Since the dating world is so toxic?

[cth2188]

Do you think it’s best women and men part ways?

I’m all for it.. a lot of men of today are sadistic , hate women , non-chivalrous, disrespectful, violent , and have misogynistic views towards women..

Most treat women like objects and garbage..

The system of patriarch is slowing going away.. thus making women more matriarch.. I have received more red pill , MGTOW , and sysbm from men despite I don’t date men and I’m not a feminist..

I feel it’s time to get away from men and how they treat women.. between the over-sexualized and immature behavior why should decent women bother?

Men of today don’t want marriage or relationships with women as they blame the system..

Why are women subjugating themselves to be used by men sexual?

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The most modern day American man is toxic and carries toxic masculinity

[OlderAndWiser]

"Since the dating world is so toxic?" That is YOUR conclusion; not everyone shares that belief.

"Do you think it’s best women and men part ways?" Only those who believe that dating is "toxic."

"I’m all for it.. a lot of men of today are sadistic , hate women , non-chivalrous, disrespectful, violent , and have misogynistic views towards women." You and the other guys can certainly avoid the dating arena; no one is FORCING you to date, are they?

"Most treat women like objects and garbage." Speak for yourself.

"The system of patriarch is slowing going away.. thus making women more matriarch.. I have received more red pill , MGTOW , and sysbm from men despite I don’t date men and I’m not a feminist.." Yes, I understand that the MFTOCEM (Men Fixin' Their Own Coffee Every Morning) are supportive of each other since they have shunned women.

"between the over-sexualized and immature behavior why should decent women bother?" Decent women know that all men don't share the attitudes you are expressing.

"Men of today don’t want marriage or relationships with women as they blame the system.." Men still get married EVERY DAY despite whatever statements you wish to make.

"Why are women subjugating themselves to be used by men sexual?" They are not. Smart women screen those guys and reject them quite early.

Good luck with this awesome plan!

[cth2188]

If it’s not everyone’s beliefs why response?

[cth2188]

Why did you response my point exact - I don’t care who believes it or not - it’s not a bad ideal/ the system of patriarch should go away

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

The only way to build a better community, better men and better women, is to focus life on hard work and producing, alongside a healthy involvement in community life.
The woes of the contemporary life come generally from the exaltation of the individual over the mass - so that we don't have a community made by the people, but a cluster of individuals with no sense of purpose.
In synthesis - honestas, industria, prudentia - honesty, work and prudence.
Dedicate the days to work, and all the free time to community service and to the improvement of the community and other people's lives.
The only way to eliminate toxicity and inequalities is this - put everyone on the same level, and make so that everyone works for the benefit of the People's community.

[cth2188]

Good luck with that it’s too toxic to date nowadays

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

People don't need to date, they need to work, be productive, and benefit the community.

[cth2188]

Still won’t work

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

It worked in the DPRK

[F68kjbv]

Ignore the many lowlifes. Even if you have to be alone

[cth2188]

It’s not about ignoring the low life’s I have daughters I have to worry about

[F68kjbv]

You and husband teach them and show by example what a man worth their time makes them feel like and is.

[cth2188]

Did you read my post? I made it clear I don’t date men who why do you assume I have a husband?

[cth2188]

I date women 110% and wouldn’t trust a man of today around my daughters

[F68kjbv]

Cause it takes two to have a child. Lol... Children have two parents.

[cth2188]

My ex husband was a sperm donor

[cth2188]

I don’t deal with men in real time

[F68kjbv]

Oh ok... Leabianism is a sin honey. I wouldn't condone that for you or anyone. Thats why i said avoid the bad men even if it means you have to be alone for the forseeable future.

[cth2188]

I’m not Christian so I can care less what religion says ! I don’t date men I wish you would stop attaching men to men.. 100 lesbian and give a rats ass about men

[KrakenAttackin]

You are a hot mess and you are teaching your daughters to be as well. Good job mom.

[cth2188]

It’s a no to men - these men of today aren’t going to make my daughters single mothers or lump and dump - dumpsters

[cth2188]

Thank goodness I don’t deal with men

[cth2188]

Pump - my ex husband and I agreed to do parent because of our children

[KrakenAttackin]

I bet you were an "awesome" wife 😂😂😂

[cth2188]

I was until I divorced him when I came out

[cth2188]

We still have a great relationship and he remarried

[KrakenAttackin]

Yeah... BULLSHIT.

[Berethor]

Easy for a lesbian asexual to say, and a lot of women nowadays are sluts, not proper ladies.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ProperLady

[cth2188]

Yep I aware

[SimpleGuy95]

No because at the end of the day we all want companions no person wants to be alone.
That's part of who we are.
Yes guys mess it up often but as it takes two to come together it takes two to break up as well.
I think it will get harder to find relationships in the future because getting in contact with one another in real life will get harder for people due to everyone living online in front of a screen.

[cth2188]

Online dating toxic.. it’s becoming hard no doubt.. no one is gonna want t deal with toxicity of dating

[SimpleGuy95]

Yes for sure that's true. But not only dating is toxic. The whole online communication is toxic.

[cth2188]

Agreed I do feel people need to go back to meeting face to face

[MCheetah]

No. Although dating is horrible for both genders nowadays (though TBH, way worse for men), what we need to do is come together more, instead of drifting apart...

