I believe men should use logic and critical thinking most of the time instead of being emotional. Why would you disagree?

[Chthou95]

Men and women aren't the same. In general women are more emotional than men and men are more logical which is the way it should be. But modern society is telling men that they should be more emotional and use feelings more which is dangerous. Men that use their feelings and emotions all the time make stupid decisions and do things that later they reflect on and wonder why they just did what they did. When men think logically and think critically, they do a lot better than the men that give in to emotions. They get things moving and have a much better direction in life and people like these kind of men because these men are also seen as leaders and leadership and emotions don't go together. And as much as people especially women say they want men to be more emotional, these men are very unattractive to them and people don't take these men seriously. Now of course you're going to run into tragedies in life and it's okay to cry during these times which is why i said "Most of the time" because you will want to cry when losing a loved one and that's fine. But just using emotion in everyday life as a man is going to hinder you more than help you. Logic/Critical thinking>Emotions. That's the mindset men should have 💪. But i already know people Will disagree with this and id like to know why

[hahahmm]

You're on the right track... Stats say that 85% of the people in prison were raised by single moms. And yet feminists claim moms do just a good a job as a man. They love to minimize the contributions men make to make themselves feel more important. The truth is that men & women are different but there's a lot of guys who act like women & women who try to be men these days so it muddles the water... as in the actual language is also under attack. It's why government officials don't want to answer questions like "can men get pregnant?" and "what is a woman?" Don't listen to people on here who try to tell you that men & women are the same. They're brainwashed to believe it.

[Seangreen]

We already do, at least real men do

[MzAsh]

Men and women actually experience all the same emotions. The difference is that they process and express them differently. Women aren’t “more” emotional than men. Men take longer to process and identify emotions.

[Chthou95]

Disagree ma'am. If that was the case then men wouldn't be able to lead or get things done. A man that's in control of his own emotions is a man people respect. Men can process emotions but that doesn't mean they should let those emotions take over. Men and women aren't the same. Women are emtional, men are logical and that's fine

[MzAsh]

What part do you disagree with? There’s plenty of research on this that proves emotionally, men and more are similar.

Study shows men, women share similar emotional highs and lows record.umich.edu/.../

I didn’t say men should let emotions take over (no one should) and I didn’t say men and women are the same.

[Chthou95]

"No one should" but a lot of women will and that's fine. Men lose more being emtoonal. And i didn't say that men can't experience the same emotions as wonen. They do. But emotions can be make a man weak especially if that's alll he relies on

[MzAsh]

Sometimes it can be fine but also sometimes not. I know how not keeping my emotions in check ruined a few things for me. Life is much better as a emotionally regulated woman. And it’s nicer now that my husband can express his emotions around me as well but still keep them in check. I’ve coached him on that.

[Chthou95]

You can't have it both ways with emotions. Either you're emotional or you're not. There is no middle ground because eventually the emotions will take a turn and something stupid can happen as where if you're never emotional you leave no room for any kind of emotions to spiral out of control

[MzAsh]

You can be emotional but learn to process and express them in a healthy. That’s what emotional regulation is.

[Chthou95]

And with that is always lee way for things to go out of control over time. Most men shouldn't do this. Men need to stoic, critical and logical. Men should never use feelings because once they do Its game over

[MzAsh]

Well, men need to process and express their emotions in a healthy way. Otherwise, it will come out in an unhealthy way. We already have a world full of violent crime mostly male perpetrators, due to significant emotional neglect. Men are astronomically miserable and dying because of this.

[Chthou95]

Because those men are weak minded. They don't know how to keep those emotions in check. I guarantee most men that act out due to emotions have no father figure

[MzAsh]

It’s likely. And that’s another problem. Too many women don’t require men to be physically present in their child’s life.

[NamerOfStars]

I don't recall seeing women flip out and burn their city down when their sports team loses the championship. It wasn't WOMEN leading El Salvador and Honduras when they literally went to war over a 1969 soccer match. It ain't women flipping out when they lose a ranked video game match, either. And let's not forget that it isn't women deciding that it's perfectly okay to brutally murder tens of thousands of innocent people, simply because your governments aren't getting along.

