Is the Soft Bigotry of Low Expectations benefiting Black Men in Dating?

[Anonymous]

Listen to the question that the dude asks at 6:03, then listen to the answer by the female guest (the brown-haired woman).

https://youtu.be/TrEzY1L1JOA

[love_conquers_lust]

You see that as beneficial? Telling them, “oh whoa is you for being born Black, we know you’re not shit so you don’t have to achieve as much as other races.”. Women who pity date deserve what they get when they bring home a token Black guy who eventually cheat on them because he’s a man child who can’t accomplish shit. and in fact he was also encouraged to do so.

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

She didn't anything you just crapped out of your mouth... Get out yo feelings boy. She is saying that she holds women to a lower standard and black people to a lower standard of expectation because society has more road blocks for them than white men. Hypothetically speaking, it would benefit them purely in the dating world if women held this view.

Is her point valid or justified in terms of reality? I think it is for those who let it. You can focus on growing up in a rough neighborhood with nothing but bad influences around to show you how to be nothing or you can focus on winning. Much harder to focus on the thing you see less of, however, it can be done by anyone. Hell our nerve system or body (or whatever) doesn't know the difference between what is real and what is imagined which means one can actually program themselves regardless of environment.

No one is held back by race but by lack of awareness about how people become who they become and why change is painstaking. The reason there are gang bangers out there willing to die on the front lines for something so dumb is because they are programed that way. They are literally brain washed. Genes don't matter. If you do heroine and get addicted your genes won't save you. This isn't cave man times where phenotypes matter lol. Obviously I'm saying that loosely. Habits are the only thing that matter for the most part. Action habits, thought habits, feeling habits, convictions or notions are the only thing that matter. And 99% of the world doesn't understand that because it isn't taught anywhere except in the field of personal development which most aren't involved in. And yes I know the last 2 paragraphs had nothing to do with what you said. by the way that username is so true.

[love_conquers_lust]

@BUTIMRIGHTTHO Stifle your language.

It doesn’t matter if statistics and stereotypes pan out true, it doesn’t benefit anyone to be coddled incessantly. You’re not going to give a dog a biscuit as encouragement to do better after urinating on the carpet.

[Guy13]

I’m not making a connection⁉️ Help me with that⁉️ It seems like it could be very interesting

[Asker]

Him: "So you said originally that the reason you arguably apply a higher standard to men is because you felt life is easier for them; you should expect more from them. Or they have advantages. Right? Moreso than women. Right?
So, my question then is: would you apply a higher standard to a white woman over, for example, a black male?"

Her: "Yeah; I would."

[Guy13]

Whatever 🤷🏻‍♂️. Reason being for the Brit 🤔. Heard something about toxic manhood and poor man incapable…🤷🏻‍♂️ Don’t see connection as it is Woman logic making judgments on what Google, Social media, or idiot box 📺 says…

[Asker]

Oh, I think the dude genuinely feels that way. And his feelings are probably due to personal experience. Though I don't know who rejected him -- whether it was a white woman or a black woman.

[Guy13]

Problem Summation: Man-Up ‼️‼️

[anylolone]

Only low moral standards and for the worst.
But I think it's more like having a high standard for sources of proxy violence.

Certainly doesn't help the majority of black dudes.

[MrTaboo]

It doesn't benefit any one

[Asker]

That depends on your definition of "benefit." Pussy is a benefit.