In my experience, the ones who bullied me or acted rude towards me are the ones are getting married and having children. And if they're not married, they become single parents. Meanwhile, I noticed the good people, as well as many of their victims, are the ones who remain childless and single.
Why do bad boys and bad girls procreate more and/or marry more? While nice guys and nice girls stay single and childless?
Is romance a thing for the villains of society nowadays?
Because they don't care. Theyre impulsive (maybe the reason why they were mean to you) and they don't care about consequences. The people who were kind will probably procrastinate on having children until they can't or they don't have them at all. They'll think "what if I'm not a good parent? What if I dont have enough money or resources?" Etc. The other people don't care, they just want sex. If theyre smart, they'll abort the baby and if they aren't, the baby will probably ACTUALLY grow up in a bad environment (because the parents dont care or can't afford to care).
I think confident people who love themselves and are willing to set ground rules and boundaries attract love faster and a lot of nice people believe that confidence should be earned and proven, boundaries should be researched and carefully established and ground rules should pivot your own interests with the interests of others, so they grow into the role slower. Unselfish people are more complicated than selfish people, so they attract less attention, trust, respect and social invitations. But if you want proof being kind is better, look at how many selfish people get divorced or cheated on, it’s only useful in the short term to be a bad person.
It's my opinion that people have become addicted to the drama's in life if you pose no drama no one wants to know you or know what's going on in the lives of others. I know this because I have been a huge advocate for no violence against women to the point where if I see another man hitting or abusive towards a woman I have no hesitation to give him a little beating. And yet I have been single for the majority of my life and a of men who will always bash and abuse the woman he seems to be in a relationship the majority of his life and is rarely single I don't understand why.
Because the rules we are given today to live by socially are self-destructive.
Therefore the rebels who refuse to follow them are the only ones with any kind of success.
Ditto forign cultures that reject the same rules. If we are to survive at all we have to learn to reject the post 1960's rules and return to the rules that actually worked before that.
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"Good people" usually means losers, that's why.
They’re more aggressive basically, so it’s survival of the fittest
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