Anyone find it alarming how many Asian women (~45%) choose to marry white men?

[Anonymous]

Michelle Wu and her white husband.

The highest % of interracial marriages are from Western Asian women with white males. In fact, nearly 1 in 2 Asian women will choose to end up in a relationship with a white guy. Not only that but Asian women are dating white guys more so than men of their own race.

Even when we see Asian women on dating shows many of them state the reason for not choosing to date an Asian guy is because they don't want people to confuse him for her brother.

Anyone think there might be something going on more than just preference if 45% of Asian women in the west are choosing white men for their spouses/lovers?

Yes

No

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I wonder how many of those 6 white boys that voted know would completely change their votes if 50% of white women were going for other races.

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And not surprising. 26 white boys vote no because they enjoy the arrangement of using white worship/brainwashing of the media on minorities to their advantage when it comes to dating/sex.

[WindAtMyBack]

There are some other things to take into account.

By pure random chance, you will see a high percentage of Asians dating non-Asians. Just to make up some numbers for example, let's say that Asians are 10% of the population. That means 90% of the population are non-Asians. So by pure random chance, 90% of Asians would date non-Asians.

I don't know where the 45% came from, but if it's true, it means they are far more likely to date another Asian than a non-Asian. If it was purely random, you would only get 45% if that was also the ratio of Asians to non-Asians in the total population.

Coincidentally, 45% is approximately the percentage of immigrants to the US that are Asian. But the percentage of the total population is much lower. Also, there are more than 20% more female immigrants than male immigrants (total from all countries, not just Asia).

[Asker]

Problem is the vast majority of Asian women are picking white men for interracial relationships. A lot o people like to use preference as an escape but there is difference between that and a general trend/pattern being seen. Preference is individual taste but when you and 1/2 the Asian women all have the same preference then its no longer just preference.

45% marry whites
43% marry Asians

This leaves 12% who marry other races making it a very small percentage.

[OlderAndWiser]

When a single woman comes here from Japan, or from China, the dating prospects are overwhelmingly stacked in favor of Caucasian males. According to the Pew Research Center, there are 5.4 million Chinese Americans in the US, constituting almost 25% of the entire US Asian population. When a Chinese woman reaches dating age, there are 2.7 million Chinese men in America, of all ages and marital statuses. There are 232 million Caucasians in the US, so approximately 116 million Caucasian men of all ages and marital status. That means there are 43 Caucasian men for every one Chinese man in the US. Based on that disparity, a number of 45% (which I did not attempt to verify) Chinese women marrying Caucasian men actually indicates that Chinese women are still showing some preference for Chinese men.

Why is it surprising or alarming that many Chinese women date and mary Caucasian men?

[Jenny-Marie]

Excellent comment. Isn't it amazing how bigots always throw in unverifiable "data". Probably from the bible of Facebook. I have been sifting through all official and reputable data and statistics for the US and the UK and can't find the 45% statistic.

[Berethor]

Can be a payback for the Asian female genocide, what so worried about? it's Asian who overrun white countries, not the other way around, and you can always go back to asia, there is not many white men there. At least Asian can match white intelligence-wise, that's why many Asian companies are famous, but look-wise white men clearly have the edge, looking more masculine and handsome. White genes are the best, and Asian women want them, they not fools, as for the Asian boy picture, it's not how genetics work, half-asians don't look like full Asians, and the more white genes he has the better he is going to look, naturally.

https://edition.cnn.com/2013/06/25/health/asian-beauty/index.html

[scholastic_vibez]

I could never wrap my head around it really because I have several Asian female friends attracted to me as a White guy, but I've never felt the same about them even though I feel a little bad that the feeling isn't mutual. It's not like there's some myth perpetuated that's the equivalent of women wanting Black men because of bigger dicks.

I know a lot of Asians especially Chinese are known for being exceptionally cheapskate to the point that they make fun of themselves about it like the Chinese American guy in the film, Joy Luck Club that fights his wife about forcing her to split the bill over every expenditure. I'm not sure if that's a huge enough turn off for Asian women to go for White guys though?

