Does anyone have issues where your bonus dad or dad accused you of something just because they assumed?

So I live with my mom and bonus dad. And over the few years or so he's made the accusation of certain things that he's assumed that I was going to do when I wasn't. I'll just give a few times it happened. One time we were getting ready for a church event that I and my brothers didn't know we were going to until maybe a few hours before the event was supposed to start. I went to do my hair and tied it down with a scarf to keep my hair in place since some of it was going to stick back while the gel and hair were still wet. I was going to take it off before we even walked out the door, but instead, he chose to accuse me of going to wear it out of the house and yell at me for it because he assumed and he yelled at me more when I tried explaining why I was wearing it. He punished everyone else by not letting anyone go. Another incident happened this year when I ordered these thin paper sticks to use to clean out my 2-decade old piercing holes cause sometimes the nooks and crannies of the ears get dirty. when I bought the product it came with a cleaning solution with foreign characters on it I only bought it for the tube of paper sticks. He accused me of buying it to be using both instead of asking the reason why I really bought it.
Does anyone have issues where your bonus dad or dad accused you of something just because they assumed?
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