How is it fair that a woman can abort her bad decision but I have to pay for mine?

[msc545]

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A friend of mine asked this question on Reddit, and got lots of responses. I looked at it earlier and thought I would try it here - now that I think more about it - it is kind of a bad question. Feel free to roast me.

[Anonymous]

Women are considered an oppressed minority. And oppressed minorities get different rules. This isn't entirely a bad thing. I do think in an unfair world some people need to be forced into doing the right thing. But no. I don't MURDER should be allowed be cause she made a bad choice. However, I also can't stand the thought of a life coming into this world without a parent to love hiim/her. So while it's NOT a perfect decision I do think women should be ALLOWED 1 abortion, as bad as it is. But I think if she shows up again needing an abortion that at that point she should be sterilized so she cannot murder again. This is for EVERYONE'S benefit, even HER's. Because if it's truly her bad decision making, now she can go off and get her f*** on as much as she wants. But an innocent life doesn't have to pay for that decision anymore.

[msc545]

Nobody should be allowed to commit murder and not even once.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree. But it's not a perfect world man.

[richardcory]

It is an asymmetry caused by basic biological differences. But I think its an important one. I'm not in favor of child support without some pre-existing agreement for just this reason.

[msc545]

The asymmetry is not caused by biology - it is caused by the legalities which are manifestly unfair to men.

[richardcory]

It is biology. Babies grow inside women, not men, so an abortion is very different for a woman that for a man

[msc545]

Physically different yes. How is that relevant?

[Daniela1982]

Seems fair. I believe a guy should have a say as to whether she gets an abortion or not. Maybe some women would be more likely to carry a baby if you paid all her expenses for 9 months. I'm wondering how many guys would do that or say, fine! Have an abortion then. I mean how many can afford $30,000 for that?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Isn’t it a bad decision of him as well? To impregnate a woman, who he wouldn’t like to have children with?

[msc545]

I don't think men do this knowingly or deliberately.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think it would be better to decide carefully who to sleep with…

So you don’t risk having to raise a child you never asked for. I see man’s part in it as well.

[exitseven]

Well, yes, not one of your better questions However. everyone goes into relationships knowing how these things work. Maybe they thonk they can beat the odds or maybe they just don't think but like the old saying goes. "Caveat Emptor"

[KrakenAttackin]

Clearly it's not fair. Also, why can she lie about who the baby daddy is and force a different man to pay, while denying the real father access to his child

[front2back]

Women are a protected class, it's not about fairness but what is easiest for them.

[Berethor]

Because the woman is the one who give birth, not you? are you against child support?

[msc545]

How does giving birth mean a woman gets special privileges?

[Berethor]

Motherhood is superior trope, you think that you can force a woman to abort?

[msc545]

That's not the question

[supercutebutt]

Just do butt or mouth sex and drop this topic. It's ridiculous at this point.

[Anonymous]

Because either the state feeds it or you do. You made it, so you pay for it.

[DermalPunch]

But if she aborted it...

[msc545]

True - no child support in that case because no child.

[Uannoyme]

There is no good answer to this question.