Why are city girls so trashy?

[Anonymous]

I had my second long term relationship come to an end recently, I've tried going around the city in Houston where I live near, and holy God, I felt like I was swimming in the sewer.

I couldn't see a single girl who didn't fit this description, black, Gucci clothes, does drugs, talks with ebonics, listens to Cardi B, has an OF, drinks irresponsibly, is a hard leftist, and worst of all, they demand money and think it's cool to cheat and steal.

Good grief, I've never seen so much trashiness in my life, WHAT IS WRONG WITH CITY GIRLS?

[PositiveFlight]

The city in general is trash! I was born and raised in the city. Its a very unhealthy environment. No one has true freedom or Solace. Everyone is so disconnected with reality. They have everything available at the store. Sorry but food doesn’t come from the store! And people will find that out someday when there is a true food shortage. They don’t know how to farm, survive, keep warm, etc. Everyone is more worried about modern conveniences in the city and petty things that literally don’t make one iota of difference in the grand scheme of things. Fashion, clubbing, and so many things that are in vain. Places like New York, Las Vegas, and even smaller cities are literally an arm pit and waste of humanity.

I moved into the mountains to get away from all of that and have peace, true freedom, and serenity. It has been very healing for my soul. I’m not looking for an immature Barbie girl with caked on makeup and fakery who’s daddy spoiled her and who wants to continue living in that environment, but rather I want a woman who is grounded in reality and wanting to be a mother, wife, homemaker, and all the other traditional values that society wrongly mocks nowadays!

[Cuminginside]

Make sure she's not using you for your mountain conveniences. I've seen that too much play out.

[DextroShade]

City girls are just worthless trash, they offer nothing other than sex and even then it's probably not worth putting up with their bitchy entitled attitudes. Best to leave them to die alone in the streets. Look overseas or in rural areas for women who are actually worth a damn.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have a better question… Why are you exposed to such girls?

Why don’t you go to bookstores? Libraries? Museums? So on and on….

Or is it that you judge people for doing the same things you do?

I don’t think all girls in the city are like this.

And I think attracting these types of people says a lot about your personality as well.

[inhua]

surely those girls who go to bookstores, libraries and museums are looking to get approached and hit on right?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@inhua I have been approached there sometimes and I might not be there for being approached but I am also not in the restaurant for being approached, I am there for eating, however that’s where I got approached by my ex fiance.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You are contradicting yourself, you want girls who are actively out to be approached and then refer the exact same girls as being trashy?

[inhua]

you're referring to the wrong user

[Asker]

I don't attract those girls, I went to bars and clubs to look for girls to talk to and those are all I found.

A big problem in the city is present. My first and second girlfriend's were nothing like this at all, they were sweet, smart, loyal, and beautiful

[NotTacocaT6969]

Imagine a bench in a park in the countryside.


Now imagine an identical bench at a bus stop in the city.


Despite the benches being identical, one of them gets a whole lot more ass.

[Billlewis]

Mmmm... pure heaven...

[Asker]

It's not all about ass, it's about maturity, loyalty, understanding, beauty, and being smart

Sure, an ass is great but if none of those qualities are met, HELL NO.

Which by the way none of the girls I saw even have that going for them

[Cuminginside]

If you surprised how much ass that bench of the park in the countryside gets.

[OlderAndWiser]

It is a culture which has no opposition in the media.

[MissBoogus]

Sorry you had a bad experience. I’m in a similar dilemma I’m trying to find friends but I cannot relate at all. I’ll just continue living in my bubble farm life and sun dresses for now

[Asker]

You already sound much better than any of them, so how can I find some nice farm ladies i can get to know?🤔

[MissBoogus]

Honestly I don’t have much advice. From what my boyfriend tells it can be next to impossible because if they join a dating site they are swooped up almost immediately. They can be shy, or quiet, and don’t go out much. Also, very high chance they are already taken if they are like that

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

City especially big ones like Houston are going to have a bunch of trashy people in it and good as well.

You're just deciding to focus on the negative.

I can guarantee right now there a some women in a rural area of the country being a whore with someone as write this.

[Cuminginside]

Yes someone has been the hoe But they are easier to spot.

