Do you think it makes me transphobic if I don’t want to date a trans guy?

[Anonymous]

I saw a post on Quora and some people were saying it’s transphobic if you don’t want to date a trans man just because they are trans

I’m not scared or have a dislike for trans people.

Sex is important for many people in relationships. Im just not attracted to female genitalia. Trans men are born with female anatomy. I also wouldn’t be interested in dating them even if they did have bottom surgery. They use tissue from a thigh or forearm to create a neo penis. A post op trans man also cannot cum sperm and can’t get erections either naturally. They have to were an implant to get ercetions.
All of this doesn’t appeal to me.

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26 d

Having sex with a cosmetic neo penis that was surgically made out of a person forearm or thigh tissue that cannot cum sperm and cannot get ercetions naturally even after surgery doesn’t appeal to me at all. Trans men have to were implants if they want to get erections

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26 d

Most trans men don’t get bottom surgery but even if they did I still wouldn’t want to date them

[genericname85]

no that makes you heterosexual and that most likely means you're more on the "psychologically healthy side". good for you :) people telling you it's "transfobic not want to date a trans person" are actually fascists spreading hate speech. that may sound extreme but i think that's actually the case.

[slatyb]

Not wanting to date someone doesn't make you transphobic. You don't owe anyone a date.

[Anonymous]

No it’s not. You can’t force attraction to another person. Don’t let people bully you for your preferences. I wouldn’t date a trans man or a woman either since I am not sexually attracted to them, even though some trans men pass really well and are attractive in their own right

[spicythunder]

no it is not

[Anonymous]

No and you should stop caring what other people think. It’s not illegal to reject another person for a date just because they are trans, too short, overweight or simply a blonde. You don’t have to date anybody you don’t feel like. by the way I wouldn’t date a trans man either

[Asker]

I feel like quitting Quora. Too much spam and people insulting other people just because you disagree. It’s not really a credible website either. Anyone can join and write on there.

[JacobJordan]

It makes you sane and mentally stable. No mentally stable person would date a trans man or trans woman. I mean ffs they don't even want to date each other.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not... It's entirely everyone's prerogative to choose as they wish.

[Asker]

Yes and I don’t want to be called names for having preferences.

[Berethor]

I think that it's don't matter if you transphobic, don't date a trans if you don't want to.

[Asker]

You can look on Quora if you don’t believe me. There are people who I am guessing are most likely trans writing comments snd answers saying it’s transphobic if you don’t want to date trans people

[DextroShade]

I am right there with you: I would never date a transwoman because the idea of a fake "vagina" made from an open wound lined with penis skin disgusts me. If that makes me "transphobic" IDGAF!

[Tim2nice]

No. It’s not. You’re not obliged to date anyone you don’t like

[loveslongnails]

The short, simple answer is "no". The long, involved answer is "no". Which do you prefer? :)

[Peridot25]

Absolutely not! They just can’t handle the fact you have preferences like everyone else.

[gorydetails]

Guess what happens when someone calls you 'transphobic'. Absolutely nothing.

[electromagnetic]

Nope. It makes you normal.

[tierrlamé]

Nah it's a preference

[Anonymous]

No, it makes you normal.

[Metalbarbie]

Not at all.