*But, but, but my ancestors came here from Europe and didn't get squat from the government but they still lived the American dream.
-And there were people born into slavery who became millionaires but we're talking about the systemic problem, not why individuals don't succeed.
*But, but but Asian Americans faced discrimination but they're more successful than white people because they overcame it.
-They overcame the racist immigration quotas that only allowed the most well to do families to move here (i. e. there's a sampling bias).