What's the biggest thing your parents tried to accuse you of?

[mandyfire98]

My dad once tried to accuse me of sneaking a guy into my room one night and hooking up with him when I was in highschool.

[Lynx122]

My parents trusted me because I wasn't very difficult. Even when I did something sus they didn't really question me much. Like when I was 14 there was this thing my class did rent a scout house that are all over switzerland and go there after school and get wasted for a whole week before the holidays. And then I got prety drunk and I threw up the next morning at the trainstation while going to school and so a guy called my parents that I'd eaten something bad and I had to come home. And that was it ^^ I tried to take a bit of a longer way home so I could recover a bit more so by the time I got home I wasn't as sick anymore and I just rested. But it's nice if you're generally honest and have good intentions then people will trust you a lot more or forgive you when things do go in a bad direction at least with me that's the case and I appreciate it :)

[ohsheeT]

Okay but at any point in time did you ever do that it doesn't matter if it was that night but did you ever do that LOL

I don't really think that there is anything that they really accused me of I only lived there until I was just about 16 but

Now after that going to Christmas dinners and Thanksgiving dinner is Easter dinners

I would always hear from my cousins my aunts my uncles my mom oh I heard you've been doing this and they always had it wrong so I had to start spreading my own rumors so at least when I'd go to my family dinners I would say no no no no it wasn't like that it's like this and that got to be pretty funny

[ohsheeT]

I used to always call my whole family BBC the British broadcasting system because they would know things about me before I even did them LOL that's how good they were

[mandyfire98]

Oh I definitely did it. It wasn't the first time at all 😂😂

[ohsheeT]

Lol. Yes that's the vibe I got when I read your post lol and I could hear you still denying it to this day LOL

[mandyfire98]

Oh I don't deny it now lol. Especially because my mom pretty much knew all along.

[ohsheeT]

Well that's funny
But I bet you have a good bond with your mom right now too don't you because of the way that she handle things back then

[mandyfire98]

Oh my mom and I have a great bond. She always knew because she was just like me growing up.

[ohsheeT]

That's actually kind of really hot

[mandyfire98]

Hahaha. She was a wild child too

[ohsheeT]

She sounds like ,, No you both sound like you're a lot of fun

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I was a good kid, if anything I got away with more because they trusted me when I told them I had a study date when I was actually going to dick around with friends. My parents gave me the freedom to fuck around and find out so I could learn on my own, making sure I would always feel safe coming to them in case something went wrong and teaching me about the ways things could go wrong and what to do.

[mandyfire98]

I actually like this approach. My dad was always a bit overprotective of me. I was his Italian princess. Lol

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

My mom was the problem child, she fully expected me to have the same rebellious desires but wanted to give me the freedom and love she wanted instead of the punishment she received as a teen

[mandyfire98]

That makes sense. My mom was a wild child too growing up.

[msmissydc]

We had a sleepover as young teenagers and had a bit of actually non sexual fun, but we snuk out at night and bought condoms as naughty balloons (we did blow them up and so on). My parents thought I had sex when they found the condoms later. It was later cleared but it was super weird and embarrassing and they just thought I was lying when I told them the truth.

[mandyfire98]

Hahaha. Honestly though I could see with condoms around why they would think that.

My mom actually caught me because she came up to my room and went in my bathroom and looked down into my trash can and saw a used condom in there.

[Anonymous]

Stealing. Many times over "little" things. But a few times over money, or that we'd steal their life savings (even just months before they died). Both parents. When they were lucid (and when they weren't).

My mom had dementia at the end of her life, and I was her caretaker, so she accused ME of all kinds of mean things, then deny she ever said any of it.

It would be laughable if it wasn't so sad. But the other accusations from her didn't bother me as much as them assuming we'd... I'd... steal from them (and accusing me of it) because there was a history of that from both.

And that was fairly minor over all the other crap they did. It was hell living with them most of the time.

[Unit1]

Lots of things.

I remember being accused for taking their money (~1 EUR) and making a drama show over it. It absolutely could have been a wonderful drama show material being seen on TV including child abuse.

Up to this day I am visiting the medics and surgeons to address the multiple medical conditions i have gotten over the years growing up like that... and cutting my parents out of my life.

[mandyfire98]

Oh wow. I'm sorry you had to deal with abuse. Kids shouldn't have to go through that.

[Unit1]

Right. And here we are.

When I read others being abused as kids and they don't cut out their toxic family, I start to think that Stockholm syndrome is way more common than one might think. It's like they don't have this idea at all.

In any case I was left with no other choice.

