNArbBAzY

[YHL6965]

Aww, what a shame. I find women to be so beautiful and unique in their own way. It's really sad that the men of your own race treat you so badly. I'm not black so I probably don't understand or see many perspectives on the matter yet, but I really think you black ladies deserve to be treated with kindness, compassion and love, just like any other woman deserves it.

I have also noticed a sort of trend among black communities, particularly among women, to makes themselves look "whiter", more like Caucasians with a paler skin, straight hair, even contact lenses, as if they were ashamed of their own race, as if they did not see beauty in their own race. It makes me sad for these women to feel so ashamed of being black.

Don't let toxic people bring you down and stop you from chasing what you want. If you won't find it within your own race, there is no shame in dating outside your race. I know I would not mind dating a black woman as long as we suit each other personality-wise.

[ct1243]

I’ve been dating outside my race since I was a teen LOL. A lot of BW hate themselves granted, but this mentality is being exposed and I love it. I’ve been waiting on this day.

[AlexanderAnttila]

I'm normally not an advocate for fixation on skin colour and all that but from all I have seen of BM and BW going at each other back and forth I'm honestly starting to think you both need to have a serious talk, like a conference or something.

"Black men are failing black women, black men are abandoning us"
"Black women are abandoning us for white men, black women fetishize white men"
"Black men are trash"
"Black women are trash"

And this one black female gager who believes black men are demonically possessed or something.

I'm just a bystander and I also live in Sweden which is a very homogenous country still so I rarely even have any contact with other ethnicities besides Middle Easterners but it looks more and more like this is getting out of hand. I don't know the scale of this nor the statistics but it still seems to me like it is a significant issue that is growing.

[ct1243]

Having a conversation with BM isn’t going to work. Some of us have moved on as we should. Nothing more nothing less. I’ve never in my life seen a group of men who publicly and graciously disrespect their women online. I’ve had this conversation with BM and it leads to blaming BW. The best thing for BM to do is LEAVE

[ct1243]

I wouldn’t go to the degree of calling the demonic possessed. I’m just an advocate. It’s getting bad and BW should run for the exit at this point

[AlexanderAnttila]

"I’ve never in my life seen a group of men who publicly and graciously disrespect their women online" Sorry, not quite following what you're saying here?

But what do you mean move on? As in never engaging with each other again or something?

[ct1243]

No BW should explore their dating options if it’s their preference. A lot of BM have moved on. You don’t need to talk to “Men” about their so called positions and duties for their women. What I’m saying is about damn time BW owned their dating options.

[AlexanderAnttila]

Alright sure, that's fair enough. I wasn't aware that having "options" as such was somehow not allowed within the community up until now?

[ct1243]

Granted there is BW who hate BM and vice versa. I think this is stimulating form lack of environmental issues and social skills. There are BW who date out as myself and not exposed to this risk of dysfunction and toxic behavior. I talked about toxic masculinity behavior.

[ct1243]

Well BM have told BW not to date out ironically. So BW are exploring their options now as they should

[ClititBang]

I have noticed that the black women in my area have are married to white men and seem to be a lot happier then their other counter parts who are married to black men. I don't know if that is across the board with all of them but that is just what i see in my area.

[ct1243]

Thanks for your input

[ct1243]

I’m glad

[Flower7]

I enjoyed the first video. It had a very interesting perspective.

[ct1243]

😊 thanks

[HouseAtreides]

I will be honest with you and say that I've seen more racism... sexism.. prejudice.. from the black community than any other community

though groups like the BLM will attempt to make it seem the other way around


there are some very serious cultural flaws within that community that need to be resolved in order for any progress to be made

[Solo22]

I don't know if I would say it's a "global" shift, but I do think more women are seeing things that way and are having those same thoughts. For every black woman that doesn't want a black man there is a black woman who does. At the end of the day we all have what we want or don't want and our own beliefs and experiences that shaped those outlooks.

[ct1243]

There are BW who still desire BM ; it is a shift for BW

[hasdrubal164]

im attracted to black women aswell i dont know why. its the aura

[hasdrubal164]

and the beauty is not something from this world its beautiful !1

[888theGreat]

Why are black women making their hair blonde and using contacts to make eyes blue?

[ct1243]

What color is my hair and eyes? Black and brown and besides I’m natural and have been 7 years. I don’t wear weave or contacts. A lot of BW are not accepting of themselves and have inferior issues. Rather than them loving themselves and accepting themselves, they’ll try and be someone else.

[ct1243]

Self love is so important

[Jack9949]

I’m struggling to understand BM these days. It is time for BW to move on.

[ct1243]

Yes it is

[Jack9949]

There’s no good reason to hate anybody for their skin color.

[ct1243]

I agree 💯

[HouseofWise]

I've met so many terribly racist and sexist black people
that i dont blame common sense black people wanting no relationship with them

[FýrdracaDócincel]

You go from stating that you have preferences to accusing black men of "featurism."

It helps to make up your mind on the context of a question BEFORE you ask it, not afterwards! 😂

[ct1243]

I don’t have to accuse them of anything. It’s out there and these videos prove it. Unless you know something else I don’t know?

[FýrdracaDócincel]

I'm calling you a hypocrite.. because you're a hypocrite.

[ct1243]

Based on what unless you know BM better than I do. Prove to me how BM are not colorist or featurist. I can pull up videos proving that.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Way to paint all black guys as being bad which is not true.

[ct1243]

If it doesn’t apply let it fly

[MysteriousDarkness]

@ct1243
What was the point of you trying to make all black guys out to be no good?

[ct1243]

I’m sick of BM thinking their entitled to BW

[MysteriousDarkness]

@ct1243
A lot of them don't feel that way.

[ct1243]

Ok so why are you triggered

[MysteriousDarkness]

I find it fun y that you believe that I am triggered. You are the one who searched specifically for videos to support your negative view you have on all black guys. I would have not said any of what I have if you had worded your post differently. I am done with this conversation.

[ct1243]

You should’ve have never responded. There are more videos out there from BW. BW should move on and keep exposing the abuse.

[stargazeraug1989]

I agree. WW for the win. 😁

[ct1243]

😌 ..

[ct1243]

Some of us have options

[flexin-on-yuu]

Do you hate black men?

[ct1243]

No I don’t prefer any of you as dating options however.

[ct1243]

I’m just the messenger nothing more nothing less

[flexin-on-yuu]

Why wouldn't you consider dating a black man but then get mad at me for having a preference?

[ct1243]

I don’t care who you date. You don’t have to crap on BW to be with WW or any race of woman. I have no experiences dating BM and the few I dated so good experiences. I’m attracted to other races of men just like some BM. When it comes to dating; I prefer dating outside my race.

[ct1243]

I didn’t have good experiences dating within my race

[flexin-on-yuu]

Well, what race you prefer then

[ct1243]

Dating outside my race