How can I stop people misgendering me as a trans wo?

[ellajw15]

I keep getting called sir a gentleman and he/him at work

[Anonymous]

Are you?

Come on you all won't ever face the fact that when you change you never look like who you wanna be!

Guy drag just looks gross and only those who do it or the pervs who watch it like it!

No trans pass the sight test but Asians and most have never met an Asian so they can't tell lol.

My niece changing from English to Korean is amazing to watch!

Your just trans and you made who you are. Besides your just going to change back like 75 percent or kill yourself sooo.

Not looking good no matter what and you chose it!

The fantasy of being a girl won't ever live up to our awful lives!

[Sour-rose]

Just... chill. Ey, funny bit. I get misgendered all the time. Instead of getting my panties in a wad, i just... let it be. May calmly say what I am but that's it. I've come to the conclusion people really can't tell what I am. Short hair, long hair, dress on, pants on... they can't tell. And as long as I'm happy... see me as whatever... it won't be the last I hear of it.

[Anonymous]

If it quacks like a duck, and looks like a duck, it’s usually a duck. They aren’t misgendering you, you are a man and there’s not much you can really do about it, except create the illusion of being a woman which would probably take a lot of money.

[Anonymous]

Well I can't give you advice it's too sensitive of a topic and I can get banned if i give my honest a opinion. I am sorry to hear you're upset about this.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Some of it is gonna happen if you can pass the sight test. If you are rocking breast forms and a 5 o'clock shadow, that's not gonna bode well for you. The other half of it is finding supportive people to surround yourself with. It can help boost your confidence a lot.

[ellajw15]

I do all my co workers supports me

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Are they the ones misgendering you or is it customers/general public?

[ellajw15]

Customers

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Ah. Well it sounds like you are still early in your transition so unless you are a genuinely feminine looking person it might be harder. Try wearing pronoun pins and begin voice training if at all possible. If your hair is still short, try a wig.

Hard to know specific improvements to make without seeing you to know what you might be getting clocked on.

[ellajw15]

My heir is pretty long and I wear pronouns pins I also don’t know how to do voice training

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I'll ask my trans friends for advice on that one.

As for the rest of it, I'm not sure what else you can do aside from what I provided and dressing femininely. Once you can pass I'm sure it will be easier.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Transvoicelessons on YouTube is apparently a good starting point unless you can afford/insurance pays for a voice coach. Hope that helps.

[Alli39]

I'm honestly not sure how to help, but I hope you do find something that works a bit better. I suspect you'll always find someone who will choose to misgender you simply because they refuse to acknowledge your reality, but adjusting your appearance/impression as much as possible (to the extent you're comfortable with, of course) should help limit the number of accidental misgendering incidents.

[EmmaMary]

Might I strongly suggest that you actually seek out having some very deep rooted psychiatric treatment, along with any other professional therapy that's available.

[gothbxtch]

people are fucking awful assholes. please just remember that you ARE a woman, and their ignorance isn’t really about you. it’s just about them being hateful and stupid.

[ellajw15]

Thank you

[AngryCarl2]

They're not misgendering you. They're correctly gendering you.

[gorydetails]

You can't. No one is obligated to indulge your delusions.

[RavVid]

Pronouns might be important to you but the rest of us just aren't interested is the truth. I don't know why you think we would be interested in this fad.

[Flower7]

This means that you don’t look enough like a woman. People go by what they see.

[Anonymous]

I hope you find your answer here but I think the lgbt community is not really represented here. If you dont find what you are looking for I can recommend you r/lgbt on reddit.

[ellajw15]

I might thank you tho

[FunkyMonkee]

Do you have tits and wear skirts and dresses?

[ellajw15]

I mean I use breast forms I can’t start hormone replacement therapy yet and I don’t really wear dresses

[FunkyMonkee]

I suppose you should start with the skirts, then and, wear tighter tops to prove you have tits, albeit fake ones, for now. You don't really need the drugs to grow tits, though. There's loads of guys at BreastNexus. com that got GREAT results using other methods!! One guy got up to H cups!!
If you've got the money (they ARE quite expensive, for some reason), I know of a place or two where you can get very realistic tits that you can wear. If anybody questions you, again, you can whip `em out and show them you HAVE tits.

[BarryLiverstone]

I was taught that calling someone sir who presents as a man as a sign of respect.

[Anonymous]

Bro, you are a man and you look like a man. Your supposed womanhood only exists inside your own delusional mind.

[stepyo99]

You will never be a woman

[LazerBean]

By looking like a real woman. Good luck with that.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Because you are a man

[MementoMori777]

whats your biological gender?

[Lliam]

You must look like a dude.

[ShesRad80]

always take the time to correct them

[BootsLover94]

I always try to look like an actual woman

[sheikalana]

Why? Do you think you look like a guy?

[Awantika03]

Don't care such people

[Sabretooth]

I'd do it just to ruffle your feathers.

[Anonymous]

Maybe bcoz you are a man bro

[Anonymous]

Lol just here for the comments, this will be fun.

[RoosterBreast]

I would gift you a coom jar if you like.