[Avicenna]

I'm not sure where this 45% figure comes from, but I don't think it applies to Asian American women in general, because the Asian population in the US has tilted somewhat towards people from South Asia since White-Asian intermarriage rates peaked around 1980, and women of South Asian descent have low rates of intermarriage with white men, unlike women of Northeast and Southeast Asian descent.

As a person whose ethnicities are two groups who have high rates of marrying outside their ethnicity, I am perplexed as to why you're so concerned about this. If you're an Asian American, you may be able to use your ancestral ties and/or current family members living in Asia to find a vetted bride in Asia, where there are very large numbers of Asian women who aren't used to intermarriage with white men.

[NewsReader]

Alarming? How? What's wrong with who they choose to be their partner? I'm white and would go for an Asian girl. They are mostly conservative in every way which aligns with my values and beliefs. Modern white women are becoming less and less desirable. Asians are rising to the top. Not sure what the Asian men are doing. Too busy with work I guess.

[Asker]

of course you see nothing wrong with it because you benefit from it.

[Guy13]

Not at all am I surprised because I am dating one too. Conservative, Family, not consumed by Feminism, employed by largest PHARA entity on our Planet. All those things steeped in a humble, gracious, and steadfastness.

I’ll take that Deal.

[rtj1211]

Has anyone asked the rejected 45% of Asian men what they do for wives?

White Republican girls? South African feminists?

Or is there a burgeoning homosexual community amongst the rejected Asian male community?

[NamerOfStars]

Why would it be alarming? Your ethnicity doesn't "own" you; you can marry whoever you want. Asian guys are free to go white women, too.

[Asker]

So you don't find something wrong with 1/2 of Asian women flocking to white males for companionship? There is individual preference and then there is a trend when we see it happening it high amounts. Especially when in nature, people often prefer to marry someone of their race. This is one of the reason white people give for why they prefer to date whites over other races.

[NamerOfStars]

Sure, but they ARE of the same race; they're both human. Arbitrary divisions don't change that.

Yes, it's kind of ODD that you see it on such a massive scale, bet that's hardry evidenge that it's wrong or bad. Have you stopped and asked yourself WHY it's happening so much?

[Asker]

I see your keeping your head down and playing ignorant to the whole thing since it benefits you.

[NamerOfStars]

What do you mean "It benefits me"? How does what OTHER people do in herms of choosing who tobdate affect me at all? And if you want people to see this as a problem, you're going to have to explain why it's BAD, whuch you have yet to do.

[Asker]

Let me put this in context you can understand.

- You live in a society where media and stereotype put you at a disadvantage to being seen as attractive by women.

-Media influence is so far reaching that 50% own women choose to abandon you in order to go for the top race of said culture (aka white). Thus, leaving less opportunities for you to get a mate.

-And to make matters worse, the men who prey on your women most of the time only do so because they can't get their own women to want them. Thus, they pick a race that has easy resistance by preying on their own self hatred and using media influence to their advantage.

[NamerOfStars]

So your problem ISN'T "Asian women going for white men", but "Asian men can't get a date". (Well, that and "clinging to sociological ideas so backwards they'd make a Communist blush", but one thing at a time). That's not only more comprehensible, it's also more legitimate.

But you've got two problems: the first is that these aren't "your" women; you don't have some kind of right to them just because they share some genetics with you. Unless you're somehow accessing the internet from the 1840's, you really ought to know this by now.

The bigger issue, however, is your victim complex. You complain that women of your ethnicity won't partner up with you because they're off dating white guys... who you criticize as being unable to attract women of THEIR own ethnicity. You assume that they're somehow corrupting or mind-controlling Asian women, or that the latter completely lack agency, because they see far more depictions of sexy white guys than sexy Asian guys, and have no free will of their own, or powers of observation of their own lives.

Bitter self-pity isn't going to impress ANY woman.

[Asker]

No my problem is that no one is calling out self hatred Asian women have for their own race because it is advantageous for white men who use that self hate to get easy lays. In fact, many white losers use Asian women as a fall back when they can't pull the women they want.

[FunkyMonkee]

How do you know it's not the other way around? I've heard LOTS o guys tell me that those women know how to care of their men and you're lucky if you get one!

