Is it better to take risk or be careful in expressing your ideas?

[Vanidal]

Do you anticipate and put some self-doubt, or going in with rush? In offline world, not online. Do you put understanding first or being understood first? Do you thread bit by bit, or overwhelm?

Why?

[Anonymous]

Seems like the answer is always "balance".

Do not hold you down, but do not rush without having thought your idea through.

But, if we need to choose one of these extremes. Then, I'd say not to hold your ideas back for the sake of being yourself.

However, once again... That's not wise lol

As the saying goes...:
"Only fools rush in..."

I do always try to think things through first then try to convey it to people irl. But ofc, I'm not perfect. Sometimes I let something slip out.

[Opinion Owner]

*Do not hold yourself back

[Guy13]

I thread bit by bit usually as it is a way to invite other opinion and clarify before going all in with an opinion. For me, this is a reasonable cautiousness especially in an environment where just question is thrown out there...

[Light909090]

Most people don’t understand me in the offline world im not good at explaining myself In person or over a phone call but I’m good at explaining myself online as long as I can Type what I am trying to say.

[Light909090]

Better to listen to your feelings then Expect people to tell you the truth. If your feeling a certain way like doubt there’s a valid reason your having doubts never Try to Ask someone about something your doubting in hopes They will be honest with you people lie they won’t tell you the truth unless They want too they do or say whatever benefits them. Doubt a friend’s loyalty to don’t get the truth out of him by Asking him to tell the truth you get the truth out of him by Testing that friend Without telling him your testing him.

[Light909090]

People lie about if something will make them look bad Or if they are ashamed etc doesn’t matter if you’ll be hurt in the process if They have an emotion behind it they’ll lie to ya. Like the oh yeah I’m chill it’s fine but then you find out that person you thought was a chill person really isn’t a chill person and is a shitty person it’s because they lied as way to not be seen as the bad guy but eventually there true colors come out and you find out that nice person that claimed to be a good person is really just a jerk that wanted to get some sort of personal gain even if it’s just being seen a different way.

[Light909090]

Nobody is ever who they say they are people never change they just get better at hiding who they really are

[Vanidal]

Agree. I too test people for what they claim. But that takes time. I'm trying to walk out of my comfort zone here. I usually being careful, to understand things as best I could. But when the people around me don't have the critical level I have, it's tiring.
They mostly rely on lower accuracy quick guesses and fix things when they're wrong (and if this person willing to admit they're wrong). They are proven to always able to say that they don't have time to think that long. Or claiming that they don't have the capability to slow down and be more critical. Sometimes, they even guilt tripping me for being arrogant, saying that I enforce others to do what they can't by demanding to think and express more accurately.

I'll be honest, I don't know what inspires you to wrote that long but I kinda happy you wrote that long.

[Light909090]

Yeah People will say they don’t have time or they forgot But to forget one has to Put something out of there mind so telling someone Your going to call back in 2 minutes then putting that person out of mind and forgetting in a 2 minute time frame is impossible unless you Have some kind of super power to automatically forget things when you want too.

[Light909090]

And Forgetting is one of the symptoms of someone lying

[Light909090]

Quick guesses or The best And most Convenient excuse that comes to there mind to get out of Telling the truth short and simple answers Lying takes less Words Being truthful can take more words
Those that Lie will be the Quiet ones. Most of the time those that Are honest Are either Talkative or they’re Talking a lot because that’s how they Use There lying.

[JustiReno]

sometimes good to choose words carefully

sometimes you gotta bring that heat off top