[NathanDavis]

one thing, one time.. lmao

they questioned me about something someone else said to them about me...

that I was wasting my money and education away... to be with "that girl" they would see me with "every day" at a "questionable" side of the town, lmfao...

that day, and night... was the longest and most disrupting argument I ever had with my parents, lol

and they never made a mistake like that, ever again

[Beautyblossom2]

I used to go to gym at the time when there was no one. My parents were suspicious and tried sneaking up on me quietly to check. They found no one. I obviously caught my mother doing this & knew her intentions but couldn't obviously directly accuse her of this, so i asked her to join me and workout. We had a good time she got tired. They both realised later that I am truly a loner lol.

[AviatorTom]

I don't recall my parents ever accusing me of anything. Closest thing I can think of is coming home very late one night when I was in high school and finding them both up, sitting at the kitchen table, waiting for me. We had a nice talk about it.

[iron_ninjs]

My mom tried to accuse me of scratching the car while parking, in front of my dad.
Didn't work, because we all know, including her, that I'm good at parking, and wouldn't be able to scratch it at that particular parking spot. She is the best driver in the family, but the worst at parking.

[WhitneySnow]

Having sex with my boyfriend. They were wrong, but we did go most of the way so their instincts weren’t totally off.

[mandyfire98]

I think just because parents were our age at that time too they know what's likely to happen.

[WhitneySnow]

I agree

[mandyfire98]

My mom always knew. She was wild like me lol. She would just ask me "are you being safe, using protection"

[WhitneySnow]

My mom asked me the same thing. I promised her we weren’t doing anything yet that would require protection.

[Staximus]

Not much. I was a super honest kid and just said what I did, regardless of the consequences. Most of the stupid shit I did was not at home. My mom caught me with a girl in my room when she came home from work when I was 18 and she was pissed haha.

[Laurenitis]

Lol my dad once thought I was pregnant because I kept throwing up. He went off on me for the day or 2. My mom kept telling him I'm not he wouldn't believe us. He made me take a test. It's kind of funny now looking back at it

[mandyfire98]

Hahaha. I could see my dad doing the same honestly.

[Laurenitis]

Hahah

[Alwayreckles93]

Wow that's horrible. That is sick he made you take a test. I hate it when parents don't believe their kids.

[Pinay_ako]

They never accused me of anything coz I tell them what I did 😂, good or bad.

[mandyfire98]

Very honest and open. I like that.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes coz my parents are not judgmental and they like to hear my side before getting mad at me. And if it’s my fault, I’d admit it anyways.

[Breanna94]

@mandyfire98 I was accused of sleeping with multiple girls which was absolutely true though

[mandyfire98]

Haha.

[Breanna94]

@mandyfire98 well i did it a couple times in my room and the shower while my parents werent home did get walked in on a couple times it was a little embarrassing

[Sour-rose]

shittin in the toilet and not flushing. Really had to tell this idiot that's my mom i went to take a piss. Then she had it happen so it was my turn accuse her- don't feel so good now, does it? :)

[Amxx_]

Nothing that I haven't actually done. My parents have really been supportive and they've trusted me since a young age

[mandyfire98]

That's good to hear.

[Sirenboobzilla]

When I was 15 my parents were convinced I was smoking weed because 2 of my friends were. I truth I hadn't tried it until I was 19

[Kabluie]

That's funny, my parents didn't mind sleepovers in my bed as long as we were seriously dating in high school.

The biggest one was thinking I was stealing money, when it was their ineptitude.

[Stressyalaire]

Of being the baddie when they were doing mistakes, but because I don't agree with that self destructive behavior, I was suddenly labeled as the villain.

[beebella]

I guess they just thought I was being "rude" to someone when I wasn't. Other than that, anything they accused me of doing, I actually did. 😂

[Alwayreckles93]

My older sister would do something later went on lie to my mom that it was me who did it. Yeah it was horrible.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nothing, they always trusted and supported me in any decision of mine. I am extremely lucky to have them.

[Gochogirl]

My mother accused me of poisoning my sister. She had something with nuts and went into shock. I was not present when this happened.

[dolemite58]

stealing one of the neighbors cars. id stolen cars before but just not that particular neighbors 😂

[mandyfire98]

Haha Jesus

[Date_a_Snob]

In high school my dad accused me having having sex with my chemistry lab partner while they were away visiting family on a Friday night

[elizamichale1]

They never accused me of anything... they hav been very open with me specially my dad.. i always shared every bit of my life with them

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Not exactly an accusation, but my mother always thought I was gay for years.

[exitseven]

Nothing that I can really think of. It was really the other way around. Like what is the biggest thing I did that they never found out about.