[cth2188]

With how toxic it is I doubt it.. women are fed up with men

[MCheetah]

Way more men are fed up with women, and women mostly rely on men's attention/support/validation/money/physical security, etc,, to survive.

Men may think about women and like/appreciate them WAY more than women do to men, but women need men way more just to survive. Men could (and often do) survive without women; they'd just be very unhappy without them.

[cth2188]

Women don’t need men unless to reproduce and even still women can conceive without a man.. unless a woman is simply attracted to a man it’s the only reason why should would put up with a man.. with the toxicity between men and women i don’t see the need

[MCheetah]

I meant, for surviving society. Women need men to move their furniture, fix their cars, take away their trash, protect them from criminals (including female criminals), etc, all the time.

I don't like the awful dating atmosphere either, but this kind of attitude you have isn't helping. Granted, I need to do more to help mend bridges, too.

[cth2188]

No we don’t we can hire people to fix it.. I’ve been hiring men and women for odd jobs

[cth2188]

Men don’t want to protect women less more offer them respect

[MCheetah]

"No we don’t. We can hire people to fix it. I’ve been hiring men"

That is literally what I meant.

[cth2188]

Nothing romantic about those men and they don’t have to expect anything from me

[Anonymous]

Interesting. I feel the same way about women in many respects, but I’ve somehow managed to still get pussy regularly while not sounding like a conceited, hate-mongering rube.

But we all approach life differently I suppose.

[cth2188]

It’s just some thoughts

[Juxtapose]

You know what's the common theme in all of your relationship failures?

You.

I'm not telling you anything I haven't already told myself.

[cth2188]

There is no relationship failures I’ve been single by choice - never had a relationship truthfully other then my kids father

[cth2188]

Still single by choice seeing his toxic dating is

[cth2188]

Exclusively with how dating is

[Juxtapose]

You sound like someone that has given up on playing a piano after trying to learn a song for 2 hours.

[cth2188]

I enjoy my peace and purposely left the dating world it’s too modern and too many people play along with societal standards.. I don’t deal with modern daters.. I considered meeting and dating overseas before Covid and during..

[cth2188]

I left the dating world 8 years ago nothing has changed nor got better and figure if the right person is out there she’ll find me

[Juxtapose]

Sitting on your ass waiting for the right person to fall into your lap only works for straight women.

[cth2188]

I’m not sitting on my ass I’m just not interested in the current dating world.. I don’t care I’m living my life and if she comes she comes

[cth2188]

I’m not straight and lesbian women can be just as toxic and messed up like men

[Juxtapose]

If you're so disinterested why even make this question?

[cth2188]

Because I can.. because it’s a question pertaining to dating if anything I’m offering solutions

[Snsl153]

What's the actual question here?

[cth2188]

There’s many questions I’m sorry you can’t make an intelligent conversation

[Snsl153]

With a sour attitude like that, you won't get far in life. "Since the dating world is so toxic?" isn't actually a question, even though it has a question mark at the end of it; it's a statement, a claim that I do not believe is necessarily true.
Maybe people just don't like you, and that's why you've had such rotten luck. You are the common factor here in this long list of failure, so maybe a little self-examination is called for.

[cth2188]

Pls shut up then get off my post - you serve nothing to the conversation adios

[cth2188]

Happily single 8 years for a reason and proud of it !

[cth2188]

Single by choice for a reason I don’t deal with the dating world for a reason

[Snsl153]

Okay! Good bye!

[cth2188]

Yeah you made yourself look stupid that’s all

[Snsl153]

Holy crap, you're 33. Judging by your immature behaviour, I seriously thought you were 14. Are you "American" by any chance?

[cth2188]

Are you retarded by any chance?

[cth2188]

Get off my post

[KrakenAttackin]

Sounds like "the wall" came hard and fast for you.

[cth2188]

I’ve been lesbian most of my life what wall did I hit?

[cth2188]

By not putting up with toxic men

[cth2188]

No stable sound woman should

[cth2188]

Keep listening to anti woman topics it shows how weak you men are

[F68kjbv]

That user kraken whatever is a known nasty person. I ignore him

[cth2188]

He’s clearly a pos man incel

[KrakenAttackin]

Wow, someone is triggered AF.

[cth2188]

I avoid these these type of men - I thank God I don’t date men and I love women

[Cuminginside]

The rates of domestic violence are much higher in a lesbian relationship.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Cuminginside As are the divorce rates.

[Cuminginside]

interesting because they Made the divorce laws more strict for alternative lifestyle people I wonder why that is?

[cth2188]

No it’s not I never experienced domestic violence or any crimes dating women

[cth2188]

Women understand women plus we get married unlike men

[KrakenAttackin]

@cth2188. Yes it is, by statistics.

[cth2188]

Show me stats for 2022

[cth2188]

Instead of men wondering about women they need to be focusing on relationships with women the LGTBQ isn’t worried about men I know I’m not

[cth2188]

Yet not stats and I’m subbed to lgbtq channels

[cth2188]

I want to see these stats

[KrakenAttackin]

www.dcvlp.org/.../ this took four seconds to find.

[cth2188]

That’s not stats.. I want too see the stats for 2022

[cth2188]

Those are high peaks.. proving nothing about anything