For people, who feel like a lot of people think you not so good looking, do you blame genetics, or you think its something (s) that you can change?

[Anonymous]

Genetics

Stuff I can control

Probably both

[midnightmoon05]

Blaming will not change anything.

I worked on building my inner confidence.
wherever I go, I bring laughter for those who may be having a bad day.
it has serve me well.

I am only 5 ft tall. I have men who are over 6 ft. saying, I respect you/I want to be just like you when I grow up. It has to do with what I can share with them to help them get to a better place.

work on your self esteem.

[Asker]

Oh, the question doesn't really pertain to me, I just see some people who say that a lot of people think that they're ugly, or that they get turned down a lot, and that they're not desired, because they're universally considered not that great. So I was wondering if they thought it was things they can improve.

[midnightmoon05]

I agree…to me it’s really the self worth that they need to work on.