[Taya9]

Such a lifestyle is popular among girls of a special type, they have the same appearance, activity time and "habitat". But there are other girls, mbe you don't meet them, bz you're at the wrong place/time

[_SillyShoes_]

Social media and surroundings influence. And also them wanting to blend in or 'compete' with other women their age...

It's like that for your generation.

[Asker]

If they wanted to compete, they could at least compete for who is the nicest and coolest, instead of competing for who hits more deal breakers for any self respecting guy

[_SillyShoes_]

Haha I agree with you, but a lot of people won't - it's just not a priority for them at this point in their life I'm guessing (to be honest, I am very unsure of why people tend to divide their life into a trashy and classy phase - I'm of the mindset that if you're classy you'll always be classy and if you're trashy that's just who you are and if you're okay with it it's okay).

[andreasderjuengere]

These are usually girls who came from the countryside and look out for a cheap and quick deal?

[andreasderjuengere]

which of course means that those who are left behind are of better quality. But then... even some city girls have culture. It's just that you don't get to see them :D

[Cuminginside]

So how can we change that?

[andreasderjuengere]

@Cuminginside No one can change that.
I live near Pattaya - one of the world's biggest whore houses.
What I do: I avoid the trashy places where the trashy people go (hookers, 'freelancers' and ''tourists'' alike).
I you want to eat caviar, then you don't go to a street hawker - do you :D
But then 🤔... gobbling down some junk food every now and then also has its appeal

[ProbablyClueless]

Life in the city is competitive and the women who want to live in the city tend to glorify the struggle of carving out a life for yourself.

[exitseven]

They are not all trashy but most of them are born into single parent households and attend substandard schools/

[Cuminginside]

I wonder what's worse the female single parent or The substandard School?

[exitseven]

@Cuminginside I don't know but if you have both it's tough.

[Cuminginside]

For real

[Sanser]

I have known country girls trashy too. Its not about being a girl or being in the city kts just the way they have been raised. Good parents will have good daughters.

[Anonymous]

Question out of context: English isn't my first language; may I ask what does it means to "talk with ebonics"?

[Asker]

To go "dis gon be ma face wen I see ya, n! gga" and stuff like that

[Opinion Owner]

Ahhhh, I get ot. Thank you!

[inhua]

cities are just trash in general and filled with literal trash

[kerrieK001]

I have noticed that too. I live near NYC and the girls are just different... trashy is a good word to describe it.

[Cuminginside]

You remind me of Westchester there the girls are hot The city is full of drama queens because they never get called out on their s*** but in the country the whole town is very aware of your behavior and it starts to feel like you have a bullseye on your back.

[Anonymous]

She must have a lot of money if she can afford Gucci

[Asker]

Her parents money, no doubt

[Opinion Owner]

Probs

[Pohjolan]

Countryside builds more character as a environment?

[LazerBean]

Because city people tend to be trashy.

[genericname85]

where exactly do you go? like clubs?

[Asker]

Clubs, bars, malls or just walking down the street

[genericname85]

well can't go to a dump and expect there not to be trash. gotta figure out where the quality people go.

[Avicenna]

I usually don't date them

[Dargil]

They don't know any better.

[Iron_Man]

Country girls are wild to

[Cuminginside]

Thank you! That is the elephant in the room. Is about time somebody got to this. I work in the country you'd be surprised how crazy and psychotic people are up here and the drug epidemic don't even get me started.

[Iron_Man]

@Cuminginside I know they are wild

[Cuminginside]

Yeah I work an Appalachia I've seen the crazy wild girls but unlike the Urban counterparts they're ill prepared for the realities of the world.

[Iron_Man]

@Cuminginside yeah up there in North Carolina wild women

[Cuminginside]

Yee haw 🤠 I'm glad somebody said it, thank you for that quote I think I laugh.

[Iron_Man]

@Cuminginside you’re very welcome my friend

[Cuminginside]

I'll be honest I think we're getting on all sides Urban areas have their issues and rural areas are getting fried as well. I guess all we can do is keep ahead above water.

[boobliker]

cose they can be it more fun!

[In_Trance]

because they have nothing else to offer

[Anonymous]

Perhaps you're looking in the wrong places?