I didn't realize the dating world was so toxic?

[cth2188]

Exclusively seeing how westernized society is with dating..

Thoughts?

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I don't date American men and won't be fighting over any man. I don't compete over men. Westernized dating isn't going to work for me why I'm still single.

[Chazmatazz269]

The internet is toxic. So reflecting on internet dating and internet-based reports on dating, particularly anecdotal reports on streaming forums can make it feel like dating is toxic. Dating is bigger than the internet. People who still prefer to meet people the old-fashioned ways don’t seem to be quite as jaded in the same numbers. This appears to be true beyond dating too. In the real world, i meet mostly moderates and independents, politically. But online everyone seems to be extremist democrats or republicans. I understand it, but it’s still bizarre.

[cth2188]

I think the post aftermath of covid-19 has everyone crazy 🤪 lol I prefer old fashioned too. Folks are anti social

[bootieclapper9000]

women only want the top 15% of men lol

they believe its what they deserve lol

good luck fighting over those men ladies
he can cheat as much as he wants
good luck with that

[Avadarling]

This is really interesting! I’m pretty but have gained a lot of weight but have endless matches on tinder. This could be a big problem

[bootieclapper9000]

@Avadarling

you only want the top guys
the guys matching you
are tons of average men

there's videos of this
and not gonna lie
men just swipe on all women
then go to sleep
wake up to see what happens

I do not use tinder I just look at the stats

[cth2188]

I don't online date @bootieclaper9000 and I know a lot of American men aren't traditional

[cth2188]

@Bootieclapper9000

[Avadarling]

Wow. That is something to think about

[Avadarling]

Create a real balance problem

[bootieclapper9000]

that time is over with
why would a man want to be used as a wage slave for a women
WHO DOES NOT EVEN LIKE HIM

so men either just fuck around or do not date
you women have to change

it not its a waste of time
its that simple

[bootieclapper9000]

@Avadarling

yup and its mainly on the womens part
they do not want to lower their standards
us men accept it and move on

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VI6XWGKvUrE

[Avadarling]

That was kind of funny.

[bootieclapper9000]

@Avadarling

she is a 4

and she thinks she can get a guy thats a 9

she is in delusion

[Truthatanycost]

@Avadarling Some guys have even designed a little robot that uses a hand to swipe right on all females, while they are sleeping to save time and finger fatigue...

[bootieclapper9000]

@Truthatanycost

really lol

[Truthatanycost]

The one I remember looked different to this. It looks like they have streamlined it. Hilarious!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IaoDfOaYF4w

https://www.dailydot.com/irl/tinda-finger/

[bootieclapper9000]

@Truthatanycost

hahahahaha lol

I dont use tinder
but this is funny

[andreasderjuengere]

Until internet brought up the term ''dating'', I just met girls I like.
Now I must fit into a category and have a ''profile'' to even be noticed 😎.
By the way: nothing was ''toxic'' either.

Personally, I feel pissed (as a ''Westerner'') to be dumped into the same bin as an ''American''.
I still just meet girls.

[Avicenna]

Well, thereyare a lot of messed up people out there and you’re more likely to run into them because they’re more likely to be single at any given time

[cth2188]

It's an observation I've noticed in a short period of time

[Avicenna]

Yeah, it's too bad it's that way, but it's the reality of dating.

[cth2188]

Yes I agree why I don't online date.. it's considering international dating

[Truthatanycost]

I thought you mentioned only wanting to date women...

[cth2188]

I'm open to men due to the lack of unvaccinated women.. I have no choice due to survival

[cth2188]

Luckily I never had an issue with men. I was testing the waters and led back to men. God wants me here.. ..

[cth2188]

Now I have to be open to men overseas due to the lack of unvaccinated men in the USA

[cth2188]

Sadly... it is strange, but here goes

[Truthatanycost]

The only 'unvacinated' men I know don't date. One guy walked away due to it's toxicity and the other is more interested in research, science / health etc. All of the other guys I know that got the shot are busy wanting to meet women and date.

[cth2188]

I'm not looking to date anyone and if so they would have to be outside this country due how toxic the dating culture is. Those guys can hang it up.. I refuse to date anyone jabbed. Since there's so many I take my chances outside this country.

[cth2188]

The issue those guys are sterile and toxic to date... these Jabs can be passed through sex how sad

[007kingifrit]

... westernized? toxic? you use buzzwords with no objective descriptive meaning behind them. i bet you're one of those girls with a 1 line profile who then wonders why nobody talks to her

[cth2188]

I don't do online dating soooo what are you implying

[cth2188]

Yes , westernized dating is toxic in my opinion. I wasn't going to go into details if that's what you mean.

[007kingifrit]

westernized dating isn't even a thing. it's a made up thing you said

[cth2188]

Westernized dating exist just like Westernized society what else is it?

[cth2188]

So what's modern dating

[007kingifrit]

see even you can't explain what you mean by westernized dating

[cth2188]

There is no point of explaining I know you see what westernized dating is - modern dating you simply want to argue

[cth2188]

I'm not about to explain this

[007kingifrit]

assuming that other peopleknow whaat you are talking about is a sign of an extremist mind, incapable of seeing the perspective of others

[cth2188]

Clearly noone had a problem responding, but you

[cth2188]

Speaks volume or whatever you're thinking. My opinion shouldn't matter sinple.

[cth2188]

Simple ^

[007kingifrit]

yet i'm the only one who REALLY responded to your word choices, the rest just saw the title and responded to that

[cth2188]

They got it sorry you didn't

[007kingifrit]

oh yea? who got it? looks to me like nobody responded to your westernized comment or the word toxic

[Sixgunsound]

Pretty much. It’s a mess out there.

[cth2188]

Time to exit left

[scott04sa22]

Toxic!! 😂 it’s brutal!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[cth2188]

Yes I'm out

[scott04sa22]

Frazier has left the building 😎

[slatyb]

I didn’t find it toxic.

[cth2188]

I guess it depends on your outlook

[Avadarling]

Can be bit not always

[cth2188]

I'm not sure.. 😕

[cth2188]

Being in the dating world no thanks it goes against my morality and values

[Freyke]

What is your story?

[cth2188]

What story? I've been single almost 9 years

[Freyke]

Yes your findings on why the dating world is so toxic?

[cth2188]

Observations

[Freyke]

Right.

[Massageman]

Welcome to reality.

[cth2188]

Right , time to go back in hiding.. dating of today wouldn't work for me and not with men unless they are traditional. I'm sure my mate is over seas now.

[kastra]

✨Humanity✨

[cth2188]

Yep lack of morals and standards

[kastra]

Pretty much

[FilmGuy93]

It's pretty shocking, honestly. I hate it

[saarisrael]

interesting...

[cth2188]

It's sad