What do you think can be done to improve men & women relations in society?

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Sun_Kim-Ai · Accepted Answer

I think that people should stop making it a "man versus woman" thing and make an effort to listen to each other, compromise a bit and understand that both have their fair points; and while they are different both biologically and in thinking, in the end they just the different sides of the same coin, the human race.

Men cannot live without women and women cannot live without men; no matter how much they claim the contrary - so why not focus on reinforcing their similarities, while at the same time appreciating the differences between each other? It's futile and counterproductive to continue to bash on each other, and it's something that it's not feasible in the long run - continuing to fight and expanding the divide between the genders will only set the whole of humanity back by centuries and bite back hard everyone - we live in an historical moment were the hysteria that everyone who's not like us is making us distrustful towards everyone and turning men against women, parents against children, sibling against sibling; just because they don't think like us, and I find it both disheartening and scary.

If only a little effort could be taken from all sides, to try and find a common ground, because right now we are just headed towards collapse and destruction, each just caring to drag the other side with it.

But again, what do I care - this answer and the words I put in it are essentially wasted on here and other places, and I've got better things to do and think about than this.

Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

We have cars, basically limitless opportunities, internet, food that's been genetically modified to not look disgusting.

But we spend our time complaining about the dumbest things and becoming more and more entitled every day. Men and women. Nobody feels a sense of responsibility or duty to be or do anything and most people I think on some level understand this.

Women have problems for sure but so do men and until everybody takes responsibility for themselves, society is never going to be on the right track and be free at the same time.

Y'all need to do some shrooms or something

Missgingles · Accepted Answer

Women need to realize that we can do wrong and we have a lot of privliges. We need to learn to start looking at evidence and remove any form of emotions from it.

Men need to learn that they are much more privliged biologically speaking and that it can be used as a privlige out in the world too. Knowing we are different is good. If we keep pretending we are the same it won't GP anywhere. Its like a white person painting themself black to act like there is only one race.

RosieMelts · Accepted Answer

Have no idea. Some girls are willing to have more sex, but some men aren’t willing to understand women. I only met one man come very close to understanding women- my dad, and even he has some limits. His limits is underestimating me at times, but I’ve proven him wrong and know I’ll always have some percentage of respect/ understanding and love from him. He’s a rare find 👑👏

MCheetah · Answer

Men: Stop being simps and grow some balls and self-respect. I know it's not easy and I used to "put the pussy on a pedestal" too. But you need to have self-respect.

Women: Stop being entitled bitches and thinking having a pussy means being treated like a queen and worshipped when you're a 5 at best. You have to actually bring something to the table in a relationship too ESPECIALLY if you don't plan on having kids (which is the only reason most men pampered you throughout modern history to begin with; to ensure their kids would be well).

Other than that, I have no idea. This species is kinda f*cked.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would think people need more humility and more concentration to really listen to each other and not just anticipate what others might say.

General speaking it´s time to leave comfort zones again and meet people that have different opinions so that discussions are an exchange of arguments again and not of emotions.

Because nowadays I often experience where it seems people are fighting against each other and want to destroy each other instead of trying to understand each other.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Better communication. Women need to get better about articulating their needs and men need to stop doing misleading and generally dishonest things to women just because we know what they want to hear. Oh, and we also need to stop being so legalistic in our relationships. This is dealing with someone’s emotionally vulnerable self; not a corporate merger between two antagonistic giants. Say what you mean, mean what you say, and stop making people feel stupid for having expectations just because you happened to change your mind.

RiseofArtemis · Answer

Getting rid of Feminism as that is driving a deep ditch between the two sexes and causes a we against them situation where one side never sees what the other suffers in.

We should strive for unity and not create even more segregation like its currently the case. There are crazies in Europe who want a gender equal gramer and language while its actually doing the opposite and discriminates against both. I'll give an example in German. "Sportler" has become "Sportlerinnen" because they think only using the male version is sexist when its in fact including both genders as a we in unity. "Sportlerinnen" is solely a female gramer version which excludes the male gender. Quite sexist isn't it.

Getting rid of toxic government laws that are heavily negative for men and heavily favorite women will also help to get us back together.

Ill_made_Knight · Answer

Nothings ever gonna make things all candy and roses, it just isn't like that.
I'll tell ya thoughI think a ton of ills (and not on just relationship wise) would be simplified if we could get this labor to pay ratio kink worked out a little better...
People working two jobs still not getting by with much margin... everybody constantly scared to take time off and have fun and :O spend a little money.
We gotta get this ironed out and get a little of this pressure off of people... it's just one factor, but it's a big one

voggetta · Answer

Stop viewing everything as statistics it's easy to make numbers say whatever you want them to. women make so much less than men, men are more homeless than women blah blah blah. I don't know anybody named 'most women' or 'most men' I just know the individuals I know who don't experience their lives in percentages of statistics, and everybody sees outcomes and assumes incentive or conscious decisions from it. We needa get our noses out of world news and media and just focus on the people at home and how they're being treated.

splkato · Answer

Lowering one's expectations of the other. Truth be told, we always "expect" someone to handle or treat us in a certain way. It's when we over-expect that we crash real hard.

