They can do what they like, but it’s unattractive when a woman is loud and crude. It’s far more attractive when a woman can be assertive, yet gentle. What I’ve found is that women who “speak their mind” typically lack social etiquette and pride themselves on being rude because they correlate it to strength.
All of this really stems from biology. Just as shy men are unattractive to women, the same applies to loud and crude women. The more you deviate from biologically driven norms, the more unattractive you become to the opposite sex.
For example, men produce 7x more testosterone than women, and our endocrine system plays a huge factor in personality traits.
We can say that we don’t like these things, but these differences are driven by biology. It’s like saying the weather is too hot. It states your stance, but doesn’t explain as to why it’s too hot, and it doesn’t change the fact that it is hot.
I’m all for people being themselves, but loud and crude women are going to have a more difficult time finding a quality man.
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No I don´t like it because girls can be very funny to. I actually fell in love with my first crush in school times because she was one of the few girls that were openly showing she´s clumsy and dopey, too. (Until I met her, I really though that those characteristics were genuiely male) I like it when girls are talkative even if you haven´t properly thought it through. Try it and take your turn because the world looses something if girls keep quiet all the time and only speak if they´re spoken, too.
I keep hearing people say that girls should be chatty. It’s always guys that I hear saying this. They seem to feel that girls should do most of the talking in conversations. This has been my experience anyway.
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I think all I know about what I look for in a woman is just, as nicely as I can put it because I accept I'm no squeaky-clean guy myself with no baggage because that would've been lying:
All I ask is that she not be bipolar or prone to being very very sensitive to perceived slights or the slightest criticism either to her or about her because I've known women like that and they really don't gel with my more passive calmer personality type.
So take from my answer what you will 🙏👍😯I think if there's a problem everybody should speak their mind but there's better methods to get your message across the yelling and screaming and being loud I would rather communicate in a soft voice looking in each other's eyes it doesn't need to be drama there doesn't need to be excitement you just needs to be two people being honest called you working out to fix it
There is a difference between having an opinion and being a cunt.
What most women today lack are the critical thinking skills to form a well rounded thoughtful opinion, most just screech and repeat talking points that someone else came up with.Dumb and obnoxious people should be quiet based on their shitty character not based on their gender.
I mean look at Cardi B for example, if I was in the same room as her I'd rip my eyes and ears out. I think that people like that should be quiet.When women are loud and aggressive and behave like a man, I can't help but want to punch em in the face ssry. It's like if a mouse was to fuck with a lion and then not accept the consequences. Men can physically dominate you, don't go out of your way to push their buttons and irrtate them. You don't know often men have to restrain themselves and repress their emotions over stupid shit like this.
I think everyone should have good social skills that tell them when to shut the hell up and when (and how) to speak their mind. The difference between speaking your mind and being an asshole does not have gender boundaries.
No! No one should be quiet! If you're quiet you don't communicate. If you don't communicate your relationship fails. I value what my partner has to say. In fact I value what she has to say over what everyone else does. :D
Women should be obscene and not heard. lol, just kidding.
Yes, I think everyone should speak their mind. I want to hear all views, and especially those of a woman I'm dating.All I know is that if a guy thinks he's going to actually get a girl to stop talking... he better not be a betting man! He will be totally broke all his life!
Women shouldn’t be loud. It’s annoying. I don’t like any loud people but loud women that talk over you are just the worst. Ide rather swallow thumbtacks.
In general, people talk way too much.
Mostly about 'nothing', and often without thinking first.
To be quiet does not mean to be mute.
So, I'd quietly say that I dislike noisy people (men included)Literally nobody (in the Western world) thinks that women shouldn't speak their minds. The problem isn't what's being said; it's how it's being said. There are appropriate ways to speak one's concerns.
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no of course not.
I encourage free talking and saying what’s on their mind.
It would be a boring life if that happened in a relationshipShe has as much right to speak as do I. I value what my wife has to say. She's wise and perceptive, sometimes funny. We learn from each other.
I think women should exercise self-control, discipline and sound judgement before opening their mouths.
I think men should do the same.
I know that's asking too much and I'd be daft to get my hopes up.why shouldn't you?
If you are with people that have that point of view, I would highly suggest you find new people.
I don't think you would ever be able to change their minds on that subject."Loud"? No, I don't think anyone should deliberately be "loud". Speak you mind, politely, and with an informed opinion, absolutely.
Men are actually craving women who have something real to say.Stop lying and stop fishing for victim oppression points. Women are louder and talk more shit than men by MILES. No one is keeping you quiet. If anything it's women who start yammering and don't let men talk.
Whats the fun in that? My girlfriend and i have deep conversations all the time..
I think every woman / ladies/girl should speak their mind freely.
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