[4ngelic]

stealing hundreds of dollars from them and stealing their credit card

[SnowedIn]

Stealing money from them. It was my big brother who wanted cigarettes. 😖

[Agape93]

Of lying about my uncle and trying to ruin his reputation at church and among family.

[Smashingdoozy]

One of my only experiences with my parents was my mother telling me to "not wear such a short tight skirt next time, you look like a whore" I was 14 🙂

[mandyfire98]

That's terrible to call your daughter that.

[OddBeMe]

“Why aren’t you sneaking girls into your room?”
“Yes sweetie we gave you condoms.”
“But dad! Mom! I just wanna play StarCraft.”
“He’s gay, Sharon.”

[Anonymous]

My mind mom accused me of trying to sneak a girl into the garage to have sex with her during a New Year’s Eve party when I was 16. I was finally able to convince her we weren’t trying to have sex in the garage. I was just showing her my dad’s car. What I didn’t tell her, me and the girl had just got done having sex in my room.

[LiamJHayden]

Nothing. The more I read about others growing up, the more I realize just how fortunate I was.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

They tried to accuse me of stealing the cookie from the cookie jar

[strateguy632]

my mom saw my wet shirt in first grade and falsely accused me of urine shirt. they grounded me so i poured orange juice on her sheets. haha. then i deserved the punishment.

[Andres77]

I was a thief as a kid so if mom accused me of stealing something I probably did.

[Thot_Stomper]

They accused me of the same thing... unfortunately that along with every other accusation was pretty accurate.

[Z1pTD]

Caught one cheating when they made an account using my name trying to make it look like me lol

[Cb142]

doing drugs when i never had even at the time tried any of them only thing i ever tried was weed but not till i was like 18 or 19 and hated it

[Kelly6]

My parents accused me that I sneaked into their bedroom while they were having sex

[Kelly6]

How old were you when your dad accused you of this?

[YesToLife]

Accusing me of not being too good in studies when I was in school... Yeah it sucks

[pethouse]

Being on drugs before I was on drugs
I naturally have “crazy eyes”

[Anonymous]

gotta be being gay. lmao. Just because I didn't bring a girl home to meet my embarrassing family. 🤣

[krin_m]

I don't remember TBH. I was not a boy scout so probably too many things :-)

[Northernmost84]

I had sex with my high school girlfriend in my parents house. It wasn’t a big deal to them

[Anonymous]

They blamed my hubby for my sister's baby with her man...

They were right he could not give her a baby so we helped my sister have her daughter!

[justabuddy]

Hard to say... my sister was always getting me into trouble.

[Anonymous]

That I'm lying that my dad caused my trauma.

[Subflics]

Mom accused me of having alzheimers at 13 when I caught her fucking a guy

[mandyfire98]

What in the world? 😂

[Anonymous]

Getting my sister pregnant

[mandyfire98]

Now that's wild

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah right?
We just loved cuddling each other in bed since childhood and they saw us with a bad eye!
I later helped her to run away with her boyfriend to neighboring town without parents knowing.

[Kacka]

he was right, u did that

[mandyfire98]

Yes, I did it.

[noname9696]

I'm the root of all problems in their life

[mandyfire98]

Are you?

[Adogdog]

Did you actually do that? 😂😂😂

[mandyfire98]

Did I do what?

[Adogdog]

Sneak they guy into your room. lol

[mandyfire98]

Oh yeah that absolutely happened

[Nikki1989]

Nothing. I rarely saw them.

[sheenagwapa]

accuse of being the one who is messy

[MikeTheBartender]

Honestly nothing I didn't actually do!

[Yellovv]

Have you ever done that?

[mandyfire98]

Done what?

[Yellovv]

Have you ever sneak any guy in your room night time?

[mandyfire98]

Oh yeah it happened lol

[Yellovv]

That's why your father suspicious about it

[Coden7]

Turning the family against him

[Mansearching]

Not trying my best in school

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Was it true though?

[mandyfire98]

Yep it was

[Aakash_Hangargi]

😆😆😆

[Sparkie460]

Did you do it?

[Sparkie460]

My parents accused me of taking money from them. They finally figured out that it was my sister taking it

[mandyfire98]

Oh I definitely did it and that was just the only time I almost got caught 😂😂😂

[Sparkie460]

Shame on you 😕

[mandyfire98]

No shame in my game

[Sparkie460]

So confident, I like that

[mandyfire98]

Yes sir

[Sparkie460]

You don't have to call me sir, I work for a living ma'am

[mandyfire98]

Ok I'll call you Ed

[Sparkie460]

That's better Mandy 😃

[mandyfire98]

😉😉