Ever since I was 16, I envisioned myself to change the world in some capacity and still trying. People only laughed when they heard this, part of the reason is because they were more concerned about clothes, food and girls whereas I used to spend hours thinking about how to solve a particular problem to aid humanity. I have come a long way, and all my friends are lost in the void and whenever I try to reach them, the ring goes silent. Has anyone gone through the same, what was your experience and what are some coping steps one should take.
While there is some truth in your response, I don't think this is something i haven't tried before. The biggest problem of the people is that they expect other people to do big and be big to make a difference in society. I strongly believe when you become one to help one and when you lose count of people you help, that's when you make a difference.
You're referring to two things here, me helping other people is not the root cause of me being socially outcast. It's just that I don't vibe with other people's idea of life. Trekking over parties, stargazing over night clubs, writing and sketching over binging on unhealthy discussions. While this is true, it's hard for me to convince them my way of life, even harder to get them onboard with whatever ideas I bring. You see at some point you gotta choose how much of "you" you can lose of yourself to be someone you really need to be. I believe blending in is a tolerance that we set for ourselves to address how much unfaithful we can be to ourselves at the expense of what we call undefined exposure, relationship, and lifestyle which is yet to be realised. The fact is we can't entertain evolution without changing ourselves in certain ways to make both ends meet. The question is how much you can go far from your original self.
Most people in this world are a bunch of 💩 balls so don't be so eager to be around them.
The reality you're probably only going to have maybe 2 good friends and that's it so when you find the people you click with then it will just happen naturally.
you should know better, look at yourself from the other corner, do you accept yourself for others or you think you’re not accepted and why, is there something you don’t like about yourself.
Yes, having more perspectives certainly helps. People aren't always equipped with such an empathetic vision to understand others'pov. But i truly agree with you, I will try my best. Thank you.
I think i already have them and it is surprisingly small. My problem is that society doesn't entertain outliers for anything that matters such as, marriage, friendship or public invitations.