Accepting that humans aren't perfect; thus we need constant communication with each other to know were we've gone wrong.

Knowing that NO HUMAN CAN THINK THE SAME. I mean the brain has 2 hemispheres that apparently carry out different functions. We ought to relate to this and apply it in reality

Letting a woman be a woman and a man be a man; identity permitting. When one loses a sense of individuality - their dark version gets born (my theory)

JustiReno · Answer

Be real, be fair, express goals, teamwork at all times, communication, care, compromise, hard work (for life), loyalty, faith

i think woman don’t understand words and men don’t understand emotions, i think we want two different things

i have a girlfriend and tho it is rough ALL THE TIME, I can see it til the next day, some people just “click” and are on the same page, I don’t cross red lines, cuz that’s bye bye to my relationship

i seen with my own eyes, people stay together, people break up, I want to be people that stay together, just my preference

guys gotta be real, you just want pussy, get a fucking job and you’ll get it, go to the bar, buy her a drink, maybe play pool, talk, ask her to hold your drink but not like a douche, bet she DTF anyway

Dargil · Answer

Western (mostly) white women are hopelessly infected with Feminist/SJW propaganda. Men should quarantine them completely. Don't have sex with them, don't marry them and don't let them raise or teach your children. Sure, there will be Black, Hispanic and Asian "strays", but they will reveal themselves in conversation by a little cross examination. Then, RUN! There are millions of eligible, uninfected females in East Asia and Latin America. I brought one home. It is worth the time, expense and language difference. Not only that, but is it "diversity", Republican style. We should be unconcerned about any browning of America. They want to absorb our culture and will.
I feel like I'm cheating fate every day.

GlassTop · Answer

You can’t. Society has pushed women dominance in such a manner that a man’s whole life and career can be destroyed by a tweet or accusation with no evidence without consequences. Men may dominate the higher paying jobs and wealth, but women can destroy men with words. It’s already snowball effect which is the reason marriages have failed, single motherhood has climbed, and promiscuity has exponentially grown. Sex is power and women have the power. Men are slaves to sex. That’s why so many men have turned gay. It will eventually climax into a failed society and something will give.

pass_the_celery98 · Answer

Simple…

1) men and guys can’t be egotistical pricks with obsessive, aggressive behaviour towards females over rejection or her saying no or no thank you.

2) women and girls can’t follow the destructive 3rd wave feminist mindset where it’s normalized to tear down men, call men and guys simps, assholes, or other derogatory comments.

Yes, there is two sides to the spectrum where both have to realize their mistakes but in this world today I feel like it’s going to get worse before it gets better.

NottaNatty · Answer

A lot of Women need to have more respect and understanding for what men do for them, stop stereotyping all men as oblivious pigs and stop being so unrealistic and entitled about what you "want" from them. Likewise a lot of men need to stop feeling sorry for themselves, stop being simps, treat women with respect. just listen to them and stop complaining. This man vs woman idea honestly gets old so fast, though I feel it will be a hot debate till the end of time. It's not hard to get along if everyone stops trying to read minds.

DudeDiligence · Answer

It seems women (mostly feminists) have been trying less to help women and more to hurt men. They see it as a zero-sum game where instead of boosting women they try to drag down and undermine men and respect for men to achieve some hypothetical notion of "equality". It's like trying to achieve equality buy dumping the water out of one glass instead of pouring water into another.

Now we're seeing a lot of men doing the same thing to women in retaliation. I see it from both sides here on GAG every day. It's a viscous cycle that is causing a lot of anger and resentment between the sexes. I honestly don't know what the answer is other than not personally identifying with or supporting feminism and red pill silliness and calling out people who do. We need to recognize what these groups are actually doing and stop pretending they are doing something noble. They're not.

JSmuve · Answer

Men need to stop simping, get some self-respect, and stop giving women passes for bad behaviour because they're women.

Women need to stop saying it's a man's job to pursue women and then shit all over guys that try to do it. Try a little empathy and respect. It's really difficult to do and women's standoffish attitudes make it a hell of a lot more difficult than it needs to be.

Societally, we need to get rid of social media and dating apps and start legalizing and normalizing brothels and making them more widely accessible. How society would be different if a guy could just walk into his neighborhood brothel and unload when he's feeling stressed or unwanted instead of simping over some broad's instagram to get a shred of validation that'll never come.

msc545 · Answer

An important step would be for people to recognize that men and children both now have their rights routinely violated in Family Law courts, and they would take steps to ensure that equal protection as supposedly guaranteed under the Federal Constitution is actually implemented instead of just being paid lip service if at all.

Men are angry as hell at women for weaponizing the legal system against them in the form of alimony., child support, and child custody decisions that almost always favor women. Additionally, each year thousands of children effectively lose their fathers because of biased custody decisions and the failure of courts to punish women who withhold even minimal visitation from fathers with no consequences.

