The only time I'm happy is when I'm asleep.

[Anonymous]

I got really nothing to live for. Girl left me, I can't find a job, nobody ever wants to talk to me, I am a bad conversationalist, my car costs to much to fix, the bills are to much for me to pay.

The only time I'm happy is when I'm asleep so why shouldn't I just get a gun and blow the brains out of the back of my head.

[Anonymous]

try to focus on the good things.

You are capable of speaking English, therefore that is a skill.

You have your citizenship, that is good, that means you are allowed to find a job in the state you are in.

You have good health right? therefore you can go take walks or whatever.

I mean you can learn right? read a book on something you want to learn.

get up, find another girl. GO out more and put up ads on the internet on dating sites

you can get another job.

you can find new friends, just join some clubs, try finding some online

you can learn to fix your car yourself and save some money

you can learn to figure out how to pay your debt

you can be positive

I know sometimes I am not so positive.

I just see myself as a person that has a degree but can't get a nice paying job with it

I can't seem to get a job or want to get a job and I"m such a downer on my relationship with my husband right now...

wish life would turn around for me too but I'm still hanging on hoping for better days.

try talking to a family or friend, they can help you sort some things out

good luck

[sarahicecream]

Even though this sounds like a negative situation, why don't you turn it into an opportunity? If you feel you have nothing to live for anyway, why don't you take a huge risk? Ask out that hot girl you always see around, take a road trip to get some inspiration, or even try mastering a new skill. It's never safe to want to kill yourself, so you also may want to see a psychiatrist.

[molly10]

There is people out there who are Fighting to survive. You will forget your girlfriend in time, the pain will go away. Try and get out more and enjoy your life! As for the bills, try and pay them off bit by bit, or call them up and explain to them you have no job nd try and sort something out with them.. I hope this helps, and I hope you find a job :)

[hmuse22]

I think a quote from Bram Stoker's Dracula works well here. "You must pass through bitter waters before you reach the sweet." Most of the time life has a way of balancing itself out. I would suggest talking to someone about it. There is no shame in seeking help, the shame is not trying all the doors before you give up on the prize. Life is a precious thing. Hang in there.

[mike5150]

i have many of the same problems as you and I find myself asking why I even get out of bed in the morning

[DonMichelle]

Message me, talk to me. Getting fed up with all these 'doom and gloom' type questions. As sarcastic and ignorant as I can sometimes be I know it ain't 'sunshine and flowers' when your life's p*ss poor. Fancy a chat, let me help.

We've all had problems mate ;) x

[toulouse]

=-) +1

[DonMichelle]

:) Miss.FrenchCity :)

[funnyjoke]

Life isn't fair or easy or anything for that matter... what is the purpose of life? To survive and create more life? Not very inspirational... Many of us pick some far-fetched goal to achieve because it keeps us in the game. It doesn't matter how unlikely the goal may be, as long as you feel like you are working toward something, life becomes more bearable.

[funnyjoke]

And who knows, you might just achieve your dreams if you keep at it.

[Anonymous]

I felt the same :) but the only thing that made me get out of it was to realise the only person that could help me was myself.
Do things to take your mind off it: go to the gym, go for a job, read a book, but make sure you get out of the house!! The easiest thing is to just stay in bed all day and hope you sleep all day long, but you're only making it worse.
Losing your girl is sure going to hurt for a while. But you don't need her.
Life is good, but you have to have bad moments in order that the good moments become even better :) chin up soldier!

[Anonymous]

If once we go through hardships, we think about shotguns...we will all be dead right now.

We all have been heart broken, confused, frustrated , depressed and whatnot. We're not 100% happy but we only refuse to give up. Why give up when it's in your hands to become better?

A job - Look for one

A girlfriend - She's not the only girl on the planet

Nobody talks to you - talk to people on here. They're fun!

Nothing is worth ending your life for and I mean it.

[LetsGoSailing]

Hang in there, the best is yet to come.

[Asker]

how can you be so sure?

[LetsGoSailing]

Well one, Frank Sinatra said so and also that is how life is.

[Asker]

i would agree with you but Sinatra is dead so obvious it wasn't to good for him

[LetsGoSailing]

Yes, but he didn't off himself...his death was out of his reach

[vishna]

Maybe you should talk to a moderator.

[Vasillilaw]

Do you want a job?