Is life unfair to honest people?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

[Beatrix7]

its been pretty unfair and av been badly to me a lot of times jynxed i was. 1 or 2 things i would say and admit iam continuing to talk to my ex evem though he has a girlfriend and i dont care if he does am not jealous because i wouldn't go near him again but i will say the first 1 is why am i continuing to talk to this guy that cheated on me and hit me and emotional ebused me and other stuff i will admit that one thing am rouining my life withthats unfair 2nd one is that i still visit him i would say those to are making my life hektic but those 2 are my fault of grief other ones just came natrually from 8 was young as a was born like i was cursed with epilepsy and a little bent in my eye and the one that hot perimenopause at 33 and am now 34 and had boyfriend that have just used me and a have such a kind heart and more helpful to people than i get back in someways i was gifted but cursed with those other ones

[AsaKyo]

It's unfair to everyone, yeah, but ACTUAL good people do tend to get the shit end of the stick 80-90% of the time while the disgusting little assholes and bitches get all the glitz, glamour, and gold of the world for just being terrible people

[Jersey2]

Some people will take advantage of anyone, honest or not. Honest people can be taken advantage of more but also other people believe them more when something happens. I have been honest through a business career where it is easy to lie and move ahead faster. I have never regretted it but here is a key learning, no one will really care except you. You won’t get an award and those who are not honest may actually be rewarded for it. It’s a tough pill to swallow but there it is. Honestly, lol, we can’t change anyway so we will continue to be honest, just realize that only you will really care. You just have to be content with that.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Life is unfair to stupid people. Honesty is greatly rewarded in the real world.

The people is a lot of people think that if they be honest then they can slack off in other areas and succeeded easier. When in reality, honesty only helps you when you're doing the other things necessary to success too.

[MementoMori777]

Yes but according to spirituality there's actually a simple explanation for this and that's the devil trying to devour, when you are doing good, the devil is trying to ruin it, It's somewhat motivational to me tbh, it shows I'm in the right path which only motivates me to be better

[ElGato31]

No, being honest is quite liberating, less stress, less social pressure, less people-pleasing, less energy spent on appearing something you are not.

[BagoH]

Life was never meant to be fair or just. These are societal constructs that we have created in order to compensate for the weak and less able. The universe has absolutely 0 obligation to adhere to our man made rules.

[Apulu_Imback]

It isn't life, it's the people of the world but in the end living with a honest and optimistic spirit is more brave.

[midnightcavern01]

Honest can be seen as naive and naive is always taken advantage of. Sometimes to protect yourself, you need to hold your words

[Marked_Man]

It's unfair to everyone, but good people are fucked over the most because most people are scum and have no reservations taking advantage of kind people.

[SnowedIn]

Sometimes. Life is unfair to everyone at one point or another.

[welcomemen]

Everyone goes through tough moments in their life. Some people may of had bad things happen to them but you just weren’t there to see it.

[exitseven]

Yes, people that lie and cheat usually end up better than honest people.

[OddBeMe]

Life is unfair whether you’re honest or not.

Now psychopathic vs empathic? It could be argued not caring for anyone else has advantages. They say most Ceos show psychopathic behaviors.

[Dargil]

Life is generally unfair, but you do the best you can with it.

[FeminineHSP]

Life is unfair to everyone. Modernity is messed up. Honest people may have easier lives. To have and protect so much personal secrets is such a pain.

[Still-alive]

[Anonymous]

Honesty is an admirable trait - and not always an easy one to have, because the world can be such a cruel place.

[serious]

Yes it is. At least to a great extent.

[jennifer_bloom]

Life is unfair to everyone.

[Quackthulu2]

Life doesn’t care one way or the other.

[Nikki1989]

Life is often unfair to everyone.

[jshm2]

No. the opposite.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Life is unfair to everyone.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Well it’s unfair to everyone so it’s fair

[Mamasanma]

Yes very

Lying gets you far

[Anonymous]

In the short run it seems that way.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Yep.

[Anonymous]

Not only unfair but also painful 😵‍💫