[Sixgunsound]

I’m not sure why it matters as long as there isn’t coercion involved whether social financial or political.

[RolandCuthbert]

Why would it be alarming? If Asian-Americans are not alarmed, no one else should be.

[Anonymous]

Well White women are fat, spoiled and loose with no interest in being mothers. Asian women are beautiful, healthy, pretty, smart, and sexy. They're just a complete upgrade for White men.

[Anonymous]

Well, I guess since all the white women are choosing black men, the white guys needed someone to marry.

[Sandeeppingping]

Genuine question, where did that fake storyline come from? Porn?

[CALIGVLA]

Black men also prefer Asian women, my dear dumb white girl. They just have no luck with them.

[Opinion Owner]

@Sandeeppingping
I guess I got it from some white guys bitching about it. 🤷‍♀️
I was being sarcastic though. I know not ALL white women are marrying black men.
It’s hyperbole.

[Opinion Owner]

@CALIGVLA
Lmao.
Easily triggered delicate flowers such as yourself should stay off the internet.
Lots of things will set you off. Especially when you take everything you read so seriously.
It’s okay honey. White boys are worthy of love too.
Even you

[LimitedBenefits101]

Asians are very attractive so you can't blame us or Asian women for wanting each other.

Let's be honest our white American women are bottom of the barrel in 2022.

[Friendlybro79]

Get some help to work on your racist thinking. It's ridiculous.

[Asker]

it's not racist to point out something is wrong when 1/2 women of a given ethnicity are going away from men of their race to date one specific type of race. This would be less forgiving if it weren't so heavily towards white men.

[Friendlybro79]

Like I said.. go get some help.. you don't know right from wrong if you're saying that.

[Asker]

in other words. Your a white boy who benefits from this arrangement and don't see nothing wrong with it.

[Friendlybro79]

Your ignorance is limitless. Have a good night and good luck. You're going to need it.

[KostasKouvalis]

Not at all. Most minority girls seem to love us better than their own men.
I find it more alarming how many White men marry Orientals

[KostasKouvalis]

Update: I'd be surprised but not necessarily disappointed. I would just date Brown girls who appreciate us more and I prefer anyways. I always preferred Desis and Middle Easterns over Whites.

Second Update: I won't deny that I love it, because it boosts my ego and reinforces my notion that we are in fact the master race. I used to have a picture on my profile of a White getting swarmed by Ecuadorian girls. Minority men can't stand the fact that their women love us and worship us like gods. I've recieved more attention from Brown girls then I have from Orientals and my own Whites

[Jenny-Marie]

Why should it be alarming? It's good to see prejudice gradually reducing.

[Asker]

This isn't prejudice fading. This is media manipulation and self hatred at work.

[Jenny-Marie]

Anonymous? I can see why, cowards and bigots always hide their identity

[Asker]

Not being coward but I can see I'm dealing with a white boy that enjoys this arrangement because he benefits from it.

[Jenny-Marie]

Troll

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Not alarming but interesting. Is that why the Yellow race is gonna win, as I’ve heard?

[TroyDT]

Whom people freely choose as partners is not my concern.

[Anonymous]

I like the way White skin contrasts with my Asian skin

[Asker]

That's fine. But you don't find it strange that 50% of Asian girls all seem to only want white boys? It would be fine if 50% were dating other ethnicities and there more of a skew to white boys but 50% are all chasing after only whites.

This means that this isn't a preference we are looking here but a conscious decision by Asian females to chase whites which usually has media/cultural brainwashing behind it.

[Friendlybro79]

50% all seem? So what you mean to say is you don't know the real percentage and your racist brain is making anecdotal observations that actually aren't quantifiable. First off who cares what percentage of people date outside their race and two Fuck off and do the world a favor and don't procreate.

[Asker]

@Friendlybro79 The real percentage is 45%. I know your a white boy that call this racist since its calling out a trend that benefits you. Let's not pretend like you would be ok if 50% of white women were all chasing black guys.

[SmokinAces2000]

No I don’t care cause I’m not white or Asian or interested in Asian women