On the flip side, it's pure emotion that tells us that morality has meaning: logic created slavery; in all but the very latest cases, emotion ended it. Emotion invented Communism, but logic built it. Logically, there's very little gained from a country's "useless eaters"; the objection to their mechanized murder, or at least mass sterilization, is PURELY emotional.

Every last impulse and thought that treats human life as something "better" or "more important" than the lives of every other plant and animal we deal with is firm defiance of logic. We tried it your way; it was called "Modernism". It lead to the greatest examples of inhumanity in recorded history.

[Chthou95]

The men that do these things didn't have their emotions in check and look at what i wrote at the top if you bothered to read that far. Men that use emotions don't think rationally and do stupid shit. Men that are in control of their emotions and are logical don't these things. Weak minded men go and act. Strong minded men dont and these men are the kind of men people want to be around. Men with emotions in check do good things

[NamerOfStars]

But that's the point- no, they don't. Men who keep their emotions in check do TERRIBLE things, because they lack the forms of reasoning that deviate from logic and make humanity possible. Men who DON'T keep their emotions in check simply do lousy things. I *did* read what you wrote; that's why I disagreed with it.

[Chthou95]

So in other words men should put feelings above anything logical and critical? Lmao. If that was the case shit would never get done because youd have a bunch of emotional men always feelings and making dumb decisions based on those feelings

[Bethany22]

Men can think and act logically all they want at work, but in order to nurture relationships, they should at least be able to understand their wife's emotional situations, and be emotionally intelligent enough to use that information to make both of their situations more harmonious. Repressing what comes naturally to any person diminishes expressing their natural talents. Sometimes even as a girl I wish I could be less emotional, and do other types of careers instead of painting pictures, but I've also realized that trying to turn into someone I'm not is too mind numbing. So so what if there are emotionally-driven male artists out there as well who don't make that much money. At least they are being true to themselves and therefore can be happy.

[Chthou95]

A man can understand something without needing to feel a said emotion

[Anonymous]

Nowadays I accept that I am part logic, part emotion and I allow myself to make decisions on that basis because I trust myself to do so. It's more in keeping with who I am and how I like to operate.

For big decisions, I'll still stew over those for months, build spreadsheets to explore the figures.

But for other things, it's nice to play with colours or feelings and see where my sub conscious takes me.

[OddBeMe]

Ehh, 90% the same in gender. I read all the emotional right wing cucks on 4 Chan. And Hillary was emotionless and it cost her the election.


Thought you fcks wanted to have a beer with your presidents?

[Chthou95]

Its amazing how something always turns into a liberal right wing war for a lot of you weirdos. Men that are in charge of their emotions do better than men that don't. And wrong bud. Men and women aren't the same. We're different. I repeat men and women aren't the same

[UCrayCray]

Is that why most murders are committed by men?
Because they use their logic?

[Chthou95]

No its because those men didn't know how to control their emotions and did stupid shit. Men that have their emotions in control dont do this stuff. Weak minded men do. Which is why its important for men to never let their feelings take over. Men need to be strong minded and think critically. Strong minded men do this and they never do horrendous things

[UCrayCray]

It’s because of ideas like this that men’s mental health is largely ignored.
But if living up to some mythical idea of an “Alpha Male” makes you feel strong, do you.

[Chthou95]

It has nothing to do with alpha male bs. The fact is that men and women are different. We're not the same and men that use emotions again do dumb shit. Men need to learn to keep those feelings in check and learn to be more logical and critical. Society will bullshit and say that men should use their feelings blah blah blah but then practice a different tune when men are being emotional. People dont like emtional men

[UCrayCray]

“People don’t like emotional men.”
Well you just concentrate on making sure you’re not the kind of man people don’t like.

[Chthou95]

The truth will set a lot of men free

[Anonymous]

Yeah men have less emotion than women

I'm emotionless which is even better

[ManHater]

women think with their emotions.

[LazerBean]

All adults should.