JDavid25 · Answer

Get rid of the feminist induced misandry and propaganda.. Especially the Universities.. Encourage good fatherhood, so that more women could have a good baseline on what a good man is.. And let go of the socialized fake competition also.. Men and women have different strengths and weaknesses..

dustybiker · Answer

Of one is having problems. Communication with the opposite sex works well. Ask questions. Make less assumptions.

NathanDavis · Answer

they have never ever been any sort of problematic for me... and honestly, I don't have any interest or business on solving the personal matters of other people, is just not my position...

Ryan1979 · Answer

A woman will cheat on a elderly man if he refuses to take viagra. Imagine if a 20 year old man required a woman to take a pill that made her want to have sex more. It happens all the time to elderly men. And it is totally fine not an eye is batted

SaoirseS · Answer

It’s not a problem for me. The battle of the sexes issue seems to be more of an internet phenomenon, a lot of solutions in search of problems. Most people problems are self-inflicted.

Vegasrunner · Answer

@embracethepain This is a really good question. I'll share my opinion.

1. More men need to have an abundance mentality.

2. The number of men that are active on online dating sites needs to be reduced.

3. Marriage contracts need to be designed more like drivers licenses and be up for renewal every 3-5 years.

GrapeApe98 · Answer

Personally, I think a lot of the heat between genders could be cooled down if we just talked to each other more, and started saying nicer things about each other more. Instead of insulting each other, and having a stupid "who's smarter, weaker, tougher, etc" pissing contests.

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

Respect for each other is the best formula. ♥️

Hanrej · Answer

I don't think it should be improved. On the contrary society needs to adjust to the fact that people of opposite genders don't want to be togeather and build more single households, plan the infrastructure and social reforms to better suit the new norm.

abhi44444 · Answer

May be remove the concept of cheating marriage love to be removed as they never existed to consider matting as a topic to be so common and having children and taking care of them in group as every child to be considered as son and daughter consider everyone as family and friend

brandyj · Answer

We can start with accountability. Having discussions with the intentions of finding solutions. Allowing one another the space to discuss each other's concerns, issues, or what ever it is... withought the usual chaos... and lack of really being empathetic and understanding. Our society has to wake up to realize we have the capabilities to fixing, changing, doing better and grow. Yet we are lost in chaos, emotions, programed thinking and not grounded with the creator.

backdoorman · Answer

We need to stop supporting gender based movements like feminism, MGTOW and MRM. They all foster hatred for the opposite sex. They feed off of each other and create an ever widening divide between men and women.

SushiSxnpai · Answer

don’t make gender such a distinctive thing that separates people.

Subarugirl · Answer

I think the first step would be to get rid of the double standards. The second would be to treat people equally regardless of their gender expression.

Derekk · Answer

They aren't a problem outside of the internet.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Probably normalize men stepping into more feminine roles as women have stepped into more masculine roles.

worldscolide · Answer

Both genders stop blaming the opposite gender for literally everything, and start taking some fucking responsibility.

Not kidding, men need to stop blaming women, and women need to stop blaming men... Period..

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Teach children of both sexes to respect themselves and each other, even when they don’t like each other much.

globetrotter22 · Answer

Feminism has improved “equality” and freedom for the last women in the last few decades. But just one question: has it really made them any happier?

grega239 · Answer

Men stayed in their lane. Women decided that their gender roles are oppressive and want to get into mens lane. See the problem?

JosyJosy · Answer

Just more patience in trying to talk to eachother and understand one another that's all.

Ihatethewill · Answer

Men need to learn how to control their sexual urges through discipline and semen retention. No, I don't mean stop having sex, just don't throw yourselves at it. This is why women have so many options and attention at the palm of their hands.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Nothing. Women are going to have to take responsibility for thier actions and frankly you have better chances of winning the lottery and getting struck by lightning in the same instant than that happening

jestergent · Answer

Remove double standards. What ever men and women. Agree to... It must not be double. At the moment things are said as such.

bean2k21 · Answer

Send all the feminists to a third-world country so they can see that they wouldn't even be able to be feminists if it weren't for men.

ChiTown33 · Answer

How bout all man women interactions being conducted under a polygraph. 🤣

Light909090 · Answer

People will never change there’s nothing that can be done.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Men should be more respected and women should obey their husband. Women take care of their baby and men work hard to provide

Cubus · Answer

Stop making someone's gender a thing to divide.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Well, to start, you could stop fucking girls and then leaving them.

joeldalton · Answer

Return to a more traditional way of interacting with each other.

Manuel2 · Answer

Women more honest about their periods and how it affects them. That is their periids not what you done sometimes

TheFlak38 · Answer

Take women rights away and lock them in the kitchen.

TonightYouu · Answer

Average women need to stop thinking they’re better than average men

Heolurt · Answer

Send the radical sides to different planets.

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