A lot of extroverts are insecure around introverts because we only give ourselves to people that we find most comfortable to be around. A lot of people are also weirded out by people that find comfort in being alone. The guy I’m seeing today texted me and said “if you are bored feel free to come over” what he doesn’t get is I’ll never be bored when I am around myself. I think extroverts just wish they were able to live the way introverts live but society makes it seem like being extroverted is better
The only “cons” i see are more reserved, less talkative, and more of a homebody… (but that could mean possibly a better listener… better at keeping secrets and better at saving money)… I don't know i wasn't a good listener, was more of a talker, emotionally open and loved to spend, despite being “introverted” 😂
I am also an introvert person so our actions and words don't match. We can't express too much, we can't convey our feelings , we always tend to ignore the people whom we can't face.
The worst is that when we make things in our mind and think that this is reality coz we can't communicate.
You know i have tried overcoming this but can't do it.
thats not a problem but that could be cause im not an extrovert either but either ways i would assume people say that cause its a comfortzone we have to break in order to higher our socialization skills and higher our chances of anything that requires socialization.
Opinion
1Opinion
Its not bad, they just lack empathy. I guess they believe you are unhappy or living an unhealthy lifestyle because that is what they would feel if they were in your position. But that is just it, they are not you and they need to get that through their thick heads.
It is not bad. It is when you have to be someone else to please others that you have a problem.
Superb Opinion