Watch this video she disagrees:
https://youtu.be/2X-PgHSZh6U
I don't care what people call it, but I have no interest in dating women who were born with a penis.
It's not transphobic it's a genitalia preference
No, it's a preference and a perfectly valid one. I wouldn't date a trans person either.
You don't dislike them so you aren't transphobic
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There are many men who would date a trans if their buddies wouldn't make fun of them.
Who you trying to convince? Yourself? I said many men not every man. Hmmmmm
Ignorance is bliss! Thanks for your opinions.
Some of us are actually attracted to the real curves and body parts of a real woman if you can believe that. I've always been extremely picky with women though and I know a large percentage of men (probably the ones you're talking about) would sleep with any kind of hole. A lot of men would and have slept with livestock animals in the past so I really don't see what your point is lol. A lot of men would fuck anything. My 6 ft tall ass could probably grow out a beard and put on a mini skirt and fuck 20% of the male population because they are that desperate.
@cavmanier I agree with everything you have said.
No, it means that you have preferences, just like every other human. Society today is too obsessed with judging people that aren't "woke". I have no issue with trans people, they're just people. Would I want to date one? No. That doesn't make me a bad person or mean that I hate trans people. That just means that I don't want to date one. If one came along that was so amazing that it made me reconsider my preference, then I'd reconsider. You're allowed to have your own opinions and preferences and as long as you're not spiteful or hurting anyone then I don't see why anyone should have an issue.
It really depends on if they are transitioned fully. If not, even if you love them, and even if you recognized her as a girl, she still has male parts and if you're straight, you might not be attracted to that.
Besides, everyone has a type. No one has an unalienable right to date you. Besides being trans, there may be some traits that linger that you aren't attracted to.
It would only become transphobic if you met someone, were attracted to them, liked them as a person as well, were prepared to date them, and then suddenly stopped when you found out they were trans.
There are plenty of guys I don't like and I'm not male-phobic. I just have a type and many people aren't it. It is only transphobic if they are everything you want in a partner from looks to mind to everything, and you reject them solely because they are trans.
According to liberals, yes that makes you transphobic.
And guess what. If you don't want to date an obese or disfigured person that makes you fat or ugly phobic.
Turn down being hit on by another race, that makes you a racist bigot.
See, liberals actually don't care what you want or actually like, it's about mandating your behavior because others perception of your behavior is more important than you personally.
You want to live in a world where turning down a date offer ends up with you trending in Twitter as a racist bigot - then vote for Liberal/Democrats.
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I'm pretty liberal, and I acknowledge everyone has a type.
If you reject someone who is physically your type, interested in you, and you feel deeply connected to you as a person, i. e. your perfect partner solely because you find out that they are trans, that may be transphobic (but also just a mistake for you, you could've had the one). But apart from that, people choose not to date each other for many reasons. There are lots of guys I like and that doesn't make me male-phobic.
It's all about the fine line between preference and prejudice. If you don't like someone, don't date them, it's fine, that's preference. But if someone who you love and loves you back you refuse to date, even after gender reassignment, because despite the fact that they are entirely your type and physically the gender you are attracted to now, that could be a little transphobic, as the only reason is their gender history.
It isn't transphobic to largely not be attracted to trans individuals though, if you don't like masculine looking women or feminine looking men, they may not be your type
@chrisisthataweed there's something called i don't fucking date my own sex, you can change one's mental gender through physical changes but their sex will always be the same as it's defined by XY + i want kids and a man who turned into a woman can't do that since i want biological ones.
Is it homophobic not to want to date someone of the same sex?
People have all kinds of preferences. There's nothing wrong with that. It's not phobic. And fuck the social engineers to try to manipulate people by saying it is.
Yeah it's sad
I will be friends and I will give them my 100% support, I will even stay by their side but I can't date a guy that use to be a woman.
I voted for A.
I'm the same way
"Transphobic" is a made up word. Also no one is "transgender" you can not change your sex from one to another, it is medically impossible. The whole gender/ sex shell game is an obvious lie as well as gender describes sex. It's important to note that this does not come from people suffering from dysphoria, it comes from cultural Marxists.
Maybe?
It's hard to say how or why we develop some of the preferences we do.
Part of why many people aren't attracted to trans people is probably based on some prejudices and stereotypes.
But at some point it's not like you have total control over what you find attractive, so you can be very trans accepting and positive, but still not find yourself attracted. Not much you can really do.
no, just because a trans-man identifies as a man doesn’t mean they’re actually a man. i wouldn’t be attracted to them bc biologically they’re still a woman. i have nothing against trans people at all, i encounter them daily, but i’m just attracted to biological men.
No, just like it isn't discrimination of the handicapped to not date people with downsyndrome.
It's a preference.
As a straight male, I don't want dick whether it is outside or turned inside out and pushed up inside someone.
I want Female chromosomes, ability to incubate children, etc.
Because either way, if it's a guy who's now a trans, if he has a penis, I can't date him cause I'm straight.
And reverse, a girl turned guy would again be too Girish for me to he attracted to.
I've met some trans who were amazing people and I enjoy their company but I can't date one.
I've seen that video, she's an idiot.
"We associate penises with men and vaginas with women", that's cause their male and female reproductive organs!
Yup!
Depends on what transphobic is supposed to mean. And even if it is, I don't see why that is a bad thing. Not wanting to date someone who is trans is no more shallow than any of the other things people reject eachother for.
Nope it is not they will say it is to make themselves feel better.
I don't date someone who is not true to themselves and has to alter thier body.
I can't be freinds with one without them hatting on me in one way or another. Why are they so hateful I wonder if it is cause they can't love themselves?
Dating is always based on people's preferences. It is never transphobic or racist.
I prefer dark hair, brown eyes, white skin and a real guy. That does not mean there is anything wrong with anyone else.
Even if I couldn't tell and he/she was attractive... no. And it's your right. Nobody should be forced to anyway? If you don't want to date someone if your own sex or the opposite sex, does that make you homophobic or heterophobic? No. This world is going mad if that's where the sentiments are headed.
Yeah that video is complete/total nonsense. People have all types of preferences and they do not have to explain their preferences.
I don't care if it is. I draw the line at biological sex at birth, you can't change my mind. I agree with you completely, I can be friends with a transgender but I could never, ever date one.
No. That's a dating preference.
I'd probably class as it because I wouldn't be friends with them as well as not date them. Don't want anything to do with one
It's preference. Trans woman is still a biological male. A trans male is still a biological woman. Some people don't want to have homosexual relationships because they prefer the opposite gender.
Nah, you are allowed to date someone based on comparability. One of those comparability traits might be the ability to have children.
You can’t force other people to accept you against their will.
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